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"We may be older but we know how to
socialize and have fun in a more relaxed manner .
Are there any socials out there for this age group or anyone who would be interested in organizing one?
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"We may be older but we know how to
socialize and have fun in a more relaxed manner .
Are there any socials out there for this age group or anyone who would be interested in organizing one?
So how does someone get invovled
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By *om TangoMan 8 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
So far I only attend socials organised by 2 different hosts. You have pinks social in Dundalk Co.Louth and hungry cats social in Belfast. Both these socials would have a mixed age range at them with a good few over the age of 45. I’m 48 and I find all ages mix very very well at both socials. You will definitely find over 45s at both these great socials and really really good hosts at both socials that will mix with their guests once they get the doors closed. Highly recommended both socials |
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By *usybee26 OP Woman 8 weeks ago
Londonderry |
Remember we need women as well I couldn't cope with you all lol.
So if you know of any lovely ladies this age, couples or young ladies that like older men and women, couples.
Please if anyone has organized one before get in touch we can start out small and casual see how it goes x |
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By *atonaWoman 8 weeks ago
Meh |
"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear "
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it. |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it. "
Nothing wrong with having an opinion and expressing it in a respectful manner......thats allowed;)
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By *usybee26 OP Woman 8 weeks ago
Londonderry |
We are all entitled to our opinions but I have to disagree.
Older men have a lot to offer in sexuality , personality, conversation, how they treat a lady .
Sexuality is not in the size or shape of a body, it's in the mind and how a man treats a lady.
If we were all the same it would be a dull world |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it.
Nothing wrong with having an opinion and expressing it in a respectful manner......thats allowed;)
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I'm 45+ and hot as f@ck. If I do say so myself  |
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Organising an event is a lot of hard work and probably even harder for a fab event having organised a few mon fab events which took probably 3 months to organise so that people would have plenty of notice to get childcare for those with kids somewhere capable of holding 5he amount of people you expect and you will have those who get tickets but still have something last min that comes up leading to them not being able to attend. You also have to take into consideration of a suitable location for the event and depending on that location you may need to hire door staff so that only those with tickets can enter hope this helps |
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By *atonaWoman 8 weeks ago
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"We are all entitled to our opinions but I have to disagree.
Older men have a lot to offer in sexuality , personality, conversation, how they treat a lady .
Sexuality is not in the size or shape of a body, it's in the mind and how a man treats a lady.
If we were all the same it would be a dull world "
Fair enough. You do make great points 😁 |
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"I would say that the average age at the majority of socials is 40+
If the loud evening socials don’t appeal, try the afternoon ones. "
Why are all those old people shouting at clouds with their bits out? |
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I like a mix of evening socials and afternoon coffee shop type ones. Arranging a social can be as easy as posting up in events that you are holding a coffee meet. Don't post the venue, keep that private. Ask people to contact you, choose a good mix from them and have it as an invite only. Have group rules such as this is a public place and no inappropriate or indiscrete behaviour, make it clear there is no orgy (you'll have to rinse and repeat that one a few times) and just go for it! |
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By *usybee26 OP Woman 8 weeks ago
Londonderry |
Thanks for reply and advice.
This is only going to be small and casual for people who have found larger socials intimidating, clicky and non welcoming
We might all be like minded but some can be quieter and shy |
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By *rRiosMan 8 weeks ago
dublin |
"Just wear an onion on your belt"
Now, to take the ferry cost a nickel, and in those days nickels had pictures of bumble bees on them. Gimme five bees for a quarter, you'd say. Now where was I...
Most of the socials I’ve been to have been 35-45 age range |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it. "
Let's be honest, if a guy said this he'd be 💯% vilified on here. Why be shallow, superficial and hurtful just for the sake of it??? That's your perogative and that's fine. Just don't understand it. It's a moot point in this thread, OP is looking for people who are interested |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it.
Let's be honest, if a guy said this he'd be 💯% vilified on here. Why be shallow, superficial and hurtful just for the sake of it??? That's your perogative and that's fine. Just don't understand it. It's a moot point in this thread, OP is looking for people who are interested"
Agreed, a guy would be ripped to shreds. |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it.
Let's be honest, if a guy said this he'd be 💯% vilified on here. Why be shallow, superficial and hurtful just for the sake of it??? That's your perogative and that's fine. Just don't understand it. It's a moot point in this thread, OP is looking for people who are interested
Agreed, a guy would be ripped to shreds. "
Ripped is what she is looking for so that works for everyone |
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I think your forum post is picking up the attention of the thirsty guys who want access to you personally rather than a mixed group who want a quieter social. My take on it is that you could pick a title, pick a date, post an event, promote the social on Forums. Let the DMs filter in. Dont reply to individuals on the forum post but push them to your DMs so you can keep a track on whos going. You could have some vetting process. Usually it's 3 recent verifications.
Just pick a Costa or coffee place somewhere. Choose if you'll go for mostly couples, mostly singles, 50/50 man woman mix, whatever floats your boat. Don't tell anyone where it is. Do a round of invites for those you want to attend. 10% at least won't turn up. Especially if it's a free event. |
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"Ah not costa... just because they are over 45 doesn't mean they have given up on all joy in life"
Ah no... am I not cool! I host a once a month coffee meet in my Costa but it's girls only. We are a witches coven lol. |
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
somewhere |
Feel old now as I usually organise socials in coffee shops with car parks so it's not too far to walk since we're all old
Re the dad bods comment ...don't see anything wrong myself
There's lots of people that mention their likes and dislikes in threads
BBC....BBW....big tits....Athletic....hairy....
shaved or even an age
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More is more. More variety more connections more fun.
Sure go for and see what happens. At worst you'll have a mediocre cup of coffee in good company.
I myself am going to organize a social that only includes buxom women and myself. Wish me luck! |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it. "
What does the number of kids you've had got to do with any of this? Just curious... |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it.
What does the number of kids you've had got to do with any of this? Just curious..."
That she has 2 kids but hasn't got a mum bod?
I actually have the same preferences and I also have 2 children. Woohoo! Although I'm a wee fat munchkin 🤣
I go to socials to socialise. With all sorts of people of all ages. I'm rarely particularly interested in finding a potential ride. |
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By *om TangoMan 8 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
"I could sort the door staff part. That’s never a problem "
If it’s going to need door staff count me out. Never been to a social yet where door staff was needed. Only ones at the door should be the hosts to welcome their guests. We’re not animals |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it. "
Then maybe keep it to yourself?
Brutally honest people, what do you enjoy more, the honesty or the brutality? |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it.
What does the number of kids you've had got to do with any of this? Just curious...
That she has 2 kids but hasn't got a mum bod?
I actually have the same preferences and I also have 2 children. Woohoo! Although I'm a wee fat munchkin 🤣
I go to socials to socialise. With all sorts of people of all ages. I'm rarely particularly interested in finding a potential ride."
I have kids too but that may have nothing at all to with how my body looks. And even if it does,.who cares?? |
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By *usybee26 OP Woman 8 weeks ago
Londonderry |
Morning everyone
Just popped in to say thank you to anyone who has expressed genuine interest, advice and help.
Just a few things that I want to say.
1. This is only putting out feelers for interest nothing as yet as been planned.
2.My hubby is on here as well although we are not on as a couple we do our own thing so he will be involved too.
3. Looking for a small group of genuinely interested people both male and female who would like to meet up for a cuppa or meal to knock a few ideas about and see what we can do.
4. This will be starting very small to see how it goes.
5. Please ladies if you are genuinely interested get in touch.
6. I will try and reply to as many people as possible but I can't be on here all the time so updates will be on here.
7.Everyone is entitled to there opinion but don't be nasty or rude .
8. Anymore questions I will try to answer but it's very early days.
9. This will be a space for like minded people who have maybe had a bad experience at a social, are maybe shy, looking for smaller group to get together, chat, have some craic, meet contacts etc.
10. Just be kind, genuine and love fun x
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"I could sort the door saff part. That’s never a problem
If it’s going to need door staff count me out. Never been to a social yet where door staff was needed. Only ones at the door should be the hosts to welcome their guests. We’re not animals "
I see your still full of your own importance Dom.
But you only attend two social organized by your friends.
Doesn't qualify you much for giving information on attending socials.
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By *om TangoMan 8 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
"I could sort the door saff part. That’s never a problem
If it’s going to need door staff count me out. Never been to a social yet where door staff was needed. Only ones at the door should be the hosts to welcome their guests. We’re not animals
I see your still full of your own importance Dom.
But you only attend two social organized by your friends.
Doesn't qualify you much for giving information on attending socials.
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Thanks Mark for your input. Yes so far I’ve attended many socials arranged by 2 different hosts. Oh and once to DV8 and 3 private parties. And I’d like to think a social full of people over 45 won’t need door staff. |
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By *om TangoMan 8 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
"DV8 has door staff.
So does the RVC M&G
And most social that are in pubs at night.
Vanilla had a door guy. So did LUST.
I imagine it's important to keep the wrong people out too."
Fair enough. I honestly didn’t notice door staff at DV8. But then again I’ve only been to once. |
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"DV8 has door staff.
So does the RVC M&G
And most social that are in pubs at night.
Vanilla had a door guy. So did LUST.
I imagine it's important to keep the wrong people out too.
Fair enough. I honestly didn’t notice door staff at DV8. But then again I’ve only been to once. "
I take it you wouldn't recommend DV8 then?  |
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By *om TangoMan 8 weeks ago
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"DV8 has door staff.
So does the RVC M&G
And most social that are in pubs at night.
Vanilla had a door guy. So did LUST.
I imagine it's important to keep the wrong people out too.
Fair enough. I honestly didn’t notice door staff at DV8. But then again I’ve only been to once.
I take it you wouldn't recommend DV8 then? "
I wouldn’t say that. Just I’ve an early start on a Monday morning at work so it wouldn’t suit to go other than a bank holiday weekend. I’d definitely go back again sometime |
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"DV8 has door staff.
So does the RVC M&G
And most social that are in pubs at night.
Vanilla had a door guy. So did LUST.
I imagine it's important to keep the wrong people out too."
DV8 doesn't have door staff, we have been there lots of times. Very relaxed vibe. |
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By *enusalMan 8 weeks ago
tipperary Limerick London,Germany |
"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it. "
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"I could sort the door saff part. That’s never a problem
If it’s going to need door staff count me out. Never been to a social yet where door staff was needed. Only ones at the door should be the hosts to welcome their guests. We’re not animals
I see your still full of your own importance Dom.
But you only attend two social organized by your friends.
Doesn't qualify you much for giving information on attending socials.
Thanks Mark for your input. Yes so far I’ve attended many socials arranged by 2 different hosts. Oh and once to DV8 and 3 private parties. And I’d like to think a social full of people over 45 won’t need door staff. "
I haven't seen around if you attend a lot of socials Dom Boy.
Do you not spread your wings.
There is a lot of wonderful hosts.
Roscommon, Sligo, Galway,Athlone, Limerick, Cork, Dublin, Belfast, that's just the socials.
Really looking forward to catching up with you to discuss our mutual interest.
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"We may be older but we know how to
socialize and have fun in a more relaxed manner .
Are there any socials out there for this age group or anyone who would be interested in organizing one?
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Would be very interested OP. With or without doorstaff  |
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"I'd be up for that,but Busybee you could be a very busy lady if a few more ladies don't appear
Here’s an extremely unpopular (and perhaps shallow) opinion: most men 45+ rock a dad bod. Nothing wrong with dad bods per se, I just don’t find them particularly attractive. P.s. I am a mother of 2.
I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending a social when the chances of finding someone I’d be attracted to are very very slim.
It might be shallow, superficial, and hurtful, but that’s the honest truth as I see it. "
Wow that’s a real wake up call for me, I’m going to get a Bowflex, I’m gonna commit… I’m gonna get some dumbbells… |
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"Ah not costa... just because they are over 45 doesn't mean they have given up on all joy in life
😂 brilliant… Costa is terrible"
Everyone so hard on Costa! But it's corporate, faceless, the tables aren't on top of each other, and the staff aren't earwigging in on the conversation.
The coffee is meh and overpriced. It's the venue we like. |
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"Ah not costa... just because they are over 45 doesn't mean they have given up on all joy in life
😂 brilliant… Costa is terrible"
Costa is tasteless, McDonald's coffee is much better but not the best for swinger meets |
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"Ah not costa... just because they are over 45 doesn't mean they have given up on all joy in life
😂 brilliant… Costa is terrible"
I do love a nice garden centre for a coffee social 1on1...wonder would it work for a small group too.
Wouldn't look out of place or draw attention as the average age is definitely 45+
Love a Costa too, especially if I get a corner table by the window with two high back chairs. Though need a hand to get up again...they're awful low.
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
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"Ah not costa... just because they are over 45 doesn't mean they have given up on all joy in life
😂 brilliant… Costa is terrible
Costa is tasteless, McDonald's coffee is much better but not the best for swinger meets"
Mcdonalds is terrible now with the paper lids and as you say not really conductive to a small social
There's enough coffee shops in retail parks now that are handy for socials |
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"Ah not costa... just because they are over 45 doesn't mean they have given up on all joy in life
😂 brilliant… Costa is terrible
Costa is tasteless, McDonald's coffee is much better but not the best for swinger meets
Mcdonalds is terrible now with the paper lids and as you say not really conductive to a small social
There's enough coffee shops in retail parks now that are handy for socials "
Will shortly have to organise a coffee social for the Midlands |
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"We may be older but we know how to
socialize and have fun in a more relaxed manner .
Are there any socials out there for this age group or anyone who would be interested in organizing one?
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I’m 44…a year out 😩 |
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"Morning everyone
Just popped in to say thank you to anyone who has expressed genuine interest, advice and help.
Just a few things that I want to say.
1. This is only putting out feelers for interest nothing as yet as been planned.
2.My hubby is on here as well although we are not on as a couple we do our own thing so he will be involved too.
3. Looking for a small group of genuinely interested people both male and female who would like to meet up for a cuppa or meal to knock a few ideas about and see what we can do.
4. This will be starting very small to see how it goes.
5. Please ladies if you are genuinely interested get in touch.
6. I will try and reply to as many people as possible but I can't be on here all the time so updates will be on here.
7.Everyone is entitled to there opinion but don't be nasty or rude .
8. Anymore questions I will try to answer but it's very early days.
9. This will be a space for like minded people who have maybe had a bad experience at a social, are maybe shy, looking for smaller group to get together, chat, have some craic, meet contacts etc.
10. Just be kind, genuine and love fun x
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Would love to be considered even if I’m a year too young 😜 |
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By *aucy76Woman 4 weeks ago
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Sounds great I've never done and social aafter only recently being back on here i def want to do things I haven't done and a social is something I'd love to try to break the ice and get to know like minded people 🙃 |
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