Let's assume you're right and they are swingers. Don't presume that this means they would have any interest at all in you. Most random swingers wouldnt fuck someone just because they are in the same vicinity. How would you feel continuing work in their home once they turn you down? Bad idea |
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What makes you think that they are on the site? And even if they are on the site what makes you think that they would be interested in having a single male join them? Honestly the best thing you can do is say nothing maybe send them a wink while you are doing the job and if you get a reply then message them but unless they physically speak to you about it say nothing |
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"I'm working in a house and the couple are on here. The question is do I approach them or not and if so how would I do it? "
How would you be sure that it's them? We had people who "almost definitely recognised" us and they were absolutely wrong. Even if that couple is really on the site the answer is no..and again for clarity: no. Anything else is just borderline creepy, unprofessional and reeks of desperation.
There is no grand price for recognising someone and calling them out or approaching them on it in day to day life (although from experience that's what some people seem to think - sorry to disappoint but you don't get the ride just because you found someone from fab in Dunnes/at work/ add any other public place in here).
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What you have discovered is that you are working in a house that home's a couple that have sex. On that basis you are suggesting you make a pass at them.
Think it through.
"Hello, I was on the internet and discovered you have sex. I think we could all have sex together."
"We think you should leave before we get a restraining order" |
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