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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone give me tips on how to start a message lol I’m honestly the worlds worst cause I can never think of stuff to say. Don’t want to sound creepy but the hey how’s you is boring and not really gonna attract much attention |
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By *ilyRoseSmithWoman
over a year ago
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Don't copy and paste the same message to different people.
Take the time to read the profile and respond accordingly if the profile matches what you are looking for.
Getting tips on how to write opening messages is ok. Asking what to write isn't, as that isn't you being who you really are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone give me tips on how to start a message lol I’m honestly the worlds worst cause I can never think of stuff to say. Don’t want to sound creepy but the hey how’s you is boring and not really gonna attract much attention "
Read the profile and try to find common ground. Met a couple on here last year he was G she was S I mentioned that my initials were GS(true) and it got my foot in the door so to speak. Be creative but also be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My suggestion is be yourself, tell them a little about yourself and why you messaged them. Every person in this site will read your messages differently depending on the mood and mindset they are in. Just remember not to feel bad if you dont get a reply. Dont let it knock you and stop you from messaging other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U gotta play them..... read bio get something to use, bbws love to showered with compliments,cd/ts love it if u make them feel feminine and beautiful women like to think they have power over you . The chase is just as much fun imo
For me and this might be wrong but iam totally different person compared to real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't copy and paste the same message to different people.
Take the time to read the profile and respond accordingly if the profile matches what you are looking for.
Getting tips on how to write opening messages is ok. Asking what to write isn't, as that isn't you being who you really are."
^^^^this
But just be you
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"Can anyone give me tips on how to start a message lol I’m honestly the worlds worst cause I can never think of stuff to say. Don’t want to sound creepy but the hey how’s you is boring and not really gonna attract much attention "
As you are questioning why you are not finding what you are looking for there are a few basic things to be aware of. Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Most people will look at your profile before opening your message, or at least before they reply. From a personal perspective your profile wouldn't encourage us to reply, not least because we aren't interested in meeting with a smiley. Your profile is your chance to sell yourself, and people will rightly or wrongly make an assumption based on their immediate impression of your profile. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Put on some pics. What do you think your current pictures say about you? and why do you think they will generate interest in you? Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. Basically - make people interested in you and this WILL increase your chances of a reply.
Remember your message isn't everything, it's the starter. But by targetting your message to the right people and putting some effort in to increase your appeal you will at least increase your chances of a reply. |
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