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Cuddles 🤗 🤗 yes or no? 🤗
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"Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?
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I don’t just keep things ‘physical’, I take control of the whole moment, slow and deliberate. Pull them in close and let the tension build until they forget what they were even asking. Cuddling isn’t soft with me, it’s possessive like I’m not quite ready to let them go. They’ll feel it in the way I hold them, firm and confident like they belong right there. Once I have them like that, they won’t be thinking about preferences anymore. |
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It seems it's unpopular to say no to cuddles. I'm not really one for cuddles . I would have thought that was more of a tinder thing. But if youre talking pillows, then ill cuddle the hell out of that all night long  |
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By *heXxX OP Woman 2 weeks ago
Dublin |
You don't have to have deep feelings for someone, if you desire someone that's a feeling too... and I wouldn't have sex with someone without it or with someone I don't like, so for me sex goes together with cuddling and and kissing. |
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I've never had sex with someone I didn't like and cuddling isn't essential but definitely makes it a nicer experience. Aftercare is a lovely thing 😊
I get that some people aren't really very tactile. Most seem to like it as a part of the experience. Cuddling and kissing is definitely a huge turn on for me. |
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"I'm thinking we need a definition on cuddli6. I knew I'd get some pushback on this. Hugs are good. I'm always game for hugs, in fact and I don't mind saying that in really good at them too"
You can change your mind, of course you can, many situations dictate change but you can also push back against the crowd and say no, I don’t like ……. whatever you don’t like. You don’t need to follow the herd if you think that’s what required sometimes coz it’s not. |
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"I'm thinking we need a definition on cuddli6. I knew I'd get some pushback on this. Hugs are good. I'm always game for hugs, in fact and I don't mind saying that in really good at them too
You can change your mind, of course you can, many situations dictate change but you can also push back against the crowd and say no, I don’t like ……. whatever you don’t like. You don’t need to follow the herd if you think that’s what required sometimes coz it’s not."
Yes but there's a difference between a hug and a cuddle. We'll. I'm my mind there is anyway. Cuddling doesn't do anything for me |
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By *itty14Couple 2 weeks ago
kilkenny |
"It seems it's unpopular to say no to cuddles. I'm not really one for cuddles . I would have thought that was more of a tinder thing. But if youre talking pillows, then ill cuddle the hell out of that all night long "
I would be the same..himself is even lucky to get a cuddle🤣 |
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By *og-ManMan 2 weeks ago
somewhere |
"I'm thinking we need a definition on cuddli6. I knew I'd get some pushback on this. Hugs are good. I'm always game for hugs, in fact and I don't mind saying that in really good at them too
You can change your mind, of course you can, many situations dictate change but you can also push back against the crowd and say no, I don’t like ……. whatever you don’t like. You don’t need to follow the herd if you think that’s what required sometimes coz it’s not.
Yes but there's a difference between a hug and a cuddle. We'll. I'm my mind there is anyway. Cuddling doesn't do anything for me"
Is that when you're the big or little spoon or neither |
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I'm cuddle apathetic myself but recognise others cuddle needs and do my best to respond as required. Left to my own devices I'm more likely to clean your kitchen or cut your grass after sex but I can cuddle with conviction when needed. |
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By *og-ManMan 2 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Cuddles definitely, but only with each other.
Cuddles are a big no no as part of swinging, it’s literally just sex. We hadn’t taken cuddles into consideration until it happened once."
Dont forget most people on the forums have stated many times that they dont count themselves as swingers and if you read the comments then cuddles are definitely a part of meeting people and having sex.
If you don't want cuddles then as long as you agree it beforehand then thats cool
Just like some people dont kiss and only keep that for their actual partner
To me if Im lying naked on a bed one to one with another naked person then kissing while cuddling is a natural part of that
If Im naked with a couple its not. |
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I am not a cuddler, or a hugger 😂 it took my husband awhile to break me, so I love a cutch with him, but absolutely not with random strangers or one nighters. Cuddles is love and affection and coziness, not getting that off the internet 🤷🏻♀️ |
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By *ightsOutCouple 2 weeks ago
It’s a long way |
"Cuddles definitely, but only with each other.
Cuddles are a big no no as part of swinging, it’s literally just sex. We hadn’t taken cuddles into consideration until it happened once.
Dont forget most people on the forums have stated many times that they dont count themselves as swingers and if you read the comments then cuddles are definitely a part of meeting people and having sex.
If you don't want cuddles then as long as you agree it beforehand then thats cool
Just like some people dont kiss and only keep that for their actual partner
To me if Im lying naked on a bed one to one with another naked person then kissing while cuddling is a natural part of that
If Im naked with a couple its not."
Apologies, I should have stated I was talking about for us, as swingers. What anybody else does swinger or not is completely their own business.
I totally agree, these things do need to be said and it’s definitely something we would be making clear from the get go. |
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By *eijaWoman 2 weeks ago
City Centre |
Absolutely love hugs especially long ones..I am a hugger. A hug makes everyone feel better.
Cuddles and snuggles I also love...but not with everyone..I do enjoy them with my fwbs.
Not a fan of the word 'aftercare' either 🫣
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