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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When we meet cpls each cpl books a room each if they are staying. Very straightforward.
But we also meet singles separately and there seems to be a culture that the man always pays for the hotel room.
I (fem)always like to pay half.. am I nuts?? Opinions please!
ps this isnt a meet invitation for single boys so be nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No your not nuts. The guys that are taken for a ride to get a ride are nuts.
A couple from here wanted me to pay for a room for an afternoon meet and then they'd have the room themselves for the night. I declined the offer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No your not nuts. The guys that are taken for a ride to get a ride are nuts.
A couple from here wanted me to pay for a room for an afternoon meet and then they'd have the room themselves for the night. I declined the offer."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What if you pay for a room and it's all over in 5 mins? What a waste of a room 
How would it be over in five minutes.???"
That's what I was wondering.... eeek.. |
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"When we meet cpls each cpl books a room each if they are staying. Very straightforward.
But we also meet singles separately and there seems to be a culture that the man always pays for the hotel room.
I (fem)always like to pay half.. am I nuts?? Opinions please!
ps this isnt a meet invitation for single boys so be nice "
I've been thinking about this for a while, and looking at it from all sides. I've now come to the conclusion that I love you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most of the fellas here like the idea of meeting but not the idea of paying for half a hotel room , they imagine the girls here accom and and quick to suggest a car meet or somesuch nonsense , but where as they are obviously desperate for a fuck any lady in her right mind will tell them to jog on . |
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"most of the fellas here like the idea of meeting but not the idea of paying for half a hotel room , they imagine the girls here accom and and quick to suggest a car meet or somesuch nonsense , but where as they are obviously desperate for a fuck any lady in her right mind will tell them to jog on . "
I find that very difficult to believe to be honest  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"most of the fellas here like the idea of meeting but not the idea of paying for half a hotel room , they imagine the girls here accom and and quick to suggest a car meet or somesuch nonsense , but where as they are obviously desperate for a fuck any lady in her right mind will tell them to jog on .
I cant say I've chatted to any guys like that on here myself.. thankfully.
I find that very difficult to believe to be honest "
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"When we meet cpls each cpl books a room each if they are staying. Very straightforward.
But we also meet singles separately and there seems to be a culture that the man always pays for the hotel room.
I (fem)always like to pay half.. am I nuts?? Opinions please!
ps this isnt a meet invitation for single boys so be nice "
last time i offered the lady but she declined since i traveled 100 miles for the meet. i offered again and she refused. i guess i am just lucky but i still think i should pay half. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well if he insisted that we stay in the Culloden or somewhere like that and wanted to pay.....who am I to refuse  "
Would have thought you were more of a Merchant kinda lady Ali lol  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"most of the fellas here like the idea of meeting but not the idea of paying for half a hotel room , they imagine the girls here accom and and quick to suggest a car meet or somesuch nonsense , but where as they are obviously desperate for a fuck any lady in her right mind will tell them to jog on . "
Aww now don't paint us all with the same brush I prefer hotel meets but if I travel I think its only fair to go halfs if she travels there is no way she's putting her hand in her pocket and if its a cpl that are going to have the benfit of the room I would make it my buisness to buy the drinks in the bar first but that's my way
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By (user no longer on site)
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"most of the fellas here like the idea of meeting but not the idea of paying for half a hotel room , they imagine the girls here accom and and quick to suggest a car meet or somesuch nonsense , but where as they are obviously desperate for a fuck any lady in her right mind will tell them to jog on . "
totally disagree with this also I'm more than happy to pay for a room I don't do car meet looking for a quick shag a desperate for a shag I am not ! Now get outta me car n gives us some petrol money |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"most of the fellas here like the idea of meeting but not the idea of paying for half a hotel room , they imagine the girls here accom and and quick to suggest a car meet or somesuch nonsense , but where as they are obviously desperate for a fuck any lady in her right mind will tell them to jog on . totally disagree with this also I'm more than happy to pay for a room I don't do car meet looking for a quick shag a desperate for a shag I am not ! Now get outta me car n gives us some petrol money "
Although I did hear from a fem on here that she was sexting with a guy and when they met it wasn't for her she explained this and the guy asked she pay his mobile bill as it was her he was texting
U just got love the wackos on here present company excluded |
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Although I did hear from a fem on here that she was sexting with a guy and when they met it wasn't for her she explained this and the guy asked she pay his mobile bill as it was her he was texting
U just got love the wackos on here present company excluded "
Did she have the decency to pay up at least? |
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"When we meet cpls each cpl books a room each if they are staying. Very straightforward.
But we also meet singles separately and there seems to be a culture that the man always pays for the hotel room.
I (fem)always like to pay half.. am I nuts?? Opinions please!
ps this isnt a meet invitation for single boys so be nice "
50/50 If its say Jurys in galway city,,but if its a three room hostel in derrydonell the bill would be small and hardly worth splitting,,,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well if he insisted that we stay in the Culloden or somewhere like that and wanted to pay.....who am I to refuse
Would have thought you were more of a Merchant kinda lady Ali lol "
There is only one hotel I would never go to again and that's Chimney Corner as it was sooo bad lol. But sure its not the hotel that matters....its the company because if a meet is good I don't have time to look around me and study the décor lolol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well tbh if I'm willing to go out of my way to meet a woman I expect her to pay for room dinner breakfast my mobile bill and car tax lol.....
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You forgot the household charge and car insurance.. surely you should get her to pay that too...  |
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"Well tbh if I'm willing to go out of my way to meet a woman I expect her to pay for room dinner breakfast my mobile bill and car tax lol.....
You forgot the household charge and car insurance.. surely you should get her to pay that too... "
True but actually maybe should claim mileage too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well tbh if I'm willing to go out of my way to meet a woman I expect her to pay for room dinner breakfast my mobile bill and car tax lol.....
You forgot the household charge and car insurance.. surely you should get her to pay that too...
True but actually maybe should claim mileage too."
Well here's one guy I wont be meeting again.. cant afford it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When we meet cpls each cpl books a room each if they are staying. Very straightforward.
But we also meet singles separately and there seems to be a culture that the man always pays for the hotel room.
I (fem)always like to pay half.. am I nuts?? Opinions please!
ps this isnt a meet invitation for single boys so be nice "
when ive met guys at hotels,they always insisted on paying but i wudnt mind paying half if given the option,now if i met the same guy again at a hotel i think id insist on paying half cos it wud seem a bit unfair for him to pay again i think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" when ive met guys at hotels,they always insisted on paying but i wudnt mind paying half if given the option,now if i met the same guy again at a hotel i think id insist on paying half cos it wud seem a bit unfair for him to pay again i think "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When we meet cpls each cpl books a room each if they are staying. Very straightforward.
But we also meet singles separately and there seems to be a culture that the man always pays for the hotel room.
I (fem)always like to pay half.. am I nuts?? Opinions please!
ps this isnt a meet invitation for single boys so be nice
when ive met guys at hotels,they always insisted on paying but i wudnt mind paying half if given the option,now if i met the same guy again at a hotel i think id insist on paying half cos it wud seem a bit unfair for him to pay again i think "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Guys don't be so tight! Pay for the room, what happened good old fashion gentlemen?
Open the car door, pull out her chair, put your coat down over a puddle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the meet is with a single lady, then I always pay for the room. Sometimes she insists on paying half but I never insist.
If its a meeting with a couple then I agree it should be 50:50. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys don't be so tight! Pay for the room, what happened good old fashion gentlemen?
Open the car door, pull out her chair, put your coat down over a puddle! "
hold her bag , hold her hand,
shag her and go yer seperate ways  it isnt really old fashioned romance is it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys don't be so tight! Pay for the room, what happened good old fashion gentlemen?
Open the car door, pull out her chair, put your coat down over a puddle!
Equality  "
I think when it comes to swinging, any political correctness on points of equality, gender discrimination, etc...all of it takes a back seat. |
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"Guys don't be so tight! Pay for the room, what happened good old fashion gentlemen?
Open the car door, pull out her chair, put your coat down over a puddle!
Equality
I think when it comes to swinging, any political correctness on points of equality, gender discrimination, etc...all of it takes a back seat. "
well u won't have to worry about the hotel bill then, if your just goin to do her on the back seat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys don't be so tight! Pay for the room, what happened good old fashion gentlemen?
Open the car door, pull out her chair, put your coat down over a puddle!
Equality
I think when it comes to swinging, any political correctness on points of equality, gender discrimination, etc...all of it takes a back seat. "
I think..... you might be very very... wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys don't be so tight! Pay for the room, what happened good old fashion gentlemen?
Open the car door, pull out her chair, put your coat down over a puddle!
Equality
I think when it comes to swinging, any political correctness on points of equality, gender discrimination, etc...all of it takes a back seat.
I think..... you might be very very... wrong. "
true true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reckon would be great business on swingers hotel. Rent out rooms at hourly rate. "
They have things in Japan called Love Hotels that work a bit like that. |
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Was having an enjoyable conversation with someone yesterday, until the topic turned the future hotel bill this is what I received
" I was reading your message, up to when you said you were willing to split a hotel bull if necessary. Well guess what, big spender. It won't be necessary!!!
One little tip as you blunder your way through this world. You may consider that you can hold a conversation, but you won't hold a girls attention when you are as tight as that..."
So glad I came on to the forum, at least now I don't feel like a cheap skate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always paid for the room and never taken any payment from a girl.......
all bar one female always offered.....but it just doesn't sit well with me to share the cost.....maybe i'm old fashioned....but its not a business transaction we are conducting....a little bit of generosity goes a long way |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"Guys don't be so tight! Pay for the room, what happened good old fashion gentlemen?
Open the car door, pull out her chair, put your coat down over a puddle!
Equality
I think when it comes to swinging, any political correctness on points of equality, gender discrimination, etc...all of it takes a back seat.
I think..... you might be very very... wrong.
true true "
sarcasm does not translate, when i used the word equality it is not my personal point of view.
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