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"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste! 
And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique. "
It was. 
It didn't include 27 cock pics! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!
And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique.
It was.
It didn't include 27 cock pics! "
I only got 10 .I feel under appreciated now |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!
And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique.
It was.
It didn't include 27 cock pics! "
Ya didn't have to send them to me either ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably about 50 or 60 to people I know or have been chatting to for a while. Very rarely send first messages these days as most would be deleted or worse ...blocked  |
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"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!
And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique.
It was.
It didn't include 27 cock pics!
Ya didn't have to send them to me either ffs "
I set daily targets and have to make the numbers or I feel like I've underachieved. |
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By *quinnMan
over a year ago
Limerick |
Very few lately and as others have mentioned, tends to be related more to forum topics.
Rarely make an attempt to contact to start up a chat with someone outside of the forum as theres just no substance to it, a bit like cold calling  |
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If I don't meet their profile criteria or them mine I dont message them, there is no point. I would rather women stated the age range of men on their profile that they are willing to meet rather than just putting up the generic 18-99 age range. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm being honest when I first started off I sent quite a few. (4 years back I'd say)
Now I don't send much, maybe 2/3 a week. If even, as some weeks I don't message anyone at all.
I always read the bio, and If I think I'm what their looking for I'll send a message, talking a little about me etc...
I do send winks, say if I'm close to what they're looking for, but not sure. This way they can click and decide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?""
corrected for ya
mwah xxx |
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"I reply to all messages every day. That makes it zero this week. And last week. And the week before  "
Ahhh look on the bright side,I'm sure you get lots of ladies viewing your profile and probably waiting for a message from you |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx"
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
north down |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer "
Ah ffs I never get that  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that "
What |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
north down |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What "
You're 'would you like to peg me
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
' "
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
north down |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer "
Ah go on ya will love it as much as she will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer "
There'll be no greasing CJ |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
Ah go on ya will love it as much as she will "
Now mrs 3B u know if u have talk someone into it its never the same as someone bending over pulling their ass cheeks apart looking back at u and saying go gentle on me
At first anyway |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ "
Rough  |
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough "
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged |
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over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged "
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game? |
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over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough "
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game? "
Rimming I like but pegging  |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
north down |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
"
Fast you're bound to message plenty ladies asking to be pegged |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging "
Don't knock it til you try it |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging "
Be warned ain't nothing sensual or slow about this siern |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
north down |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging "
S1ren he didn't say no |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
S1ren he didn't say no "
U noticed that to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
Be warned ain't nothing sensual or slow about this siern "
Don't comment on what you haven't experienced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
S1ren he didn't say no "
Noted X  |
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over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
Don't knock it til you try it"
Told ya I’m trysexual |
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over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
Don't knock it til you try it
Told ya I’m trysexual "
*Rubs mitts together in glee* |
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
Don't knock it til you try it"
Not knocking it but I'm a pegging virgin so I'd need a gentle introduction (+lube) |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
Be warned ain't nothing sensual or slow about this siern
Don't comment on what you haven't experienced "
All those years of threats of rough rodgering and I haven't experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
Don't knock it til you try it
Not knocking it but I'm a pegging virgin so I'd need a gentle introduction (+lube) "
No problem |
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"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day ... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies
Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya
mwah xxx
Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer
Ah ffs I never get that
What
You're 'would you like to peg me
'
Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer
There'll be no greasing CJ
Rough
Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged
My apologies for derailing your thread
But I have to ask.....
Are you game?
Rimming I like but pegging
Don't knock it til you try it
Not knocking it but I'm a pegging virgin so I'd need a gentle introduction (+lube)
No problem "
Ahhh ya say that but given the opportunity they'd be no lube and you'd wreck me Lol wouldn't be able to walk straight for a week (or two) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe send out 1 or 2 a month if even that. I'm not big on inniating first contact through a random private msg. I find it better to have a bit craic through the forums and maybe private msg from that bit of banter. I'll always reply to msgs unless they are just stupid ones... you all know what I mean. |
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0, but that’s obvious with profile hidden etc, but even if I got back into the whole scene I’d say I wouldn’t send many at all. It’s pointless messaging total strangers on here and I found often pointless trying to have ‘conversations’ on fab with ppl you know. Girls just get far too much mail and any train of thought gets completely lost in unread mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be completely honest I get very little but that's because most of the women in my area either don't want to neet from galway or just not interested at all, so really And truly now many for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends tbh, my messages are mostly just to compliment a lady on her written profile or pictures, other than that l dont really bother them, they have loads of other stuff going on, my message would only be another brick in their big yellow wall. |
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Maybe a few a week. Some weeks none. It depends on who catches my eye. No point in sending out loads of messages as the won’t be read and no reply. The ladies here gets too many anyway so I’m hoping the ones I do read and like it. |
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After extensive anthropological research into why ladies get 100s of messages a day, I have come to the following conclusions.
1) It would appear that most of the guys that are active on the forum don't send 100s of messages a day.
2) There must be 100s of other men that spend hours cutting and pasting messages
3) There are 2 possible solutions
A) Women could hide their profiles
B) The site could limit the number of initial daily messages anyone can send.
4) A safeword is of paramount importance when pegging
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How many messages sent are to couples who blatantly do not want to meet single men? but they still message anyway then cry when they get an ignorant message back.. it seems most men on here do it lol |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"How many messages sent are to couples who blatantly do not want to meet single men? but they still message anyway then cry when they get an ignorant message back.. it seems most men on here do it lol"
Fair play if you know what all other men do
Every answer so far on here is that we don't |
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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago
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"After extensive anthropological research into why ladies get 100s of messages a day, I have come to the following conclusions.
1) It would appear that most of the guys that are active on the forum don't send 100s of messages a day.
2) There must be 100s of other men that spend hours cutting and pasting messages
3) There are 2 possible solutions
A) Women could hide their profiles
B) The site could limit the number of initial daily messages anyone can send.
4) A safeword is of paramount importance when pegging
"
I find keep going is the perfect safe word for use in pegging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Often wondered given the male/female ratio here, how many messages do guys send on average daily ? Personally I send 1/2 a week. There must be a record out there."
When I was a single guy here I'd send maybe one or two mails a day. Always went for people who I found interesting. Never understood the throw shit at the wall and see what sticks approach.
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"After extensive anthropological research into why ladies get 100s of messages a day, I have come to the following conclusions.
1) It would appear that most of the guys that are active on the forum don't send 100s of messages a day.
2) There must be 100s of other men that spend hours cutting and pasting messages
3) There are 2 possible solutions
A) Women could hide their profiles
B) The site could limit the number of initial daily messages anyone can send.
4) A safeword is of paramount importance when pegging
I find keep going is the perfect safe word for use in pegging "
I thought you were going to advise me not to use "Mmmmm" as a safeword |
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