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By *omicNerd OP Man
over a year ago
Northallerton |
Hi all,
I keep writing my profile and to me it seems okay, there isn't anything negative on it. I don't have many rude photos, maybe one and people seem to delete messages.
My photos once I can smile probably need updating as I have recently had surgery on my nose (smiling is a tad painful)
I think my other problem is making contact, I think I am to polite with "hi, how are you?" yet in the same breath I'm not kind of person to jump in and send "fancy meeting up". I like to chat before hand.
Hope you fabbers can help me  |
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I know it's difficult but you need to be more imaginative with a first message. Women get loads of messages saying "hi, how are you"? every day and usually never bother to reply.
I hope you are pleased with your nose surgery and wish you success on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mention something in the profile that stood out to you when you message them. Not just about photos lol. But if there is something there you like it can spark up a conversation
Good luck and have fun |
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I like your profile and pictures, only slight issue is the bite comment, I hate that, but that's a personal thing.
Often what is lacking in a profile is the personality of that person, so offering a before and after of your nose, is actually quite endearing
I like your username as well, immediately attractive to someone who has a common interest.
I doubt you want to meet a 99 year old, maybe change the age, but apart from that.  |
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By *omicNerd OP Man
over a year ago
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"I like your profile and pictures, only slight issue is the bite comment, I hate that, but that's a personal thing.
Often what is lacking in a profile is the personality of that person, so offering a before and after of your nose, is actually quite endearing
I like your username as well, immediately attractive to someone who has a common interest.
I doubt you want to meet a 99 year old, maybe change the age, but apart from that. "
Shall take that bit out and change age range. I've not actually seen a 99 year old here yet  |
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By *omicNerd OP Man
over a year ago
Northallerton |
"Nobody has told you to go to a club yet thats a surprise! "
I would like to, but think going alone I would find it awkward. Prefer to go with someone who been before. Yeah I know not been able to accomdate is an issue, seems most can't...student loan to pay off, cheaper to live at home to pay it all off annoyingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nobody has told you to go to a club yet thats a surprise!
I would like to, but think going alone I would find it awkward. Prefer to go with someone who been before. Yeah I know not been able to accomdate is an issue, seems most can't...student loan to pay off, cheaper to live at home to pay it all off annoyingly."
Most can't because their Mrs would batter them  |
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"Im shocked nobody has told you to go to a club!
No one has invited me, I would be to nervous and anxious to go on my own lol. "
Imagine that your invisible (it works).
Adventure only exists outside of your comfort zone |
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"I have a boring profile but it works for me ??
Fairplay.. 1 coffee seven months ago, You must be proud. "
No, it means that the first time they met was socially for coffee. She does not need to write a report each time she sees him. |
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"I know it's difficult but you need to be more imaginative with a first message. Women get loads of messages saying "hi, how are you"? every day and usually never bother to reply.
I hope you are pleased with your nose surgery and wish you success on here. "
If you don’t mind and i apologise for asking , What actually means more imaginative, can u give a short example pls? |
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By *omicNerd OP Man
over a year ago
Northallerton |
Afternoon all, it has been a while since I hsve needed to revive this thred for profile help.
I love writing to people and always pick out something on their profile that catches my eye, maybe its something they are interested in, or I have spotted something in their photos but alot of the time my messages are just deleted with no reply, I underatand I may not be everyones cup of tea, but what happened to just good old fashioned chatting?
I just wondered if any of you delightful people could suggest some tweaks/edits for me. |
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