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By *ITJOE OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Not sure if there's been a thread on this subject, but I'm sure most have seen the released vid of the couple in the back of the cab.....hearing a lot of talk about the after effects. Any thoughts? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Not sure if there's been a thread on this subject, but I'm sure most have seen the released vid of the couple in the back of the cab.....hearing a lot of talk about the after effects. Any thoughts?"
The video was released without consent
Did the female try to take her own life |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
have seen it. Very disgusting someone sharing this video for all to see. My first reaction was thinking of this girls wellbeing and mindset once she knows this video of her went viral. To my horror, I heard she took an overdose! Very sad! I don't know the full details if they where both in other relationships, rumours are they both are and where playing away after a night out partying. Other rumors are she is single and he's in a relationship and others saying they are both single. Whatever the case, this video should never have been shared.
They both looked like they really enjoyed it and the taxi man too however It was a silly act to do in the back of a taxi in these times where there's CCTV everywhere.
I hope she is OK now if the rumors of an overdose are true. It'll be alot to live with knowing this sexual act was recorded and people all over are sharing it |
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Now this is only opinion and how I feel about it , the couple in the back of the taxi should of had more sense and I do understand when the horn is on it’s on but at least have some control until they got to wherever they were going , I feel the taxi driver should of said to them that they were being recorded to give them the option to stop ( or not ) and Uploading it on social media was really unprofessional and immature behaviour |
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Bad decisions all around but it’s also worth remembering that the Taxi driver himself is a victim here too. Those people (both adults) made a choice to perform a sex act in this persons car and without his consent. It was indecent exposure and a crime!
Had this been a female taxi driver the couple would have been arrested and the public view that their actions were disgusting towards the driver. As for “The driver enjoyed it”, turn the tables again and consider if you would have said that of a female driver in this situation. |
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"Bad decisions all around but it’s also worth remembering that the Taxi driver himself is a victim here too. Those people (both adults) made a choice to perform a sex act in this persons car and without his consent. It was indecent exposure and a crime!
Had this been a female taxi driver the couple would have been arrested and the public view that their actions were disgusting towards the driver. As for “The driver enjoyed it”, turn the tables again and consider if you would have said that of a female driver in this situation."
How is the taxi driver a victim ?At any point during the ride he could have stopped it, stopped his taxi and told them to get out. Told them about the cctv but didn't do anything  |
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"Bad decisions all around but it’s also worth remembering that the Taxi driver himself is a victim here too. Those people (both adults) made a choice to perform a sex act in this persons car and without his consent. It was indecent exposure and a crime!
Had this been a female taxi driver the couple would have been arrested and the public view that their actions were disgusting towards the driver. As for “The driver enjoyed it”, turn the tables again and consider if you would have said that of a female driver in this situation.
How is the taxi driver a victim ?At any point during the ride he could have stopped it, stopped his taxi and told them to get out. Told them about the cctv but didn't do anything "
With respect we just don’t know how people will react these days, they could have become violent. Any person in a frame of mind to do THAT in the back of a cab in daylight is clearly unstable. The driver may just not have had the confidence or been unable to act. Either way what they did was indeed a crime and not acting to stop it does not make it otherwise, it’s literally victim shaming. Again I ask you, if it had been a female driver, would you expect her to confront a clearly unstable couple? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the taxi driver had felt unable to ask them to stop what they were doing he could have pulled the car over, got out and phoned back to base to explain the situation.
His behaviour was totally shitty - going on to publicly share the video is proof of that as far as I'm concerned.
As for the couple, I have limited sympathy. They knew what they were doing, they knew the driver could see & hear, they were the ones indulging in risky behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad decisions all around but it’s also worth remembering that the Taxi driver himself is a victim here too. Those people (both adults) made a choice to perform a sex act in this persons car and without his consent. It was indecent exposure and a crime!
Had this been a female taxi driver the couple would have been arrested and the public view that their actions were disgusting towards the driver. As for “The driver enjoyed it”, turn the tables again and consider if you would have said that of a female driver in this situation.
How is the taxi driver a victim ?At any point during the ride he could have stopped it, stopped his taxi and told them to get out. Told them about the cctv but didn't do anything
With respect we just don’t know how people will react these days, they could have become violent. Any person in a frame of mind to do THAT in the back of a cab in daylight is clearly unstable. The driver may just not have had the confidence or been unable to act. Either way what they did was indeed a crime and not acting to stop it does not make it otherwise, it’s literally victim shaming. Again I ask you, if it had been a female driver, would you expect her to confront a clearly unstable couple?"
Did he ask them to stop? Did he tell them they were being recorded? Did he pullover and ask them to get out ? What the driver did was upload a sexual video on the internet without consent, clearly causing distress and committed a crime himself |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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The taxi driver got sacked and rightly so imo. He will most likely face prosecution for posting intimate pictures/vids online without consent.
While the two were out of their mind having sex in the taxi, sex in public is in most countries just a misdemeanour and it looks like the taxi driver made no attempt to stop them. |
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The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!"
Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers? |
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!
Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers? "
Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple. |
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!
Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers?
Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple."
Completely different reaction....the taxi driver would have put a stop to it if it was a single bloke playing with himself |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!"
I don't think it excuses in any way the taxi driver's unprofessional behaviour during and after the event. Posting the vid online without consent is a crime imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!
Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers?
Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple."
So not only one person had the situation forced upon them then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!
Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers?
Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple."
It's nothing to do with a "pretty girl" being involved. It's the issue of consent. He uploaded a video without their consent which is a crime.
If you meet a guy or couple, have sex, he/she/they video it with your knowledge or consent and upload it to a porn site with your faces clearly visible... what's the difference ? |
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"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums - the video was shared without consent and so any discussions about it are also harmful to the victims. "
I doubt the couple are on Fab ,so that statement is silly,this situation is being discussed all over the Internet,Twitter,Reddit etc,i doubt what one swinger says on Fab will have any bearing over the legal proceedings |
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"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums - the video was shared without consent and so any discussions about it are also harmful to the victims.
I doubt the couple are on Fab ,so that statement is silly,this situation is being discussed all over the Internet,Twitter,Reddit etc,i doubt what one swinger says on Fab will have any bearing over the legal proceedings"
Sharing intimate things without consent is NEVER OK. Regardless of legal issues it's still not OK. Regardless of swinger or no swinger. Regardless of drugs or alcohol consumption. Regardless of marital status. Regardless of how many peoole already saw it. Regardless of whether anyone committed suicide. It's just not OK ever. |
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"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums - the video was shared without consent and so any discussions about it are also harmful to the victims.
I doubt the couple are on Fab ,so that statement is silly,this situation is being discussed all over the Internet,Twitter,Reddit etc,i doubt what one swinger says on Fab will have any bearing over the legal proceedings
Sharing intimate things without consent is NEVER OK. Regardless of legal issues it's still not OK. Regardless of swinger or no swinger. Regardless of drugs or alcohol consumption. Regardless of marital status. Regardless of how many peoole already saw it. Regardless of whether anyone committed suicide. It's just not OK ever."
You obviously didn't read the statement properly"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums" the key word is discussed,everyone's talking about it unfortunately.For someone who responds on every forum thread i thought you would have understood that,but maybe too quick to get your tuppence worth in... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone."
With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off |
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By *ITJOE OP Man
over a year ago
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Conflicting views. The driver may not have been the one who uploaded the video.
Who among us (in the community) either now or in the past haven't pushed boundaries or tipped the edge of fantasies....definitely feel for all involved. I'd imagine they would all do things differently with hindsight. |
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone.
With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off"
If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac.
That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent.
Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing. |
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone.
With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off
If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac.
That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent.
Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing."
In their case no way should they be charged with anything and definitely the vid should not have been uploaded. |
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone.
With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off
If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac.
That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent.
Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing."
Agree with this. Both sides committed criminal acts.
I will say that anywhere that is recording your image is obliged to have signage letting you know. It's been a while since I was in a value cab but I think it is.
If it was Value cabs footage, they may also be subject to very hefty fines from the information commissioner for breaching GDPR as well as the criminal act of sharing the video. |
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone.
With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off
If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac.
That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent.
Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing."
And I've already said it doesn't excuse the actions of the driver |
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The taxi driver recorded a video of a couple having sex in the back of his black cab then he posted it ?
Not aware of the story but the taxi driver deserved to be sacked at the very least.
Yes the two fucking away was wrong but why didn’t he stop the cab or say something
No he lets them carry on them posts it |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"The taxi driver recorded a video of a couple having sex in the back of his black cab then he posted it ?"
It was recorded on the cctv in the taxi and it was na copy of the cctv that was posted online. |
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By *issusWoman
over a year ago
Belfast |
No sex took place, just some kissing and genital touching.
No bits were on show at any point.
Guy is a hero, he'll get high fives everywhere he goes.
Girls life is ruined forever.
Taxi driver was not a victim in any way. He is a grown up man who could stop it at any point but chose not to.
I mean they're brave enough to deal with d*unken people and suddenly loose their ability to speak when it comes to frisky couples? Not buying it for a second.
Reminds me of a poor girl from magaluf who's bj video went viral a few years ago.
Her life will never be the same either... 
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At the end of the day the couple should not have been doing that in the back of a taxi, if the driver seen it happening, he should then have asked them to stop. But to me it looks like he enjoyed it too much for that.
The taxi driver had no right to upload the video of the couple. If you take a picture up someone’s skirt it’s illegal so to me the police should be asking him questions. I got the video sent to me on what’s app, and a screen shot of the females Facebook profile, but once I viewed it I didn’t think it was right and did not forward it on.
As for the female, I hope she is out of hospital and is ok. Hopefully she can put it all behind her and move on. |
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