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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it normal to want my wife to go elsewhere for sex. The more I think of it the more I want it to happen to the point where it is almost a turn on. I keep dropping hints to her but she’s not up for it “yet”. |
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"Is it normal to want my wife to go elsewhere for sex. The more I think of it the more I want it to happen to the point where it is almost a turn on. I keep dropping hints to her but she’s not up for it “yet”."
That's called 'hotwifing'. Lots of couples here are into it. Give her time, if she's considering it, then that's a good sign. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A few months back we had a good chat about things and she knows I’m bi curious but for some reason I’m fixed on her needs as we’ve only had sex once in 5 yrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few months back we had a good chat about things and she knows I’m bi curious but for some reason I’m fixed on her needs as we’ve only had sex once in 5 yrs."
5 years!!
I think i married her sister  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"A few months back we had a good chat about things and she knows I’m bi curious but for some reason I’m fixed on her needs as we’ve only had sex once in 5 yrs."
Shes getting it somewhere else?already |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
louth, Ireland |
"Is it normal to want my wife to go elsewhere for sex. The more I think of it the more I want it to happen to the point where it is almost a turn on. I keep dropping hints to her but she’s not up for it “yet”."
Like others have said just have an open conversation with her but 1 thing you said that makes me think it could be a bad idea, the part you said "it's almost a turn on"
Just remember 1 thing, if it happens and she does go off with someone else there is no going back
But if its something you both want then good luck OP |
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"She was here before but got overwhelmed it think and stopped. Maybe I want it more than her"
The fact that she was here before is very encouraging. Having a couples profile and tight filters will help with the overwhelm. Good luck  |
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Well just my imput here, I gave Mrs the wild card to go and have fun with anyone she wants but she not interested. that's her choice. we have had had 3sums with guys and its fuken hottt, even watching.. but at the end of the day regardless of what us guys desire we have to respect our partners desires.. |
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We chatted openly about it for 6 months before taking the plunge. It was a great decision and she loves the thrill of the build up and i love watching other guys have sex with her. It is nice to have mature adult meetings with nice guys. It has strengthened our marriage. |
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By *ssex vikingMan
over a year ago
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"A few months back we had a good chat about things and she knows I’m bi curious but for some reason I’m fixed on her needs as we’ve only had sex once in 5 yrs.
5 years!!
I think i married her sister "
Must be 3sisters
As I married the other |
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"We chatted openly about it for 6 months before taking the plunge. It was a great decision and she loves the thrill of the build up and i love watching other guys have sex with her. It is nice to have mature adult meetings with nice guys. It has strengthened our marriage."
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Have to agree with this.Has strengthened our marriage also |
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Fully agree.
We’ve been the same. Talking is a huge part and been completely open and honest with each other.
We recently took the plunge and the experience has been amazing and we feel as if the whole lifestyle has brought us closer together.
What we’ve learned from Our but of experience,
Is that the sex is amazing. The build up and the thrill.
But it’s everything else that goes with it that we love too.
We already had a very strong marriage!
But this has definitely made us even stronger and closer.
Love it |
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The whole experience needs to be indulged.
The Build up, the thrill, selecting the right man.
The right guy can really make the whole experience memorable by understanding the whole stag / hotwife dynamic and ethos. |
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