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So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about the noise, they will find the idea of old people having sex so cringe that they put in earbuds at all times when they're near your room |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really what you asked but my sisters neighbours were driving her mad at how loud they were so she got the walls in her home sound proofed. Made a massive improvement. |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. "
Give them money to go the cinema or something.
They'll probably end up in the park with cans or a cheap voddy or something  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give them some new earbuds or headphones for Christmas n can say it's while they're watching stuff in they're room so nobody else has to hear it at night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noise cancelling AirPods are a good investment..
We have the same problem.. the lengths we go to for a ride are unreal
We make sure we know where they are and what they are doing, work out how long they will be doing it and take our moments from there.
Coming home for lunch is really the only peace and quite we get 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say a silent apology and just do it ... sometimes in a blanket fort or face in a pillow to muffle my enjoyment lol, or early when the teens may be still be asleep. 
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What a fantastic excuse to build a blanket Fort...
Sorry love but I'm wreaked from building my Fort can we do the sexy next week. |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. "
I believe this is why dogging once became a thing , even with Irish weather conditions |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The headline of thread is interesting in that the addition of a comma could make a difference:
Sex, with teens in the house, or:
Sex with teens, in the house, or:
Sex with teens in, the house.
Eats, shoots, and leaves.
Eats shoots, and leaves.
Eats shoots and leaves. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Haven't reached that stage yet and I know its none of my business but not looking forward to being asked.
" dad can my boyfriend or girlfriend stay over in my room tonight " "
Well done to the " couple " who replied privately to this by first of all saying that their daughter asked and they said yes to the last message where the male half said it turned him on listening to her having sex as she sounds like her mother when she orgasms
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think teens should know what is going on by now and should move on.
Otherwise I suppose finding a time when they are out, or making a friend who can accommodate to let you at it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry about the noise, they will find the idea of old people having sex so cringe that they put in earbuds at all times when they're near your room "
So true lol |
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Well, sadly its the main reason why my wife won't have sex. Incredibly vanilla so our bed is the only place...never in the morning because the 10 year old bursts in...never at night because the teenagers are still awake.... never in any other room ....
The other reason is that she'd be tired, and while I definitely accept we're all tired by bedtime, there's no opportunity for sex.... she wouldn't even try it when I'm working from home and they are all in school....despite everything I've tried... so thankfully I found fab to look after the sexy fun... we still kiss, cuddle, etc, etc, and everything else is good....
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Whats wrong with just closing the door and going for it  I am sure they will be fine knowing their patents still have a sex life  well feck it thats how u now have teenagers
Plus theres no shame in sex between consenting adults  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny thing is that in a few years the feckers never hear you when you'll call them for dinner or to do housework "
It’s probably more funnier when you will probably have to listen too them coz they won’t be able to move out |
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By *do2022Man
over a year ago
Carrick-on-Shannon |
"Not really what you asked but my sisters neighbours were driving her mad at how loud they were so she got the walls in her home sound proofed. Made a massive improvement."
Good idea, was it expensive? |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens.
Your mrs actually wants sex with you ,, when she sees those ridicolous red net underpants "
Wow, a first class troll and keyboard warrior, with no public pictures, don’t take it out in others if you’ve to hide your own insecurities. Who calls them underpants anyway? Oh wait children because they haven’t matured enough to call them boxers or similar, same as the immaturity in your ridiculous comment. Attention seek much???
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"Wow, a first class troll and keyboard warrior, with no public pictures, don’t take it out in others if you’ve to hide your own insecurities. Who calls them underpants anyway? Oh wait children because they haven’t matured enough to call them boxers or similar, same as the immaturity in your ridiculous comment. Attention seek much???
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The trick is not to bother replying to them. Don't give them the attention they want. |
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"Not really what you asked but my sisters neighbours were driving her mad at how loud they were so she got the walls in her home sound proofed. Made a massive improvement."
Look I already apologied for that. |
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"Wow, a first class troll and keyboard warrior, with no public pictures, don’t take it out in others if you’ve to hide your own insecurities. Who calls them underpants anyway? Oh wait children because they haven’t matured enough to call them boxers or similar, same as the immaturity in your ridiculous comment. Attention seek much???
The trick is not to bother replying to them. Don't give them the attention they want."
Ah let them get their silly kicks |
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Well we have regular sex/rides in the bedroom with 4 teenagers in the house, they can hear us at it and no one is bothered,they even joke about about hearing us.. on one occasion we forgot to lock door and one walked in mid doggie. Lol. Just said "oopppsss" and left.. they even have seen the toys in open drawer.. |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. "
We have an ensuite so put on fan say I'm going for shower. She them says she getting ready for bed. Hopefully they haven't put 2in2 together lol.
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Luckily our bed doesn’t creak
But I do have to mute when I come, only downside
Probably why I like to release fully when not at home or when the house is free…
Even our dogs start barking then  |
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"Luckily our bed doesn’t creak
But I do have to mute when I come, only downside
Probably why I like to release fully when not at home or when the house is free…
Even our dogs start barking then "
Same here. Once the dogs must have thought something was happening to me as they came over to see what the heck was going on |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Luckily our bed doesn’t creak
But I do have to mute when I come, only downside
Probably why I like to release fully when not at home or when the house is free…
Even our dogs start barking then
Same here. Once the dogs must have thought something was happening to me as they came over to see what the heck was going on "
Yes we’ve had that too
Also I should add that ours are two adult children, still living with us..as is the case in many households.. but that warrants a whole new thread for another day |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. "
We go to the trouble of putting the duvet on the bedroom floor.
Our bed creaks so even if just turning in bed our teens bang on the wall or send us messages calling us gross lol |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens.
We go to the trouble of putting the duvet on the bedroom floor.
Our bed creaks so even if just turning in bed our teens bang on the wall or send us messages calling us gross lol"
To avoid bed creaks we do it standing up Infront of mirrow, great way to have a quikie, or I go home for lunch,) I'm sure they know here at work as don't go home all summer and suddenly go home once schools reopen |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Well we have regular sex/rides in the bedroom with 4 teenagers in the house, they can hear us at it and no one is bothered,they even joke about about hearing us.. on one occasion we forgot to lock door and one walked in mid doggie. Lol. Just said "oopppsss" and left.. they even have seen the toys in open drawer.. "
That's the way ..huge salute.  |
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Went to one ladies house she loved to be loud and fk rough even with a gag she was shouting the place down just with foreplay alone. I had to stop, be nice for her kids to see their mammy with a face full of balls lol.
Told her to drop kids at neighbours, cinema, babysitters etc. poor kids couldn’t be right seeing and hearing that shite. She was ?? fuming. Ha. |
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My dad had a novel solution to this. He'd give my brother and I a tenner each if we'd wash all the tools in his van up in the garage, the cement mixer etc. He checked them at 10:30 after he had his breakfast. Gas fucker |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. "
Its been awhile since I had that very same situation
Myself and my partner,we didnt have sex till the kids went to bed ,the kids apl been teenagers. Anx of course it theh made a issue but we told them,that a healthy sex life is part of adult relationship s, we would not be curtailing outs to suit there annoyance
I grew uo in a atmosphere where sex was a shameful secret
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. "
Its been awhile since I had that very same situation
Myself and my partner,we didnt have sex till the kids went to bed ,the kids apl been teenagers. Anx of course it the made a issue but we told them,that a healthy sex life is part of adult relationship s, we would not be curtailing outs to suit there annoyance
I grew up in a atmosphere where sex was a shameful secret ,my Partner she had similar experiences.
Our children dont need to know the exact nature of our pecadilos but they should be taught its not shameful
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We have teens in the house but we never let us stop us. We just keep it to the bedroom and "try" to be a little bit more discreet if they're awake but they've often heard us and have walked in on us once or twice. There is a sort of unwritten rule in the house, if our bedroom door is shut don't come in!
They way we look at it is that it's better they hear us ridding than hear us arguing |
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"So, we're finding it more and more impossible to get time alone at home for sexual encounters, there's always one of the teens at home and the walls are paper thin, the bed very creaky, herself a loud cummer. So we're relegated to heading off in the car for fun or silent early morning frolics in the bed when others are asleep. Just curious how do others here manage to find fun times without ears or eyes of the teens. "
Come to my place anytime! She can cum as loud as she wants! |
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Respectfully - sex is a completely normal and natural thing and the only reason there is awkwardness about teens overhearing or vice versa parents overhearing is because of social stigma and shame around sex and sexuality.
The teenage years are already so tumultuous with changes- the last thing teens need is ideas past down that sex is something to be hidden.
To be, being open and just having an active sex life whenever you as a couple want to have sex and then addressing any questions you have from your teens is the best and healthiest approach to take.
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As many said, it is better for the kids to hear you have so pleasure than a big fight. Sex life if every where even in the tv so the kids will figure it out soon or later enough , and if they ask , just better to answer without details lol |
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"Better having sex with them. In the house its cold outside
If ever a full stop was put in the wrong place,it's here!!!!! "
The whole phrasing was never going to work, but full stop had me reading it back a few times! |
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"Respectfully - sex is a completely normal and natural thing and the only reason there is awkwardness about teens overhearing or vice versa parents overhearing is because of social stigma and shame around sex and sexuality.
The teenage years are already so tumultuous with changes- the last thing teens need is ideas past down that sex is something to be hidden.
To be, being open and just having an active sex life whenever you as a couple want to have sex and then addressing any questions you have from your teens is the best and healthiest approach to take.
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I have to ageee. I grew up with such stigma around it. My daughter is now 22. Her mom insisted that we treat her as a young adult. Answer questions responsibly and be clear intimacy and sex are part of your relationship and don't hide it. As an Irish daddy I really had to get my head around my daughter bring her boyfriend to stay overnight. She would have had sex with him anyway as she is a good mix of me and her mum. This way, when she was ready, it was consensual and safe. Much more important life lesson than being ashamed of your sensuality. |
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...very late teens of course.
I think they know what is happening anyway.
