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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it? "
It should be yes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off
Use reply in forum+quote under the post you're replying to, we'll know who you're talking to then  "
Just dawned on me I should have done that... Oops rookie mistake |
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off
Use reply in forum+quote under the post you're replying to, we'll know who you're talking to then
Just dawned on me I should have done that... Oops rookie mistake "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it?
Not for everyone."
Mutual orgasms should hopefully come into at some point |
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it?
Not for everyone.
Mutual orgasms should hopefully come into at some point "
It doesn't always have to be women first though. Mutual pleasure, I agree. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it?
Not for everyone.
Mutual orgasms should hopefully come into at some point
It doesn't always have to be women first though. Mutual pleasure, I agree. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always I get so turned on knowing I’m making them cum and feeling it run down my balls as I fuck them mmm so horny
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I'd have thought that would be the case too... Perhaps some dont want to put in the effort like your good self |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So who are you replying to lol x
My reply to your post was the Brucey bonus one lol
Ok thank you, thought I was going mad and a deformed Bruce's bonus lol x"
No definitely not deformed lol xx |
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same."
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cumming together is heaven xx mmmmmmmm
Been elusive to me so far, well with intercourse anyway  "
Me too. I think that's a couples thing. I, and nice guy, always finish last.
If at all.  |
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards "
One is all I can manage. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cumming together is heaven xx mmmmmmmm
Been elusive to me so far, well with intercourse anyway
Me too. I think that's a couples thing. I, and nice guy, always finish last.
If at all. "
I'd hope both would finish |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think I've met anyone who has orgasmed before me. The poor bastards.....sometimes it takes me ages  "
Only takes me minutes when i do it myself  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards
One is all I can manage. "
one for me too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards "
jammy sods lol x |
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards
One is all I can manage. "
Then I hope it’s a damn good one x |
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards
One is all I can manage. one for me too "
I'm more than happy with that.
I don't usually cum with casual partners anyway so if a guy was waiting for me he'd be there a loooong time  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards
One is all I can manage.
Then I hope it’s a damn good one x"
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards
One is all I can manage.
Then I hope it’s a damn good one x"
Oh, it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cumming together is heaven xx mmmmmmmm
Been elusive to me so far, well with intercourse anyway
Me too. I think that's a couples thing. I, and nice guy, always finish last.
If at all.
I'd hope both would finish"
Would be ideal. But takes me a long old while. (Really not bragging, it's a fucking curse).  |
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I’d prefer it if men didn’t make it their mission and think that forcing me to cum first is somehow good manners or places them in some sort of position of talented being.
If it happens, great but it puts as much pressure on me to cum as it does on a man not to.
Can’t we just enjoy devouring each other? |
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By *bernathCouple
over a year ago
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? "
True, if you are not going to do something well, do it. If not, do not do it at all.
I am sure many people will agree. |
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By *bernathCouple
over a year ago
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"I’d prefer it if men didn’t make it their mission and think that forcing me to cum first is somehow good manners or places them in some sort of position of talented being.
If it happens, great but it puts as much pressure on me to cum as it does on a man not to.
Can’t we just enjoy devouring each other?"
Mutual satisfaction is where we are going, just a question of who leads the dance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? "
I like to lick n suck until a woman’s cum, then fuck her straight after and we both come together second time. |
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
I like to lick n suck until a woman’s cum, then fuck her straight after and we both come together second time. "
What if she doesn’t want that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't put them under pressure, I never actually say to them they have to, it's nice if a lady cums but I know there are some who struggle but enjoy it just as much without cumming |
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"I don't put them under pressure, I never actually say to them they have to, it's nice if a lady cums but I know there are some who struggle but enjoy it just as much without cumming "
You just said the lady has to cum first. Have you considered the implications of that? |
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?  always "
Really? Huge pressure to put a woman under, especially those that don’t cum, can’t cum under pressure, wants to cum at another point or only cums once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't put them under pressure, I never actually say to them they have to, it's nice if a lady cums but I know there are some who struggle but enjoy it just as much without cumming
You just said the lady has to cum first. Have you considered the implications of that?"
I have considered that the word "has" was perhaps the wrong choice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always I get so turned on knowing I’m making them cum and feeling it run down my balls as I fuck them mmm so horny
I'd have thought that would be the case too... Perhaps some dont want to put in the effort like your good self "
Well more fool them |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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If a woman can climax through penetrative sex, then I would like to think i do let her cum first, because there are a lot of woman who can't.
Saying that I've had two exes. Where it was a race for me to cum before them, because if they came first.
That was it. I would hear
GET OFF! DON'T TOUCH ME |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
I like to lick n suck until a woman’s cum, then fuck her straight after and we both come together second time.
What if she doesn’t want that?"
Well then she would get what she wants instead. I Can’t outline every single possibility in one post x |
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Gentlemen, please stop stressing about helping a woman cum before you do. You can't "make" her and many of us will find it much more difficult if we feel that's a guy's aim. Also some of us don't want to be touched for a while afterwards. The best thing to do is find out what the woman you're with (we're individuals doncha know ) prefers and aim for mutual pleasure. |
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"Height of bad manners if you ask me"
What a crock of shit. It’s the hight of ignorance to assume we are not in control of our own orgasms and it’s some sort of weird and false gentlemanly thing to do.
What if I want you to come first? Shall I force and make you cum? How much pressure shall I put you under before you go droopy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always thought at the same time being best but I know that is very very rare! Hate being first and even worse if it's quick, luckily that's rare for me now and if it does I'm not that bothered as I love second rounds, love it when she has more than one as her pleasure is four fifths of mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off
I've found that too "
Am more than a little shocked to hear so much of this. Seeing women orgasm is incredible. I thought that was hard wired in men like competitiveness and farting in the car. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's threads like this that makes me wonder if some men really know what a female orgasm is. Claiming to make women have multiple orgasms before getting their dick wet; when you consider how many women struggle to orgasm either in general or with new/casual partners or one is genuinely enough. I do not orgasm with other men on meets, I do not need an orgasm to enjoy sex, neither do I feel cheated for not orgasming.
The one thing guaranteed to make me not orgasm is a man telling me I am.
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"It's threads like this that makes me wonder if some men really know what a female orgasm is. Claiming to make women have multiple orgasms before getting their dick wet; when you consider how many women struggle to orgasm either in general or with new/casual partners or one is genuinely enough. I do not orgasm with other men on meets, I do not need an orgasm to enjoy sex, neither do I feel cheated for not orgasming.
The one thing guaranteed to make me not orgasm is a man telling me I am.
Ginger "
I agree. Ms |
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"I guess it's down to personal ability.
I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum.  "
So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it's down to personal ability.
I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum.
So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal?"
They don't have to, no one has to do anything. However, I wouldn't want them to feel like I've just got my own pleasure out of it. It's important to both enjoy yourselves in my opinion. |
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"I guess it's down to personal ability.
I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum.
So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal?
They don't have to, no one has to do anything. However, I wouldn't want them to feel like I've just got my own pleasure out of it. It's important to both enjoy yourselves in my opinion."
You said always. Why is cumming such a goal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it's down to personal ability.
I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum.
So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal?
They don't have to, no one has to do anything. However, I wouldn't want them to feel like I've just got my own pleasure out of it. It's important to both enjoy yourselves in my opinion.
You said always. Why is cumming such a goal? "
I do apologise, I thought I said "always try".
Because you it's such a good feeling. Again, if you both enjoy yourselves then nothing else matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This post is one of the reasons why where possible I like getting to know partners first or having repeat meets.
I think most men try as much as possible to have the woman cum first because they think its expected of them.
If you've gotten to know each other a little bit then you might know what she likes and if that's the case with her.
Just another case of one size not fitting everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same."
So once they've cum inside you, how do you like the guy to make you orgasm? |
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
So once they've cum inside you, how do you like the guy to make you orgasm?"
That would be between me and the person I was with |
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Yep, it's important me that the ladies pleasure comes first.
Usually then mine can be a bit of a wham bang....
Is love to be able to cum first and then get back to it like I could a few years ago...
Sadly time is catching me a bit... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? "
In my bf's case....100% true
In fact sometimes he wont even let me get my hands on him...can be frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
True in my case as my recovery time is long. Love the lady to have two or three orgasms before my one x"
Thats very gentlemanly of you ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
In my bf's case....100% true
In fact sometimes he wont even let me get my hands on him...can be frustrating "
Oh I can imagine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yep, it's important me that the ladies pleasure comes first.
Usually then mine can be a bit of a wham bang....
Is love to be able to cum first and then get back to it like I could a few years ago...
Sadly time is catching me a bit... "
It cums to us all eventually lol |
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By *adrMan
over a year ago
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards
One is all I can manage. one for me too
I'm more than happy with that.
I don't usually cum with casual partners anyway so if a guy was waiting for me he'd be there a loooong time "
INterested that you don't usually cum with casual partners. Deliberately, or because you don't get excited enough with them, or ....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? "
Absolutely true!! The ladies dont get penetration until they have gushed for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? "
I thought that was the aim in sex, you try to make the other person come first to win the sex. |
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
I thought that was the aim in sex, you try to make the other person come first to win the sex. "
I thought the aim of sex was to have an amazing, hot and horny time with each other not goal scoring. |
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By *ur1ou2Man
over a year ago
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Feminists would argue that their Orgasm is NOT a mans responsibility - but as a Gentleman I think it’s only right and proper that the Lady’s needs cum first - and given that - in the right circumstances she can have 2 or 3 to my 1 - so everyone is a winner!!
However - as we have seen on here - it’s not only men who can lose interest when they have got their rocks off - so there should be lots of non verbal communication going on to Guate what is ‘right’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth?
I thought that was the aim in sex, you try to make the other person come first to win the sex.
I thought the aim of sex was to have an amazing, hot and horny time with each other not goal scoring. "
Goal scoring is hot. Teasing, seeing what faces the other person makes when you go to deep, when you go slow, when you touch over there or here. What sounds do they make. Its all part of the game, to achieve victory, one must study your opponent to make the right moves when needed.  |
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise.
I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same.
Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards
One is all I can manage. one for me too
I'm more than happy with that.
I don't usually cum with casual partners anyway so if a guy was waiting for me he'd be there a loooong time INterested that you don't usually cum with casual partners. Deliberately, or because you don't get excited enough with them, or ....?"
Because I need to know someone well and they need to know me well and for me that won't happen with a person I've only met a couple of times. It's not deliberate and its got nothing to do with levels of arousal neither does it mean that I don't find the whole encounter deeply satisfying.
For me its more about the journey than the destination but it's extremely difficult to find men who feel the same way. That isn't a criticism of them, we're all different. |
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"Feminists would argue that their Orgasm is NOT a mans responsibility - but as a Gentleman I think it’s only right and proper that the Lady’s needs cum first - and given that - in the right circumstances she can have 2 or 3 to my 1 - so everyone is a winner!!
However - as we have seen on here - it’s not only men who can lose interest when they have got their rocks off - so there should be lots of non verbal communication going on to Guate what is ‘right’"
What has feminism and being a gentleman got to do with orgasms?!
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By *adrMan
over a year ago
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me "
I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself, |
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me
I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself,"
Speaking as a woman I think it's both partners responsibility to ensure they both enjoy themselves |
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By *adrMan
over a year ago
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me
I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself,
Speaking as a woman I think it's both partners responsibility to ensure they both enjoy themselves"
Yes, true, BUT the man can spoil the opportunity if he cums quickly |
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me
I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself,
Speaking as a woman I think it's both partners responsibility to ensure they both enjoy themselves
Yes, true, BUT the man can spoil the opportunity if he cums quickly "
Oh, that's never been my experience. If they cum quickly they have either ensured I'm happy or I ensure it myself . |
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I have the most off the scale, horny fwb and she cums 20 - 30 times in a session. I am sure that it's the way she is made rather than my sexual prowess - but it does make me feel like a sex god when I am with her. |
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