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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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I don’t particularly need anyone to complete me , make me whole , connect with me on all levels . Different special people in my life fulfil different special roles . This is the question I ask : if you meet your ‘soulmate’ at 25, then they pass away , are subsequent partners destined to always be lesser ? |
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There is a rationale/theory that we all have several potential soul mates and whichever you do or don't cross paths with is determined by all the randomness of life and free will 
Some find 'TheOne' that lasts forever, some experience a few due to various life events, and some none.
I like to be open to good fortune and happiness however or whenever I find it so a true partner in life is on the list for sure 
But my general satisfaction/happiness is not dependent on it. I think allowing your happiness in life to depend solely on having a +1 will eventually eat away at you and you can miss out on other opportunities for living life well.
There is a lot of counselling along the lines of being the type of person you wish to attract as like gravitates to like. Being fun and upbeat, living and loving well isn't really a bad way to get your day in |
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"I don’t particularly need anyone to complete me , make me whole , connect with me on all levels . Different special people in my life fulfil different special roles . This is the question I ask : if you meet your ‘soulmate’ at 25, then they pass away , are subsequent partners destined to always be lesser ?"
Its a bit much to expect 1 person to fulfil all your needs alright.
But one person may be special enough to fill the needs of your soul, if you believe in that.
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I think a number of people together, might make a soulmate. No one woman could possibly satisfy all my needs, want, desires, throughout my lifetime. We all change over the years. But, i occasionally catch a glimpse of a potential soul mate, my anam cara, and im always intrigued enough to follow through, to explore, to see where it might lead. |
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"I don’t particularly need anyone to complete me , make me whole , connect with me on all levels . Different special people in my life fulfil different special roles . This is the question I ask : if you meet your ‘soulmate’ at 25, then they pass away , are subsequent partners destined to always be lesser ?"
No , they're not lesser, they're what's there at that time , and it's not about having one person to complete you , you're soulmate doesn't " complete " you .. ln my opinion your soulmate enhances your life ..your attitude..makes you feel alive ..they do not " complete " you ..they simply enhance your life in the way you want it to be,..your soulmate is a person that you want to be with . |
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