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I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
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over a year ago
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Why do so many men think there must be some magic formula.
See so many threads asking about what the best message to send is, or how to make a profile more appealing, as if this is some sort if challenge or competition.
The simple fact that I feel many are overlooking is that attractiveness is subjectuve and at the end of the day you could have the best written profile and the most perfectly crafted message, but if they don't fancy you, you're not going to get anywhere.
Just like in the real world.
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Do you think one face picture, but endless cock pictures are what the women on here want to see ?
If you do, keep it as it is.
A profile should always be organic, so you should constantly see what works and what doesn’t.
But there’s no magic formula as one lady will like something the next won’t.  |
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I'm probably not your target audience so how useful my suggestions will be is debatable  .
If you're normally clean shaven, show a clean shaven face picture.
Don't say you'll change according to what the person you're meeting wants, it implies (to me) that you are so eager to meet you'll do what they want.
Suit yourself where cock pictures are concerned. Some like em some don't.
Put a picture of your body on.
Your profile text is pretty standard which is fine. All I'd suggest is that you say a little about the type of people you're looking for and what you're interested in sexually.
Finally don't try and appeal to everyone, you'll only end up appealing to nobody.
Good luck
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Thank you so much for the advice it makes a lot of sense! To be honest you are actually my type I prefer older women and couples so maybe I need to put that on my profile and set the age group to my preference. You have a very sexy body by the way |
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"Thank you so much for the advice it makes a lot of sense! To be honest you are actually my type I prefer older women and couples so maybe I need to put that on my profile and set the age group to my preference. You have a very sexy body by the way"
You're welcome and thanks.
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"But they don’t even read the messages!!!"
Because they will always look at your profile first.
If they feel you're not for them, why would they waste time reading your message.
Those take away leaflets that come through your door. Do you phone them all up to say 'no thanks'?
Do you even look at all of them?
I would imagine the answer to both of those questions, is 'no'
Oh, and about your face pic.
If you're usually clean shaven, why post a face pic where you have a beard?
It's confusing, and certainly not current, and will likely be causing many to move on to the next profile.
You might consider it a minor detail, but to most, it will be an important one |
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You’re a nice looking guy OP.
I agree with all the points Nicecouple made but think there are way too many cock pics. One is enough to let people know what it looks like. A couple of body shots maybe? Just casual ones, jeans and T shirt and most definitely one without the beard.
Keep going, the best times are worth waiting for 
V |
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Ay up.
It's a bloody minefield on here!!
Very difficult for a single man (no Veri no action - no action no Veri)on here.
I try to think that someone somewhere will be interested in me - patience & politeness will (hopefully) win the day.
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"Your on my hotlist now!
Well at least we're on one
Do you know about the reply+quote feature under each post? If you click on that it'll quote the person you're replying to and saves confusion "
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"Honestly you are not doing anything wrong, it’s just that women and couples don’t want to meet anyone at this moment in time they would rather meet at a swingers club rather than on here "
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"You’re a nice looking guy OP.
I agree with all the points Nicecouple made but think there are way too many cock pics. One is enough to let people know what it looks like. A couple of body shots maybe? Just casual ones, jeans and T shirt and most definitely one without the beard.
Keep going, the best times are worth waiting for
V"
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"You’re a nice looking guy OP.
I agree with all the points Nicecouple made but think there are way too many cock pics. One is enough to let people know what it looks like. A couple of body shots maybe? Just casual ones, jeans and T shirt and most definitely one without the beard.
Keep going, the best times are worth waiting for
V"
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"But they don’t even read the messages!!!"
Maybe they read your profile and look at your photos before reading your message.
We do that and if what we see is not what we are looking for we just delete the message without even reading. |
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OP....you have a nice face but the first pic I see is a close-up of your cock. Get rid of it, get some tasteful nude body shots done instead.
Close your age range a bit....it's a tiny detail but it makes it look like either you'll shag anyone (99yr old?) or you've just not finished your profile.
And yes...most will look at your profile before opening the message. Saves people sending chasing messages...."you've read my mail but not replied.....". If they then delete it, it means they're not interested. |
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I can't see much wrong with your page as it is today. Not much in your bio, but its not law. As for pics I'd say 2 is a bit limiting if you want to appeal. For us, its always about normal pictures - I don't care if there are cock shots or not but if there is then one is fine. Much prefer to see the person in various situ's than their anatomy. So as it stands today, I can't see that much what I would consider wrong with it to be fair. |
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over a year ago
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"Hi
I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
Thank you all"
You need more pictures pal try the kinky fetishism look that gives that wow factor plenty of guys are pretty good at this browse the photo gallery for ideas and hopefully your luck changes |
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"OP....you have a nice face but the first pic I see is a close-up of your cock. Get rid of it, get some tasteful nude body shots done instead.
Close your age range a bit....it's a tiny detail but it makes it look like either you'll shag anyone (99yr old?) or you've just not finished your profile.
And yes...most will look at your profile before opening the message. Saves people sending chasing messages...."you've read my mail but not replied.....". If they then delete it, it means they're not interested."
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"I can't see much wrong with your page as it is today. Not much in your bio, but its not law. As for pics I'd say 2 is a bit limiting if you want to appeal. For us, its always about normal pictures - I don't care if there are cock shots or not but if there is then one is fine. Much prefer to see the person in various situ's than their anatomy. So as it stands today, I can't see that much what I would consider wrong with it to be fair. "
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"Hi
I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
Thank you all
You need more pictures pal try the kinky fetishism look that gives that wow factor plenty of guys are pretty good at this browse the photo gallery for ideas and hopefully your luck changes "
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"Hi
I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
Thank you all"
Good profile, can't see anything to change, maybe a bit about yourself, likes, dislikes, looking for.
Mrs |
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"You’re a nice looking guy OP.
I agree with all the points Nicecouple made but think there are way too many cock pics. One is enough to let people know what it looks like. A couple of body shots maybe? Just casual ones, jeans and T shirt and most definitely one without the beard.
Keep going, the best times are worth waiting for
V
Thank you so much"
Great new pics btw! |
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"Hi
I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
Thank you
Thank you all
Good profile, can't see anything to change, maybe a bit about yourself, likes, dislikes, looking for.
Mrs"
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"You’re a nice looking guy OP.
I agree with all the points Nicecouple made but think there are way too many cock pics. One is enough to let people know what it looks like. A couple of body shots maybe? Just casual ones, jeans and T shirt and most definitely one without the beard.
Keep going, the best times are worth waiting for
V
Thank you so much
Great new pics btw! "
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Can I suggest site support to add to your profile. Silver will give you 50 days for a fiver. You can do it by text if needed.
At the very least, this will allow you to see who has looked at your profile. Increased message limit will then allow you to write and say "Thanks".
Take care and good luck.
https://www.fabswingers.com/supporters
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Anyone else noticed that, in general, these threads are started by people who, on the face of it, are looking for pointers on how to achieve better success on fab, but you soon begin to realise that thus is a smokescreen, as they never respond to constructive criticism - either with a comment or by taking the advice on board - and only react to those comments that are supportive or otherwuse blowing sunshine up their arse, showing everyone that it's nothing more than a self gratifying, ego boosting look at me thread |
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"Anyone else noticed that, in general, these threads are started by people who...."
In fairness to OP of this one, he did make an effort to change pics.
I don't read them now if main pic is dick pic. But there does seem to be a glut of them now or am I just noticing them.
I sometimes pause from jumping in, wondering if guys might get offended at comments - partic on their pics - from someone not of the hetero tribe.
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"Hi
I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
Thank you all"
Ican only say why i would pass on by.
The public photo mix is OK (not all cock but a little meh..)
Im personally not into hairy guys
The limitations for daytime (while i understand the reason) is no good
You have met, from the verification, before covid so you have to accept that it has had a bug impact on everything and everyone within fab, not just single guys...
Perhaps now thinks are relaxing you could try to get out to a few social events or clubs
Fab is not a place for guaranteed sex if you want that call an escort
Fab is a place to learn patience, talk, interact on the forums and chill
Expect nothing be grateful for anything
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"Hi
I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
Thank you for your feedback
Thank you all
Ican only say why i would pass on by.
The public photo mix is OK (not all cock but a little meh..)
Im personally not into hairy guys
The limitations for daytime (while i understand the reason) is no good
You have met, from the verification, before covid so you have to accept that it has had a bug impact on everything and everyone within fab, not just single guys...
Perhaps now thinks are relaxing you could try to get out to a few social events or clubs
Fab is not a place for guaranteed sex if you want that call an escort
Fab is a place to learn patience, talk, interact on the forums and chill
Expect nothing be grateful for anything
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"Hi
I am really struggling to meet ladies and couples on here, is there something wrong with the text on my profile or too many c**k pictures on my profile? I always write and message relating to the persons profile so I don’t just copy and paste and I always attach a face picture (maybe I’m ugly) but I never get a reply or the message isn’t read!
Any advise would be very much appreciated, I guess it doesn’t help having cannot accommodate but I have my young son to thing about.
Thank you all
Ican only say why i would pass on by.
The public photo mix is OK (not all cock but a little meh..)
Im personally not into hairy guys
The limitations for daytime (while i understand the reason) is no good
You have met, from the verification, before covid so you have to accept that it has had a bug impact on everything and everyone within fab, not just single guys...
Perhaps now thinks are relaxing you could try to get out to a few social events or clubs
Fab is not a place for guaranteed sex if you want that call an escort
Fab is a place to learn patience, talk, interact on the forums and chill
Expect nothing be grateful for anything
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Absolutely spot on. |
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