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Not having much luck on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I've been on and off here over the years. I've messaged a good few peeps in my area. And only had 1 meet since I've been on here. I always send my pics and always polite. I'm not sure if it's the way I look or something lol. But some help would be great. As I only want to enjoy live and have as much fun as possible and experience new things and make friends any help or advice would be much appreciated thanks |
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In my humble opinion, such as it is, your profile content needs some improvement work.
There are lots and lots and lots more single guys chasing just a few ladies here so you need to make your pictures and information work harder for you than they do at present.
Too many dick pics and no others are so off putting many ladies will scroll past fast. Try some artistic shots, nicely dressed, or doing something interesting, tell us more about you in pictures than you have a dick!
Saying you will add to your intro later looks lazy. A lady up for a meet needs to know more up front.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple looking for a guy your first contact is vital to stand out from the crowd.be original,be witty but no toilet humour,don't say I want her pussy so bad.but most of all don't myther them every hour,if they like you they will message and go from there.hope this helps. |
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This is a post that gets posted alot mate. Majority set it in there head that they come on here and be swimming in fanny, and to there surprise its not the case.
The women/couples even men and I'm sure yourself have a certain criteria and taste in the opposite/same sex and have a standard and not just to fuck everyone who sends a message.
Although yes it is a site for meeting and arranging for certain things, treating more so the ladies with respect and being a gentleman is still very much required. Unfortunately this hasn't been given by alot of the males on here, just abuse and outright caveman disrespect. So forgive alot of ladies on here if there a little sceptical.
Just go with the flow mate, take the turn downs on the chin don't be to needy and have patience. You will be rewarded aventually.  |
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Age limit set to 99….. says desperate
Three poor cock pics…. Not good
No site supporter…. Can’t be bothered
Can’t accomodate…. Married / living with parents!
I’ll fill in profile later - can’t be bothered
You’ve done nothing to sell yourself. You need to do much more to make your profile the one out of dozens that makes a woman stop scrolling.
You’re nowhere near that at the moment to be honest.
You can have success though. I’m 59 with a Dad bod and over 200 verified meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Three fugly dick pics and nothing in your profile to begin a conversation from.
1.6/10"
That's a bit harsh, don't think there's any need to call anyone's photos fugly  |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Age limit set to 99….. says desperate
Three poor cock pics…. Not good
No site supporter…. Can’t be bothered
Can’t accomodate…. Married / living with parents!
I’ll fill in profile later - can’t be bothered
You’ve done nothing to sell yourself. You need to do much more to make your profile the one out of dozens that makes a woman stop scrolling.
You’re nowhere near that at the moment to be honest.
You can have success though. I’m 59 with a Dad bod and over 200 verified meets. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh OP nothing stands out on your profile...I'd by-pass it if you contacted me.
1 photo on display & what is it...a close up black & white dick-pic ...    
Now I'm wondering why it's in black & white... As we know b/w disguise flaws & imperfections or more |
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….. and two weeks on your status reads:
“Any serious peeps on here?? Wasting to much time”
Well you’ve not “wasted” much of that time on updating your profile? Despite asking for advice on how to do better. Try *investing* an hour or so in your profile and it’ll pay dividends! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a site enabling personal interaction and introductions with other people who may have similar goals and lifestyles
It is not a loyalty card scheme.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I've been on and off here over the years. I've messaged a good few peeps in my area. And only had 1 meet since I've been on here. I always send my pics and always polite. I'm not sure if it's the way I look or something lol. But some help would be great. As I only want to enjoy live and have as much fun as possible and experience new things and make friends any help or advice would be much appreciated thanks"
Looked at your likes...
Room swapping, adult parties, group sex etc.... Never thought of clubs where busy events are held? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously lads these threads are worn out
the more you try stand out and make threads to bitch and moan about not getting attention isn’t making you more attractive to your sexual preference !
Your only damaging your chances in my opinion !
It looks like attention grabbing!!! ( cause it is )
Quit bitching and crack on !!
Best of luck mate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"go to clubs and meet people... get verifications and then your meets and opportunities will snowball from there... sitting behind a keyboard trying to charm people doesn't get very far"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on this for some time not one meet thinking probably my age has I over what most people want . I have change status to Bi curious in the hope of attracting couples I am straight though I do think probably if very to get very horny I’d probably give a dick a tug .age is just a number |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a post that gets posted alot mate. Majority set it in there head that they come on here and be swimming in fanny, and to there surprise its not the case.
The women/couples even men and I'm sure yourself have a certain criteria and taste in the opposite/same sex and have a standard and not just to fuck everyone who sends a message.
Although yes it is a site for meeting and arranging for certain things, treating more so the ladies with respect and being a gentleman is still very much required. Unfortunately this hasn't been given by alot of the males on here, just abuse and outright caveman disrespect. So forgive alot of ladies on here if there a little sceptical.
Just go with the flow mate, take the turn downs on the chin don't be to needy and have patience. You will be rewarded aventually. "
love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on this for some time not one meet thinking probably my age has I over what most people want . I have change status to Bi curious in the hope of attracting couples I am straight though I do think probably if very to get very horny I’d probably give a dick a tug .age is just a number "
tug a dick just to get a shag wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I've been on and off here over the years. I've messaged a good few peeps in my area. And only had 1 meet since I've been on here. I always send my pics and always polite. I'm not sure if it's the way I look or something lol. But some help would be great. As I only want to enjoy live and have as much fun as possible and experience new things and make friends any help or advice would be much appreciated thanks"
1 blurred cock pic. So nothing to see there. And little content. So closed sorry. Needs a little work |
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"Why didn’t you give your meet a verification? "
To be fair…. The lady he met has 20 veris, but simply chooses not to show them on her profile, so there’s nothing to suggest he didn’t verify her in return.
The rest of his profile is still cr@p tho! |
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