Why is it that guys shows more intrest in my profile than ladies, and how is that sucking another man's dick not counted as being gay/bi, "if it's just sucking it's not gay and it's the same if you close your eyes." That's just ridiculous  |
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"Why is it that guys shows more intrest in my profile than ladies, and how is that sucking another man's dick not counted as being gay/bi, "if it's just sucking it's not gay and it's the same if you close your eyes." That's just ridiculous "
If you say no homo... |
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"Maybe because you have 3 verifications from other men including 2 who are bicurious so anyone viewing your profile could be getting mixed messages. "
Yes don't talk to or socially interact with other men especially gay or bi men as you may catch the gay...
Seriously what the actual fuck |
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"Maybe because you have 3 verifications from other men including 2 who are bicurious so anyone viewing your profile could be getting mixed messages. "
This is the obvious reason, I’m mean he surely can’t be that stupid not to realise verifications from men won’t attract other men lol |
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People will ignore your preferences and shoot their shot anyway. It happens to pretty much everyone, everyday, regardless of your demographic. You can use your message filters to block other men from messaging you or delete the messages as they come in, block the individuals and forget about them. |
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"People will ignore your preferences and shoot their shot anyway. It happens to pretty much everyone, everyday, regardless of your demographic. You can use your message filters to block other men from messaging you or delete the messages as they come in, block the individuals and forget about them. "
I don’t think he can complain, if his got verified by 3 MEN his only asking to be contacted by other men! |
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By *rystalsswingCouple 27 weeks ago
Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands |
None of the verifications he has from men indicate anything other then that they chatted.
He clearly states in this profile that he's straight.
We have veris from lots of people, women and men. Still means Straight is straight!
We've played with only a few of the people who have verified us 🤷♀️ |
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By *rystalsswingCouple 27 weeks ago
Up the Road / Galway/ Midlands |
"Maybe because you have 3 verifications from other men including 2 who are bicurious so anyone viewing your profile could be getting mixed messages.
Yes don't talk to or socially interact with other men especially gay or bi men as you may catch the gay...
Seriously what the actual fuck"
Exactly the point I was trying to make 😁 |
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"People will ignore your preferences and shoot their shot anyway. It happens to pretty much everyone, everyday, regardless of your demographic. You can use your message filters to block other men from messaging you or delete the messages as they come in, block the individuals and forget about them.
I don’t think he can complain, if his got verified by 3 MEN his only asking to be contacted by other men!"
It wouldn't matter if he was verified by a goat, or not verified at all, it will still happen. |
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By *eijaWoman 27 weeks ago
City Centre |
People will always chance their arm and lots do not even read your bio.
I clearly state on my profile I do not meet attached people without their partners consent or unverified profiles but still get lots of messages from both.
I also state that I like tall men as Im 5ft 10 but still get messages from men up to my waist
I have every filter on possible! OP if you hate it that much simply use the block men filter et voila no men can contact you 
B x |
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"People will always chance their arm and lots do not even read your bio.
I clearly state on my profile I do not meet attached people without their partners consent or unverified profiles but still get lots of messages from both.
I also state that I like tall men as Im 5ft 10 but still get messages from men up to my waist
I have every filter on possible! OP if you hate it that much simply use the block men filter et voila no men can contact you
B x"
His meet 2 bi-curious men and published their veris, even if it’s only for a chat, his going to get messages from other men, he can block men from messaging him if his really that unhappy about it, but arranging to meet men and posting veris from them and then complaining that men contact him lol |
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"Maybe because you have 3 verifications from other men including 2 who are bicurious so anyone viewing your profile could be getting mixed messages.
Yes don't talk to or socially interact with other men especially gay or bi men as you may catch the gay...
Seriously what the actual fuck"
You know that wasn't what I was saying at all but if op is wondering why he is getting messages or offers from other men that's one of the reasons.
They will ignore preferences and chance their arm because of the veries |
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"Maybe because you have 3 verifications from other men including 2 who are bicurious so anyone viewing your profile could be getting mixed messages.
Yes don't talk to or socially interact with other men especially gay or bi men as you may catch the gay...
Seriously what the actual fuck
You know that wasn't what I was saying at all but if op is wondering why he is getting messages or offers from other men that's one of the reasons.
They will ignore preferences and chance their arm because of the veries"
People who ignore expressed preferences don't usually go to the trouble of checking if someone's verifications indicates they might be a match.
You know this you've been around long enough.
Suggesting having social verifications from someone who doesn't match your sexual orientation is inviting messages from those people is in my opinion just incorrect 🤷♂️ |
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"Why is it that guys shows more intrest in my profile than ladies, and how is that sucking another man's dick not counted as being gay/bi, "if it's just sucking it's not gay and it's the same if you close your eyes." That's just ridiculous "
Most women are in ninja mode when viewing profiles. |
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By *eijaWoman 27 weeks ago
City Centre |
"People will always chance their arm and lots do not even read your bio.
I clearly state on my profile I do not meet attached people without their partners consent or unverified profiles but still get lots of messages from both.
I also state that I like tall men as Im 5ft 10 but still get messages from men up to my waist
I have every filter on possible! OP if you hate it that much simply use the block men filter et voila no men can contact you
B x
His meet 2 bi-curious men and published their veris, even if it’s only for a chat, his going to get messages from other men, he can block men from messaging him if his really that unhappy about it, but arranging to meet men and posting veris from them and then complaining that men contact him lol"
He could possibly have met the men at Social events and chatted. Just cause he has posted veris from men doesnt make him bi!They also do not sound like arranged meets.
Now I do know there are plenty of men here who are bi and put straight on their pfofiles but thats another story...
Bi the way...I love bi men 
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By *eijaWoman 27 weeks ago
City Centre |
"Why is it that guys shows more intrest in my profile than ladies, and how is that sucking another man's dick not counted as being gay/bi, "if it's just sucking it's not gay and it's the same if you close your eyes." That's just ridiculous
Most women are in ninja mode when viewing profiles. "
Gotta love Ninja mode 🤣🤣🤣👀👀
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By *og-ManMan 27 weeks ago
somewhere |
As a man
Sucking another man's dick once to try it is seen as bi curious
If you like it and try it on an on-going basis then it's bi
If you only have sex with men then you're gay
If you hide the fact that you enjoy sucking other men's cocks then you're fab straight
Block men if you don't like them messaging you and yes some fab straight men will think you're bi if you get veried by bi men |
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Those verifications are from social and they are nice people. I'm not gonna ignore someone in person because they are bicurious or gay, few of my best mates who i know are gay and they are great people, and i respect both genders regardless of their preferences. I didn't put the filter option because i thought people actually read the bio. But clearly not, |
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"I had this issue when I first joined.
So I blocked men from contacting me and hey presto, now nobody messages me at all  "
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Curious.
My filters are all open and I never have this issue whatsoever. I only receive enquiries from women. |
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By *iscuits8Man 27 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"I had this issue when I first joined.
So I blocked men from contacting me and hey presto, now nobody messages me at all
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Curious.
My filters are all open and I never have this issue whatsoever. I only receive enquiries from women. "
Sure that's only because I'm nowhere near as much of a ride  |
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"I had this issue when I first joined.
So I blocked men from contacting me and hey presto, now nobody messages me at all
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Curious.
My filters are all open and I never have this issue whatsoever. I only receive enquiries from women.
Sure that's only because I'm nowhere near as much of a ride "
Or way more of a ride....
The men of fab have clearly spoken |
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"Why is it that guys shows more intrest in my profile than ladies, and how is that sucking another man's dick not counted as being gay/bi, "if it's just sucking it's not gay and it's the same if you close your eyes." That's just ridiculous "
Because horned-up men are just fucking annoying. Block 'em all 😝 |
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"Why is it that guys shows more intrest in my profile than ladies, and how is that sucking another man's dick not counted as being gay/bi, "if it's just sucking it's not gay and it's the same if you close your eyes." That's just ridiculous
Because horned-up men are just fucking annoying. Block 'em all 😝 "
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The verifications are likely to have little or nothing to do with it tbh. I get regular messages from men, as I'm sure most other straight men do, looking to suck Micilín óg. I just ignore them. It's not a problem really.
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"Guys contact me often. No problem .I politely decline any offers. Met men for pints when working away. I dont see a problem . If ur not interested dont reply."
I don't mind meeting lads to hangout, that's good. But when the questions get sexual and not taking no for answers and saying things like "it's all the same if you close your eyes" or " a hole is a hole" that's just straight up disrespectful. |
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