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General profile advice (no luck/ what's wrong etc)
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"Thanks for advice i was beginning to think it was hopeless on here??" It's a tough gig for guys on here, but honestly, you only get out what you put in. | |||
"Thanks for advice i was beginning to think it was hopeless on here?? It's a tough gig for guys on here, but honestly, you only get out what you put in." No pun intended? | |||
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"Now whatever you do, don't disagree with her haha That's not allowed on this forum " I'm not sure that's desperately helpful. | |||
"Now whatever you do, don't disagree with her haha That's not allowed on this forum I'm not sure that's desperately helpful. " No I'm just being silly...it's good advice really x | |||
"I'm not looking for advice on my profile. I'm writing this as something to guide other people to about theirs, because nine times out of ten the problems are similar or identical. Does your profile sell the best version of you? Look from the position of someone who wants to meet you: why would he/ she/ they want to meet you rather than someone else? What's in it for them? Are you only talking about what you want? Might that make you sound selfish? What makes you different? Most profiles are a dime a dozen. Make yours interesting and unique. No really, spend some time thinking about it, it's not a two minute job. Are your pictures enticing to the people you're looking for? (while different people like different things, lots of genital shots and action shots do put people off, so proceed with caution) Show off your body, it doesn't have to be face or genitals. Legal disclaimers: waste of time, make you look gullible, worthless, get rid of them. If your interests or age range are niche or limited, that may make things harder to find. Age, gender, and ethnicity preferences are not up for discussion. Respect people's right to like what they like. If you're finding it hard to break in because you're not meet/ cam (tick) verified, get cam verified or go to a club or social. Meeting otherwise is possible, but it's going to be much harder. (The tick isn't an entry point to endless sex, either, although it does make it easier) Read profiles and be respectful of wishes in messages. If you don't like what people are asking for (face pictures, particular subject lines), don't message them. Delete means no, it's not rude. Blocks are final." Just one thing to add, there is no shortcut or formula for success, you trying and you will meet, but in this process keep head cool and calm and no abuse is you are rejected. | |||
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"Now whatever you do, don't disagree with her haha That's not allowed on this forum "  | |||
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"Can someone take a look at my profile and give me some advice " 'My' profile?, 'I' prefer? You are supposed to be a couple. The only thing your profile tells me is that you sound fake. You need to work on all aspects of it and get verified. There are plenty of threads out there on general profile advice so do a search. | |||
"Can someone take a look at my profile and give me some advice 'My' profile?, 'I' prefer? You are supposed to be a couple. The only thing your profile tells me is that you sound fake. You need to work on all aspects of it and get verified. There are plenty of threads out there on general profile advice so do a search. " That and the very first post applies! | |||
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"Do what any guy can... Hit the gym. Buy so.e.decent clothes and make yourself look as good as you can. Also don't be an arsehole" The first bit isn't going to suit everyone. Different people like different things and not everyone's out to be a gym rat. The last bit... absolutely. | |||
"Do what any guy can... Hit the gym. Buy so.e.decent clothes and make yourself look as good as you can. Also don't be an arsehole The first bit isn't going to suit everyone. Different people like different things and not everyone's out to be a gym rat. The last bit... absolutely. " Ok buts its playing the percentages, there are more than enough women who loves gym rats x | |||
"Do what any guy can... Hit the gym. Buy so.e.decent clothes and make yourself look as good as you can. Also don't be an arsehole The first bit isn't going to suit everyone. Different people like different things and not everyone's out to be a gym rat. The last bit... absolutely. Ok buts its playing the percentages, there are more than enough women who loves gym rats x" Maybe! But it's miserable to keep up if you don't enjoy it, and other women find gym rats intimidating. I'm all for selling who *you* are. | |||
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"Good write up, but pics need improvement I see dullness (personal view), hope that helps" How so? | |||
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"I'm not looking for advice on my profile. I'm writing this as something to guide other people to about theirs, because nine times out of ten the problems are similar or identical. Does your profile sell the best version of you? Look from the position of someone who wants to meet you: why would he/ she/ they want to meet you rather than someone else? What's in it for them? Are you only talking about what you want? Might that make you sound selfish? What makes you different? Most profiles are a dime a dozen. Make yours interesting and unique. No really, spend some time thinking about it, it's not a two minute job. Are your pictures enticing to the people you're looking for? (while different people like different things, lots of genital shots and action shots do put people off, so proceed with caution) Show off your body, it doesn't have to be face or genitals. Legal disclaimers: waste of time, make you look gullible, worthless, get rid of them. If your interests or age range are niche or limited, that may make things harder to find. Age, gender, and ethnicity preferences are not up for discussion. Respect people's right to like what they like. If you're finding it hard to break in because you're not meet/ cam (tick) verified, get cam verified or go to a club or social. Meeting otherwise is possible, but it's going to be much harder. (The tick isn't an entry point to endless sex, either, although it does make it easier) Read profiles and be respectful of wishes in messages. If you don't like what people are asking for (face pictures, particular subject lines), don't message them. Delete means no, it's not rude. Blocks are final." . I really admire the effort and thought you put into this OP. I think that's the heart of fab offering good sound advice is priceless. | |||
"I'm not looking for advice on my profile. I'm writing this as something to guide other people to about theirs, because nine times out of ten the problems are similar or identical. Does your profile sell the best version of you? Look from the position of someone who wants to meet you: why would he/ she/ they want to meet you rather than someone else? What's in it for them? Are you only talking about what you want? Might that make you sound selfish? What makes you different? Most profiles are a dime a dozen. Make yours interesting and unique. No really, spend some time thinking about it, it's not a two minute job. Are your pictures enticing to the people you're looking for? (while different people like different things, lots of genital shots and action shots do put people off, so proceed with caution) Show off your body, it doesn't have to be face or genitals. Legal disclaimers: waste of time, make you look gullible, worthless, get rid of them. If your interests or age range are niche or limited, that may make things harder to find. Age, gender, and ethnicity preferences are not up for discussion. Respect people's right to like what they like. If you're finding it hard to break in because you're not meet/ cam (tick) verified, get cam verified or go to a club or social. Meeting otherwise is possible, but it's going to be much harder. (The tick isn't an entry point to endless sex, either, although it does make it easier) Read profiles and be respectful of wishes in messages. If you don't like what people are asking for (face pictures, particular subject lines), don't message them. Delete means no, it's not rude. Blocks are final." Preach. *goes off to rewrite profile | |||
"I'm not looking for advice on my profile. I'm writing this as something to guide other people to about theirs, because nine times out of ten the problems are similar or identical. Does your profile sell the best version of you? Look from the position of someone who wants to meet you: why would he/ she/ they want to meet you rather than someone else? What's in it for them? Are you only talking about what you want? Might that make you sound selfish? What makes you different? Most profiles are a dime a dozen. Make yours interesting and unique. No really, spend some time thinking about it, it's not a two minute job. Are your pictures enticing to the people you're looking for? (while different people like different things, lots of genital shots and action shots do put people off, so proceed with caution) Show off your body, it doesn't have to be face or genitals. Legal disclaimers: waste of time, make you look gullible, worthless, get rid of them. If your interests or age range are niche or limited, that may make things harder to find. Age, gender, and ethnicity preferences are not up for discussion. Respect people's right to like what they like. If you're finding it hard to break in because you're not meet/ cam (tick) verified, get cam verified or go to a club or social. Meeting otherwise is possible, but it's going to be much harder. (The tick isn't an entry point to endless sex, either, although it does make it easier) Read profiles and be respectful of wishes in messages. If you don't like what people are asking for (face pictures, particular subject lines), don't message them. Delete means no, it's not rude. Blocks are final." Thanks for this really helpful advice. I've spent quite a while on my profile but I'll go back and review with this info in mind! | |||
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"Not for me personally but your profile doesn't need work it's great" Thanks for the feedback but who's it in response to? | |||
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"Thanks for advice i was beginning to think it was hopeless on here?? It's a tough gig for guys on here, but honestly, you only get out what you put in." Honestly, hitting a club is the best way for a guy to get somewhere. | |||
"Thanks for advice i was beginning to think it was hopeless on here?? It's a tough gig for guys on here, but honestly, you only get out what you put in. Honestly, hitting a club is the best way for a guy to get somewhere." Not for everyone... I had quite a few meets before I got the club's. In the real world I can be a bit shy. Online I can be a gobshite.... | |||
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