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By *tsonlymejay OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

This is mainly for any dominant woman living in the North east area, "i don't mind if you just send a wink my way"

Does anyone else care if someone winks at them? I know some view it as lazy or rude, but i don't, thoughts?

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By *ynamicMan 2 weeks ago

The shire

I don't mind getting winked at, always take it as a compliment

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By *lex46TV/TS 2 weeks ago

Somerset

I don't mind getting winked at and I always look. But if the profile is a bit blank with no pics I don't respond. I do otherwise though.

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By *errichonneCouple 2 weeks ago

Indre, dept 36 Central France

We never send a message in the first instance as we tend to be a tad shy and inactive not proactive so just delete winks and friends requests and put this in our profile which of course 99.9% don’t read but we do reply to all messages.

That’s just our approach to fab and it works for us.

T

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By *ipmannMan 2 weeks ago

Cahir

Carol is a very beautiful lady. Your pictures are amazing.

Wink.

Lol

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By *ouple0884Couple 2 weeks ago

nottingham

Try my best to say thanks, but only if they are still online when I notice.

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By *olex99Man 2 weeks ago

Hull

I don't mind being winked at all. I just wish more women would lol.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple 2 weeks ago

Wiltshire

We don't bother to respond to winks anymore, 9 times out of 10 its guys that haven't read our profile and aren't what we are looking for. Much prefer a decent message.

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By *ussellHobbsMan 2 weeks ago

Dover

I always reply to a wink and a message, it's only polite to show your appreciation

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By *emmMan 2 weeks ago

The UK, currently Hereford

I wink a lot and like to get winks. If I wink back then I hope they will then message,

Women and couples get so many messages in a day it’s easier to let them message first so we can start a dialogue. I have face pics on my friends photos, and always send the with my messages!

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple 2 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I always reply to a decent message even if it's a "no thank you". It's only polite to if they have taken the time to write it.

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By *errichonneCouple 2 weeks ago

Indre, dept 36 Central France


"Carol is a very beautiful lady. Your pictures are amazing.

Wink.

Lol

"

That’s just sexist as ugly men count too!!!!

Hurt in France!!

T

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By *i AndrewMan 2 weeks ago

Eden Valley

I don’t find a wink either lazy or rude but I’d much rather they told me something about themselves or about what they enjoyed or were looking for!

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By *ipmannMan 2 weeks ago

Cahir


"Carol is a very beautiful lady. Your pictures are amazing.

Wink.

Lol

That’s just sexist as ugly men count too!!!!

Ah sorry dont mean to offend.

Hurt in France!!

T"

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By *ong Kong PhooeyMan 2 weeks ago

Carlisle

I love a good wink...wish more would !!

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By *marksthespotMan 2 weeks ago

Under a rock near Sheffield


"This is mainly for any dominant woman living in the North east area, "i don't mind if you just send a wink my way"

Does anyone else care if someone winks at them? I know some view it as lazy or rude, but i don't, thoughts? "

I see it like this. The wink function is there to use, so use it in any way you see fit. If people have a problem with simply being winked at, then it's exactly that - their problem, not yours.

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By *martyMzTartyWoman 2 weeks ago

25 tram stops away from New St Birmingham

Better a wink than an unsolicited friend request.

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By *ucksguy2000Man 2 weeks ago

aylesbury

Wink is good, if I like who had winked then I’ll wonk back and see what happens

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By *966world2000Man 2 weeks ago

south kirkby

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By *966world2000Man 2 weeks ago

south kirkby

I don't mind wink as it serves as an ice breaker for me

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By *omeoblkMan 2 weeks ago

London/Herts

I think winks are a good way to show interest. I send winks and accept winks. If I like what I see from a profile that winks then I message

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By *imeeCoolWoman 2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think it's OK. Why not? Gets a bit people going on about it being rude.... They didn't read our profile blah blah... Its just an acknowledgement someone likes the look of you not a marriage proposal.... I'm pro winks

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By *asminegirthloverWoman 1 week ago

Hampshire /Oxfordshire

I only wink to get the green light to chat

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By *i Adventure1Man 1 week ago

Farnborough

I sink and like getting them, as someone said earlier it's a function on here so why not use it.

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman 1 week ago

Near Bourne

I take a wink as a compliment but I dont respond to them with a message. I feel that if the guy sending me the wink wanted to start a conversation then he would send me a message.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan 1 week ago

Redditch


"I take a wink as a compliment but I dont respond to them with a message. I feel that if the guy sending me the wink wanted to start a conversation then he would send me a message. "

I understand your point, but would you actually see and read the message or woupd it get lost in the ocean of other messages?

Personally is be happy to get winks. I seem to get plenty of profile views, but never anything off the back of that and it's a touch demoralising

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By *orthampton jamesMan 1 week ago

Northampton

I'm happy to receive winks, nice to know someone took the time to look at my profile so come wink me lol

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman 1 week ago

Near Bourne


"I take a wink as a compliment but I dont respond to them with a message. I feel that if the guy sending me the wink wanted to start a conversation then he would send me a message.

I understand your point, but would you actually see and read the message or woupd it get lost in the ocean of other messages?

Personally is be happy to get winks. I seem to get plenty of profile views, but never anything off the back of that and it's a touch demoralising "

Yes I would see and read the message. I always check out a profile before I reply. If I can see from the profile that I wouldn't meet him or if I can tell from the first message then I send a generic thanks but no thanks message explaining that they're not what I'm looking for. I'm not sure how a wink would be any different. Dont get me wrong, a wink is a nice compliment but it doesnt necessarily mean because a guy has winked at me that I'm going to send him a message.

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By *igma70Man 1 week ago

solihull

I like getting winks as it is an polite way to initially say hi. But when I check the profile it has invariably been deleted

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By *dquestCouple 1 week ago

Cambridge

A wink will at least get us to look at your profile picture

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By *quaman87Man 1 week ago

Essex

Love a wink

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By *thicalSlutMan 1 week ago

London

You may wink any time

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By *oneyjule65Couple 1 week ago

Halifax

If it's just a silhouette avatar & cock pics then no....

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By *ack meeoffMan 1 week ago

Glasgow

I always like to respond to winks

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By *moothdickMan 1 week ago

stoke

It’s a facility of the site so why do some find it rude and lazy ? Jesus some people on here should chill a bit more and get off their egotistical horse... I find them a compliment.. and use em...

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By *ifun69uMan 1 week ago

east anglian

Luv a wink lol

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By *ivAbsCouple 1 week ago

bedford

We are always happy to receive winks, we send them too. We see them as a way of testing the waters. It’s still exciting if a profile returns a wink we’ve sent.

Why some people on here are so snobbish about them is a mystery. Each to their own....

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By *D125Man 1 week ago

Letterkenny

Winkings not really an enthusiastic way of expressing interest.

On the flip side, sending a wink & not getting a reply saved you the effort of writing a detailed msg

Also, there are likely 100 plus single men for every woman/couple on here so winking may not be your best play, especially if you're a man.

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By *trangeAndWoman 1 week ago

Manchester

Oohhh, I want to wink at you LD125


"Winkings not really an enthusiastic way of expressing interest.

On the flip side, sending a wink & not getting a reply saved you the effort of writing a detailed msg

Also, there are likely 100 plus single men for every woman/couple on here so winking may not be your best play, especially if you're a man."

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By *D125Man 7 days ago

Letterkenny


"Oohhh, I want to wink at you LD125

Oh, you do? Well, I'm charmed ;~)

Though, save yourself the effort :~p

Winkings not really an enthusiastic way of expressing interest.

On the flip side, sending a wink & not getting a reply saved you the effort of writing a detailed msg

Also, there are likely 100 plus single men for every woman/couple on here so winking may not be your best play, especially if you're a man."

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By *rown_Bread78Man 6 days ago

Leeds

I'm quite flattered by winks

I'll always have a look at their profile

I'll often wink back or send a message if i have any interest/curiousity

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple 5 days ago

Cambridgeshire

Definitely a compliment x

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By *iesel74Man 5 days ago

carryduff

Would gladly accept a wink anytime

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By *adboybestyMan 4 days ago

havant

Not sure how i feel about getting winks..... maybe I will return to this if ever I get any and then I can let you know!

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By *aron_TentakuruMan 4 days ago

Wish people would use it more often. It takes a lot of the stress and uncertainty out of the early part of the interaction, less of the annoyance you get if you write a nice opener that gets ignored etc etc.

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By *ung2fuckMan 4 days ago

glasgow

Personally I hate it if someone winks, then you follow it up and they ignore you completely.

¯\__/¯

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By *aron_TentakuruMan 4 days ago


"I take a wink as a compliment but I dont respond to them with a message. I feel that if the guy sending me the wink wanted to start a conversation then he would send me a message. "

If I wink at you and you wink back, I send you a message. If not, I don't bother wasting your time. It's a bit like real life, I tend to only open a conversation with someone once I've made eye contact with them and ascertained if they're open to being spoken to. Just seems politer to me than just going in all guns blazing, so to speak...

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By *aron_TentakuruMan 4 days ago

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By *ikeD868Man 4 days ago

Bristol

I like winks, don't see why people dismiss them so quickly, nice ice breaker same as if you smile at someone in a bar.

Read no reply is most frustrating situation. I'd like there to be an option where it says reply or delete and you have to pick one. Even if your waiting to chat to partner later, I'd rather people just say that in a response, I'd completely understand. And if they don't like you, you just press delete, same as pressing back button, no extra click required. I get some people get hundreds of messages but a delete button prompt would keep your inbox tidy and also decrease likelihood of sender contacting again to some degree. This is my opinion anyway.

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By *exteasemeMan 4 days ago

Birmingham

100% with you on that after all a wink is a form of complements

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By *exteasemeMan 4 days ago

Birmingham

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