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Giving away the farm.
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Hi all.
Kinda new here, so I’m interested in the group opinion...
I’m noticing a lot of profiles that give away every single detail in photos and videos publicly, while I’m not complaining, I’m just wondering about the general consensus on this?
Call me old fashioned but I like a little intrigue!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is their body their profile they can do whatever they want to with both. Some people like to be exhibitionists so if that's what they are into let them off it makes them happy. We all need some joy during these current bleak times. I like a bit of mystery and intrigue myself but that's my personal opinion. We are all on Fab for reasons though. |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
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"It is their body their profile they can do whatever they want to with both. Some people like to be exhibitionists so if that's what they are into let them off it makes them happy. We all need some joy during these current bleak times. I like a bit of mystery and intrigue myself but that's my personal opinion. We are all on Fab for reasons though."
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Like Rosy said each to their own. It's their profile and their pics so they can show what they want.
Personally I prefer teasing pics to the more graphic ones but that's just me. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Hi all.
Kinda new here, so I’m interested in the group opinion...
I’m noticing a lot of profiles that give away every single detail in photos and videos publicly, while I’m not complaining, I’m just wondering about the general consensus on this?
Call me old fashioned but I like a little intrigue! "
I'm yet to see a profile give away every detail. Name , address , pps number, mother's maiden name , first pets name etc
If you mean people showing off their bits then I'm sorry to tell you you've come to the wrong place if you'd rather women covered up maybe Iran or Saudi Arabia might suit you better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Giving away the Farm.
Was gonna throw me name into the hat until l started reading the thread 
Ah way my dream will have to wait  "
Same!
Kaizer would have liked 50 acres of countryside to keep it real in  |
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"People are free to manage their profiles anyway they please, message the ones you like, block the ones you don't"
I’m absolutely not giving out at all... just was a thought and I figured I’d see what others thought |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Hi all.
Kinda new here, so I’m interested in the group opinion...
I’m noticing a lot of profiles that give away every single detail in photos and videos publicly, while I’m not complaining, I’m just wondering about the general consensus on this?
Call me old fashioned but I like a little intrigue!
I'm yet to see a profile give away every detail. Name , address , pps number, mother's maiden name , first pets name etc
If you mean people showing off their bits then I'm sorry to tell you you've come to the wrong place if you'd rather women covered up maybe Iran or Saudi Arabia might suit you better"
At no point did the OP say he had any issues with what people do on their profile.
He just asked what you though.
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"People are free to manage their profiles anyway they please, message the ones you like, block the ones you don't
I’m absolutely not giving out at all... just was a thought and I figured I’d see what others thought "
You asked what the consensus is, and as with all things on fab there is no consensus, it's personal taste |
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"Hi all.
Kinda new here, so I’m interested in the group opinion...
I’m noticing a lot of profiles that give away every single detail in photos and videos publicly, while I’m not complaining, I’m just wondering about the general consensus on this?
Call me old fashioned but I like a little intrigue!
I'm yet to see a profile give away every detail. Name , address , pps number, mother's maiden name , first pets name etc
If you mean people showing off their bits then I'm sorry to tell you you've come to the wrong place if you'd rather women covered up maybe Iran or Saudi Arabia might suit you better
At no point did the OP say he had any issues with what people do on their profile.
He just asked what you though.
Jebus "
No, you’re right, he didn’t say he had a problem but c’mon, it was a silly question for a SWING site
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Well this escalated quickly! 
This is nothing wait till the which came first thread pops up the chicken or the egg
Now that gets duirty "
I've told you before cj it has to be the chicken how else can the egg get laid ffs |
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"Well this escalated quickly!
This is nothing wait till the which came first thread pops up the chicken or the egg
Now that gets duirty
I've told you before cj it has to be the chicken how else can the egg get laid ffs "
Order both on amazon... solves that problem |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Well this escalated quickly! "
It happens sometimes, I wouldn't take it personally.
Ask a question and there will be always someone who'll give you shit for not knowing something that they themselves didn't know at some point in their lives.
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"Well this escalated quickly!
It happens sometimes, I wouldn't take it personally.
Ask a question and there will be always someone who'll give you shit for not knowing something that they themselves didn't know at some point in their lives.
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I’ve got thicker skin than that! It’s all good! But thanks for the support! |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
Kark |
"Well this escalated quickly!
It happens sometimes, I wouldn't take it personally.
Ask a question and there will be always someone who'll give you shit for not knowing something that they themselves didn't know at some point in their lives.
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That's a very good point.....I just go with the smart arse answer everytime |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Well this escalated quickly!
It happens sometimes, I wouldn't take it personally.
Ask a question and there will be always someone who'll give you shit for not knowing something that they themselves didn't know at some point in their lives.
That's a very good point.....I just go with the smart arse answer everytime "
I do myself sometimes. I'm just in a mood today for some reason |
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over a year ago
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"People are free to manage their profiles anyway they please, message the ones you like, block the ones you don't
I’m absolutely not giving out at all... just was a thought and I figured I’d see what others thought "
I see you have met the forum clique, they can be fairly aggressive towards newbies, you try to ask a question and they jump all over you , it’s mainly the women, the men are cool and more relaxed |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Well this escalated quickly!
This is nothing wait till the which came first thread pops up the chicken or the egg
Now that gets duirty
I've told you before cj it has to be the chicken how else can the egg get laid ffs
Order both on amazon... solves that problem "
Don't need the chicken already have the egg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like a few have said, it's up to each what they show or don't sure. It's like veris some like them some don't. Have too many your called out on site for been a slut.
Find the profiles you like the look of and go from there.
I like a profile that teases what might be there and the enjoyment big getting to know the guy and getting him naked makes it even better but that's my opinion.
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over a year ago
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"People are free to manage their profiles anyway they please, message the ones you like, block the ones you don't
I’m absolutely not giving out at all... just was a thought and I figured I’d see what others thought I see you have met the forum clique, they can be fairly aggressive towards newbies, you try to ask a question and they jump all over you , it’s mainly the women, the men are cool and more relaxed
ah yes the famous forum clique. Looked over the replies still trying to work out the scarey aggressive women you mention. "
dont worry I have often seen your replies on different posts, you are civil, not one of the aggressive ones, I did say aggressive I probably should have used the term passive aggressive to describe them, |
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"People are free to manage their profiles anyway they please, message the ones you like, block the ones you don't
I’m absolutely not giving out at all... just was a thought and I figured I’d see what others thought I see you have met the forum clique, they can be fairly aggressive towards newbies, you try to ask a question and they jump all over you , it’s mainly the women, the men are cool and more relaxed
ah yes the famous forum clique. Looked over the replies still trying to work out the scarey aggressive women you mention. "
I was wondering the same, and the men are cool and relaxed not the few I've had abuse of this week. |
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"People are free to manage their profiles anyway they please, message the ones you like, block the ones you don't
I’m absolutely not giving out at all... just was a thought and I figured I’d see what others thought I see you have met the forum clique, they can be fairly aggressive towards newbies, you try to ask a question and they jump all over you , it’s mainly the women, the men are cool and more relaxed
ah yes the famous forum clique. Looked over the replies still trying to work out the scarey aggressive women you mention. dont worry I have often seen your replies on different posts, you are civil, not one of the aggressive ones, I did say aggressive I probably should have used the term passive aggressive to describe them, "
I have read back over my comment and I hope it doesn't come across as passive aggressive. I in fact agreed with what the Op said about liking a bit of mystery. We are all newbies here at some point. I was simply stating my personal opinion and having a discussion. |
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"People are free to manage their profiles anyway they please, message the ones you like, block the ones you don't
I’m absolutely not giving out at all... just was a thought and I figured I’d see what others thought I see you have met the forum clique, they can be fairly aggressive towards newbies, you try to ask a question and they jump all over you , it’s mainly the women, the men are cool and more relaxed
ah yes the famous forum clique. Looked over the replies still trying to work out the scarey aggressive women you mention. dont worry I have often seen your replies on different posts, you are civil, not one of the aggressive ones, I did say aggressive I probably should have used the term passive aggressive to describe them,
I have read back over my comment and I hope it doesn't come across as passive aggressive. I in fact agreed with what the Op said about liking a bit of mystery. We are all newbies here at some point. I was simply stating my personal opinion and having a discussion."
This is why I have stopped posting or commenting on threads since lockdown it's like someone always has to have a go on here , we are all entitled to our opinions but yet here you get called aggressive, or entitled or various other names because you say something. |
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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago
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"Well this escalated quickly!
This is nothing wait till the which came first thread pops up the chicken or the egg
Now that gets duirty
I've told you before cj it has to be the chicken how else can the egg get laid ffs "
Hang on a sec, who’s getting laid
The chicken or the egg ? The chicken has to get laid before an egg is is laid but the egg has to be laid before the chicken can get laid. Now my question is wtf does the cock do while some boffin makes up his mind who gets laid first ? |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Well this escalated quickly!
This is nothing wait till the which came first thread pops up the chicken or the egg
Now that gets duirty
I've told you before cj it has to be the chicken how else can the egg get laid ffs
Hang on a sec, who’s getting laid
The chicken or the egg ? The chicken has to get laid before an egg is is laid but the egg has to be laid before the chicken can get laid. Now my question is wtf does the cock do while some boffin makes up his mind who gets laid first ?"
The cock just stands there edging until they decide |
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Much more light hearted .... waaay better .... it was ... edging... towards the passive aggressive there for a while.
Like I was saying... it’s not like I am offended by, or won’t look at, or dislike the pics/videos... I was just wondering about people’s different opinions on it.
I do like a bit of old fashioned mystery tho!  |
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Welcome to the Forum OP.
Now I read his opener as a 'do you prefer everything on display in pics or a bit of mystery'.
FYI OP, be careful how you word a post, it can and will be taken different ways |
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"Welcome to the Forum OP.
Now I read his opener as a 'do you prefer everything on display in pics or a bit of mystery'.
FYI OP, be careful how you word a post, it can and will be taken different ways "
No probs... like I said.... I’m a bit new... so I just used a turn of phrase that I’d always use. Good chat with nice people in here tho (mostly) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome to the Forum OP.
Now I read his opener as a 'do you prefer everything on display in pics or a bit of mystery'.
FYI OP, be careful how you word a post, it can and will be taken different ways
No probs... like I said.... I’m a bit new... so I just used a turn of phrase that I’d always use. Good chat with nice people in here tho (mostly) "
It's like sending a text in normal life. People can read them differently. Oh and welcome to the forums they mostly are good fun and a good way to get to know people |
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"Welcome to the Forum OP.
Now I read his opener as a 'do you prefer everything on display in pics or a bit of mystery'.
FYI OP, be careful how you word a post, it can and will be taken different ways
No probs... like I said.... I’m a bit new... so I just used a turn of phrase that I’d always use. Good chat with nice people in here tho (mostly)
It's like sending a text in normal life. People can read them differently. Oh and welcome to the forums they mostly are good fun and a good way to get to know people "
Thanks 
I’ll watch my wording of stuff a bit  |
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Disclaimer... not being aggressive or passive aggressive or nasty or bitchy or am I part of a clique...
So now I got that out of the way I can post my personal preference as a swinger on a swinger site....
I prefer to keep my bits for those I will be with,or have been.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Much more light hearted .... waaay better .... it was ... edging... towards the passive aggressive there for a while.
Like I was saying... it’s not like I am offended by, or won’t look at, or dislike the pics/videos... I was just wondering about people’s different opinions on it.
I do like a bit of old fashioned mystery tho! "
I totally agree the guys photos I love the most they are covered up in a shirt or a towel. I like to imagine what's underneath |
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"Disclaimer... not being aggressive or passive aggressive or nasty or bitchy or am I part of a clique...
So now I got that out of the way I can post my personal preference as a swinger on a swinger site....
I prefer to keep my bits for those I will be with,or have been.
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This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually I've just realised the title so if a woman has her fanny on show she's giving away the farm lol (I will blame the 60hr shift I've just finished) |
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"Actually I've just realised the title so if a woman has her fanny on show she's giving away the farm lol (I will blame the 60hr shift I've just finished)"
You got it right...
Op is calling us showing our bits as giving away the farm....
So if a man shows his dick on fab is that letting out the pig ?? |
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Op didn't mention women in his post at all. He said profiles and while it can be assumed he normally looks at female profiles he wasn't being derogatory at all but simply expressing a preference for less is more.
Many women on here have said this repeatedly about male profiles and they haven't been attacked for their preferences. |
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"Yes far to many men displaying their whole package, women's pictures tend to be more of a tease (though some do show all to). "
I think people in general... not gender specific.
I hope you don’t mind, but you’re profile is quite tastefully done. Leaves enough to the imagination while being quite provocative. |
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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes far to many men displaying their whole package, women's pictures tend to be more of a tease (though some do show all to).
I think people in general... not gender specific.
I hope you don’t mind, but you’re profile is quite tastefully done. Leaves enough to the imagination while being quite provocative. "
Thank you.
From our limited time here I've definitely seen more dicks and the ammount of dick pics in messages despite asking not to be sent them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually I've just realised the title so if a woman has her fanny on show she's giving away the farm lol (I will blame the 60hr shift I've just finished)
You got it right...
Op is calling us showing our bits as giving away the farm....
So if a man shows his dick on fab is that letting out the pig ??"
Ah he definitely didn't say men or women but my brain is either slow or so tired it hasn't a clue what's going on. Already walked into the kitchen door twice |
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"I'd say there's a difference between showing everything in a pic and actually getting to touch, feel, smell and enjoy the real thing"
Hopefully there isn’t too much of a smell |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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This a sex site and sex is what I'm looking dor. So that's why for me it's a bit like going to the butcher to buy a steak. I want a organic and juicy tenderloin of just the right size. The butcher shows me the pieces of meat from all sides, that one looks good, please wrap it up, no fancy packaging needed, it's the quality I'm looking for. On the way home I think how I spice and cook it, what extras I'd fancy and would go with it, I imagine what it taste like, I imagine eating bit by bit accompanied by a good wine and finally how happily filled I will feel after.
In other words yes a suggestive shot that doesn't display everything can be very intriguing and pleasing for the eye but I also think the full nudity pictures don't take anything away from your imagination. You're not going to feel any less heat when it comes to unwrapping each other because you've seen already pics of the tits, pussy, cock and/or ass. You're not going 'uhhh this is so boring the pussy looks exactly like in the pic'....
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"I'd say there's a difference between showing everything in a pic and actually getting to touch, feel, smell and enjoy the real thing
Hopefully there isn’t too much of a smell "
Smell is imortant to me.. Allthough i prefer to use the word 'scent'. Its the scent of the heat of her body, her arousal, her fluids, her perfume, her sweat, her hair,... All together, very erotic and primal. |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
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"This a sex site and sex is what I'm looking dor. So that's why for me it's a bit like going to the butcher to buy a steak. I want a organic and juicy tenderloin of just the right size. The butcher shows me the pieces of meat from all sides, that one looks good, please wrap it up, no fancy packaging needed, it's the quality I'm looking for. On the way home I think how I spice and cook it, what extras I'd fancy and would go with it, I imagine what it taste like, I imagine eating bit by bit accompanied by a good wine and finally how happily filled I will feel after.
In other words yes a suggestive shot that doesn't display everything can be very intriguing and pleasing for the eye but I also think the full nudity pictures don't take anything away from your imagination. You're not going to feel any less heat when it comes to unwrapping each other because you've seen already pics of the tits, pussy, cock and/or ass. You're not going 'uhhh this is so boring the pussy looks exactly like in the pic'....
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What about Marbling?, you sound like that German guy that ate the other guys lad there DH
Joking aside I get your point, people have a preference or should I say have something they may find slightly less attractive. A mix of both is fine for me. I'd prefer to see a real shot photo even if it shows nothing out in the open than an extraordinary angle that makes the person look completely different. |
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"To answer the chicken and egg question:
Chickens evolved from some sort of reptile so the egg must have come first.
Now, can we all just get along?"
So a Tyrannosaurus Rex gave birth to a chicken which came out in an egg? |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"To answer the chicken and egg question:
Chickens evolved from some sort of reptile so the egg must have come first.
Now, can we all just get along?
So a Tyrannosaurus Rex gave birth to a chicken which came out in an egg? "
Precisely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To answer the chicken and egg question:
Chickens evolved from some sort of reptile so the egg must have come first.
Now, can we all just get along?
So a Tyrannosaurus Rex gave birth to a chicken which came out in an egg?
Precisely "
G-Dogg you're a genius
So exactly how long is a piece of string? |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"To answer the chicken and egg question:
Chickens evolved from some sort of reptile so the egg must have come first.
Now, can we all just get along?
So a Tyrannosaurus Rex gave birth to a chicken which came out in an egg?
Precisely
G-Dogg you're a genius
So exactly how long is a piece of string? "
Depends on the length |
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