hi admin, so we want to meet single men but not be messaged by them, we find it easier to find guys by reading their profile, we use the filter to block men sending messages, this now brings up on our profile "not looking for single men"
so where can we change the settings so we can list meeting single men without them messages us or appearing in whos look at me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Write on your profile in bold capitals,perhaps in the headline
YES WE MEET SINGLE ME .
Then if you wish you can write beneath that you prefer to do the searching yourself,as opposed to being bombarded my messages you may have no interest in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instead of blocking all men, why not try what we do and filter by blocking
- Newbies
- Those that aren't site supporters
- Those out of your preferred age range
- Those with no public photos
That will narrow down considerably number of messages. |
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"Instead of blocking all men, why not try what we do and filter by blocking - Newbies
- Those that aren't site supporters
- Those out of your preferred age range
- Those with no public photos
That will narrow down considerably number of messages."
would that not also block couple etc..  |
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
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This is a simple suggestion of just changing the wording from
"not looking for single men"
to
"not receiving messages from single men" or something similar. easy peasy.
(and would also make it clear that this statement appears due to FILTERS, and not preferences) |
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"This is a simple suggestion of just changing the wording from
"not looking for single men" to
"not receiving messages from single men" or something similar. easy peasy.
(and would also make it clear that this statement appears due to FILTERS, and not preferences)"
So we have a preference setting for we meet single men, and a filter to stop messages from single men , thats what iam looking for... Admin read and think on it as the site has a large percentage of single men would make it look more welcoming, instead of "not meeting single men"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Instead of blocking all men, why not try what we do and filter by blocking - Newbies
- Those that aren't site supporters
- Those out of your preferred age range
- Those with no public photos
That will narrow down considerably number of messages.
would that not also block couple etc.. "
We don't meet couples on this profile  |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I agree that it would be useful to have the wording changed to "not accepting mails from single men". I ONLY meet single men, but I like to search for them myself, rather than being bombarded with messages. I have resorted to setting my age-limits to the ludicrous 95-99, just so I can stop the mails, without the site adding 'not looking for single men' to my profile. This wouldn't work for anyone who also meets ladies/couples, though. |
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