A question for you? Why do people on here string fabbers along for ages, getting to know you and asking questions, making plans to meet up.. Send photos etc etc and then just dissappear with out a reason? |
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There is a certain amount of safety in the anonymity of being online only but actually putting yourself out there physically and meeting just seems to be a risk too far for some. Some are well intentioned but bottle it some are less so well intentioned from the outset  |
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"There is a certain amount of safety in the anonymity of being online only but actually putting yourself out there physically and meeting just seems to be a risk too far for some. Some are well intentioned but bottle it some are less so well intentioned from the outset "
Also very true |
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There are lots of genuine men women and couples on fab and other sites. Just forget about the wannabes. It can be annoying when you get set up. Keep the salt close to hand |
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"A question for you? Why do people on here string fabbers along for ages, getting to know you and asking questions, making plans to meet up.. Send photos etc etc and then just dissappear with out a reason? "
Cause it's Fab ... |
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"It's bad form but it happens. At least you didn't have a meet no-show I guess"
Exactly agreed would be a disaster especially for someone new it could knock their confidence |
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It's part of fab but same on other sites too. I'm sure majority of us here have been stung by fake profiles you just learn to spot them even though the odd one slips through. But thankfully along the way can discover some good ones. Keep the faith |
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"It's part of fab but same on other sites too. I'm sure majority of us here have been stung by fake profiles you just learn to spot them even though the odd one slips through. But thankfully along the way can discover some good ones. Keep the faith"
The fake profiles are easy to spot and deal with.
It is the real profiles with the people behind them behaving in a fake manner, that is what ruins it.  |
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"It's part of fab but same on other sites too. I'm sure majority of us here have been stung by fake profiles you just learn to spot them even though the odd one slips through. But thankfully along the way can discover some good ones. Keep the faith
The fake profiles are easy to spot and deal with.
It is the real profiles with the people behind them behaving in a fake manner, that is what ruins it. "
Unfortunately have that too. Been stung a few times |
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The fact they go out their way to set up a email address then an account here and when they are found out they do it all over again rinse and repeat just baffles me like is the boredom that severe
It can be quite damaging to someones confidence if they ain't quick to cop that the profile is fake |
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They're not all pretend. Some simply design a persona to escape their dull and dreary day-to-day.
I feel sorry for them and swerve.
Some come on and play the delicate ingenue when in reality they're pro-swingers with more miles on the clock than Heffs fav playboy bunny.
It's the ones who fall for it that I feel sorry for there, victims of full-on hustlers.
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"They're not all pretend. Some simply design a persona to escape their dull and dreary day-to-day.
I feel sorry for them and swerve.
Some come on and play the delicate ingenue when in reality they're pro-swingers with more miles on the clock than Heffs fav playboy bunny.
It's the ones who fall for it that I feel sorry for there, victims of full-on hustlers.
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jasus that’s them told |
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"A question for you? Why do people on here string fabbers along for ages, getting to know you and asking questions, making plans to meet up.. Send photos etc etc and then just dissappear with out a reason? "
I'd say that's more a sign that they didn't fancy you after your pic rather than being fake. |
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