"Does anyone else get tempted to post a face picture on their profile? Maybe even temporarily? Should I? Lol"
Unless you're famous or something, nothing will happen.
You may even get more replies from people you're messaging.
You may not get more replies as some weird people assume you're not discreet if you have it up, or some similar bull...
Up to you OP.
Personally we both showed our faces for many many years and never had any bother over it |
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I do all the time. I’ve nothing to hide. I’m not doing anything wrong here. My fam and friend know I’m here. If someone tried to bl@ck mail me then they have picked the wrong person as everyone I care about knows! |
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By *r.boo OP Man 16 weeks ago
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I think I'm going to coin toss for it, I can't decide lol I know nothing is going to change by putting it up, just feels spicy adding a face to the profile, maybe my inbox will be busting with new messages lol |
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By *indenMan 16 weeks ago
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"Absolutely not 
what lady said👆
I'd find it distressing if I damaged someone's iPhone and the price to replace it with 143%%%% tariffs nowadays..
Just a couldn't live wif myself..
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You sound like an iPhone insurance salesman…..🤔
I think they’re going to be exempt. |
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"Does anyone else get tempted to post a face picture on their profile? Maybe even temporarily? Should I? Lol
Nope I couldn't because of my career.."
Just wondering why? Because of the slagging? I always wonder why people say because of their job? Unless you are in a political role? |
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"Does anyone else get tempted to post a face picture on their profile? Maybe even temporarily? Should I? Lol
Nope I couldn't because of my career..
Just wondering why? Because of the slagging? I always wonder why people say because of their job? Unless you are in a political role? "
Or a priest maybe? 🤣🤣🤣 |
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"Does anyone else get tempted to post a face picture on their profile? Maybe even temporarily? Should I? Lol
Nope I couldn't because of my career..
Just wondering why? Because of the slagging? I always wonder why people say because of their job? Unless you are in a political role?
Or a priest maybe? 🤣🤣🤣"
Oh A priest is on my list!!! A priest and a virgin! Or maybe one is both!! |
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"Does anyone else get tempted to post a face picture on their profile? Maybe even temporarily? Should I? Lol
Nope I couldn't because of my career..
Just wondering why? Because of the slagging? I always wonder why people say because of their job? Unless you are in a political role?
Or a priest maybe? 🤣🤣🤣
Oh A priest is on my list!!! A priest and a virgin! Or maybe one is both!!"
I wouldn't because of my kids (who are adults) and my aging parents who would be very judgemental. If it wasn't for that I would post face pics.
It's one of the reasons I like in person social events, it's so nice not to be judged for being bisexual and hanging out with sex positive people. Even if the events never led to anything more! |
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"Does anyone else get tempted to post a face picture on their profile? Maybe even temporarily? Should I? Lol
Nope I couldn't because of my career..
Just wondering why? Because of the slagging? I always wonder why people say because of their job? Unless you are in a political role?
Or a priest maybe? 🤣🤣🤣
Oh A priest is on my list!!! A priest and a virgin! Or maybe one is both!!
I wouldn't because of my kids (who are adults) and my aging parents who would be very judgemental. If it wasn't for that I would post face pics.
It's one of the reasons I like in person social events, it's so nice not to be judged for being bisexual and hanging out with sex positive people. Even if the events never led to anything more!"
That’s fair. I grew up in a sex positive household and when I left my husband who I had been with since I was 14 it was my mum and sister who pushed me to get out and about- they love hearing my tales of meets😂😂 |
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That sounds amazing. I tried to talk to my sister about it but the reaction was less than positive. She even told me that our relationship was defective. I'd say my relationship is better than hers as we communicate so much more effectively but hey ho...can't change someones perspective when they are so entrenched. |
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"Does anyone else get tempted to post a face picture on their profile? Maybe even temporarily? Should I? Lol"
I have but I have them set to private purely based on a horror experience on Fet in the past, where someone screenshot my photos and shared them online to other users and other sites because of an ex I had. |
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"That sounds amazing. I tried to talk to my sister about it but the reaction was less than positive. She even told me that our relationship was defective. I'd say my relationship is better than hers as we communicate so much more effectively but hey ho...can't change someones perspective when they are so entrenched. "
It completely bugs me when I hear people say that about relationships. We (kinksters/swingera) communicate much more than vanilla people I find. I meeting someone tomorrow night that I’ve been talking to for a while- he knows more about my needs than my ex husband. |
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Not sure. Have in the past. I think it's because society can't leave people be. I'm just exploring ATM, but yeah, not to keen on people finding out. Bar I have told some friends and some family. I don't don't really care, mostly think I'm mad. I think there is the scare of media/journalist creeping. |
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"I did it, i put one up, see how long i leave it up now lol"
Yeah but you also put one up of an uncredited woman, and you are a single male account. Not a couples account. So none of us know here if she consented to be featured in your little show and tell.
Not cool. |
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"I did it, i put one up, see how long i leave it up now lol
Yeah but you also put one up of an uncredited woman, and you are a single male account. Not a couples account. So none of us know here if she consented to be featured in your little show and tell.
Not cool. "
To be fair she is not identifiable. |
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Face pics are not the be all and end all , however sometimes I'm suspicious of them also defo some AI one on here , 🤔 , defo not a fan if it gives a hint they haven't given permission to be here , ie duct tape, cable ties
But also some of the body pics with couples , taken by suprise just outta the shower or with a pillow over there head they don't give the impression of consent.
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"I did it, i put one up, see how long i leave it up now lol
Yeah but you also put one up of an uncredited woman, and you are a single male account. Not a couples account. So none of us know here if she consented to be featured in your little show and tell.
Not cool.
To be fair she is not identifiable. "
Covering her eyes isn't good enough. If someone did that to me I'd be livid. There's a vid as well. I am all for consent. We don't know that she did consent. On Fet people can tag and also caption photos. On here you can't, so because it's not an available feature it should not be done. People do. That doesn't make it right. |
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"I did it, i put one up, see how long i leave it up now lol
Yeah but you also put one up of an uncredited woman, and you are a single male account. Not a couples account. So none of us know here if she consented to be featured in your little show and tell.
Not cool.
To be fair she is not identifiable.
Covering her eyes isn't good enough. If someone did that to me I'd be livid. There's a vid as well. I am all for consent. We don't know that she did consent. On Fet people can tag and also caption photos. On here you can't, so because it's not an available feature it should not be done. People do. That doesn't make it right. "
And just to be clear consenting to being videoed and photographed for private consumption is not a blanket consent to post those photos anywhere you like.
We had a small private party, we took some photos on our own phones. Afterwards we shared them privately to each other. Then we had a conversation about sharing them. All people agreed to post one photo on our sexy socials, with faces and tattoos blurred. We also agreed to tag each other on Fet and because we couldn't on Fab, we put the one photo into friends only. So we had a proper grown up conversation about it and gained explicit consent.
There's an ethical way to do things and an unethical way to do things.
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"I did it, i put one up, see how long i leave it up now lol
Yeah but you also put one up of an uncredited woman, and you are a single male account. Not a couples account. So none of us know here if she consented to be featured in your little show and tell.
Not cool.
To be fair she is not identifiable.
Covering her eyes isn't good enough. If someone did that to me I'd be livid. There's a vid as well. I am all for consent. We don't know that she did consent. On Fet people can tag and also caption photos. On here you can't, so because it's not an available feature it should not be done. People do. That doesn't make it right. "
I agree with this, and most phones now we can tag or put captions on photos and vids before they are uploaded here so no excuse really.
I'm in a couple of pictures and vids with ladies , all asked permission and have me labelled in some way . |
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"How come nobody ever questions women or couples when there is an uncreditied person in their pics?"
I am an equal opportunities caller outer, it's just not often I get the opportunity
Nobody should post pics without consent. It's very basic ethics. |
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By *r.boo OP Man 16 weeks ago
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"How come nobody ever questions women or couples when there is an uncreditied person in their pics?
I am an equal opportunities caller outer, it's just not often I get the opportunity
Nobody should post pics without consent. It's very basic ethics. "
who said i didn't get consent? But anyway I took the pic down again! |
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"How come nobody ever questions women or couples when there is an uncreditied person in their pics?
I am an equal opportunities caller outer, it's just not often I get the opportunity
Nobody should post pics without consent. It's very basic ethics. who said i didn't get consent? But anyway I took the pic down again!"
There's no way of knowing that you are just making that up. There's no tag system on here. So it's an an unverifiable statement from you. |
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By *r.boo OP Man 16 weeks ago
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"How come nobody ever questions women or couples when there is an uncreditied person in their pics?
I am an equal opportunities caller outer, it's just not often I get the opportunity
Nobody should post pics without consent. It's very basic ethics. who said i didn't get consent? But anyway I took the pic down again!
There's no way of knowing that you are just making that up. There's no tag system on here. So it's an an unverifiable statement from you. "
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"How come nobody ever questions women or couples when there is an uncreditied person in their pics?
I am an equal opportunities caller outer, it's just not often I get the opportunity
Nobody should post pics without consent. It's very basic ethics. "
I disagree there is literally extra bodies in gallery's on 90% of forum threads.
You could be calling it out daily.
But it was a general statement and not just about you.
The only profiles that are ever questioned on consent are single males.
Fab shows zero interest in seeking confirmation.
I can't post a meme on my profile because it doesn't contain me, yet I could post random nudes and they would be approved |
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"How come nobody ever questions women or couples when there is an uncreditied person in their pics?
I am an equal opportunities caller outer, it's just not often I get the opportunity
Nobody should post pics without consent. It's very basic ethics.
I disagree there is literally extra bodies in gallery's on 90% of forum threads.
You could be calling it out daily.
But it was a general statement and not just about you.
The only profiles that are ever questioned on consent are single males.
Fab shows zero interest in seeking confirmation.
I can't post a meme on my profile because it doesn't contain me, yet I could post random nudes and they would be approved"
That doesn't make it right.
I do call out when I can. I do it on the other platform too. It's appalling there as well because there is the ability to tag people.
If your partner whether romantic partner or play partner videoed you, you thought it was for their private consumption, then found it online, would you not be annoyed?
People are victims of revenge porn, if you haven't explicitly agreed to sharing things online it is unethical. |
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By *r.boo OP Man 16 weeks ago
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"How come nobody ever questions women or couples when there is an uncreditied person in their pics?
I am an equal opportunities caller outer, it's just not often I get the opportunity
Nobody should post pics without consent. It's very basic ethics.
I disagree there is literally extra bodies in gallery's on 90% of forum threads.
You could be calling it out daily.
But it was a general statement and not just about you.
The only profiles that are ever questioned on consent are single males.
Fab shows zero interest in seeking confirmation.
I can't post a meme on my profile because it doesn't contain me, yet I could post random nudes and they would be approved
That doesn't make it right.
I do call out when I can. I do it on the other platform too. It's appalling there as well because there is the ability to tag people.
If your partner whether romantic partner or play partner videoed you, you thought it was for their private consumption, then found it online, would you not be annoyed?
People are victims of revenge porn, if you haven't explicitly agreed to sharing things online it is unethical. "
last time I'm going to comment on it, the other person is well aware, other person is on here, other person was with me when it was put up, but thank you for being concerned as I know it does go on but this time you weren't right |
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That's fair enough, amd I've made my point too. In principle I am correct. There is a way I've seen some people here of crediting people by editing the username into the body of the photo. At least that is some proof that the person featured in the photo knows about it. |
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I got chatting to someone who is a relative newbie on here. Commented that she was brave putting up profile/public face pics as most people dont.
Immediate block, even when only trying to share sound advice.
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Would not recommend posting on public. I did years ago and my parents were messaged by a fake Facebook account with screenshots of my profile and horrible accusations! Unfortunately not everyone is genuine on here  |
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"I do all the time. I’ve nothing to hide. I’m not doing anything wrong here. My fam and friend know I’m here. If someone tried to bl@ck mail me then they have picked the wrong person as everyone I care about knows!"
Easy when you are as attractive as you are!!
I share mine all the time |
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"I do all the time. I’ve nothing to hide. I’m not doing anything wrong here. My fam and friend know I’m here. If someone tried to bl@ck mail me then they have picked the wrong person as everyone I care about knows!
Easy when you are as attractive as you are!!
I share mine all the time"
Everyone is attractive to someone. But honestly I don’t care about showing my face. Yes I’m on a sex site. Yes my friends and family know I have sex and am here. I’m single so why shouldnt I? Nope I don’t care if my neighbours see because that means they too are here, also having sex- so what!! |
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By *r.boo OP Man 16 weeks ago
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"I do all the time. I’ve nothing to hide. I’m not doing anything wrong here. My fam and friend know I’m here. If someone tried to bl@ck mail me then they have picked the wrong person as everyone I care about knows!
Easy when you are as attractive as you are!!
I share mine all the time
Everyone is attractive to someone. But honestly I don’t care about showing my face. Yes I’m on a sex site. Yes my friends and family know I have sex and am here. I’m single so why shouldnt I? Nope I don’t care if my neighbours see because that means they too are here, also having sex- so what!! "
I love your attitude, youre 100% right, if only everyone had the same view |
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