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is my profile alright?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

so i dont seem to get many replies, i read profiles and message accordingly but always get "read" or "deleted" am i doing something wrong? or am i just that hideous XD

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

any kind of help would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No 1. You aren't straight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No likes or dislikes and what u are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No 1. You aren't straight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I verify off a TV def not straight, so what other errors on your profile ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No 1. You aren't straight

doesnt mean im not straight just because ive met a tgirl before. the way i see it is just meeting a different kind of female

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No 1. You aren't straight

doesnt mean im not straight just because ive met a tgirl before. the way i see it is just meeting a different kind of female"

That's not how many will see it and it would put some off meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No 1. You aren't straight

doesnt mean im not straight just because ive met a tgirl before. the way i see it is just meeting a different kind of female

That's not how many will see it and it would put some off meeting you."

well i dont know why it would, surly it shouldnt matter what i put about orientation or even who ive met. isnt it about the fact im looking for women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the t girl had a cock it was male not female

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No 1. You aren't straight

doesnt mean im not straight just because ive met a tgirl before. the way i see it is just meeting a different kind of female

That's not how many will see it and it would put some off meeting you.

well i dont know why it would, surly it shouldnt matter what i put about orientation or even who ive met. isnt it about the fact im looking for women?"

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest, I'm simply saying it may put others off meeting you. I can't really say why, maybe someone who is put off will be along later.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the t girl had a cock it was male not female"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the t girl had a cock it was male not female"

No, it was a different kind of female

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If the t girl had a cock it was male not female"

not true, thats just an ignorant post mate, you should do some research into the fact of it as many consider themselves female.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because the site is saturated with single men lol

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Because the site is saturated with single men lol

This.

and those with profiles and pics that are appealing get more attention I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because the site is saturated with single men lol

This.

and those with profiles and pics that are appealing get more attention I guess. "
Yes and also if the area you live in is active in the swinging world to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

likes and dislikes list upadated since apparently it needed to be added

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

Well leaving the true gender of the T girl aside, most women read profiles before or even instead of messages,

Yours doesn't say a great deal. Would you write to you if you read this profile?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No 1. You aren't straight

doesnt mean im not straight just because ive met a tgirl before. the way i see it is just meeting a different kind of female

That's not how many will see it and it would put some off meeting you."

agree

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"If the t girl had a cock it was male not female

not true, thats just an ignorant post mate, you should do some research into the fact of it as many consider themselves female. "

They may consider themselves female, doesn't mean they are if they have a cock!

It's the lie that would put me off not the fact you have gone with a Tgirl, coz what else would you just lie about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the t girl had a cock it was male not female

not true, thats just an ignorant post mate, you should do some research into the fact of it as many consider themselves female. "

judging on the Tv u met from the veri

she had a cock unless the photos she has on her profile dated march arent corrct

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the t girl had a cock it was male not female

not true, thats just an ignorant post mate, you should do some research into the fact of it as many consider themselves female.

They may consider themselves female, doesn't mean they are if they have a cock!

It's the lie that would put me off not the fact you have gone with a Tgirl, coz what else would you just lie about

the denial doess it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

but how does who i meet change who i know i am, see if id met a guy then yeah feel free to call me out on that shit but i know to myself that im still straight

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"If the t girl had a cock it was male not female

not true, thats just an ignorant post mate, you should do some research into the fact of it as many consider themselves female.

They may consider themselves female, doesn't mean they are if they have a cock!

It's the lie that would put me off not the fact you have gone with a Tgirl, coz what else would you just lie about

the denial does it for me"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but how does who i meet change who i know i am, see if id met a guy then yeah feel free to call me out on that shit but i know to myself that im still straight"

so someone sucking your cock what isnt female is straight now

sorry its bi or bi curious

but good to see you took on board some advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but how does who i meet change who i know i am, see if id met a guy then yeah feel free to call me out on that shit but i know to myself that im still straight"

I think you're missing the point. You asked if there is anything wrong with your profile as many delete your messages without reply. Some have mentioned this as one of probably many reasons you may not be having the success you want. Its your profile, you put what you like on it, some are simply saying it might be working against you for meets with females.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No 1. You aren't straight

doesnt mean im not straight just because ive met a tgirl before. the way i see it is just meeting a different kind of female"

Are you for real? How many females have cocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

whys it a lie? being with a trans person doesnt change your orientation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but how does who i meet change who i know i am, see if id met a guy then yeah feel free to call me out on that shit but i know to myself that im still straight"

I bet your the kinda guy who'd message a couple who wanted a bi guy, they'd reply saying you are straight and you'd say " no check my verification I've met a TV "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but how does who i meet change who i know i am, see if id met a guy then yeah feel free to call me out on that shit but i know to myself that im still straight

I bet your the kinda guy who'd message a couple who wanted a bi guy, they'd reply saying you are straight and you'd say " no check my verification I've met a TV ""

oh my i was thinking the same :P

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also TGIRL means "Man living as a woman" its not a woman who was born a woman with surgically added a cock tho that's a transsexual, hope that cleared that up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

that doesnt even make sense! why would i message them if theyre looking for a bi guy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also TGIRL means "Man living as a woman" its not a woman who was born a woman with surgically added a cock tho that's a transsexual, hope that cleared that up lol

thanks shag

for defining that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"that doesnt even make sense! why would i message them if theyre looking for a bi guy?"

Because that's what men do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also TGIRL means "Man living as a woman" its not a woman who was born a woman with surgically added a cock tho that's a transsexual, hope that cleared that up lol

thanks shag

for defining that

"
You welcome jacks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds."

not at all

just be you

be honest as if you cant be honest u wont get far

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds.

not at all

just be you

be honest as if you cant be honest u wont get far

good luck"

but thats the thing, i am being honest but because other people disagree, it turns to hate because im not agreeing with what your all putting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds."

No it hasn't people are trying to explain to you that you've been with a guy, however you may dress it up (

did I really say that ) you've been with a guy in a dress, nothing wrong in that but the fact you are trying to convince yourself it's anything different is making yourself look silly

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds."

I wouldn't say anybody here hates you, but just find your defensive attitude and petulance rather irritating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds.

not at all

just be you

be honest as if you cant be honest u wont get far

good luck

but thats the thing, i am being honest but because other people disagree, it turns to hate because im not agreeing with what your all putting."

bollox

its a free open forum

u asked for advice and it was given to you

and as for the other stuff dont read it if you dnt want to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds.

not at all

just be you

be honest as if you cant be honest u wont get far

good luck

but thats the thing, i am being honest but because other people disagree, it turns to hate because im not agreeing with what your all putting.

bollox

its a free open forum

u asked for advice and it was given to you

and as for the other stuff dont read it if you dnt want to

this

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And if you really stood by your conviction that meeting a TV was really meeting a female you wouldn't have hidden your verification now would you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if you really stood by your conviction that meeting a TV was really meeting a female you wouldn't have hidden your verification now would you?

ooo la la

i have a cock well strap on does that make me a man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if you really stood by your conviction that meeting a TV was really meeting a female you wouldn't have hidden your verification now would you?

Again so true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if you really stood by your conviction that meeting a TV was really meeting a female you wouldn't have hidden your verification now would you?

ooo la la

i have a cock well strap on does that make me a man"

Not if you're wearing women's clothes and make up!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if you really stood by your conviction that meeting a TV was really meeting a female you wouldn't have hidden your verification now would you?

ooo la la

i have a cock well strap on does that make me a man"

Shit and David has a cock, does that mean he's a women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if you really stood by your conviction that meeting a TV was really meeting a female you wouldn't have hidden your verification now would you?

ooo la la

i have a cock well strap on does that make me a man

Not if you're wearing women's clothes and make up!!"

dont challenge me as ill do it

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"And if you really stood by your conviction that meeting a TV was really meeting a female you wouldn't have hidden your verification now would you?

ooo la la

i have a cock well strap on does that make me a man"

Don't ask me, I failed my biology gcse, seems I know nothing now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

u wanted profile advice we gave it u

now we are just wittering on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds.

not at all

just be you

be honest as if you cant be honest u wont get far

good luck

but thats the thing, i am being honest but because other people disagree, it turns to hate because im not agreeing with what your all putting."

We are confused here.

Did the T-girl have a cock or not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds.

not at all

just be you

be honest as if you cant be honest u wont get far

good luck

but thats the thing, i am being honest but because other people disagree, it turns to hate because im not agreeing with what your all putting.

We are confused here.

Did the T-girl have a cock or not?"

Don't be silly course it didn't, he's already told us it's really a girl , it's us, we've all got it all wrong, the op is 23 he should know, how have all of us had the audacity to question him, we feel shit now, sorry Mr op, for making you feel bad, a T-girl is really a girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this turned from help to hate in aprox 0.1 seconds.

not at all

just be you

be honest as if you cant be honest u wont get far

good luck

but thats the thing, i am being honest but because other people disagree, it turns to hate because im not agreeing with what your all putting.

We are confused here.

Did the T-girl have a cock or not?"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

does it matter what people think its only a name and society always wants to put people in boxes i like a chinese take away doesnt mean im chinese.anyway if women find it a turn of then prob they insecure in themselves lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op just put something like predominantly straight and looking for women but have and will meet tgirls. Then you are owning your sexuality in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meeting whoever you want is your decision

Yet asking for advice then throwing your toys out as asking if hes straight

Thats my issue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meeting whoever you want is your decision

Yet asking for advice then throwing your toys out as asking if hes straight

Thats my issue.

I know what your saying but I'm straight yet there's a couple of tgirls I think you know what I would lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wtf some posts have Disappeared! Forum gremlins busy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meeting whoever you want is your decision

Yet asking for advice then throwing your toys out as asking if hes straight

Thats my issue.

"
dont think he was throwing hus toys out just think u were being a bitch and just putting ur limited opinion on what he was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meeting whoever you want is your decision

Yet asking for advice then throwing your toys out as asking if hes straight

Thats my issue.

dont think he was throwing hus toys out just think u were being a bitch and just putting ur limited opinion on what he was trying to say "

Far from it i gave him advice

Reading the limited profile and veri from a tgirl i use the term loosely

So i asked if he was straight

Not bitchy at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"does it matter what people think its only a name and society always wants to put people in boxes i like a chinese take away doesnt mean im chinese.anyway if women find it a turn of then prob they insecure in themselves lol "

We agree about it only being a name fully.

But if he has a cock then surely he is male, although he is fully entitled to call himself whatever he wants, and if he hasn't got a cock then he is female.

Although we may not like labels, is that not the definition?

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You are younger than some peoples children, major turn off for most... and way below the age I would consider meeting.

Not being very picky is a turn off - so you'd meet anyone?

Age 18-99? really or just lazy?

And the bit about having hidden a veri from a tgirl - are you ashamed of it, and feel it needs hidden so you can lie about your sexuality? Being with tgirl is at minimum bicurious...

And its a load of words that ultimately say very little about you, what you offer a meet and what you are looking for...

Good luck

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Meeting whoever you want is your decision

Yet asking for advice then throwing your toys out as asking if hes straight

Thats my issue.

dont think he was throwing hus toys out just think u were being a bitch and just putting ur limited opinion on what he was trying to say "

Hardly! Don't ask for advise when certain things are picked up on! And then add abuse to the thread which has since been removed, so unless you have all the facts??? Personally I wouldn't comment!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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