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PROFILE HELP (Remind it's Christmas time)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Honestly... I consider my profile quite good. But I should be wrong. I've texted several ladies that maybe some reply but keep me holding...players...ego needed.. To me Tinder works better than this site. But...if I wanna swinger stuff you can be weirdo there. Because my lack of marketing many girls are not taking my good sex. Help them helping me. :P
So the point to me it is to learn the "rules" how to play here.
I will be very thankful if I get some good tips. Thanks in advance.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You actually think your profile is good?
So larger ladies aren't allowed to be choosy who they fuck. You've messaged them so therefore they should grateful and if the don't they're just fussy?
Some parts are just bizarre to read, the most part is you moaning about the site.
I'm really not sure what it is guys like you think you're going to get from the site.
You have no pics, you're slagging ladies off and moaning about the site, and yet you feel this is appealing?
Add some pics. Completely rewrite your profile and lose the chip off your shoulder. |
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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago
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"Could not get past the status and the opening paragraph, the hostility is palpable.
Our advice is to rewrite it without a sense of entitlement."
He could write a new one but he will always think he has a sense of entitlement. |
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TBH OP
If I recieved a message,I'd look at your profile before reading or replying.
I wouldn't have got past your status & bothered to read the rest before deleting, but as you asked for advice, I did read.
It comes across as very angry & bitter.
You're trying to attract people not send them rimming to hit the block button.
Think you need a compete attitude adjustment & rewrite |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Could not get past the status and the opening paragraph, the hostility is palpable.
Our advice is to rewrite it without a sense of entitlement.
He could write a new one but he will always think he has a sense of entitlement. "
"He will always think..." haha you come to my post to tell about me to others how I am... I'm lost... do u know me? Looks you know me very well.. Maybe your opinion tell more about u than me. I'm here to do my best. Frustation can awake my bad side. Im human. Im not that perfect. I assume that |
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"Could not get past the status and the opening paragraph, the hostility is palpable.
Our advice is to rewrite it without a sense of entitlement.
He could write a new one but he will always think he has a sense of entitlement.
"He will always think..." haha you come to my post to tell about me to others how I am... I'm lost... do u know me? Looks you know me very well.. Maybe your opinion tell more about u than me. I'm here to do my best. Frustation can awake my bad side. Im human. Im not that perfect. I assume that"
You just proved their point OP  |
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"Rimming... Damn bloody auto carrot
Running!
The auto carrot? It's those sprouts you need to watch at this time of year  "
I bloody hate sprouts!
" "Rimming... Damn bloody auto carrot
Running!
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Quite amusing/worrying how my phone now changes so many words into sexual alternatives! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As one of the fussy fattys you mentioned in your status, I’m probably not who you are looking for but I would suggest the following things could be looked at:
1- your profile is pretty negative, there seems to be a lot of moaning, and that can be off putting
2- most of it doesn’t really make sense. Eg you say “many rubbish people on here and possibly they are who then ask for respect”. It’s hard to read when the grammar is that bad. So you might want to fill in the missing words etc.
3- I would suggest you get some public pics, ideally not all cock shots too.
Overall I think it’s the tone that needs changing.
Just my opinion though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Please read better before reply. This message came from different ppl. First paragraph its about someone giving an advice. Second paragraph if someone tell how I am...without know me.
Thanks |
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"Quite amusing/worrying how my phone now changes so many words into sexual alternatives!
Just be careful if your ever "running" after someone lol "
Only running I do, is on a treadmill.
Oh apart from the one time I chased a mugger, he needed a new rim when I caught him |
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"Please read better before reply. This message came from different ppl. First paragraph its about someone giving an advice. Second paragraph if someone tell how I am...without know me.
Thanks"
I did read it properly, the first paragraph was our response to you.
But your response was aggresive and entitled, hence proving the second commenter's point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He will always think..." haha you come to my post to tell about me to others how I am... I'm lost... do u know me? Looks you know me very well.. Maybe your opinion tell more about u than me. I'm here to do my best. Frustation can awake my bad side. Im human. Im not that perfect. I assume that"
I consider it´s not agressive at all. If you are offended because I said something about fat people it´s other stuff... My apologies then. You can workout and get fit and me I can slow down and think about my mistakes.
Don´t take personal. I was a bit angry and I chose wrong words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""He will always think..." haha you come to my post to tell about me to others how I am... I'm lost... do u know me? Looks you know me very well.. Maybe your opinion tell more about u than me. I'm here to do my best. Frustation can awake my bad side. Im human. Im not that perfect. I assume that"
I consider it´s not agressive at all. If you are offended because I said something about fat people it´s other stuff... My apologies then. You can workout and get fit and me I can slow down and think about my mistakes.
Don´t take personal. I was a bit angry and I chose wrong words."
Chose wrong words?
You betchya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now the snowball it´s bigger. Previously in my status and profile I offended fat people. My apologies to them. So this because I've said " I chose wrong words" and I gave my apologies.
Later on.. someone came to my post to say " He will alway think the same .." I replied that he doesnt know me to say this public statement. In my opinion this is quite rude. Everyone it´s different depends which emotions you feed. It's easy to judge people. To me it´s a pointless.
ANYWAY AFTER ALL. I'VE LISTENED ALL THE MESSAGES EVEN THIS ONES JUST CAME TO MY POST TO MAKE A MESSY.
THANKS TO EVERYONE.
I'VE CHANGED IT. NOW IF SOMEONE THINK STILL IT´S NEEDED OF ANY IMPROVIMENT I'M ALL EARS (EYES :P) THANKS TO EVERYONE. I FEEL LESS ALIGNED HERE AND I APPRECIATED ALL THE PEOPLE SPENT A LITTLE TIME TO HELP. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Wow and you seriously can’t understand why you not getting any interest,so aggressive and condescending but that’s just an opinion from a fatty"
Fellow fatty here couldn't quite believe that last bit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though I couldn't see fatty status and original profile, from what I can see in this thread and in your current profile, you are still in the category "I would love to punch you in the face without a second thought.
Merry Christmas
Fat Kitten |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow and you seriously can’t understand why you not getting any interest,so aggressive and condescending but that’s just an opinion from a fatty
Fellow fatty here couldn't quite believe that last bit "
yeah im a fatty too and hes pming me  |
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"Wow and you seriously can’t understand why you not getting any interest,so aggressive and condescending but that’s just an opinion from a fatty
Fellow fatty here couldn't quite believe that last bit
yeah im a fatty too and hes pming me "
I'm sensing the type of guy that they become "fatty" when they reject his advances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow and you seriously can’t understand why you not getting any interest,so aggressive and condescending but that’s just an opinion from a fatty
Fellow fatty here couldn't quite believe that last bit
yeah im a fatty too and hes pming me
I'm sensing the type of guy that they become "fatty" when they reject his advances."
i havent rejected him. i gave him profile advice on here and then pmed me |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Wow and you seriously can’t understand why you not getting any interest,so aggressive and condescending but that’s just an opinion from a fatty
Fellow fatty here couldn't quite believe that last bit
yeah im a fatty too and hes pming me
I'm sensing the type of guy that they become "fatty" when they reject his advances.
i havent rejected him. i gave him profile advice on here and then pmed me "
Why is he pming fatties?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow and you seriously can’t understand why you not getting any interest,so aggressive and condescending but that’s just an opinion from a fatty
Fellow fatty here couldn't quite believe that last bit
yeah im a fatty too and hes pming me
I'm sensing the type of guy that they become "fatty" when they reject his advances.
i havent rejected him. i gave him profile advice on here and then pmed me
Why is he pming fatties?! "
strange hey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fatty here giving advice to the "fabulous" man. You say no smokers but your profile says you'll meet smokers.
You need public photos. And a personality. But start with the photos
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Fatty here giving advice to the "fabulous" man. You say no smokers but your profile says you'll meet smokers.
You need public photos. And a personality. But start with the photos
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Confuseddotcom |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Even though I couldn't see fatty status and original profile, from what I can see in this thread and in your current profile, you are still in the category "I would love to punch you in the face without a second thought.
Merry Christmas
Fat Kitten "
Who is the agressive here? |
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"This whole thread has made my day so much better right im off to rim a bath 
This thread made me chuckle but not sure I want to go rim a bath....... "
What do they say? Dont knock it till you try it? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry because I'm confused now ... to say fat it´s offensive ?
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you are in your thirties, i think you know exactly what is or is not going to offend. You could easily say something like you prefer slim women, without being downright rude. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've seen many profiles.
No bald guys , it's not offensive ? Just muscular guys ? it is not offensive to guys are just normal?
No short guys , at least over 5.9 feet this is not offensive to short guys ?
Just BBC , just black guys ... should be racist ? XDD
It's choices... just my choice.
Women are not polite in general, I could say more than half of women they already know they are in a position that they dont have to be polite,empathic or whatever of these values you are mentioned. They dont care about respect. Ask men here...;)
It is not offensive fatty girls asking for muscular guys? You possibly you can get my point.
Women here they can get what they want and basically they dont care about being polite... but looks like because I'm a man it´s bad.
MEN WE DESERVE SAME RESPECT. AND I DIDNT SEE ANY WOMAN COMPLAINT ABOUT WOMEN ATTITUDE.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen many profiles.
No bald guys , it's not offensive ? Just muscular guys ? it is not offensive to guys are just normal?
No short guys , at least over 5.9 feet this is not offensive to short guys ?
Just BBC , just black guys ... should be racist ? XDD
It's choices... just my choice.
Women are not polite in general, I could say more than half of women they already know they are in a position that they dont have to be polite,empathic or whatever of these values you are mentioned. They dont care about respect. Ask men here...;)
It is not offensive fatty girls asking for muscular guys? You possibly you can get my point.
Women here they can get what they want and basically they dont care about being polite... but looks like because I'm a man it´s bad.
MEN WE DESERVE SAME RESPECT. AND I DIDNT SEE ANY WOMAN COMPLAINT ABOUT WOMEN ATTITUDE.
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But it is you who's bragging about women on fab yet you expect that all of us will see how fabulous you are  it's true that women on here are picky, but so you are, so where is the problem? The only thing is that you don't have any good manners.
Wake up man, if you know what this site is all about stop crying that you haven't had a meet in 2 weeks since you've joined
And oh me and my man know each other from this site so apparently I'm not an unpolite fat bitch all the time and sometimes I can be quite a good company...for people who deserve my respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen many profiles.
No bald guys , it's not offensive ? Just muscular guys ? it is not offensive to guys are just normal?
No short guys , at least over 5.9 feet this is not offensive to short guys ?
Just BBC , just black guys ... should be racist ? XDD
It's choices... just my choice.
Women are not polite in general, I could say more than half of women they already know they are in a position that they dont have to be polite,empathic or whatever of these values you are mentioned. They dont care about respect. Ask men here...;)
It is not offensive fatty girls asking for muscular guys? You possibly you can get my point.
Women here they can get what they want and basically they dont care about being polite... but looks like because I'm a man it´s bad.
MEN WE DESERVE SAME RESPECT. AND I DIDNT SEE ANY WOMAN COMPLAINT ABOUT WOMEN ATTITUDE.
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Yes those are preferences I prefer as a fatty to meet slim/athletic/muscular men because that is the type of guy I am attracted to and for the most part they are not condescending like u. I read ur profile which I struggled to as the words being missed out made it hard to read maybe u need to work on that part also women read profiles to see if they are compatible with the sender and if there are no public pics they probably won't bother with ur profile |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"I've seen many profiles.
No bald guys , it's not offensive ? Just muscular guys ? it is not offensive to guys are just normal?
No short guys , at least over 5.9 feet this is not offensive to short guys ?
Just BBC , just black guys ... should be racist ? XDD
It's choices... just my choice.
Women are not polite in general, I could say more than half of women they already know they are in a position that they dont have to be polite,empathic or whatever of these values you are mentioned. They dont care about respect. Ask men here...;)
It is not offensive fatty girls asking for muscular guys? You possibly you can get my point.
Women here they can get what they want and basically they dont care about being polite... but looks like because I'm a man it´s bad.
MEN WE DESERVE SAME RESPECT. AND I DIDNT SEE ANY WOMAN COMPLAINT ABOUT WOMEN ATTITUDE.
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My friend it's all about how you phrase what you say. Also you might want to look into the etiquette of digital communication. Typing in all uppercase letters is considered shouting which is frowned upon as its indicating aggression.
Have a nice day. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I've seen many profiles.
No bald guys , it's not offensive ? Just muscular guys ? it is not offensive to guys are just normal?
No short guys , at least over 5.9 feet this is not offensive to short guys ?
Just BBC , just black guys ... should be racist ? XDD
It's choices... just my choice.
Women are not polite in general, I could say more than half of women they already know they are in a position that they dont have to be polite,empathic or whatever of these values you are mentioned. They dont care about respect. Ask men here...;)
It is not offensive fatty girls asking for muscular guys? You possibly you can get my point.
Women here they can get what they want and basically they dont care about being polite... but looks like because I'm a man it´s bad.
MEN WE DESERVE SAME RESPECT. AND I DIDNT SEE ANY WOMAN COMPLAINT ABOUT WOMEN ATTITUDE.
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DUDE... seriously, do you need a spade to dig that hole a bit deeper??!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks I deserve your help. Im going to take all tips and I will do my best try.  "
Mate, you don't "Deserve" anything.
People will help you if they think that you will help yourself after they take time to offer you advice.
If you don't bother taking the time to at least consider following the advice of considerablly more experienced people here then your going to get absolutely nowhere. |
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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago
marlow |
"This whole thread has made my day so much better right im off to rim a bath
This thread made me chuckle but not sure I want to go rim a bath.......
What do they say? Dont knock it till you try it? Lol "
Fair point |
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"This whole thread has made my day so much better right im off to rim a bath
This thread made me chuckle but not sure I want to go rim a bath.......
What do they say? Dont knock it till you try it? Lol
Fair point "
You have to be my friend on here to see my point......;-) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn´t get any advice or tips recently just being attacked, insulted, ridiculed because I've said.. fat... when women (not all) they are very unrespectful with men with the position they have here.
Fat? Overweight? It's a description it's not an insult.
I'm not going to reply any more comments about fat girls. I got many offensive comments to me unnecessarily. (Even someone created a fake profile to try to talk to me I'm guessing with not good intentions )
Many people here repeating the same stuff.. like a Mantra ...I dont have good manners or I'm agressive.. one of them because Ive used capital letters... I used capital letters to say thanks in other message in capital letters ... but doesnt matter. I did to split different issues but not, it´s because I'm agressive isnt it ? XD
I've changed my profile and my status. I will upload more pics in my profile maybe doing wearing in shirt or being doing any of these activicties I like to do( Thanks for this advice )
This my profile updated. If someone has any tip or advice welcome.
I KNOW WHAT I WANT, OR AT LEAST PRETTY SURE WHAT I DON´T.
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*Open minded guy, fit and with a good of sense of humour.
*No strings (If you have it´s your business )
*Open to try new experiences in a good company , maybe swinger club? maybe outdoor in summer? public place?
*Good vibes seeker.
*Spiritual&Creative.
*Always play safe.
*No time wasters please,if you "don´t know " or if you are not meeting at the moment, or even you push to take drugs, move on.
*Heels, body fishnet, sexy lingerie get extra points.
*I'm keen to know a bit who you are in a social meet before bite u
*I can accomodate sometimes.
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I'm open to get any partner in crime to try new things or just chill out with a glass of wine and good sex. No dramas please. Hakuna Matata. I prefer someone according with my lifestyle. I'm active person, climbing, dancing or gym make feel alive and full energy so you have to be fit. No smokers. Not fat girls.
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I’m guessing that part of the issue with the OPs grammar is that English isn’t his first language, so he’s just communicating in the best way he can (but I’m sure he’ll correct me if I’m wrong)
Now I obviously haven’t seen the fatty status, so can’t comment on it but, as a fat woman myself, I don’t mind people calling me fat, it’s a descriptive word for just what I am
The profile as it is now, is a bit generic with the I want/don’t want list, but if you’re happy with it that’s all that matters. No matter how you change your profile OP you still won’t be for everyone. The biggest issue here is that there’s and abundance of men in comparison to very few ladies/couples, so be patient and keep trying
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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago
marlow |
"This whole thread has made my day so much better right im off to rim a bath
This thread made me chuckle but not sure I want to go rim a bath.......
What do they say? Dont knock it till you try it? Lol
Fair point
You have to be my friend on here to see my point......;-)"
Ok  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m a bit confused as it says will meet smokers and at the end not smokers. You need to make your mind up........"
Honestly I wasn´t clear at all this is true. Because I have been smoking during many years. In a sporadic meeting maybe don´t care about or innocent joint... but not for a partner in crime. I've changed this point anyway, thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m guessing that part of the issue with the OPs grammar is that English isn’t his first language, so he’s just communicating in the best way he can (but I’m sure he’ll correct me if I’m wrong)
Now I obviously haven’t seen the fatty status, so can’t comment on it but, as a fat woman myself, I don’t mind people calling me fat, it’s a descriptive word for just what I am
The profile as it is now, is a bit generic with the I want/don’t want list, but if you’re happy with it that’s all that matters. No matter how you change your profile OP you still won’t be for everyone. The biggest issue here is that there’s and abundance of men in comparison to very few ladies/couples, so be patient and keep trying
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Thanks my love. You are right,I'm not native and even I don´t know what OP mean... XD I'm trying to express myself as the best way as possible.
I didn´t call fat to anyone here, it was something generic what I said... but many people take personally and you can see by yourself.
Yeah. Keep trying. Kaizen. Thanks |
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"Honestly... I consider my profile quite good. But I should be wrong. I've texted several ladies that maybe some reply but keep me holding...players...ego needed.. To me Tinder works better than this site. But...if I wanna swinger stuff you can be weirdo there. Because my lack of marketing many girls are not taking my good sex. Help them helping me. :P
So the point to me it is to learn the "rules" how to play here.
I will be very thankful if I get some good tips. Thanks in advance. "
First off, have some common sense. This is a hookup site. Theres actually 150 men to One women, meaning women here can be excrutiating picky. Plus impossible to read 100plus emails, so PICS HELP!! also your profile seems to focus on all about you, it really needs to be rewritten to ALL ABOUT HER. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you very much. I've read your message now. I rewrote all my profile. I got a few pics but looks not enough.. Anyway I will upload some pics soon. At the moment I'm relaxed anyway. I have been frustated after being ignored but ... this is life. If want something better I'm not going to complaint.. I will try to be better as I can at the moment . Thank you anyway for your time. Take care. |
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Well all I can now say is
texto Sabio es una mejora masiva, por lo que espero que su experiencia aquí mejore, para que pueda volver a disfrutar de la vida
Hope that made sense my Spanish is a bit rusty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly... I consider my profile quite good. But I should be wrong. I've texted several ladies that maybe some reply but keep me holding...players...ego needed.. To me Tinder works better than this site. But...if I wanna swinger stuff you can be weirdo there. Because my lack of marketing many girls are not taking my good sex. Help them helping me. :P
So the point to me it is to learn the "rules" how to play here.
I will be very thankful if I get some good tips. Thanks in advance. "
read the information you type before you send it if you cant make sense of it yourself how can we |
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