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Have you ever faked it
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By *og-Man OP Man 4 weeks ago
somewhere |
Just watching When Harry Met Sally based on an idea from another thread
Ladies or Gents have you ever faked an orgasm
Men would you be 100% certain that the woman you're having sex with is not faking one
Ladies if you're with another woman would you be 100% certain.
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"How does a guy fake an orgasm?
Concealed turkey baster?
With a condom on could a woman or man be certain
Thought the turkey basters were only used to get women pregnant  "
Unless you blindfold them and finishb all over them...
Yes I know I appear to have thought this through but I haven't done it honest. |
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It’s hard for women to fake also because usually when being intimate some
Part of my body is near her pussy - so you always feel the pulsing that comes with orgasm…. Even if play is around the wee hole… you can feel the throb / pulse that comes with orgasm. Any other guys agree? |
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"It’s hard for women to fake also because usually when being intimate some
Part of my body is near her pussy - so you always feel the pulsing that comes with orgasm…. Even if play is around the wee hole… you can feel the throb / pulse that comes with orgasm. Any other guys agree?"
I dunno about that. So many different types of orgasms. And different women climax in very different ways.
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Hmmm any time ogs helped a lady orgasm there’s almost always a pulsing / throbbing feeling… my metrical favourite is gently caressing the wee hole while also inside her…. Jeez I’m getting bit carried away! Sorry |
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By *ettaManMan 4 weeks ago
Kerry and Dublin |
I've only faked it once before. Now I just say if I didn't and don't make a big deal of it.
I wouldn't say I can tell 100% if a partner fakes it, bcos there are times when you're left wondering. But most of the time there's no doubt.
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No doubt she did (sorry to ruin the opportunity for a punchline). |
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By *ORBCouple 4 weeks ago
Dundalk |
Yes I have a quite a few times many years ago.
Now I couldn't be bothered faking anymore,it either happens or it doesn't. And usually it does 
Thought I should add it's Bo saying this |
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By *og-Man OP Man 4 weeks ago
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Yes I have a quite a few times many years ago.
Now I couldn't be bothered faking anymore,it either happens or it doesn't. And usually it does
Thought I should add it's Bo saying this "
Glad you cleared that up |
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Any woman can fake it and not a single guy will never know! As for pulsing! Sure thats easy, even shakes! But what's the reason to fake is the bigger question! Bored, not doing it for you! Get me out of here, he hasn't a clue what he's doing. I'm not a turkey stop trying to stuff half the kitchen sink inside me.
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"Any woman can fake it and not a single guy will never know! As for pulsing! Sure thats easy, even shakes! But what's the reason to fake is the bigger question! Bored, not doing it for you! Get me out of here, he hasn't a clue what he's doing. I'm not a turkey stop trying to stuff half the kitchen sink inside me.
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It would need to be a fairly brave man to attempt to make you cum.
Personally I would rather chance the turkey.
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By *indenMan 4 weeks ago
naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Any woman can fake it and not a single guy will never know! As for pulsing! Sure thats easy, even shakes! But what's the reason to fake is the bigger question! Bored, not doing it for you! Get me out of here, he hasn't a clue what he's doing. I'm not a turkey stop trying to stuff half the kitchen sink inside me.
It would need to be a fairly brave man to attempt to make you cum.
Personally I would rather chance the turkey.
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Don’t forget the baster…… |
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By *indenMan 4 weeks ago
naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Any woman can fake it and not a single guy will never know! As for pulsing! Sure thats easy, even shakes! But what's the reason to fake is the bigger question! Bored, not doing it for you! Get me out of here, he hasn't a clue what he's doing. I'm not a turkey stop trying to stuff half the kitchen sink inside me.
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To be fair, you are seeming to suggest that if a woman fakes an orgasm it’s the man’s fault.
Is this the general consensus amongst women?
I don’t have a lot of experience with this, but, on the odd occasion, at no stage did I ever think it was because of the person I was with.
I just came to a point during things that I decided it just wasn’t going to happen, for a variety of reasons, and decided the best thing to do was fake it at, at the appropriate time.
I’ve had some of the best sex of my life without having an orgasm. |
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I learned many years ago not to make a big fuss on the rare occasion that a girl doesn't cum with me. Usually I try and eek at least two out of her, but if for some reason it doesn't happen it's ok for her to say it's not going to happen and to leave it there without anyone freaking out. It's WAY healthier for noone to make a fuss. She doesn't want to feel pressure to fake it to make me feel better. I'm confident enough that she knows it's going to be ok for her not to cum in this occasion. Nobody gets a bent up ego and we can have another go in a little while and everything will be ok. |
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Only once in the past few years- Met a lad who was vwe and thought that’s all he needed. He was pile driving me for so long and wasn’t going to give up until “I had a good time”- I ended up just sore and bored, so just faked it. Milly x |
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To be fair, you are seeming to suggest that if a woman fakes an orgasm it’s the man’s fault.
Is this the general consensus amongst women?
I don’t have a lot of experience with this, but, on the odd occasion, at no stage did I ever think it was because of the person I was with.
I just came to a point during things that I decided it just wasn’t going to happen, for a variety of reasons, and decided the best thing to do was fake it at, at the appropriate time.
I’ve had some of the best sex of my life without having an orgasm."
Exactly this. There are a multitude of reasons it may not happen on either side and not taking it personally is key. As long as you are enjoying being with the person |
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By *og-Man OP Man 4 weeks ago
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"Any woman can fake it and not a single guy will never know! As for pulsing! Sure thats easy, even shakes! But what's the reason to fake is the bigger question! Bored, not doing it for you! Get me out of here, he hasn't a clue what he's doing. I'm not a turkey stop trying to stuff half the kitchen sink inside me.
To be fair, you are seeming to suggest that if a woman fakes an orgasm it’s the man’s fault.
Is this the general consensus amongst women?
I don’t have a lot of experience with this, but, on the odd occasion, at no stage did I ever think it was because of the person I was with.
I just came to a point during things that I decided it just wasn’t going to happen, for a variety of reasons, and decided the best thing to do was fake it at, at the appropriate time.
I’ve had some of the best sex of my life without having an orgasm."
Ive had some of the best orgasms of my life without having sex |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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I remember having a girlfriend who never orgasmed, I asked her how she made herself cum, she said she never did. I bought her a vibrator and she came back to me with it and let's just say I benefited more from that vibrator than I think she did.
Yes I've faked it when I was d*unk and just couldn't cum , there's only so much d*unk fucking you can do, unless you're in a tag event. |
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"Any woman can fake it and not a single guy will never know! As for pulsing! Sure thats easy, even shakes! But what's the reason to fake is the bigger question! Bored, not doing it for you! Get me out of here, he hasn't a clue what he's doing. I'm not a turkey stop trying to stuff half the kitchen sink inside me.
To be fair, you are seeming to suggest that if a woman fakes an orgasm it’s the man’s fault.
Is this the general consensus amongst women?
I don’t have a lot of experience with this, but, on the odd occasion, at no stage did I ever think it was because of the person I was with.
I just came to a point during things that I decided it just wasn’t going to happen, for a variety of reasons, and decided the best thing to do was fake it at, at the appropriate time.
I’ve had some of the best sex of my life without having an orgasm."
You're right, it's not always the man's fault. Sometimes there's no fault to be attributed at all.
Tiredness, illness, medication, not being in the right head space ...all reasons why I've faked it and nothing to do with the man at all. |
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To have good sex, it isn't necessary for it to always end in orgasm, well for me anyway.
Sometimes you want to concentrate on your partners pleasure.
Sometimes you want the rush of doing something risky and quick.
Sometimes you can be brought to that edge over and over without falling off it.
I can think of hundreds of scenarios where it wouldn't happen but has been extremely satisfying. 
Have I faked? No.
I would prefer if the person I was with told me they didn't cum or were unlikely to, than fake it. |
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"When I was younger for sure, but I wouldn't do it now. Sometimes it just isn't going to happen and I have no problem saying it."
I think it's one of those things that comes with experience and sexual maturity, to realise that sexual openness with regards orgasm (or lack thereof) is far healthier and more beneficial than hiding this stuff. |
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Have to admit yes I have faked a few in my time. Various reasons being
•too d*unk, it's not gonna happen.
•the play partner just isn't hitting my spots.
•I'm too self conscious to let go (connection maybe isn't there)
This does not mean I haven't still enjoyed the interaction. I'd feel bad if I didn't I think cum for real or fake one. |
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Unfortunately, I have to admit yes. Last time I was on fab I kinda got desensitised by it all and sex lost alot of its luster for me. Hence why I left.
A vanilla relationship brought it back but I'm definitely not jumping in with both feet this time. |
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