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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you could pinpoint a moment in your life, perhaps just a general memory, when and what do you believe was your first real experience of realising your sensuality or even your sexuality?
We all notice our bodies changing and evolving when we're younger but when was the point at which you recognized who you were inside; who/what you were attracted to. I've heard someone say that their teens were their body's puberty and their 20s were their minds!
Not everyone is given a proverbial road map and told how to get from 'A' to 'B' after all! It could be later in life that some of us experience something that "stirs" something inside us 
Not just with regards to your sexuality and who you were attracted to but when did you personally understand and embrace your own sensuality?
I know I'm the Ohpee but I'd be unashamedly struggling to pinpoint either myself I just thought it might be an interesting discussion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I met Lee. That's when I discovered what it is really like to let down all your walls and let yourself go with your body and your emotions with someone you trust absolutely. That's why the best sex I've ever had is and will always be, with him.
I'll leave now, making myself queasy here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm same I definitely can't pinpoint a moment, I do know since I joined fab im definitely a bit more body confident, a bit more easier on myself about my body and I've learnt im allowed enjoy sex and want sex and im allowed feel sexy and wanted. |
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For me it was eeting an older girl at a party around the age of 15. I hadn't a clue. Luckily she did lol
MrsF was teaching the neighbourhoods young girls how to masturbate at an early age, shes always been a minx. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"For me it was eeting an older girl at a party around the age of 15. I hadn't a clue. Luckily she did lol
MrsF was teaching the neighbourhoods young girls how to masturbate at an early age, shes always been a minx."
Is that typo .. eating or meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I met Lee. That's when I discovered what it is really like to let down all your walls and let yourself go with your body and your emotions with someone you trust absolutely. That's why the best sex I've ever had is and will always be, with him.
I'll leave now, making myself queasy here "
Nice try, Lee, give her back her phone  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm same I definitely can't pinpoint a moment, I do know since I joined fab im definitely a bit more body confident, a bit more easier on myself about my body and I've learnt im allowed enjoy sex and want sex and im allowed feel sexy and wanted. "
Exactly |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I don't know when it really happened when I was younger. Probably the first time I actually had sex with a guy. But I do know that after years of celibacy that joining fab has definitely woken it up again. And has made me realise it is okay to have kinks and enjoy them and to enjoy sex again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For us we met while at high school having always been attracted to the opposite sex growing up. We found our sensuality with what felt natural and progressively explored, probably shaped by traditional thinking back then.
Obviously after thinking and exploring for ourselves we found fab which has awakened new experiences of sensuality that has felt natural.
Would say this last year we've discovered a whole lot more about ourselves 10 fold than any other year and will hopefully learn more. More likely A to Z on that road map
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I was very young, and got the bus out from Dublin to the mountains. I walked for a bit using my junior cert geography map to a megalithic site, and sat there all day until it got dark. Even though I'd never had sex, I got an insight, maybe some sort of awakening, that my sexual energy was all powerful. I just didn't know where the switch was, at the time. I've since worked it out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was very young, and got the bus out from Dublin to the mountains. I walked for a bit using my junior cert geography map to a megalithic site, and sat there all day until it got dark. Even though I'd never had sex, I got an insight, maybe some sort of awakening, that my sexual energy was all powerful. I just didn't know where the switch was, at the time. I've since worked it out. "
Now that's interesting. Pardon my ignorance, genuinely, but what's the link between a megalith and the practice of tantra?
If I've read that right |
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"I was very young, and got the bus out from Dublin to the mountains. I walked for a bit using my junior cert geography map to a megalithic site, and sat there all day until it got dark. Even though I'd never had sex, I got an insight, maybe some sort of awakening, that my sexual energy was all powerful. I just didn't know where the switch was, at the time. I've since worked it out.
Now that's interesting. Pardon my ignorance, genuinely, but what's the link between a megalith and the practice of tantra?
If I've read that right "
I don't know if there is a connection,. I went there out of curiosity, as I'd never been that high up in the mountains. It was a random place to sit on a large stone for a few hours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The first time I kissed a girl. I was around 16. It actually felt like electricity on my lips. I've never felt that when kissing a guy no matter how much I liked him. "
What do you think was different, if you could put your finger on anything?
Also, apologies if it's too personal and it may seem a silly question, but did you know for sure at that age that you were interested in both boys and girls? |
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"The first time I kissed a girl. I was around 16. It actually felt like electricity on my lips. I've never felt that when kissing a guy no matter how much I liked him.
What do you think was different, if you could put your finger on anything?
Also, apologies if it's too personal and it may seem a silly question, but did you know for sure at that age that you were interested in both boys and girls?"
Honestly just it being a girl was all that was different. Maybe it was more exciting to me because there was that element of risk, or because it was a first same sex experience. I really liked the girl but I wouldn't have said I loved her or anything.
Honestly I just really prefer kissing girls. It's so much nicer haha
And yes, I knew from a very early age that I was attracted to men and women. My first noticeable crushes were all girls. |
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