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By *sagent OP Man
over a year ago
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My wife would love the attention of more than one man, body issues, she says all women can be very bitchy about other women where sex is concerned, are stopping us going to a club.
Are clubs just dens of inequities with men just pawing ladies or are they respectful of the need to ask? If I could build her confidence and get her to a social I would but she just is too nervous. How do I get her to test the water?? |
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"My wife would love the attention of more than one man, body issues, she says all women can be very bitchy about other women where sex is concerned, are stopping us going to a club.
Are clubs just dens of inequities with men just pawing ladies or are they respectful of the need to ask? If I could build her confidence and get her to a social I would but she just is too nervous. How do I get her to test the water?? "
Does she genuinely want to try this or is it something she likes talking about but would never dream of doing?
Not all women are bitchy about other women and if she has body issues I doubt she'd be comfortable with another guy seeing her naked.
Can you help her build her confidence to the point where she would feel comfortable going to a social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys are not all the same, we are individuals in our own right. I’ve experienced the reverse with couples pawing over me, it’s not pleasant or inviting. Maybe stop tarring us all with the same brush? |
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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Guys are not all the same, we are individuals in our own right. I’ve experienced the reverse with couples pawing over me, it’s not pleasant or inviting. Maybe stop tarring us all with the same brush?"
I haven't experienced this  Where was this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife would love the attention of more than one man, body issues, she says all women can be very bitchy about other women where sex is concerned, are stopping us going to a club.
Are clubs just dens of inequities with men just pawing ladies or are they respectful of the need to ask? If I could build her confidence and get her to a social I would but she just is too nervous. How do I get her to test the water?? "
What is her issue? Bitchy women or pawing men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife would love the attention of more than one man, body issues, she says all women can be very bitchy about other women where sex is concerned, are stopping us going to a club.
Are clubs just dens of inequities with men just pawing ladies or are they respectful of the need to ask? If I could build her confidence and get her to a social I would but she just is too nervous. How do I get her to test the water??"
You could even go into a club for a social. Just to sit at the bar or wherever you feel comfortable and observe and just relax. Perhaps the more times you do that and realise that everyone who attends are lovely and welcoming than I’m sure she will be fine.
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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As a woman with more body confidence issues than vogue, going to a club terrifying. However it was also one of the most liberating experiences I've ever had. No one batted an eye lid , I didn't feel judged. The only person pawing at me was the person I went with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going by your profile i would say you haven't got a hope in hell of getting her to join you....she doesn't even know your on here.
Good luck though, I was the same 2 years ago, single profile etc... Mrs marms found out, but instead of her booting me out, she came to the club with me! 
Now we are both happy and enjoying this lifestyle.
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