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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys been on here a couple of months and can't seem to get traction with my first message or when people view my profile! Any advice would be great!! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Traction ?????
Advise :
Photos....smile.
Hairy pubes will put some off, but each to their own.
Profile...
Who are you ? Likes, dislikes, what you are looking for, what you can offer.
Messages....
Friendly, polite and write to the individual lady, not just a standard " hi, how's you "
Hope that helps
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to remember that people make snap judgments about what they like or dislike in what they see.
So I have tried to put what my thought process was when I looked at your profile quickly, hopefully it might help x
1. Your profile is very short and full of describing words - "fit, young, athletic, working". These words do not show me who you are so try and expand to sell yourself better. For example If I said I am fit because I climb mountains to raise money for charity or I got to the gym so I have a rocking body, do you see how this reads to people?
2. A good selling point is to include if you are single. A lot of people don't like cheaters, especially the lying cheaters and by saying I am 100% available puts you way ahead of the cheating married men.
3. You say you are straight but are friends with lots of TVs. Its a contradiction people will pick up on and question you about your honesty.
4. What can you offer a woman and what do you want from fab? People need to see the benefits of meeting you. By posting your interests people can see that you are compatible with them.
5.The photo of you showing your guns makes you look like you are very young and are just obsessed with your body. This can read as immature and self-obsessed and no one wants a selfish lover.
6. The pic of you in your boxers is ok, but you look confused. I dont think it does anything for you.
7. Please, please, please remove the dick pic. What gets your tastebuds going? If I waved a raw sausage at you or I presented you with a sausage sarnie with all the trimmings. Your dick pic is the raw sausage, the naked photo lets women see all the lovely trimmings 
8. Do you need two shots of your torso? Maybe replace with a bum pic?
The rest is fine, good luck x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fully agree with some of the other comments. You need to have more to say in your profile. And I also agree ditch the cock pic. It'll attract the men, but an awful lot of women find that a turn off.
However very good body and very handsome face. If I were a single girl in my twenties looking for NSA sex I may consider you. However if I was a single girl in my twenties looking for NSA sex I would be on a casual dating site, not a swingers site. I'm wondering if that is part of the problem - you're on a swingers site (therefore a site that specialises in sex that typically involves threesomes, group sex and partner swaps) but your profile says you are only looking to meet single women. |
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