"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx"
I'm not actually a unicorn, but have been approached by couples.
#1 turnoffs
--fancy a fuck messages
--NO personality, messages could've been written by a robot
--man sends message, saying partner is up for x, y, z. No proof.
---woman sends message, and is boring as fuck
I am a straight woman, with no intention of meeting couples (however, women tend to be fluid in their sexuality, I'd consider meeting a couple if they interested me!).
SO--my advice is:
be friendly and personable, go for friendly first and leave sexual for later.
Some women DO like an upfront approach, but most I've known prefer the friendly start.
Take it slow and go from there.
Patience and good luck!
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A decent profile would be a good start. One with pics of both of you together. And a good bio, as the one you have on now, with a pointless warning, tells me nothing about you.
Last but not least- you are looking for the rarest category on Fab, bisexual women who play with couples.
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"A decent profile would be a good start. One with pics of both of you together. And a good bio, as the one you have on now, with a pointless warning, tells me nothing about you.
Last but not least- you are looking for the rarest category on Fab, bisexual women who play with couples.
Good luck. "
Agree with this. A much better profile that tells more about yourselves and what you can bring to the table for a meet, will increase your chances of finding a single bi woman.
A one line profile with a huge legal warning paragraph with 2 uninteresting pictures would not be very appealing, as it shows no effort to some people.
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"Never worked out what a unicorn is!!
I do believe it is a new type of dildo. Think I seen one on lovehoney website or it may have been some other sex toy website."
Just seen it... Erm i think i pass on it. Looks painful |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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"Never worked out what a unicorn is!!
I do believe it is a new type of dildo. Think I seen one on lovehoney website or it may have been some other sex toy website.
Just seen it... Erm i think i pass on it. Looks painful "
But you must admit that it looks interesting very different from the normal dildos. Maybe ok if you find one at a size you like hahaha
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I like being called a unicorn.
What I do not like is couples messaging:
I want to treat my boyfriend
Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa
I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me
We are soft swap.
The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift 
I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else. |
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"A unicorn is a women looking for a couple xxx
And most of them prefer not to be called unicorns.
I'm treating hubby to ffm in a few weeks.  "
It's not treat in that sense. He's just looking forward to it. Agreed, everyone has to be involved.
We are actually quite lucky and have experienced ffm quite a few times |
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"I like being called a unicorn.
What I do not like is couples messaging:
I want to treat my boyfriend
Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa
I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me
We are soft swap.
The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift
I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."
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"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx"
Don't call them unicorns for a start maybe? At least not to their faces.
You cant approach this sort of thing from your own personal desires prospective. You have to consider what she wants as well.
Firstly, if a woman is looking for a couple then more often than not she wants to play with the couple. Not one whilst the other watches. Secondly she's also not going to take kindly to be called "a treat" for someones husband or wife. It's as much about her pleasure as yours. Lastly, don't expect a woman to just fall into your lap. Single women on this site are bombarded with messages and get their pick of whoever they want. You need to stand out and catch her eye.
Personally for us, we've never met a single lady directly through messaging on the site. It's usually been via a party, club, large social event or just part of a couple we've met before playing solo (with permission of course) and then they got in touch through the site. We don't do 3somes often but are enjoying them more lately.
So...since you're so new to this, from a seasoned pair who've been at it all for 24 years, maybe change your profile a bit, make sure you read the profile of who you are messaging and try to stand out when you do message them based on whatever is in their profile and compatibility to what you two are into.
If that fails, got to a local social event, a club or a party. Do your research and see what your options are.
Plus...get properly verified. A lot of single women (at least with the ones we know) do not trust accounts that are only photo verified as photos can be faked and the site does have it's share of wannabe's, dreamers and catfishers. Pop on the webcams and get at least a cam verification and display it on your profile.
The more effort you put in, the greater your chances will be.
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Very hard to achieve. Ladies to play with couples are in heavy demand and there are not many of them. Club will give you the best chance. We are looking... |
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"I like being called a unicorn.
What I do not like is couples messaging:
I want to treat my boyfriend
Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa
I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me
We are soft swap.
The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift
I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."
Hi - we're a couple in Derby looking for a long term partner or playmate, we're ALL about equality of all kinds - would lvoe to chat either if you're interested or if you can help us meet like minded folk nearby? |
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"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx
Don't call them unicorns for a start maybe? At least not to their faces.
You cant approach this sort of thing from your own personal desires prospective. You have to consider what she wants as well.
Firstly, if a woman is looking for a couple then more often than not she wants to play with the couple. Not one whilst the other watches. Secondly she's also not going to take kindly to be called "a treat" for someones husband or wife. It's as much about her pleasure as yours. Lastly, don't expect a woman to just fall into your lap. Single women on this site are bombarded with messages and get their pick of whoever they want. You need to stand out and catch her eye.
Personally for us, we've never met a single lady directly through messaging on the site. It's usually been via a party, club, large social event or just part of a couple we've met before playing solo (with permission of course) and then they got in touch through the site. We don't do 3somes often but are enjoying them more lately.
So...since you're so new to this, from a seasoned pair who've been at it all for 24 years, maybe change your profile a bit, make sure you read the profile of who you are messaging and try to stand out when you do message them based on whatever is in their profile and compatibility to what you two are into.
If that fails, got to a local social event, a club or a party. Do your research and see what your options are.
Plus...get properly verified. A lot of single women (at least with the ones we know) do not trust accounts that are only photo verified as photos can be faked and the site does have it's share of wannabe's, dreamers and catfishers. Pop on the webcams and get at least a cam verification and display it on your profile.
The more effort you put in, the greater your chances will be.
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I got shot down for having cam verifications. No idea why!  |
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All the 'unicorns' we have had, have come through vanilla life.
Our latest is with a girl my wife used to work with.
They kind of flirted with eachother. Used to go out dancing, driving and things went from there.
There must be someone close you'd both like to be with-she doesn't need to think your swingers either. Ours doesn't |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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You often have better luck finding a couple where the woman plays alone as well, it’s very common , the women are often more into meets / sex than the guys. Get to know them well as a couple then male the offer |
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The whole "Unicorn" thing is a bit of a myth.
I think the first mistake you make is calling them that, sounds like a trophy hunt.
They are people, not something to be ticked off a list.
Go to any gathering of swingers, like an organised social, and most of the single ladies there will be bi, or curious.
We make friends, and sometimes we are lucky enough to play with our friends, and if it so happens that they are single, female, and bi, then that's great, but we don't label them. |
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As has been said a few times, clubs and organised socials will help a lot. I've no idea on the club scene in your area, but I'm sure you can search through. The other important point... what can you offer them in terms of fun. In my experience everyone is on here to enjoy themselves, not for your enjoyment only. There are lots of bi fems that enjoy playing with couples |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Agree with those that have said try socials & clubs. All couples I've played with I have met in this way or through mutual friends, as a single female I find it safer that way (or certainly less risky than meeting totally unknown people via this site) . |
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"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx"
If you find one, don't kill it whatever you do. It was nearly the end of Arthur. |
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"I like being called a unicorn.
What I do not like is couples messaging:
I want to treat my boyfriend
Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa
I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me
We are soft swap.
The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift
I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."
We are struggling to find a single female  definitely no treats here other than both of us wanting her.
In an ideal world we would want all 3 of us involved as much as the others.
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"I like being called a unicorn.
What I do not like is couples messaging:
I want to treat my boyfriend
Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa
I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me
We are soft swap.
The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift
I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."
Yes!!!
I am sick of messages like this! |
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"I like being called a unicorn.
What I do not like is couples messaging:
I want to treat my boyfriend
Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa
I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me
We are soft swap.
The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift
I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else.
Yes!!!
I am sick of messages like this! "
See we are soft swap... But there will be no mr just watching... And definitely not a treat for him, as we both want to play... I was a unicorn on fab before meeting Mr, and the best 3somes I had were tactile, intimate, and focused on me as a unicorn... They were great. If we are lucky enough to meet a lady who wants to join Mr amd I, I want to make her feel appreciated, feel like the most important person in the room, where Mr and I both spoil her. Her pleasure. Having a laugh and a giggle along the way too would be fantastic.
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"I like being called a unicorn.
What I do not like is couples messaging:
I want to treat my boyfriend
Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa
I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me
We are soft swap.
The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift
I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else.
Yes!!!
I am sick of messages like this!
See we are soft swap... But there will be no mr just watching... And definitely not a treat for him, as we both want to play... I was a unicorn on fab before meeting Mr, and the best 3somes I had were tactile, intimate, and focused on me as a unicorn... They were great. If we are lucky enough to meet a lady who wants to join Mr amd I, I want to make her feel appreciated, feel like the most important person in the room, where Mr and I both spoil her. Her pleasure. Having a laugh and a giggle along the way too would be fantastic.
CGirl "
I've been third many times. I've had a couple of difficult situations. The dynamic has to be right how could could anything sexual work if not. It's great to be able to have a Giggle and chill as well |
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There are lots bisexual women on here who will consider meeting a couple problem is there had to be a 3 way attraction which reduces the odds some what
Your age may also be an issue along side being new no one wants a drama to unfold
Keep chatting make sure you chat as a couple |
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Been on the scene quite some time now and in all that time only managed to arrange 3 meets with unicorns. 2 where no shows.
So if you are here just to chase unicorns, good hunting but many are fake accounts, they are much sought after creatures & can pick n choose who they want to meet, and on top of all that are just as unreliable as anyone else here.
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"All the 'unicorns' we have had, have come through vanilla life.
Our latest is with a girl my wife used to work with.
They kind of flirted with eachother. Used to go out dancing, driving and things went from there.
There must be someone close you'd both like to be with-she doesn't need to think your swingers either. Ours doesn't"
Would she feel the same if she found out you are swingers but didn't tell her? |
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"Bloody hate the term ... I’m a female for gods sake !!!"
I do find it interesting how different words annoy different people. I don’t mind being called a unicorn (I just don’t like unicorn hunters lol), but I loathe being called a female because I always think “female what?” as it can apply to any species. Woman is a perfectly good word! |
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