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Ladies and gentlemen who are you prefer to get with single guys/ girls or married, how long do you think should have a regular fb?
In pass I had a problem with married guy who wants to meet me regularly, then I thought maybe with single guy I would have regular nsa fun , but starting seeing that he trying to attach some strings between us , so now mostly I have a single meet or spread meeting same guy between other meetings with guys. Regular fb not for me at all, I am afraid of it, I know that even sex is much better with a regular fb than meeting every time now person.
Ps sorry for my English maybe not best, but I hope you understand the point |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Ladies and gentlemen who are you prefer to get with single guys/ girls or married, how long do you think should have a regular fb?
In pass I had a problem with married guy who wants to meet me regularly, then I thought maybe with single guy I would have regular nsa fun , but starting seeing that he trying to attach some strings between us , so now mostly I have a single meet or spread meeting same guy between other meetings with guys. Regular fb not for me at all, I am afraid of it, I know that even sex is much better with a regular fb than meeting every time now person.
Ps sorry for my English maybe not best, but I hope you understand the point "
On a previous profile I always said I’d never get with a married woman & I did .. & have to say it was the best arrangement and possibly sex I’ve ever had .. why? Cos there was no strings .. meet for a couple of hours then go off & do our own thing … there was little communication between us until we’d arranged to meet again .. then I’ve had the regular single FB & don’t get me wrong sex was great to but the difference was she’d stay the night & text me everyday & I won’t go into that much more … so in my experience married is a better overall choice (sounding like a Fkr here) if you just want a pure sexual connection.. single regular also has its benefits , knowing what each other wants & likes but it’s just different.. dunno why .. just is
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I have to agree, my friend is married, we meet regularly when she is free, the sexual chemistry is probably the best I’ve ever had. We are friends that have sex and neither one of us are trying to change each other’s life in anyway. I know this isn’t for everyone but it works for us |
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"Ladies and gentlemen who are you prefer to get with single guys/ girls or married, how long do you think should have a regular fb?
In pass I had a problem with married guy who wants to meet me regularly, then I thought maybe with single guy I would have regular nsa fun , but starting seeing that he trying to attach some strings between us , so now mostly I have a single meet or spread meeting same guy between other meetings with guys. Regular fb not for me at all, I am afraid of it, I know that even sex is much better with a regular fb than meeting every time now person.
Ps sorry for my English maybe not best, but I hope you understand the point "
No need to apologise I think your English is great. Regarding the question, being married (me) I prefer married or in relationship however I’ve met single ladies too who just want the FWB scenario so I suppose it depends  |
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"I have to agree, my friend is married, we meet regularly when she is free, the sexual chemistry is probably the best I’ve ever had. We are friends that have sex and neither one of us are trying to change each other’s life in anyway. I know this isn’t for everyone but it works for us"
Agreed from me also, well said.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Married/attached works well for me.
Full understanding of each other's personal situations and no unreasonable expectations on either side.....providing the correct chemistry exists of course.
Exactly!
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By *aton28Man 32 weeks ago
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As long as the rules/expectations are agreed and clear at the beginning then either works. However, as already mentioned sometimes people become attached and once that starts then it is time to call it quits. |
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Had a regular ‘thing’ ( such a way to put it) with a married girl for years and it was amazing.., ‘till it went pear shaped 
Agree with poster above, it’s the individual that matters not the circumstances, but then fab full of pre-judgements so don’t quite get the narrative on here at times . |
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Summarising it can split on four different scenarios:
Single woman one night stand
single woman regular
Married/attached woman one night stand
Married/attached woman regular
After experiencing all the above my choice is: Married/attached woman regular.
Why?
No strings.
No commitment risk
More exciting adventure
The mystic of the forbidden
Less frequency
Less pressure
Kinkier and naughtier
Unprotected sex till completion
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Summarising it can split on four different scenarios:
Single woman one night stand
single woman regular
Married/attached woman one night stand
Married/attached woman regular
After experiencing all the above my choice is: Married/attached woman regular.
Why?
No strings.
No commitment risk
More exciting adventure
The mystic of the forbidden
Less frequency
Less pressure
Kinkier and naughtier
Unprotected sex till completion
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I have to agree |
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By *igart69Man 32 weeks ago
lisburn/ carryduff |
No preference to this. Only thing I ask for is drama free meets. It's all only about having fun in the end of the day. Ppl need to remember not to take it all so serious not get to attached. |
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Single guys all the way or couple's, I just have a boundary each to their own not into judging anyone . But I like late evening meets at mine and I feel more relaxed if a guys solo or his missus is oka
Never liked triangle's or being involved in something where there's a potential of a third party getting hurt or upset.
My exe was cheating on me, she couldn't help herself, mostly a good person I don't hate her, just disappointed with her. Shit happens and sure I'm happier exploring my bi side. She knew I crossed dressed and was bi, but we said we'd just stick together. Lol anyhow I'm enjoying being solo   |
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By *itlbeeCouple 32 weeks ago
Ireland |
Lack of clarification here about whether we're talking ethical non-monogamy. Or cheating.
Tons of couples on here have some arrangement for solo play pals. For that reason members of a swinging couple can be wonderful play pals, as you're all in the same boat. You have a clear dynamic and it can be a nice regular thing.
I recommend looking for half of a swinging couple (who has permission!) Very highly.
But I would never go near a cheating man. There's simply no reason too when there are other options available.
It would be putting a target on my back for an angry, hurt spouse, and I could never risk being a part of something that would hurt another woman so much.
On top of that, cheating people are unreliable, they could need to call off meets quickly, and it would be harder for them to get regular STI screenings without risking suspicion . |
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The best sex I ever had was with a married woman, don't judge anyone's personal circumstances, she is in a happy relationship with her husband but he just couldn't have sex with her due to an injury . But after 2 yrs of regular meets (once a month )she couldn't deal with the guilt & ended it . We still keep in touch but she's resigned herself to a sexless life now
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I've been in an on and off fwb for a few years with a woman who is poly and has a primary partner. We don't always sleep together. Sometimes we just hang out for cuddles.
I've been in a situation with a friend where one of us started to feel attached in a way that was causing sadness and we talked through it until we came to an understanding and we still see each other. We've been friends for ten years.
In the last three years I've learned a lot about understanding my own limitations and the importance of being able to manage to my boundaries or letting them evolve as my life changes.
I don't believe that if one person has feelings the other needs to end things. As long as everyone understands the situation then I believe they/I can choose, as an adult, to continue to be happy even in the face of eventual sadness should things not work out. I feel choice belongs to no one else.
As a commitmented single, or solo poly if you swing that way, I still enjoy long term intimate relationships and the attachment that comes with them. I'm prepared for that and I don't want to close my heart to it.
In the words of a great and wise tantra teacher
'If you don't know where your no is, what value does your yes have?'
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts and stories . How many people that many options. It’s working for everyone their way.It’s great to hear that most of you enjoying the side.
I am personally don’t want to shag lots of guys, I like to have a few regular guys, just I am unsecured about fun can get out of the hands ( not from my side) . Maybe for some people it’s a stupid question, but not for me after been in the dark side of the fab, so I don’t want my private life is not going to be mixed with fun . I don’t label people or judging, just want to have fun, laugh with out any hassle. Thanks a mill for every one who wrote on my thread, enjoy life hassle free xxx |
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"Summarising it can split on four different scenarios:
Single woman one night stand
single woman regular
Married/attached woman one night stand
Married/attached woman regular
After experiencing all the above my choice is: Married/attached woman regular.
Why?
No strings.
No commitment risk
More exciting adventure
The mystic of the forbidden
Less frequency
Less pressure
Kinkier and naughtier
Unprotected sex till completion
"
Totally agree...it always works better for me when the Lady is attached/married, but I am more comfortable when the husband/partner knows and condones it |
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Best sex I ever have is with a regular FB who is married.
It's crazy, passionate, sweaty sex that lasts about 7 to 8 hours, with multiple rounds. Being regular means we are both comfortable with each other and the connection underlines the physical.
She loves her family, but I do things for her that her husband doesn't and I always ask her to be selfish when with me by ensuring her needs are met. Trust me, she uses me in all sorts of ways, and the look on her face as she does it means I know I'm doing well. |
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"Ladies and gentlemen who are you prefer to get with single guys/ girls or married, how long do you think should have a regular fb?
In pass I had a problem with married guy who wants to meet me regularly, then I thought maybe with single guy I would have regular nsa fun , but starting seeing that he trying to attach some strings between us , so now mostly I have a single meet or spread meeting same guy between other meetings with guys. Regular fb not for me at all, I am afraid of it, I know that even sex is much better with a regular fb than meeting every time now person.
Ps sorry for my English maybe not best, but I hope you understand the point
On a previous profile I always said I’d never get with a married woman & I did .. & have to say it was the best arrangement and possibly sex I’ve ever had .. why? Cos there was no strings .. meet for a couple of hours then go off & do our own thing … there was little communication between us until we’d arranged to meet again .. then I’ve had the regular single FB & don’t get me wrong sex was great to but the difference was she’d stay the night & text me everyday & I won’t go into that much more … so in my experience married is a better overall choice (sounding like a Fkr here) if you just want a pure sexual connection.. single regular also has its benefits , knowing what each other wants & likes but it’s just different.. dunno why .. just is
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I see married/ attached guys are better for a regular fb than single and I see your clear point why and I agree with you. |
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"Summarising it can split on four different scenarios:
Single woman one night stand
single woman regular
Married/attached woman one night stand
Married/attached woman regular
After experiencing all the above my choice is: Married/attached woman regular.
Why?
No strings.
No commitment risk
More exciting adventure
The mystic of the forbidden
Less frequency
Less pressure
Kinkier and naughtier
Unprotected sex till completion
Totally agree...it always works better for me when the Lady is attached/married, but I am more comfortable when the husband/partner knows and condones it"
Hotwifing vs adultery is what you mean, ok, it doesn’t depends on you but her and the way how that married lady wants to manage her private family life. |
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What’s fb? Is that friends with benefits?
I (Mrs) can’t enjoy myself when we’re seeing someone who’s cheating. Most times I’ll pick up on it and it’s just not something we’re interested in getting possibly tangled up in.
But meeting both parts of a married couple can be fun. And a hot wife (with their hubs knowing) might be an interesting dynamic too  |
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"What’s fb? Is that friends with benefits?
I (Mrs) can’t enjoy myself when we’re seeing someone who’s cheating. Most times I’ll pick up on it and it’s just not something we’re interested in getting possibly tangled up in.
But meeting both parts of a married couple can be fun. And a hot wife (with their hubs knowing) might be an interesting dynamic too "
FWB implies some hanging out together, an actual friendship where both friends also look after each other's physical needs.
FB is Fuck Buddy. Two people who meet to look after each other's sexual needs but don't hang out together |
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