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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The most off-putting is a profile that has obviously been thrown together with very little thought and is seeking results rapidly!
This process is like an investment that will come to fruition in the medium term, rather than being like a purchase of a Lotto Scratch Card!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Self degrading people. If you call your self a slut etc- that’s a red flag. "
Totally agree .. or daddy's girl n princess ..grow up ladies .. have more self respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Self degrading people. If you call your self a slut etc- that’s a red flag.
Totally agree .. or daddy's girl n princess ..grow up ladies .. have more self respect "
I might be totally off here, but isn't that a bit kink shaming?
If they are into that lifestyle here, and that's how they want to present themselves online that doesn't necessarily mean that they don't have self respect outside the site |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
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I might be totally off here, but isn't that a bit kink shaming?
If they are into that lifestyle here, and that's how they want to present themselves online that doesn't necessarily mean that they don't have self respect outside the site"
But we are not talking about life outside the page. Question is clear- what turns you off and that’s out answer. Like - I’m fat- and if that’s turn someone off that’s cool. I respect people choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might be totally off here, but isn't that a bit kink shaming?
If they are into that lifestyle here, and that's how they want to present themselves online that doesn't necessarily mean that they don't have self respect outside the site
And I completely agree with that, that for some people can be a turn off, the only reason I asked it was because someone said have more self respect(no disrespect to the person who said it). I agree that everyone has a turn off
But we are not talking about life outside the page. Question is clear- what turns you off and that’s out answer. Like - I’m fat- and if that’s turn someone off that’s cool. I respect people choices. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Terrrible dresses and flabby boobs
I can't afford a boob job .. the sag with age lol  "
It's a terrible thing to say in the first place I think, by the the way your boobs are gorgeous and natural so embrace them as I know you probably do anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No pictures at all, or a couple with only the females pictures on it, profiles who have unreal pictures but when i speak to them they are pushy(big turn off). I don't know, i haven't thought about it to much tbh but I will and get banned with more answers. |
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Profiles that come across as negative...
Don't do x, y, z
I don't like a, b, c
No dick pics, I'm a lady, but here are 10 pics of me having my pussy filled in by some gardening implements
Instant disinterest when the profile feels too self important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profiles that come across as negative...
Don't do x, y, z
I don't like a, b, c
No dick pics, I'm a lady, but here are 10 pics of me having my pussy filled in by some gardening implements
Instant disinterest when the profile feels too self important."
Great point tobe fair so many act like saints on here lol. |
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"Hidden profiles…
If you’re taking a break then fine, but hidden profiles should have a restriction of sorts. "
I think alot of people (especially women) hide their profile to prevent being bombarded with emails |
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"Hidden profiles…
If you’re taking a break then fine, but hidden profiles should have a restriction of sorts.
I think alot of people (especially women) hide their profile to prevent being bombarded with emails"
We get that, but you can still mail hidden profiles, so that doesn’t make sense either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Worse than no profile pics - random body parts that give absolutely no idea of the whole"
Do you mean those very up close pictures where you must turn your phone side ways or upside down to try make them out lol? |
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No pictures or little effort made, just get ignored!
Multiple close up pics of genitals!..or women with big boobs just having a dozen very close up pics of their boobs from slightly different angles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Close ups of dicks and vajayjays.
Dick pics with boxers down as far as the knees.
Demands, as opposed to preferences/likes in profiles.
Pictures going back years and years.
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Dick pics especially like 101 different angles why?? Women gaping fanny pics...ohhh and bareback photos if they only practice safe sex! Or 101 pics of them with other women with cum shots....
I am so easily put off ppl I find fab quite hard lol pardon the pun!To find ppl I'd like to play with sometimes I just prefar spontaneous meets after socials...
Ohh and ppl who insist they are professional, genuine or great personality well then your verifications will say so won't they?
Ohhh and verifications that say we did this that and the other! I only want to know your a nice genuine person not a town bike  |
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Couple profiles with no male pics
Toilet seats (worse open toilet seats lol) in the pic
Dirty room in background or dirty mirror
Naked apart from socks
No profile pic
No profile description or fill in later
And that Sydney university disclaimer (completely useless - it’s like chain mail at this stage) |
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By *ymboMan
over a year ago
here and there. |
"Couple profiles with no male pics
Toilet seats (worse open toilet seats lol) in the pic
Dirty room in background or dirty mirror
Naked apart from socks
No profile pic
No profile description or fill in later
And that Sydney university disclaimer (completely useless - it’s like chain mail at this stage) "
Agree with all of these. |
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Few things deserve an honorable mention:
Dirty fingernails (men and women)
Family photos in the background
Peeing/wet patches through clothes
Anal shots with poo goo coming out of the butt
"I'm a nice guy" - Nuff said.
"Type in a word in a subject" - eh? You can 100% tell if someone hasn't read a profile without code words.
"Send me a photo of you holding an object in a certain way so I know you're real" - nope.
Any variations of "25yo male looking for fun females", "40 year old female looking for males" written in the bio as a single line - come on, are you THAT dull?
Missus |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Foolishly, I used to be concerned about the contents of other members' profiles, but then I realised that if their profiles are unattractive, or contain verbiage about legal action, academic institutions, etc., and mine does not, my chances are increased! |
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"takes notes from all the ladies and couples comments.... thinkmy profile is ok on that basis, yet still no meets.. 
Except for the legal disclaimer   "
ah, didnt know that was a thing.. i just cut and paste someone elses. removes immediately |
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"takes notes from all the ladies and couples comments.... thinkmy profile is ok on that basis, yet still no meets..
Except for the legal disclaimer ah, didnt know that was a thing.. i just cut and paste someone elses. removes immediately"
Fair play to ya  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Worse than no profile pics - random body parts that give absolutely no idea of the whole
Do you mean those very up close pictures where you must turn your phone side ways or upside down to try make them out lol? "
OMG, that pisses me off so much! What am I looking at here? |
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"Women / couples with lists of demands
Don't think they are demands, I think they are preferences
Depends how they express those preferences. They are very often demands."
They are demands.
Couples are the funniest.
Write a good message but don’t make it too long or WE wont read it.
Be polite and courteous and complimentary but not simpering or flattering.
Don’t say Hi, Hey or how are you, WE are fine of course. NO CHIT CHAT
DONT send a dick pic but if you do it must be erect with the foreskin pulled back.
Be tall, not not too tall. SHE likes tall men but not so tall as they will intimidate her partner who is clearly punching.
Be good looking but not gorgeous.
Be single, NO CHEATERS, unless we really like you and then we’ll pretend we didn’t know
We’re looking for men but DONT MESSAGE US.
I read them for light relief at this stage.  |
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"Women / couples with lists of demands
Don't think they are demands, I think they are preferences
Depends how they express those preferences. They are very often demands.
They are demands.
Couples are the funniest.
Write a good message but don’t make it too long or WE wont read it.
Be polite and courteous and complimentary but not simpering or flattering.
Don’t say Hi, Hey or how are you, WE are fine of course. NO CHIT CHAT
DONT send a dick pic but if you do it must be erect with the foreskin pulled back.
Be tall, not not too tall. SHE likes tall men but not so tall as they will intimidate her partner who is clearly punching.
Be good looking but not gorgeous.
Be single, NO CHEATERS, unless we really like you and then we’ll pretend we didn’t know
We’re looking for men but DONT MESSAGE US.
I read them for light relief at this stage. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women / couples with lists of demands
Don't think they are demands, I think they are preferences
Depends how they express those preferences. They are very often demands.
They are demands.
Couples are the funniest.
Write a good message but don’t make it too long or WE wont read it.
Be polite and courteous and complimentary but not simpering or flattering.
Don’t say Hi, Hey or how are you, WE are fine of course. NO CHIT CHAT
DONT send a dick pic but if you do it must be erect with the foreskin pulled back.
Be tall, not not too tall. SHE likes tall men but not so tall as they will intimidate her partner who is clearly punching.
Be good looking but not gorgeous.
Be single, NO CHEATERS, unless we really like you and then we’ll pretend we didn’t know
We’re looking for men but DONT MESSAGE US.
I read them for light relief at this stage. "
And put the secret word that's hidden somewhere in our profile in the subject line, but only after you have translated it into Klingon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been peeling through this thread trying to see if any of the post apply to my profile haha if anybody has any constructive criticism on my profile be my guest ! Haha |
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By *trokedCouple
over a year ago
Galway , Dublin, London |
Hundreds of pics of her and zero pics of him!
People who put athletic in their profile and clearly only watch Sport of some type while downing snack boxes and pints,
And lads who who send naked full body pics while keeping their socks on !! |
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