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Hi guys . Newbie here looking for advice . A married couple are hoping I join them for a FMM . I’m a straight guy and not sure what to expect , yes I have asked but details are slow to come , I’m not sure what’s usually expected in these situations but doing my research here lol . I am curious but looking for advice . Thanks |
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over a year ago
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Well couples are all different so have a chat and see what they are looking for in a guy. Also define if it's a FMM or MFM there's a difference. Main thing is be polite and respectful. Maybe have a social first if you are feeling a bit nervous about it. |
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Ya I’m aware the details are surely lol between the three of us . They are looking to have a phone later about details . Just getting my head around the possibility and thought I’d open it up on here . The wife is hot but I never touched another mans penis in my life and don’t want to start now .  |
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"Ya I’m aware the details are surely lol between the three of us . They are looking to have a phone later about details . Just getting my head around the possibility and thought I’d open it up on here . The wife is hot but I never touched another mans penis in my life and don’t want to start now . "
Well then just listen to what they say and what there looking for and be clear and honest about what you are ok to do any what your not, the open,honest and frank the conversation the better for everyone |
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Well if it's a bi mmf that they're expecting and that's not what you're up for then if I were you I'd pull the plug and explain why. We're always very clear from the outset if bi play is what we're after, rather than assume the other person will know. The last thing we'd want is for someone to be uncomfortable and not at ease in play situations as it has an impact on everyone's experience |
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"Well if it's a bi mmf that they're expecting and that's not what you're up for then if I were you I'd pull the plug and explain why. We're always very clear from the outset if bi play is what we're after, rather than assume the other person will know. The last thing we'd want is for someone to be uncomfortable and not at ease in play situations as it has an impact on everyone's experience "
Good advice Molly - makes sense . So this is how this whole couple think works I suppose , lol , yep you can tell I’m a newbie alright |
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"Hi guys . Newbie here looking for advice . A married couple are hoping I join them for a FMM . I’m a straight guy and not sure what to expect , yes I have asked but details are slow to come , I’m not sure what’s usually expected in these situations but doing my research here lol . I am curious but looking for advice . Thanks "
You're due to meet tonight and there has been no definition? Seems suspicious  |
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Ok thanks guys . So I’m figuring that I need to set any boundaries beforehand , see if the husband is bi , make sure he’s not expecting anything off me and maybe just go and enjoy . I did already explain my straightness lol to them but they still keen . I suppose I posted here to see - this is obviously a thing with some couples , for the husband just to watch the wife getting pleasured by another man . I suppose I could manage that , if I thought it was safe and relaxed.
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"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .
How did you get the invite , was it on this site?"
Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here . |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .
How did you get the invite , was it on this site?
Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here . "
Do you not even know who they are on here so ? It all sounds very suss |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .
How did you get the invite , was it on this site?
Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here . "
If you can't run away ..walk
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .
How did you get the invite , was it on this site?
Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here .
If you can't run away ..walk
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"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .
How did you get the invite , was it on this site?
Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here .
Do you not even know who they are on here so ? It all sounds very suss "
No I don’t actually , good point though , I’ve kik d them on it . Wow wouldn’t you know I don’t get out too often lol - the drama
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"Details slow to come...
Messaged you randomly on kik...
You don't know who they are...
They agreed to meet immediately...
Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen
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Ya starting to think that way myself , although didn’t want to miss out on an opportunity if it were legit , good advice on here from experienced people . Thanks |
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"Details slow to come...
Messaged you randomly on kik...
You don't know who they are...
They agreed to meet immediately...
Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen
Ya starting to think that way myself , although didn’t want to miss out on an opportunity if it were legit , good advice on here from experienced people . Thanks "
Forget it...this is someone's wind up fantasy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Details slow to come...
Messaged you randomly on kik...
You don't know who they are...
They agreed to meet immediately...
Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen
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The wives always in the shower or busy and can't chat |
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"Details slow to come...
Messaged you randomly on kik...
You don't know who they are...
They agreed to meet immediately...
Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen
The wives always in the shower or busy and can't chat "
Except it’s Fooey who’s always working, showering or snoozing here  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Meet them socially in a public place and chat with them openly and honestly; if they spook you withdraw gracefully, but learn from the encounter.
Crucially, appreciate the distinction between MMF and MFM! |
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"Details slow to come...
Messaged you randomly on kik...
You don't know who they are...
They agreed to meet immediately...
Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen
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With all of the above… take that advice and be glad you’re not waking up after being sedated and missing a kidney….. urban legend stuff …. But you’ve got to be aware there Jackie…. There is danger out there…
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get the fuck away from them!!!
Yes im sure the wife is a stunner!!
They always are!! ( No disrespect meant to the ladies! ).
But there's always an excuse that you can't talk to her!!??
Red flag!!
Complete time wasters!!! |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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OP you really need to talk in detail with them and gauge their expectations... but why would you even agree to meet a couple for a fmm if you aren't even bi curious? There are plenty of couples on the site you could meet for a mfm... |
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When you chat on the phone, insist on talking to Mrs. With most women, it matters what you look and sound like. If she's unavailable to chat, it's likely she doesn't exist. Sorry to burst your fantasy bubble. That's the way the site is. You'll learn though, and eventually you'll have some fun. |
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