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over a year ago
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Help you in what way?
You really need to be a little more forthcoming, both here and on your profile.
None of us are psychic and nobody is going to message you to ask what it is you're looking for - there are plenty of others who make that sort of information readily available |
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"Really dont know what to do...could do with a considerate couple to help me? Any advice greatly received."
Very few people want to spend what little spare time they have, with someone who’s a complete beginner.
I get loads of messages from guys who’ve never been with another guy, want to try something new. But why should I ?
It takes two hours to get ready (even longer when you have to do a full body shave) an inexperienced guy is more likely to let you down than an experienced ‘admirer’. Even if they turn up, after they’ve finished and the guilt turns up they’ll either dart out of the door or even in some cases, get violent. Blame you for their feelings over what they’ve just done.
This isn’t to put you off, there can be people in the scene that’ll guide and help you. But it could be a bit of a search that’s all. Try clubs and socials, turn up in person and get to know people  |
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"Trapped, because of commitments with kids etc. Cold relationship scenario"
So you're looking to cheat then. My advice would be to try couple's counselling or work up the courage to leave, your kids will appreciate it more. |
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"Really dont know what to do...could do with a considerate couple to help me? Any advice greatly received."
You say in your profile that there is no point in lying.
We take it your wife knows about this?? |
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"Trapped, because of commitments with kids etc. Cold relationship scenario"
Cheating, if your wife doesn't know about this, is only going to add to your misery.
I would suggest getting some professional help for the sake of your family. |
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