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What do you consider kinky?
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One person's kinky is another person's plain vanilla.
For example, some ladies I have been with considered anal penetration with a thumb or dildo bog standard practice, where others would consider it rather unstandard and very uncommon even though they found it enjoyable.
Feel free to share what you think is kinky, or what your definition of kinky is. |
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My definition of kinky is someone who gets a little or alot extra sided by something that THEY find unusual. So if it's a bit of a flutter for someone then it's their kink! That works then regardless of what others think about how unusual or extreme something is
Full body electro stim with whips and chains? Sure thing. Sex with your socks on? Absolutely. Whatever floats your boat! |
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What is considered kinky can vary widely between individuals and relationships, as it ultimately depends on the preferences and boundaries of the people involved. Communication, trust, and consent are key components of engaging in any kind of kinky activities.
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By *panishRebelMan 5 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
Kinky as defined in a dictionary....INFORMAL
involving or given to unusual sexual behaviour.
By definition then what becomes usual to those who practice something is no longer kinky to them.
It's a very vague thing to define being open to possible/probable change over time, culture or community.
To co-opt a phrase,....one mans kink is another mans vanilla.
I like a lot of flavour but feck, a life without vanilla ice-cream would be a lesser life.  |
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And my kinks are always evolving. I used to think sex in the woods was kinky, now I'm no longer interested. I've explored my various kinks over the years, and it's been a revelation where they come from. Right now, a simple 69 , something I haven't experienced in a long time is my go to kink. Or face sitting..hmmmmm. I've never had the experience, so the curiousity drives me. |
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I think kinky is just something that not everyone would find arousing.
I went through a phase of finding fruit very erotic, even peeling an apple lol, but especially using fruit for sensual play. I didn't consider it kinky but others might cos it's a bit unusual
But tell me really, who doesn't enjoy biting into a juicy strawberry and sharing it with a lover  mmmm |
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"And my kinks are always evolving. I used to think sex in the woods was kinky, now I'm no longer interested. I've explored my various kinks over the years, and it's been a revelation where they come from. Right now, a simple 69 , something I haven't experienced in a long time is my go to kink. Or face sitting..hmmmmm. I've never had the experience, so the curiousity drives me. "
Sexual exploration is evolution for sure |
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A kink is something that you do depending on the mood and partner, not on a frequent basis or that's just a fetish. It's a choice based on preferences, mind you some people don't realise that they have a kink until they've experienced something different. |
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By *rRiosMan 5 weeks ago
Dublin |
"I think kinky is just something that not everyone would find arousing.
I went through a phase of finding fruit very erotic, even peeling an apple lol, but especially using fruit for sensual play. I didn't consider it kinky but others might cos it's a bit unusual
But tell me really, who doesn't enjoy biting into a juicy strawberry and sharing it with a lover mmmm"
An apple you say? I find this very apeeling…  |
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By *om TangoMan 5 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
My kink is a long one. Sitting in a room and have a sub come in and tell her to undress while I watch. When she is undressed to her underwear I place a blindfold on her. That’s just the warm up and my poor aul finger would be sore writing the rest out. But basically my kink would involve a coffee meeting or 2 to discuss boundaries, consent and safe words |
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So many types of Kinky for everyone, from a woman kissing another woman’s husband to another woman having 5 men pleasuring her,
The great thing is we are all different ,if we were all the same it would be a very boring world
One for me was to be asked to a couples house and before we go out for a few drinks bring the wife upstairs and pick the lingerie and dress for her to wear , I found that extremely kinky especially on a first meet |
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