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Why do men fail to turn up for gangbangs
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By *iver80 OP Man
over a year ago
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I've come across a few topics and this poops up again and again ,women or couples that organise gangbangs and the lads don't turn up and not only that get cold feet and not show any respect to the lady to say they can't meet it or just say you lost your bottle 
There are some stunning women on this I would absolutely appreciate a gangbang meet with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've come across a few topics and this poops up again and again ,women or couples that organise gangbangs and the lads don't turn up and not only that get cold feet and not show any respect to the lady to say they can't meet it or just say you lost your bottle
There are some stunning women on this I would absolutely appreciate a gangbang meet with "
Has to a Freudian slip! Poop! Sorry, I couldn’t resist.
And I agree with you. How any guy wouldn’t turn up with the ladies on here baffles me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they say yes as a way of getting access to a vagina.
But the reality of sharing said vagina dawns on them.
Same reason alot of guys bail on couples or start chatting and then suggest meeting the female half alone.
Not the only reasons obviously but I would wager its high on the list |
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Well if you throw in the chance of "crossed swords" as well as stage fright scares some guys.
my "problem" is the opposite of PE, due to losing some sensitity when having a late circumsision it can sometimes be a "struggle" to pop at all! I usually state that up front so a lady knows it's nothing to do with her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a man knows he can perform alongside a group of his peers and his done it before he is suitable if he knows he has the time to attend is important.
If a man has never experienced group sex before he does not know how he will react beside other naked men and one woman |
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Hardly makes much difference if they blow the load in a few seconds anyway. Certainly not to the lady as there will another cock filling her seconds later and I doubt the next guy would complain that his turn has come quickly (boom boom!)
Getting it up would be a different issue though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say that I can’t understand why some guys wouldn’t turn up. For me a gangbang/threesome is the ultimate fantasy and I’d absolutely jump at the opportunity to participate in one. I do scratch my head though when I hear someone opting out. Everyone has stuff going on in their lives but if you are organising something like this then you need to really make sure that you’re time and schedule is completely free with no distraction. |
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Some men do turn up!!!
The issue is all about the wrong choice of profile.
Badly organised Gangbangs, weird comments, will make turn back.
Too many lads not turn up but don't put everyone in the same basket just make sure of the right choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,
A lot of the time it's not about "lasting""
Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,
A lot of the time it's not about "lasting"
Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either"
I think they mean "starting" being the issue |
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"Hardly makes much difference if they blow the load in a few seconds anyway. Certainly not to the lady as there will another cock filling her seconds later and I doubt the next guy would complain that his turn has come quickly (boom boom!)
Getting it up would be a different issue though! "
All good points |
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It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through. |
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By *ymboMan
over a year ago
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"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,
A lot of the time it's not about "lasting"
Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either"
If I'm lasting "too long" I go to the end of the queue again ... keep the line moving.  |
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"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,
A lot of the time it's not about "lasting"
Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either
If I'm lasting "too long" I go to the end of the queue again ... keep the line moving. "
It's a gangbang, more about the fucking, less of a love story  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've come across a few topics and this poops up again and again ,women or couples that organise gangbangs and the lads don't turn up and not only that get cold feet and not show any respect to the lady to say they can't meet it or just say you lost your bottle
There are some stunning women on this I would absolutely appreciate a gangbang meet with "
They aren't all they are cracked up to be.... if you actually get to be in one.
Youll find that there are plenty of women you think youd love to have a gangbsng meet with but in reality you just want to fuck them and think ill grab any opportunity  |
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By *azirlMan
over a year ago
Marbella |
People flake in real life all the time for all sorts of things but it’s pretty much only men that get shit for this one in particular.
There’s loads of women and couples etc that make plans but then flake or ghost. That’s generally seen as fine because after all you wouldn’t want them doing something they aren’t actually comfortable with and going along with it for the sake of it.
It’s bad form no matter who you are to flake at the last minute or to ghost but let’s apply the judgement fairly if we’re being judgemental. |
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Considering the ratio of single men to women is so high I found it astonishing when I organised a recent gang bang. Out of approx 50 invites sent, 7 turned up. Not all replied, some replied but didn't suit (Saturday, no excuse for wife). Some cancelled at last minute, some who said they were definitely attending didn't bother to let me know.
It's often said, want 5 ask 20 and panic, fright, anxiety will whittle it down naturally.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Considering the ratio of single men to women is so high I found it astonishing when I organised a recent gang bang. Out of approx 50 invites sent, 7 turned up. Not all replied, some replied but didn't suit (Saturday, no excuse for wife). Some cancelled at last minute, some who said they were definitely attending didn't bother to let me know.
It's often said, want 5 ask 20 and panic, fright, anxiety will whittle it down naturally.
F.
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This sounds worryingly similar to organising a game of 5aside |
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"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through. "
Ah try me the next time |
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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago
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"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.
Ah try me the next time"
What guy does not turn up for a FFM  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.
Ah try me the next time
What guy does not turn up for a FFM "
Inexcusable! |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.
Ah try me the next time
What guy does not turn up for a FFM "
A gay one. Did I answer right? What do I win?.... |
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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago
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"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.
Ah try me the next time
What guy does not turn up for a FFM
A gay one. Did I answer right? What do I win?.... "
You win a Pearl necklace from that guy that didn’t show up to the FFM ?? |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.
Ah try me the next time
What guy does not turn up for a FFM
A gay one. Did I answer right? What do I win?....
You win a Pearl necklace from that guy that didn’t show up to the FFM ??"
That's the only kind of meet I'd not show up for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have organised 3 Gangbangs, asked about 40 guys, got 25 replies and average 8 showed up...
The big question why no shows????"
Just looked at your profile there. Anyone that didn't show up for you has serious issues. |
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Cause people like stuff when horny that they might not like when not horny.
Some people can even feel shame or regret after stuff. Trans can get their head kicked in by a guy who had a rock hard cock the whole meet and never came so hard, as soon as he cums he might not like what just happened.
But I'm not sure why anyone would have one now. Is a bit like being in the 80s at the height of the aids crisis and thinking "wonder what bareback sex with a stranger in a bar is like". Just seems weird to me to wait till a risky time to try it. |
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By *ubeMan
over a year ago
Drogheda |
I don't understand why people don't turn up to a meet, and it's not just the men, I had a meet planned with a couple, they contacted me first, we chatted for a bit then on camera and everything was going well, a week later they wanted to meet in a hotel, so I booked the room, I sent them a message saying I was there, they sent back saying see you in an hour in the bar, I had a shower and dressed went to the bar, after about 2 hours with no sign of them I checked fab, they decided there profile, so it was a real waste of time. So not just the men on here are to blame for not showing up to a meet. |
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"Cause people like stuff when horny that they might not like when not horny.
Some people can even feel shame or regret after stuff. Trans can get their head kicked in by a guy who had a rock hard cock the whole meet and never came so hard, as soon as he cums he might not like what just happened.
But I'm not sure why anyone would have one now. Is a bit like being in the 80s at the height of the aids crisis and thinking "wonder what bareback sex with a stranger in a bar is like". Just seems weird to me to wait till a risky time to try it."
Christ....anything positive? |
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By *j2000Man
over a year ago
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Alot to do with ego & been macho.
Its 1 of thoes great ideas at the time.
Even something as simple as FFM is a head wreck first few times.
The expectation of what you have to do & preform is alot of pressure and fellas rather not show then fail.
MMF is worse you feel like you being judged more than ever.
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