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Unfortunately the vast majority of the men on here claim they’re single when they’re not. Would be great if everyone was honest then that would be a good option to search by but due to the nature of the site it wouldn’t work!  |
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"Unfortunately the vast majority of the men on here claim they’re single when they’re not. Would be great if everyone was honest then that would be a good option to search by but due to the nature of the site it wouldn’t work! "
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"Unfortunately the vast majority of the men on here claim they’re single when they’re not. Would be great if everyone was honest then that would be a good option to search by but due to the nature of the site it wouldn’t work! "
WELL my pet hate is females profiles hiding the fact they are in fact part of a couple or with a FB ,partner or BF. To be honest though it's surprising how many photos show wedding rings as a giveaway
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"Unfortunately the vast majority of the men on here claim they’re single when they’re not. Would be great if everyone was honest then that would be a good option to search by but due to the nature of the site it wouldn’t work! "
Yup people aren't always honesnt about their realtionship status.
I don't think it would work either, as I think people would still lie about it as most users are incredibly private about being on here, more so if they are married ect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome in swing world.
I am just wondering what people expectations are hire.
Are you looking hire for Relationship or fuck friendship.
Do you need to know everything about others or you want to have a gooooood ride.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see where the OP is coming from, but what about the married gents/ladies who have both a couple's and singles profile here and are honest from the get go - the filter as proposed would discriminate those also as we then assume that all 'attached' people are liars. |
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"Unfortunately the vast majority of the men on here claim they’re single when they’re not. Would be great if everyone was honest then that would be a good option to search by but due to the nature of the site it wouldn’t work!
Yup people aren't always honesnt about their realtionship status.
I don't think it would work either, as I think people would still lie about it as most users are incredibly private about being on here, more so if they are married ect. "
my status is right up there at the start. Some people don’t want to meet married, like everything it’s a choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a newbie and married.
I’d have no problem with it, at least people know where you’re coming from.
I let people know in the message chats.
Not that I’ve got anywhere yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately the vast majority of the men on here claim they’re single when they’re not. Would be great if everyone was honest then that would be a good option to search by but due to the nature of the site it wouldn’t work!
WELL my pet hate is females profiles hiding the fact they are in fact part of a couple or with a FB ,partner or BF. To be honest though it's surprising how many photos show wedding rings as a giveaway
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I have a wedding ring on. And I'm not with my husband. Dnt think it matters I wear them because they were expensive. I love them and they dnt fit any other finger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that could be helpful to search on - include/exclude married people from searches for example
I'd like this option"
As if even half the married people on here are open about it... |
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By *HX6969Man
over a year ago
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Hey but at least it will help
It's just a drag, searching and then finding out they won't meet married guys
This at least would cut on that
If someone is caught then it can be repkrted
But great idea |
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"Unfortunately the vast majority of the men on here claim they’re single when they’re not. Would be great if everyone was honest then that would be a good option to search by but due to the nature of the site it wouldn’t work!
WELL my pet hate is females profiles hiding the fact they are in fact part of a couple or with a FB ,partner or BF. To be honest though it's surprising how many photos show wedding rings as a giveaway
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Best plan - be honest - there’s someone out there to suit everyone’s preferences  Mrs rudefun x |
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"I can see where the OP is coming from, but what about the married gents/ladies who have both a couple's and singles profile here and are honest from the get go - the filter as proposed would discriminate those also as we then assume that all 'attached' people are liars."
I’m married and have both a couples profile and single profile (cherry snickers) both honest and upfront about being married. Wish everyone could be honest but some relationships aren’t that black and white, life can be complicated x I find it fun and interesting exploring what others get up to without judgment. X good luck x Mrs rudefun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do t accommodate for one reason,it's not my place it's my landladies she doesn't approve of sex outside marriage so I don't bring my meets back but as per usual I get accused of being married or In A relationship but a single woman who can't accommodate can say they got kids or don't bring strangers home for safety reasons and we blokes are supposed to accept it as gospel that it's true and they're not hiding a partner |
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"If someone is on as a single guy but can’t accommodate I’d just assume he was married "
I thought that then came across guys who
1)lost the house in the divorce
2)had caring duties for an elderly parent or relative
3)lived with puritanical flat mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone is on as a single guy but can’t accommodate I’d just assume he was married
I thought that then came across guys who
1)lost the house in the divorce
2)had caring duties for an elderly parent or relative
3)lived with puritanical flat mates"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome in swing world.
I am just wondering what people expectations are hire.
Are you looking hire for Relationship or fuck friendship.
Do you need to know everything about others or you want to have a gooooood ride. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be helpful if folks are genuine "
I'd say a high percentage stating single are actually married with both sexes and there will be lot of couples profiles which are fake orreally just a single guy
Although we don't have that field so it maybe easy for fab to implement if there was a big enough interest for it  |
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"Could be helpful if folks are genuine
I'd say a high percentage stating single are actually married with both sexes and there will be lot of couples profiles which are fake orreally just a single guy
Although we don't have that field so it maybe easy for fab to implement if there was a big enough interest for it "
well put and very true about the fake couples profile. |
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We are a couple and been married for 10 years we both also have single profiles. We both agreed if your on a site like this why should it matter wether the person you meet is married or not at the end of the day should it not be just fun we are all human after all and everyone wants different things |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We are a couple and been married for 10 years we both also have single profiles. We both agreed if your on a site like this why should it matter wether the person you meet is married or not at the end of the day should it not be just fun we are all human after all and everyone wants different things "
Because some of us don't want to meet people cheating on their partners. Personally, I have no desire to meet the male half of a couple either. I'm looking for genuinely single guys with no ties. It's called a preference. |
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"We are a couple and been married for 10 years we both also have single profiles. We both agreed if your on a site like this why should it matter wether the person you meet is married or not at the end of the day should it not be just fun we are all human after all and everyone wants different things
Because some of us don't want to meet people cheating on their partners. Personally, I have no desire to meet the male half of a couple either. I'm looking for genuinely single guys with no ties. It's called a preference. "
It's all about preference yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a couple and been married for 10 years we both also have single profiles. We both agreed if your on a site like this why should it matter wether the person you meet is married or not at the end of the day should it not be just fun we are all human after all and everyone wants different things
Because some of us don't want to meet people cheating on their partners. Personally, I have no desire to meet the male half of a couple either. I'm looking for genuinely single guys with no ties. It's called a preference. "
but how would u know if they're single or not ,I've met ladies who've stated they're single and it turns out at a later date they're not but at the time I've believed they were |
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"We are a couple and been married for 10 years we both also have single profiles. We both agreed if your on a site like this why should it matter wether the person you meet is married or not at the end of the day should it not be just fun we are all human after all and everyone wants different things
Because some of us don't want to meet people cheating on their partners. Personally, I have no desire to meet the male half of a couple either. I'm looking for genuinely single guys with no ties. It's called a preference.
It's all about preference yes."
completly agree it’s about preference. Some couples like married guys as they can be more discreet and I’ve found they tend to be less flakey.
Others will not meet married guys as it doesn’t sit right with their values, which if you’re not in this lifestyle & have an understanding seems a strange thing to say about people who like to see their partner have sex with a relative stranger, but that’s preference and what makes us different |
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