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over a year ago
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For me its about being yourself and being honest - its hard to tell sometimes - and lots of people seem to assume anyone who cancels a meet (or doesn't want to meet them) is not genuine.
Most people are genuine - just some are genuine wankers, genuine liars etc etc.
Some people are pretending to be something they are not - they are the disingenuous ones.
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have to agree.
just because you met and fuck, doesnt make you genuine.
we have met people that are as false as the eyelashes they glue to their heads.
because it is mostly HE on the account, i pride myself in NOT pretending to be her.
the amount of times i have been mistaken for and set people straight, and suprise suprise, messages stop because of it, makes you realsie how many people are just on here for quick jollies.
genuine people are those that act the same around you, when you meet, as they do around each other any other time.
i would say we are genuine, or at least i am, because i refuse to act differently for different people, whether on here, at work, in meetings or wherever.
i am who, and what, i am. if thats a gobshite then so be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have to agree.
just because you met and fuck, doesnt make you genuine.
we have met people that are as false as the eyelashes they glue to their heads.
because it is mostly HE on the account, i pride myself in NOT pretending to be her.
the amount of times i have been mistaken for and set people straight, and suprise suprise, messages stop because of it, makes you realsie how many people are just on here for quick jollies.
genuine people are those that act the same around you, when you meet, as they do around each other any other time.
i would say we are genuine, or at least i am, because i refuse to act differently for different people, whether on here, at work, in meetings or wherever.
i am who, and what, i am. if thats a gobshite then so be it."
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you dont have to show people you are a swinger to be the same person here and in the real world, as it were.
ateotd, you wouldnt shag anything with a pulse on here, and so its the same on the outside.
yet you can be a natural flirt and its just that, words n stuff.
dont have to be out and out sex maniac to be the same lol. |
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then what is genuine???? on a swinger site surely it only pertains to being a genuine swinger and as i said genuine as per profile, if the word genuine is to mean same here as there cant be donen simples surely lol |
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Genuine to me in the context of a swingers site is..
1 they are what they state in their profile, woman, man, couple etc.
2 they are here to meet people and not to collect pics and fuck with peoples heads.
3 they will meet when they say they will, and will give plenty of notice if can't
4 they are open minded and non judgemental..
My 2c worth
Dave
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Genuine to me in the context of a swingers site is..
1 they are what they state in their profile, woman, man, couple etc.
2 they are here to meet people and not to collect pics and fuck with peoples heads.
3 they will meet when they say they will, and will give plenty of notice if can't
4 they are open minded and non judgemental..
My 2c worth
Dave
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"Genuine to me in the context of a swingers site is..
1 they are what they state in their profile, woman, man, couple etc.
2 they are here to meet people and not to collect pics and fuck with peoples heads.
3 they will meet when they say they will, and will give plenty of notice if can't
4 they are open minded and non judgemental..
My 2c worth
Dave
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not exactly what i was talking about some good points made 
What were you talking about then??  "
was wonderin that myself some ppl do talk in riddles lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well everyone has their own reason for been here so to put people in catagorys is narrow mined. If people were catagorised here you'd find an equal number of men and woman in all the boxes.
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"Well everyone has their own reason for been here so to put people in catagorys is narrow mined. If people were catagorised here you'd find an equal number of men and woman in all the boxes.
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I would absolutely normally agree with putting people in catagories BUT when it comes to cheating there's no black and white area regardless of the reasons for doing it your still lying and if your lying you can't be genuine even if your being honest with those you swing with. Swinging is about NSA in my experience cheaters come with of strings. |
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It doesn't stop so called 'genuine' people meeting with so called 'cheaters' .
How can someone say there genuine when their maybe meeting with someone that they consider a cheater??
It's a grey area guys, whatever tickles your fancy!!! |
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"It doesn't stop so called 'genuine' people meeting with so called 'cheaters' .
How can someone say there genuine when their maybe meeting with someone that they consider a cheater??
It's a grey area guys, whatever tickles your fancy!!!"
Huh?? I don't think anyone was tickling anyone's fancy on this thread?? We're merely discussing if cheaters are genuine swingers I believe they aren't as they are lying (even if it's only to their own partners) and above anything else most "genuine" swingers believe in honesty as if there's not honesty and trust it's very difficult to swing NSA |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Touched no nerve with me, I'm just punching in the time on a quite day in work. I like a good discussion/debate to keep the mind ticking.
But it would be a quite site if all the attached patrons playing alone were to leave.  )))) |
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"Touched no nerve with me, I'm just punching in the time on a quite day in work. I like a good discussion/debate to keep the mind ticking.
But it would be a quite site if all the attached patrons playing alone were to leave. ))))"
am sure they know were the door is lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh someone thinks world revolves them lol
And lovnit plenty are all talk no action on here but there are plenty of unattached genuine respectful guys who know what nsa means who are all talk and plenty of action
Usee i'll touch more then your nerves |
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