After being here a while I really thought we would have found some like minded ladies to play with us… But nothing!!
What have your experiences been like with a couples tinder page or maybe even a female page looking for other females obviously informing them you’re looking for fun with your bf involved…
I really didn’t think it would be this hard lol… Xx |
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Tinder is the most vanilla app I have ever been on. The hookup side is definitely more a USA thing (met up with a gal first night I was there last year and the vibe was good so...yeah). In Ireland it's definitely more on the FWB side for casual, unicorns seem non-existent on there. Feeld is a better bet. |
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"After being here a while I really thought we would have found some like minded ladies to play with us… But nothing!!
What have your experiences been like with a couples tinder page or maybe even a female page looking for other females obviously informing them you’re looking for fun with your bf involved…
I really didn’t think it would be this hard lol… Xx"
We got banned from tinder, can only presume its coz we are a couple  |
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By *iver80Man 6 weeks ago
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"Did you try Feeld? It's set up for couples and singles. You just link your profile on it
Never heard of it tbh…
Finding it so hard to get anyone who’s actually up for having fun "
If I was a girl I'd be all over you both haha , surely that video you have up should be enough to get a few girls if not tones , |
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By *njco64Man 6 weeks ago
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Problem with fab since I came back onto it that I see is now to meet someone you have to have multiple verifications meet in social groups a letter from your mother the parish priest and a medical certificate it’s gone mad here over the years I’ve been away from it. Once there was a time here if you connected you met for coffee or a drink and common sense took over right now people here are setting up groups on other platforms and you can’t even join them unless you’re verified and have attended at least one social gathering so good luck meeting a like minded couple or single it might be quicker if you send a letter to the North Pole   |
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"Problem with fab since I came back onto it that I see is now to meet someone you have to have multiple verifications meet in social groups a letter from your mother the parish priest and a medical certificate it’s gone mad here over the years I’ve been away from it. Once there was a time here if you connected you met for coffee or a drink and common sense took over right now people here are setting up groups on other platforms and you can’t even join them unless you’re verified and have attended at least one social gathering so good luck meeting a like minded couple or single it might be quicker if you send a letter to the North Pole "
Yup , l agree with a lot of what you have said , l sent a message to people organising an event etc etc & they replied l had to be " well verified " ..l just replied that there was a time they weren't verified at all.
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By *njco64Man 6 weeks ago
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"Have you went to socials? Great to meet serious likeminded people. Get to play parties alot of ladies here want to meet socially first. It puts at ease for there safety etc."
Yep I get that and it’s totally understandable but not all people are like that Put it this way if you met someone you fancied outside of here and want to go to their place or a hotel would you ask for written proof from the last three people they had sex with to see if it was worth your while or not jack/jane the ripper. I work in finance and to meet people on here now seems like applying for a mortgage in some ways but hey just my humble opinion if it works for people good luck to them I hope they enjoy every second of it because there was a time here when that’s what really happened |
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It's hard to know why it's not working for you without knowing what you're doing but, a couple of observations:
You're not photo verified as a couple
You're quite young and looking for similar - your age group is probably one of the smaller demographics here
You're looking for a single woman to join a couple. So are lots of couples. The term unicorn was coined for a reason 
Your bio says very little about you, what you're looking for, and what you offer
Have you tried socials or organised events? If you're solely relying on messaging people here then dig in for the long haul
You're only here a very short time.
Arranging a meet between 3 people is often much more difficult than organising one between 2 |
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"Problem with fab since I came back onto it that I see is now to meet someone you have to have multiple verifications meet in social groups a letter from your mother the parish priest and a medical certificate it’s gone mad here over the years I’ve been away from it. Once there was a time here if you connected you met for coffee or a drink and common sense took over right now people here are setting up groups on other platforms and you can’t even join them unless you’re verified and have attended at least one social gathering so good luck meeting a like minded couple or single it might be quicker if you send a letter to the North Pole "
As unverified myself, i can completely understand why any meets/groups would want a verified individual/safety/references etc as one bad apple can ruin the whole party. The old days are gone for good the world is lacking trust anymore and i agree somewhat with your post.
The other side seems to be that some profiles have fake verifications so you just can never be careful enough. I know us men would likely take a punt an meet an unverified woman, but women and most couples i would assume are very unlikely to do so for the reasons above.
Us men are just horndogs.
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"Have you went to socials? Great to meet serious likeminded people. Get to play parties alot of ladies here want to meet socially first. It puts at ease for there safety etc."
Not really into the social side of Fab. We have lots of friends etc and always busy doing something. Parties are not really what we are looking for either.
We have a little bit of free time here and there to ourselves and just want to meet similar people we can have discreet fun with and enjoy that behind closed doors every now and then… |
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You have one hidden verification and no bio so most people will just pass your profile by for the lack of effort.
Single women are the most sought after demographic on fab so they can choose the people who give them enough information that they can decide if it's a hot match or not.
Your profile doesn't really say anything about either of ye. |
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"Have you went to socials? Great to meet serious likeminded people. Get to play parties alot of ladies here want to meet socially first. It puts at ease for there safety etc.
Not really into the social side of Fab. We have lots of friends etc and always busy doing something. Parties are not really what we are looking for either.
We have a little bit of free time here and there to ourselves and just want to meet similar people we can have discreet fun with and enjoy that behind closed doors every now and then… "
I think if you're not prepared to meet a single woman socially, at least in the first instance, then it's going to be harder for you to find what you're looking for. It's not about how many friends or free time one has, it's about all parties feeling comfortable and at ease. You're a couple, you have each other if it all goes to hell in a handcart. A single woman prospectively meeting you doesn't have that safety net. |
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"Have you went to socials? Great to meet serious likeminded people. Get to play parties alot of ladies here want to meet socially first. It puts at ease for there safety etc.
Not really into the social side of Fab. We have lots of friends etc and always busy doing something. Parties are not really what we are looking for either.
We have a little bit of free time here and there to ourselves and just want to meet similar people we can have discreet fun with and enjoy that behind closed doors every now and then… "
But us single girls are equally as busy with friends and commitments that's why lot of us will attend social events. Lot of us are single parents so don't have much time to attend coffee dates with potential couples. |
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"Have you went to socials? Great to meet serious likeminded people. Get to play parties alot of ladies here want to meet socially first. It puts at ease for there safety etc.
Not really into the social side of Fab. We have lots of friends etc and always busy doing something. Parties are not really what we are looking for either.
We have a little bit of free time here and there to ourselves and just want to meet similar people we can have discreet fun with and enjoy that behind closed doors every now and then… "
I know personally I wouldn't be inclined to meet a couple with no verifications. If you attend a social night such as DV8 or an unverified social then you will get verifications.
But speaking for myself, I like to see how couples interact in a social setting. I've come across plenty who over coffee seem great but once they have a drink or one partner is getting attention from someone and the other isn't, the dynamic changes. And there have been a few situations where I would not have liked to have been in a private setting when this happened.
It's pretty daunting for a single to meet a couple, so you will have to put in the groundwork in order to get your unicorn. |
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"After being here a while I really thought we would have found some like minded ladies to play with us… But nothing!!
What have your experiences been like with a couples tinder page or maybe even a female page looking for other females obviously informing them you’re looking for fun with your bf involved…
I really didn’t think it would be this hard lol… Xx"
Try going to socials and meeting people. You've no verifications.
Most women are cautious about that because some lads pretend to have a partner and turn up "at the last minute" on their own. |
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