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Saw this on the lounge and thought it might be a good one for getting over the Hump Day.
Gentlemen...if you are the type of man that likes (or even wants) a woman to make the first move and message first, say you're IN
Ladies...if you aren't too shy and you see someone you fancy on the thread, bite the bullet and message them 👍
Ladies don't have to comment on the thread, just reply privately to someone they fancy.
Be respectful, read the profile preferences and have fun 🙏  |
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In, however the ratio says they can chill and wait which I don’t blame them |
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"Saw this on the lounge and thought it might be a good one for getting over the Hump Day.
Gentlemen...if you are the type of man that likes (or even wants) a woman to make the first move and message first, say you're IN
Ladies...if you aren't too shy and you see someone you fancy on the thread, bite the bullet and message them 👍
Ladies don't have to comment on the thread, just reply privately to someone they fancy.
Be respectful, read the profile preferences and have fun 🙏 "
IN   |
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All for it I'm in !! Life is too short to wait  |
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Fingers and toes crossed 🤞🏻 for you all 😎 |
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Just did the lotto aswell,so will see who answers first.  |
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If I see someone that interests me, I'll take the initiative and message first, yolo!! |
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lol I know how this will work out, but sure - I’m in |
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IN |
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By *ettaManMan 2 weeks ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
In.
It doesn't even have to be the first message, just a wink. |
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"Can couples join in? "
That might confuse things!
And as I'm confused already I'm gonna say no 😂
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I'm in but I am worried for my ego 🤣 |
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"I'm in but I am worried for my ego 🤣"
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1719712#last
You're not alone. The lounge thread might give you a sense of solidarity with your fellow fabbers. It's a hard aul station for you lads at times. Chin up 😂 |
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"I'm in but I am worried for my ego 🤣"
could be worse could be like mine
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I've messaged first plenty 😇 but happy to have a quick peek 😊 |
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"I've messaged first plenty 😇 but happy to have a quick peek 😊"
I'm still waiting 😭
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I'm like a kid in a candy shop |
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Messages or or even a fab will do |
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"You cant lick till you buy."
No samples even... |
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Hello all and I'm in and hoping to get lucky xxx John |
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"You cant lick till you buy.
No samples even..."
them legs could wrap round a neck twice 😍 |
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"You cant lick till you buy.
No samples even...them legs could wrap round a neck twice 😍"
Is that a sample offer! |
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"You cant lick till you buy.
No samples even...them legs could wrap round a neck twice 😍
Is that a sample offer! "
no samples im all in 😂 |
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"You cant lick till you buy.
No samples even...them legs could wrap round a neck twice 😍
Is that a sample offer! no samples im all in 😂"
DM incoming |
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"You cant lick till you buy.
No samples even...them legs could wrap round a neck twice 😍
Is that a sample offer! no samples im all in 😂
Hi
DM incoming "
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"You cant lick till you buy.
No samples even...them legs could wrap round a neck twice 😍
Is that a sample offer! no samples im all in 😂
Size matters
DM incoming "
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"You cant lick till you buy.
No samples even...them legs could wrap round a neck twice 😍
Is that a sample offer! no samples im all in 😂
DM incoming "
you may thank the op for this lol |
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Might be worth while..
In for the evening. |
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Massive backlog of unread/unanswered messages deleted in anticipation of the avalanche of incoming mail.
Be patient ladies and I promise all new messages will be answered in rotation.
A fulltime secretarial position may even result from my participation in this thread.
Interested applicants please read my profile to see if you might be in with a chance....
😇🦡😇 |
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Ah sure in for the craic, and for the tumble rolling through my inbox 😂 |
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"If I see someone that interests me, I'll take the initiative and message first, yolo!! "
Someone who knows what they want and goes for it ...
Love that  |
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IN...would love some inter action |
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"If I see someone that interests me, I'll take the initiative and message first, yolo!!
Someone who knows what they want and goes for it ...
Love that "
Oh for sure, the worst I'd get would be not interested! An I'll jog on! |
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"Massive backlog of unread/unanswered messages deleted in anticipation of the avalanche of incoming mail.
Be patient ladies and I promise all new messages will be answered in rotation.
A fulltime secretarial position may even result from my participation in this thread.
Interested applicants please read my profile to see if you might be in with a chance....
😇🦡😇"
Bants level = 100000000000 lol 😆 😂 🤣 😅 😄. |
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In |
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I’m in but not holding my breath! |
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By *enitMan 2 weeks ago
Galway |
I would love to get a message to initiate from a woman |
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"I'm like a kid in a candy shop "
Snap. |
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"Saw this on the lounge and thought it might be a good one for getting over the Hump Day.
Gentlemen...if you are the type of man that likes (or even wants) a woman to make the first move and message first, say you're IN
Ladies...if you aren't too shy and you see someone you fancy on the thread, bite the bullet and message them 👍
Ladies don't have to comment on the thread, just reply privately to someone they fancy.
Be respectful, read the profile preferences and have fun 🙏 "
Feeling so proud just thaught id share ,got a dm.but i dont kiss and tell.  |
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Sure I suppose it can't do any harm to jump in too |
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Will this be a weekly thing like fab a fella Thursday ?
Asking for a friend, but of course |
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In. Only ever been messaged first once and we met a few times for great sex. The only lady I’ve met on here. |
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By *enitMan 2 weeks ago
Galway |
"I'm like a kid in a candy shop
Snap. "
Is not ever that way
Enjoy |
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I send the first messages all the time to guys here and it's being mainly very successful. Looking forward to meeting someone very soon after I slid into his inbox last year. Sometimes I won't get a reply but I'm OK with that I don't need to start a forum post complaining about the men here :- |
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Unfortunately I'm not in Ireland but I love the idea of more women making the first move |
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"If I see someone that interests me, I'll take the initiative and message first, yolo!!
Someone who knows what they want and goes for it ...
Love that
Oh for sure, the worst I'd get would be not interested! An I'll jog on! "
Jog on with those sexy legs? Id say a few might jog behind you |
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In but with very low expectations🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
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"Them Dublin girls are wild 😍"
Feral!!! |
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"If I see someone that interests me, I'll take the initiative and message first, yolo!!
Someone who knows what they want and goes for it ...
Love that
Oh for sure, the worst I'd get would be not interested! An I'll jog on!
Jog on with those sexy legs? Id say a few might jog behind you "
🤣 Forest gump! |
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It is always nice to get a message, I’m in |
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By *oc09Man 2 weeks ago
near u |
In for the laugh see if something comes from it 😂 |
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I'll join in then. I hope the messages are flowing |
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"I'll join in then. I hope the messages are flowing "
Me too. Hoping there's lots of lurking ladies dm'ing away privately |
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"I'll join in then. I hope the messages are flowing
Me too. Hoping there's lots of lurking ladies dm'ing away privately "
My inbox is flooded 😳😳😂 |
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By *eturning MGMan 2 weeks ago
mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland |
"If I see someone that interests me, I'll take the initiative and message first, yolo!! "
Love to get a message😇😉 |
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I'm IN but I am also holding my breath because that seems like fun too. |
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Ah jees
Mostly too far away anyways 😥 |
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By *ubeMan 2 weeks ago
Drogheda |
I'm in, now I will wait ans see lol |
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By *eturning MGMan 2 weeks ago
mayo galway roscommon sligo....West Of Ireland |
In..sher what harm can it do🤷🏻♂️ |
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Definitely in for this and won’t disappoint any lady who wants to message  |
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Definitely in
Ladies, feel free
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I'm in....if you'd like a Tantra massage in September. |
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By *om TangoMan 2 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
May as well go in for the disappointment sure. Help thicken my skin up a little more |
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Im all for assisting the ladies on Fab to get over their shyness . I'm In |
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I’m in and would love to see a message |
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In but please attach a face pic or it’ll be deleted - I get sooooo many messages |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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IN. Lets start it |
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Even if I am joining a thread that has just been resurrected when most will be in bed
I’m in
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In like flynn sure ... Humours tread...and I ain't taking about my arm |
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In but ...breath not held lol..Ty for affording us the opportunity |
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Yes am in. I do get the odd wink and message, which is always a nice surprise. |
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By *300Man 2 weeks ago
Limerick |
IN.. if your not in you can't win |
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By *eteeMan 2 weeks ago
limerick tipp border |
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"Saw this on the lounge and thought it might be a good one for getting over the Hump Day.
Gentlemen...if you are the type of man that likes (or even wants) a woman to make the first move and message first, say you're IN
Ladies...if you aren't too shy and you see someone you fancy on the thread, bite the bullet and message them 👍
Ladies don't have to comment on the thread, just reply privately to someone they fancy.
Be respectful, read the profile preferences and have fun 🙏 "
IN |
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Veeeery late to the party but I'm all in |
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My husband said, he's in fir a solo. 😆 |
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I’m in but not holding my breath 😂 |
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I'm in, defo holding my breath, think only 1 girl has ever pmd me, wanting to know where I got my heels 👠 😅 |
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They don’t message me ha ha what am I doing wrong lol |
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Well as Jack would say, "give it a lash".
So yes all in. 🤞 |
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"I'm in, defo holding my breath, think only 1 girl has ever pmd me, wanting to know where I got my heels 👠 😅 "
They'll be looking for your legs next, fine pair of pins on ya |
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I will say that I am in,but if anything it'll just be a guy that has a nosey  |
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"I'm in, defo holding my breath, think only 1 girl has ever pmd me, wanting to know where I got my heels 👠 😅 "
Your legs are nice. Much nicer than mine 😉 |
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By *enusalMan 2 weeks ago
tipperary Limerick London,Germany |
Chance it. In! |
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A chance in a million of this happening!! I'm in tho 😂 |
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In,if its not too late…….says prayer to St Anthony to help find some messages 🤣 |
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"I'm in, defo holding my breath, think only 1 girl has ever pmd me, wanting to know where I got my heels 👠 😅
Your legs are nice. Much nicer than mine 😉"
There’s not much wrong with yours either.😜 |
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"I'm in, defo holding my breath, think only 1 girl has ever pmd me, wanting to know where I got my heels 👠 😅
Your legs are nice. Much nicer than mine 😉
There’s not much wrong with yours either.😜"
They sure get me from a to b |
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By *onor80Man 2 weeks ago
Waterford |
I tend not to message any woman as majority seem to be inundated with messages already 🥲 |
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By *njco64Man 2 weeks ago
Tipperary |
I’m IN but ladies if I don’t reply immediately it’s because I’m swamped with girls begging for me attention 😂🤥😂 |
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"I like being in a candy shop . Why are so many so far away 
Mrs crazy "
You do have nice candy. |
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By *ariaxxxxCouple 2 weeks ago
Kent/London/Greater London |
I never mail first, I just leave it to the guys to mail me |
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More chance of McGregor becoming president than getting a message 😂😂 |
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"I never mail first, I just leave it to the guys to mail me"
Now is your chance 😜😜 |
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I'm in.
It's all a bit of fun and games |
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"I never mail first, I just leave it to the guys to mail me"
I think you're in the wrong thread so ... This one's to give the guys a chance of receiving the rare one👍🏻 |
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By *ariaxxxxCouple 2 weeks ago
Kent/London/Greater London |
"I never mail first, I just leave it to the guys to mail me
I think you're in the wrong thread so ... This one's to give the guys a chance of receiving the rare one👍🏻"
Oooooppps I misread, good idea though definitely 👍✌️ |
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By *a1970Man 2 weeks ago
East cork |
I'm in but I'm sure only in my dreams |
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"I never mail first, I just leave it to the guys to mail me
I think you're in the wrong thread so ... This one's to give the guys a chance of receiving the rare one👍🏻"
Sounds like another pegging thread |
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In
but have a pillow for my dreams |
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In again |
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By *ettaManMan 2 weeks ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
"In again "
Damn! You beat me to it 😁 |
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And that’s the thread at maximum |
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