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Can accommodate, what that means 2U?
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Hey there, all you Fab people.
We kinda have a misunderstanding to settle.
What does 'Can accommodate' mean to you?
Sure, anyone can get a hotel room, does that count? You know, the willingness to pay for it. Or, does it mean you will invite to yourself, whatever you have, room, apt, house, castle, spaceship? 
Or, maybe, Can't accommodate is just ... Not in my home, not willing to pay... ?
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By *ustBoWoman 3 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I just see it as someone not wanting to bring people back to them home. I have it on my profile because I don't want people I barely know knowing where I live. My home is my safe place. If I agree to meet someone in a hotel etc I pay my share. That's not an issue. |
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"Hey there, all you Fab people.
We kinda have a misunderstanding to settle.
What does 'Can accommodate' mean to you?
Sure, anyone can get a hotel room, does that count? You know, the willingness to pay for it. Or, does it mean you will invite to yourself, whatever you have, room, apt, house, castle, spaceship?
Or, maybe, Can't accommodate is just ... Not in my home, not willing to pay... ?
We would love to hear your takes "
For us is 100% we book a hotel and invite someone over... our home is a no go 95% of the time |
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Can accommodate to me means, that someone can accommodate in their house. Where I see can’t accommodate, it means it’s a hotel meet. I can accommodate in my house, doesn’t mean I’ll have everyone around. My children stay with me often during the week for a variety of reasons, coming to see me, staying over cause it’s easier for work, school or college or whatever. |
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By *ollypop9Woman 3 weeks ago
wouldn't you like to know |
Ok, my two cents.
I'm looking for a regular fb, so I'm kind of avoiding profiles who can't accommodate as I can't afford hotels for the foreseeable.
If I start chatting and getting on with someone who can accommodate and then find out it's in hotels that's then disappointing for me as yes, fair play for you wanting to pay, but I'd rather always go half's. And on a regular basis I certainly wouldn't want just the guy always paying.
And yes, I do know that nobody has to open their home up to me, but that's my current situation. |
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By *panishRebelMan 3 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
I can accommodate at my flat in Spain. 50 % of the time however I have my kids. So I also have can travel. But the same goes 50% of the time I can't.
Both these options are indicators only. I have often read profiles which clarify further their parameters.
I like the fab layout because it's simple and it can be adapted by anyone to their own needs.
Communication is key if not directly on the profile, soon after in messages. No difference to daily life or vanilla on that issue.
So no matter what way we interpret a profile option, someone else, will see it differently.
Chat is the only fulfilling way to clarify things.
Maybe anyone who gets upset over a contra understood profile option can be side stepped. |
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We would generally ignore whatever they have in this section and sort this all out from chatting. Also - if you really REALLY want to meet then you can generally find a way eventually with a bit of planning. |
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"We would generally ignore whatever they have in this section and sort this all out from chatting. Also - if you really REALLY want to meet then you can generally find a way eventually with a bit of planning."
agreeded never pay too much attention as there are so many ways to accomm if 2 people get on and want to go down that route .accommodation has never been n issue its clicking with the right person n getting to that point can be difficult at times
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I told a guy before I never accommodate he suggested he come up to fuck me in my turf shed. The only loads going into that shed will be the turf kind
Met another guy for coffee who told me he had a big surprise for me regarding accommodating me. After coffee he said let's retire to my work van there's a mattress in the back. Call me old fashioned but I don't want to be railed in a Tesco carpark now Lidl maybe |
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I always assumed in your place. I know some ladies that have contacted me on my previous profile before I could accommodate, basically thought if a man couldn't accommodate then he was most likely cheating. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 2 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"I always assumed in your place. I know some ladies that have contacted me on my previous profile before I could accommodate, basically thought if a man couldn't accommodate then he was most likely cheating."
On the other hand, "can accommodate" often means they can't bring you home to the wife, but handily enough they have a hotel on the boss's dollar |
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"I always assumed in your place. I know some ladies that have contacted me on my previous profile before I could accommodate, basically thought if a man couldn't accommodate then he was most likely cheating.
On the other hand, "can accommodate" often means they can't bring you home to the wife, but handily enough they have a hotel on the boss's dollar"
The last time I was on I was still living with my ex wife ( saving to separate properly)
Most women i spoke to on here assumed i was cheating. |
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"I just see it as someone not wanting to bring people back to them home. I have it on my profile because I don't want people I barely know knowing where I live. My home is my safe place. If I agree to meet someone in a hotel etc I pay my share. That's not an issue. "
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"I told a guy before I never accommodate he suggested he come up to fuck me in my turf shed. The only loads going into that shed will be the turf kind
Met another guy for coffee who told me he had a big surprise for me regarding accommodating me. After coffee he said let's retire to my work van there's a mattress in the back. Call me old fashioned but I don't want to be railed in a Tesco carpark now Lidl maybe "
Oh the white van invites.
Had a guy tell me he was coming over to give me his 8inches in the back of his van. Was the first message he sent to my own profile, not so much as a hello with it; he was just gonna pull up outside and I was to get in the back to get dicked down. It’s a mystery how I resisted such an offer really 
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"I told a guy before I never accommodate he suggested he come up to fuck me in my turf shed. The only loads going into that shed will be the turf kind
Met another guy for coffee who told me he had a big surprise for me regarding accommodating me. After coffee he said let's retire to my work van there's a mattress in the back. Call me old fashioned but I don't want to be railed in a Tesco carpark now Lidl maybe
Oh the white van invites.
Had a guy tell me he was coming over to give me his 8inches in the back of his van. Was the first message he sent to my own profile, not so much as a hello with it; he was just gonna pull up outside and I was to get in the back to get dicked down. It’s a mystery how I resisted such an offer really
Ella "
Whenever things aren't going well on fab and not seeing much interest and my confidence drops,
I'll remember this and remind myself that I'm not that bad. |
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If I start chatting and getting on with someone who can accommodate and then find out it's in hotels that's then disappointing for me as yes, fair play for you wanting to pay, but I'd rather always go half's. And on a regular basis I certainly wouldn't want just the guy always paying."
same thinking for me! |
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By *og-ManMan 2 weeks ago
somewhere |
Just as matter of interest to those flat or house sharing
I presume that bringing home someone to your room overnight or just a few hours is fine
Bringing a couple to your room would require an explanation to flatmates |
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My profile states I can accommodate but only for someone I'd feel I could trust and am comfortable with. I'm a decent judge of character so haven't had any headbangers yet.
By the way ladies...Don't start sending me pussy pics and telling me you're in the area just coz I can accommodate. |
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"Just as matter of interest to those flat or house sharing
I presume that bringing home someone to your room overnight or just a few hours is fine
Bringing a couple to your room would require an explanation to flatmates "
I'm currently sharing and I just don't bring anyone over with my housemate there. So I can accommodate but only certain days/nights etc |
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"Just as matter of interest to those flat or house sharing
I presume that bringing home someone to your room overnight or just a few hours is fine
Bringing a couple to your room would require an explanation to flatmates "
I wouldn’t put my housemate in a situation where I’m bringing random people over. It’s not fair to her.
If I knew them well and had met a few times, I’d consider it but I’d be more likely to wait until I had the house to myself. |
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If you say you can accommodate it means you can relax, have a G&T/ netflix and not worry that they no show!
If they say they accommodate it means, don't bother with making any beauty appointments, go shopping, take kids out because the "dog ate my homework" message will be arriving soon.
Definitely would not go booking a hotel to be sat bored on your own for the evening. |
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To me, if someone says they can accommodate, it means in their own home. I'm not particularly bothered if it turns out to be in a hotel as that's my preference anyway for a first meet.
There's definitely incidences where "can accommodate" has turned out to be a car/van/lorry...that's a hard pass for me. |
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Can accommodate means “I can accommodate” and this happens when I am travelling on business so I have a hotel room available to accommodate. I never accommodate at my home as I find this as my very private space out of fabs meetings. |
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By *ilderMan 2 weeks ago
dublin |
"I told a guy before I never accommodate he suggested he come up to fuck me in my turf shed. The only loads going into that shed will be the turf kind
Met another guy for coffee who told me he had a big surprise for me regarding accommodating me. After coffee he said let's retire to my work van there's a mattress in the back. Call me old fashioned but I don't want to be railed in a Tesco carpark now Lidl maybe "
Every lidl helps?... |
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"I had a fella tell me once he could accommodate but he'd have to move the kids car seat's into the boot of the car
No way…. Please tell me this is a joke??? "
I know I'm always messing on the forums but I'm deadly serious about this! He couldn't believe I turned him down |
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Maybe its my bullshit radar but the can't accommodate ones were always red flags. Im "single" but just need to missus that "fact".
My house is my sanctuary so very careful on who l accommodate.
But agreed above, personally a chat or spilt the bill is the best option. |
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I can accommodate but undecided if I want to. Depends on if its a person I've met before and not someone new.
Unfortunately that will count me out for alot of fabbers but so be it.
My kids live here part time. |
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but disrespectful to you. There should be a text entry field named 'other' in the settings. He could write 'can accommodate in your car, or I have to move child seats in mine. 
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