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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's on ours that I have tried out the bi side and enjoyed, I don't know if it scares the straight ladies in couples ect off lol
But I treat it as a bonus not essential, another time will hopefully come.
Gimp is very straight, but likes to watch.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who out there thinks that bi playful should be an option on profile form those who aren't bi curious or bi sexual, but are comfortable to play within a mmf, ffm or groups of mixed sexes."
But surely if you are 'playful' with someone of the same sex but have a partner of the opposite sex then you are bisexual.
The scenario you are 'playful' in should be irrelevant. maybe the term 'occasionally bi' would be more appropriate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it would be a good option because it think if you put bisexual on profile you can scare straight couples off. I'm well past the curious stage but not bisexual. Bisexual to me means comfortable to be in a relationship with either sex. I'm not that, I'm comfortable to have fun with the right female, but I wouldn't have a relationship with a female. Therefore I'm bi playful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have sex, of any kind, with both sexes then the first time you have satisfied the bi-curious element.
If you do it again then you are bisexual, surely.
Is the idea of just being 'bi playful' just people deluding themselves from the fact that they are actually bi but are reluctant to admit it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a great idea, I have it in my profile write up in my couples profile.
I'm happy with kisses & a little more but not all out for the ladies, like a cock a little to much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it would be a good option because it think if you put bisexual on profile you can scare straight couples off. I'm well past the curious stage but not bisexual. Bisexual to me means comfortable to be in a relationship with either sex. I'm not that, I'm comfortable to have fun with the right female, but I wouldn't have a relationship with a female. Therefore I'm bi playful."
Bisexuality is brought about by the act of having sex with both sexes. It doesn't require you to have a same sex relationship.
If you have sex with both sexes you are bi, it's simple.
If you don't want to scare of straight couples explain that you can behave yourself and control your bi urges on a meet. |
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Bi-playful just adds another layer of confusion in my opinion. As a bi-sexual woman who loves fucking men and women - I understand bi-curious means that you may still be exploring your sexuality or what you are comfortable in doing.
As soon as you are happy to play with the same sex to me you are bi-sexual.
It's hard enough to find women as it is without adding another label x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bi-playful just adds another layer of confusion in my opinion. As a bi-sexual woman who loves fucking men and women - I understand bi-curious means that you may still be exploring your sexuality or what you are comfortable in doing.
As soon as you are happy to play with the same sex to me you are bi-sexual.
It's hard enough to find women as it is without adding another label x"
Exactly... 
What next, vegetarians who are 'meat playful'?
Just admit to what you are..... 'greedy', just like me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi-playful just adds another layer of confusion in my opinion. As a bi-sexual woman who loves fucking men and women - I understand bi-curious means that you may still be exploring your sexuality or what you are comfortable in doing.
As soon as you are happy to play with the same sex to me you are bi-sexual.
It's hard enough to find women as it is without adding another label x
Exactly...
What next, vegetarians who are 'meat playful'?
Just admit to what you are..... 'greedy', just like me "
Well there are vegetarians and vegans, and vegetarians who eat fish... (Those ones I find strange!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi-playful just adds another layer of confusion in my opinion. As a bi-sexual woman who loves fucking men and women - I understand bi-curious means that you may still be exploring your sexuality or what you are comfortable in doing.
As soon as you are happy to play with the same sex to me you are bi-sexual.
It's hard enough to find women as it is without adding another label x
Exactly...
What next, vegetarians who are 'meat playful'?
Just admit to what you are..... 'greedy', just like me
Well there are vegetarians and vegans, and vegetarians who eat fish... (Those ones I find strange!) "
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I often have trouble describing my sexuality.
I was straight, but playing with couples has made me curious.
A women wanted me to suck her partners cock and I enjoyed it.
I love giving a woman oral whilst she is being penetrated by her partner (either sitting astride his lap or by them doing doggy style on my face)
I have cleaned up after a guy, had a guy withdraw and cum over my face (is wife licked me clean and snowballed me with a cum swapping kiss).
My fantasy is for a guy to withdraw at the crucial moment and to own my virgin mouth.
I have never kissed a guy, received anal or have given anal and never will
I think I am bi friendly/ bi curious |
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"Who out there thinks that bi playful should be an option on profile form those who aren't bi curious or bi sexual, but are comfortable to play within a mmf, ffm or groups of mixed sexes.
But surely if you are 'playful' with someone of the same sex but have a partner of the opposite sex then you are bisexual.
The scenario you are 'playful' in should be irrelevant. maybe the term 'occasionally bi' would be more appropriate."
I don't agree as being bi surely means yiu are also happy to be in a same sex relationship as well.
I think bi playful is a great idea. I wouldn't be in a same sex relationship nir would I go out of my way to pkay with another girl. However if it feels right I am more than happy to play with another lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who out there thinks that bi playful should be an option on profile form those who aren't bi curious or bi sexual, but are comfortable to play within a mmf, ffm or groups of mixed sexes.
But surely if you are 'playful' with someone of the same sex but have a partner of the opposite sex then you are bisexual.
The scenario you are 'playful' in should be irrelevant. maybe the term 'occasionally bi' would be more appropriate.
I don't agree as being bi surely means yiu are also happy to be in a same sex relationship as well.
I think bi playful is a great idea. I wouldn't be in a same sex relationship nir would I go out of my way to pkay with another girl. However if it feels right I am more than happy to play with another lady."
If you play with both sexes you are bisexual.
The relationship bit is irrelevant. If you are a married guy who sucks cock or fucks guys then you are bisexual.
Same applies if you are a married girl who likes to play with pussy now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman but I'll happily fuck them. I'm bi-sexual. "
That is so true, would never leave my husband for another girl but love to fuck girls now and then... bisexual too x |
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"Who out there thinks that bi playful should be an option on profile form those who aren't bi curious or bi sexual, but are comfortable to play within a mmf, ffm or groups of mixed sexes.
But surely if you are 'playful' with someone of the same sex but have a partner of the opposite sex then you are bisexual.
The scenario you are 'playful' in should be irrelevant. maybe the term 'occasionally bi' would be more appropriate."
If you look up the actual definition of bisexual,most on here dont fit that, the amount of " i dont fancy guys but.... " thats not truly bisexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you have sex, of any kind, with both sexes then the first time you have satisfied the bi-curious element.
If you do it again then you are bisexual, surely.
Is the idea of just being 'bi playful' just people deluding themselves from the fact that they are actually bi but are reluctant to admit it."
You may have decided on your sexuality but some of us are still playing with the boundaries and deciding what fits. Yes I have played with women, but that's something I'm still exploring and whilst I feel I'm past being curious, I wouldn't play with a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman so I don't see myself as Bisexual. Whether that will change as I explore more who knows, but please don't try to decide my sexuality for me when I'm still unsure myself. A title of BiPlayful I feel would suit me better than either Bicurious or Bisexual as I am currently somewhere inbetween. I may decide I don't want to play with women anymore and have satisfied my curiosity or I may decide to become a full time lesbian, but it's up to me how I label my sexuality...it's nothing to do with reluctance to admit anything as I don't yet know what I'd be admitting to.
OP...yes I think BiPlayful would cover those of us still exploring and figuring out our sexuality, as well as those of us who only play Bi in a group setting rather than 1-on-1 with members of the same sex, therefore not wasting the time of those looking for people who are 'properly' Bisexual. |
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To be honest I hate labels for sensuality. I like to think myself as open minded, comfortable with my sexually liberated lifestyle and and I don't care what people 'label' me as.
I have no intention of ever having a monogamous relationship again nor do I intend on having a romantic one. I'm perfectly happy with my single life. Bi or straight makes no difference. Hiw about just putting sexually liberated then we don't have ti worry about labels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who out there thinks that bi playful should be an option on profile form those who aren't bi curious or bi sexual, but are comfortable to play within a mmf, ffm or groups of mixed sexes.
But surely if you are 'playful' with someone of the same sex but have a partner of the opposite sex then you are bisexual.
The scenario you are 'playful' in should be irrelevant. maybe the term 'occasionally bi' would be more appropriate.
I don't agree as being bi surely means yiu are also happy to be in a same sex relationship as well.
I think bi playful is a great idea. I wouldn't be in a same sex relationship nir would I go out of my way to pkay with another girl. However if it feels right I am more than happy to play with another lady.
If you play with both sexes you are bisexual.
The relationship bit is irrelevant. If you are a married guy who sucks cock or fucks guys then you are bisexual.
Same applies if you are a married girl who likes to play with pussy now and then."
Perhaps bi playful should refer to women that play bi because their partner wants them to.
Anyone that has sexual contact with men and women because THEY want to, is 'bisexual'.
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
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"To be honest I hate labels for sensuality. I like to think myself as open minded, comfortable with my sexually liberated lifestyle and and I don't care what people 'label' me as.
I have no intention of ever having a monogamous relationship again nor do I intend on having a romantic one. I'm perfectly happy with my single life. Bi or straight makes no difference. Hiw about just putting sexually liberated then we don't have ti worry about labels."
Is sexually liberated not a label : |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a difficult one as people will have their own interpretation of what is bisexual vs bi curious. I do think that bi playful would fit a lot of couple's profiles, certainly ours anyway as the only time I would play with a female is part of a group situation. It's not something I would seek out myself. I have no interest in women. I'm not particularly interested in labels on here but if you have bi curious then I don't see why bi playful couldn't be an option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi playful is me to. It would help those who are reading your profile.
Think you are bisexual, you seem to like playing with guys and girls x"
I do like to play with both in a group but I dont play with guys on there own. It dont do it for me. Because I have bi on my profile it is assumed that I will play with single guys. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"If you have sex, of any kind, with both sexes then the first time you have satisfied the bi-curious element.
If you do it again then you are bisexual, surely.
Is the idea of just being 'bi playful' just people deluding themselves from the fact that they are actually bi but are reluctant to admit it.
You may have decided on your sexuality but some of us are still playing with the boundaries and deciding what fits. Yes I have played with women, but that's something I'm still exploring and whilst I feel I'm past being curious, I wouldn't play with a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman so I don't see myself as Bisexual. Whether that will change as I explore more who knows, but please don't try to decide my sexuality for me when I'm still unsure myself. A title of BiPlayful I feel would suit me better than either Bicurious or Bisexual as I am currently somewhere inbetween. I may decide I don't want to play with women anymore and have satisfied my curiosity or I may decide to become a full time lesbian, but it's up to me how I label my sexuality...it's nothing to do with reluctance to admit anything as I don't yet know what I'd be admitting to.
OP...yes I think BiPlayful would cover those of us still exploring and figuring out our sexuality, as well as those of us who only play Bi in a group setting rather than 1-on-1 with members of the same sex, therefore not wasting the time of those looking for people who are 'properly' Bisexual."
(thumb this describes us perfectly too )  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you have sex, of any kind, with both sexes then the first time you have satisfied the bi-curious element.
If you do it again then you are bisexual, surely.
Is the idea of just being 'bi playful' just people deluding themselves from the fact that they are actually bi but are reluctant to admit it.
You may have decided on your sexuality but some of us are still playing with the boundaries and deciding what fits. Yes I have played with women, but that's something I'm still exploring and whilst I feel I'm past being curious, I wouldn't play with a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman so I don't see myself as Bisexual. Whether that will change as I explore more who knows, but please don't try to decide my sexuality for me when I'm still unsure myself. A title of BiPlayful I feel would suit me better than either Bicurious or Bisexual as I am currently somewhere inbetween. I may decide I don't want to play with women anymore and have satisfied my curiosity or I may decide to become a full time lesbian, but it's up to me how I label my sexuality...it's nothing to do with reluctance to admit anything as I don't yet know what I'd be admitting to.
OP...yes I think BiPlayful would cover those of us still exploring and figuring out our sexuality, as well as those of us who only play Bi in a group setting rather than 1-on-1 with members of the same sex, therefore not wasting the time of those looking for people who are 'properly' Bisexual."
Thanks for expressing this view so clearly |
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"If you have sex, of any kind, with both sexes then the first time you have satisfied the bi-curious element.
If you do it again then you are bisexual, surely.
Is the idea of just being 'bi playful' just people deluding themselves from the fact that they are actually bi but are reluctant to admit it.
You may have decided on your sexuality but some of us are still playing with the boundaries and deciding what fits. Yes I have played with women, but that's something I'm still exploring and whilst I feel I'm past being curious, I wouldn't play with a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman so I don't see myself as Bisexual. Whether that will change as I explore more who knows, but please don't try to decide my sexuality for me when I'm still unsure myself. A title of BiPlayful I feel would suit me better than either Bicurious or Bisexual as I am currently somewhere inbetween. I may decide I don't want to play with women anymore and have satisfied my curiosity or I may decide to become a full time lesbian, but it's up to me how I label my sexuality...it's nothing to do with reluctance to admit anything as I don't yet know what I'd be admitting to.
OP...yes I think BiPlayful would cover those of us still exploring and figuring out our sexuality, as well as those of us who only play Bi in a group setting rather than 1-on-1 with members of the same sex, therefore not wasting the time of those looking for people who are 'properly' Bisexual."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who out there thinks that bi playful should be an option on profile form those who aren't bi curious or bi sexual, but are comfortable to play within a mmf, ffm or groups of mixed sexes."
Definitely..... I have mentioned this before as I consider myself bi playful.... very playful! hehe |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"If you have sex, of any kind, with both sexes then the first time you have satisfied the bi-curious element.
If you do it again then you are bisexual, surely.
Is the idea of just being 'bi playful' just people deluding themselves from the fact that they are actually bi but are reluctant to admit it."
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Bi-playful just adds another layer of confusion in my opinion. As a bi-sexual woman who loves fucking men and women - I understand bi-curious means that you may still be exploring your sexuality or what you are comfortable in doing.
As soon as you are happy to play with the same sex to me you are bi-sexual.
It's hard enough to find women as it is without adding another label x
Exactly...
What next, vegetarians who are 'meat playful'?
Just admit to what you are..... 'greedy', just like me
Well there are vegetarians and vegans, and vegetarians who eat fish... (Those ones I find strange!) "
Strictly speaking they are not vegetarians they are pescatarians |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think maybe as part of a MF couple if you call yourself bi sexual it would be assumed that the bi part is intended for sex.... not relationship bc otherwise would suggest your looking for actual partners not just sex?
I personally would not veto the bi friendly idea, however I'm not worried about scaring off straight women bc I have no interest in playing with couples if I can't play with both. That's just my personal preference and plenty of other couples in my area feel the same.... lucky me. Just a personal preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it would be a good option because it think if you put bisexual on profile you can scare straight couples off. I'm well past the curious stage but not bisexual. Bisexual to me means comfortable to be in a relationship with either sex. I'm not that, I'm comfortable to have fun with the right female, but I wouldn't have a relationship with a female. Therefore I'm bi playful.
Bisexuality is brought about by the act of having sex with both sexes. It doesn't require you to have a same sex relationship.
If you have sex with both sexes you are bi, it's simple.
If you don't want to scare of straight couples explain that you can behave yourself and control your bi urges on a meet."
bi sexuality is actually being sexually attracted to both sexes, i am and proud to say im bi too, ess is only cock bi, he wouldnt want to kiss fuck or cuddle a man but quite happy to suck or wank a cock, i dont believe that can be considered bi-sexual, its cock bi lol the only option is to put bi curious on profile, there are many different levels of bi with a man i think, cant just narrow it down to bi or bi curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You may have decided on your sexuality but some of us are still playing with the boundaries and deciding what fits. Yes I have played with women, but that's something I'm still exploring and whilst I feel I'm past being curious, I wouldn't play with a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman so I don't see myself as Bisexual. Whether that will change as I explore more who knows, but please don't try to decide my sexuality for me when I'm still unsure myself. A title of BiPlayful I feel would suit me better than either Bicurious or Bisexual as I am currently somewhere inbetween. I may decide I don't want to play with women anymore and have satisfied my curiosity or I may decide to become a full time lesbian, but it's up to me how I label my sexuality...it's nothing to do with reluctance to admit anything as I don't yet know what I'd be admitting to.
OP...yes I think BiPlayful would cover those of us still exploring and figuring out our sexuality, as well as those of us who only play Bi in a group setting rather than 1-on-1 with members of the same sex, therefore not wasting the time of those looking for people who are 'properly' Bisexual."
This is how I feel too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would think most people would like that option. And many people would be okay with some bi play.
meet a couple, and she wanted him to rub my cock on her pussy and guide it in her, since he touched my cock is he bi-curios, bisexual or full blown gay or just a good sort? |
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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago
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"I often have trouble describing my sexuality.
I was straight, but playing with couples has made me curious.
A women wanted me to suck her partners cock and I enjoyed it.
I love giving a woman oral whilst she is being penetrated by her partner (either sitting astride his lap or by them doing doggy style on my face)
I have cleaned up after a guy, had a guy withdraw and cum over my face (is wife licked me clean and snowballed me with a cum swapping kiss).
My fantasy is for a guy to withdraw at the crucial moment and to own my virgin mouth.
I have never kissed a guy, received anal or have given anal and never will
I think I am bi friendly/ bi curious"
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"You may have decided on your sexuality but some of us are still playing with the boundaries and deciding what fits. Yes I have played with women, but that's something I'm still exploring and whilst I feel I'm past being curious, I wouldn't play with a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman so I don't see myself as Bisexual. Whether that will change as I explore more who knows, but please don't try to decide my sexuality for me when I'm still unsure myself. A title of BiPlayful I feel would suit me better than either Bicurious or Bisexual as I am currently somewhere inbetween. I may decide I don't want to play with women anymore and have satisfied my curiosity or I may decide to become a full time lesbian, but it's up to me how I label my sexuality...it's nothing to do with reluctance to admit anything as I don't yet know what I'd be admitting to.
OP...yes I think BiPlayful would cover those of us still exploring and figuring out our sexuality, as well as those of us who only play Bi in a group setting rather than 1-on-1 with members of the same sex, therefore not wasting the time of those looking for people who are 'properly' Bisexual."
Great post, I identify with much of what you have said |
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"It's on ours that I have tried out the bi side and enjoyed, I don't know if it scares the straight ladies in couples ect off lol
But I treat it as a bonus not essential, another time will hopefully come.
Gimp is very straight, but likes to watch.
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"If you have sex, of any kind, with both sexes then the first time you have satisfied the bi-curious element.
If you do it again then you are bisexual, surely.
Is the idea of just being 'bi playful' just people deluding themselves from the fact that they are actually bi but are reluctant to admit it.
You may have decided on your sexuality but some of us are still playing with the boundaries and deciding what fits. Yes I have played with women, but that's something I'm still exploring and whilst I feel I'm past being curious, I wouldn't play with a woman alone or have a relationship with a woman so I don't see myself as Bisexual. Whether that will change as I explore more who knows, but please don't try to decide my sexuality for me when I'm still unsure myself. A title of BiPlayful I feel would suit me better than either Bicurious or Bisexual as I am currently somewhere inbetween. I may decide I don't want to play with women anymore and have satisfied my curiosity or I may decide to become a full time lesbian, but it's up to me how I label my sexuality...it's nothing to do with reluctance to admit anything as I don't yet know what I'd be admitting to.
OP...yes I think BiPlayful would cover those of us still exploring and figuring out our sexuality, as well as those of us who only play Bi in a group setting rather than 1-on-1 with members of the same sex, therefore not wasting the time of those looking for people who are 'properly' Bisexual."
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