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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good afternoon
We started our profile just before lockdown hence no verifications.
We have some interest but all seems a little like a non starter.
Any advice would be helpful. With the absence of clubs this is all a bit new to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be aware that some profiles won’t and don’t meet no matter what they say and leading you guys on is how they get their kicks.
Take your time on here and formulate an approach to fab that both of you are comfortable with and works for you.
This is and imho should be your adventure and not mine or theirs so approach it your way and enjoy.
Join in the forums which helps your message footfall which increases your meet options.
Enjoy and good luck.
T |
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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago
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Hi Guys
I wouldn’t worry about your profile at the moment, we as they say are “living in interesting times”
Once things start to resemble normality is probably the time to see how things go!
Good luck
All the best
IA
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There are a lot of genuine couples and guy’s on here and we have met some of them
But as someone else said some on here get their kicks from leading people on
They have no intention of meeting at all
But luckily the good ones outweigh the bad ones
Hope you find what you are looking for and end up having some great horny fun |
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With the absence of clubs and actually playing, you're limited to socials at a distance. This does make some people less inclined to put effort in to new connections.
From one bi couple to another, having a bi guy in the mix does put some off. Add in the fact that you're new and unverified and you're in for an uphill time,sadly.
Try and arrange socials if you can. Either just out for a coffee or a walk in your park. Then you can get verified in person which will help a little.
It is tricky though. Maybe look to take more body photos of the male half and some of you together. They don't need to be sexual or nude if you don't want to. Just to give people a feel for what you're both like 
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some amazing advice here.
Thank you so much. Will get to updating the profile with updated photos of bodies and us together.
Shocked to hear that some just do it for the kicks and don’t meet. Rather bizarre behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some amazing advice here.
Thank you so much. Will get to updating the profile with updated photos of bodies and us together.
Shocked to hear that some just do it for the kicks and don’t meet. Rather bizarre behaviour "
Shocked to hear that?
Give it six months and the shock with have developed into despair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some amazing advice here.
Thank you so much. Will get to updating the profile with updated photos of bodies and us together.
Shocked to hear that some just do it for the kicks and don’t meet. Rather bizarre behaviour
Shocked to hear that?
Give it six months and the shock with have developed into despair!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just be aware that some profiles won’t and don’t meet no matter what they say and leading you guys on is how they get their kicks.
Take your time on here and formulate an approach to fab that both of you are comfortable with and works for you.
This is and imho should be your adventure and not mine or theirs so approach it your way and enjoy.
Join in the forums which helps your message footfall which increases your meet options.
Enjoy and good luck.
T"
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"Some amazing advice here.
Thank you so much. Will get to updating the profile with updated photos of bodies and us together.
Shocked to hear that some just do it for the kicks and don’t meet. Rather bizarre behaviour "
Some do many don't though.
I think it's always a good idea to develop a slightly cynical attitude towards people and their claims. You do eventually develop a 6th sense for people who aren't quite who they claim to be e.g. single men on a couples profile.
You can use message filters to prevent single men from contacting you if you don't want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are relatively new to fab too, and have come across the time wasting females that we feel are really males.. We also filtered out males as were inundated with dick pics.
We are still learning too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends on who you are sending messages to as well we have found, when we started out we only looked locally but have had far more success finding couples we relate to who actually meet (when allowed) by broadening our search. |
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Hey,
We are in the same boat, joined at the start of lockdown so no meets yet, we'd rather be honest regarding sexuality so if it puts some of that my man is Bi then they aren't the ones for us anyway, Each to their own, good luck there is already some great advice in this thread xx |
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