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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I want to get your views, I have being meeting and in contact a guy on here with a girlfriend over a year he has single profile i never had a problem with it he told me she wasn't into this scene which is their business, turns out they are actually on here as a couple profile aswell i never was told of this, i actually feel sick that i have been mislead this way, this ever happen to anyone else?????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to get your views, I have being meeting and in contact a guy on here with a girlfriend over a year he has single profile i never had a problem with it he told me she wasn't into this scene which is their business, turns out they are actually on here as a couple profile aswell i never was told of this, i actually feel sick that i have been mislead this way, this ever happen to anyone else??????????"
Chivalry is dead I'm afraid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to get your views, I have being meeting and in contact a guy on here with a girlfriend over a year he has single profile i never had a problem with it he told me she wasn't into this scene which is their business, turns out they are actually on here as a couple profile aswell i never was told of this, i actually feel sick that i have been mislead this way, this ever happen to anyone else??????????"
lies of any kind are upsetting but considering u have been meeting him this long its a little more. Saying that you already knew he was attached so that isnt the issue. But I do understand how u feel,he knew u hadnt a problem with him being attached yet chose not to tell u she was also onsite. :-/ hard one to call I guess |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You met a guy here with single profile but with a girlfriend?
And you're surprised he lied to you?"
In a way yes because we did become great friends also, for over a year and it was never mentioned  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Plenty singles here and guys with permission to go around
Maybe she was the cuck and got off on him sharing the details if yer encounters ! "
Maybe so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be annoyed especially since his other half is on this site. In all fairness if he was a part of a couple his other half of the couple might know about you. And if she didnt know I would have called it cheating. But that is my opinion. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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Plenty singles here and guys with permission to go around
Maybe she was the cuck and got off on him sharing the details if yer encounters ! "
Good point. You may not know all the relevant details  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was seeing a guy for months... had met him loads of times... he told me he was separated and back living with his parents thats why he couldnt accommodate.. one day it came out that he was still with his wife and his name wasnt really his name.... i actually was so pissed off i left the site.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can never know the reasons why people do stuff like this. I would never hope/expect to get complete honesty from a meet. The best you can do is treat people as you would like to be treated yourself and move onwards and upwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was seeing a guy for months... had met him loads of times... he told me he was separated and back living with his parents thats why he couldnt accommodate.. one day it came out that he was still with his wife and his name wasnt really his name.... i actually was so pissed off i left the site.. "
I had similar happening to me. I'm not surprised about much anymore.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was seeing a guy for months... had met him loads of times... he told me he was separated and back living with his parents thats why he couldnt accommodate.. one day it came out that he was still with his wife and his name wasnt really his name.... i actually was so pissed off i left the site.. "
Holy Crap  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Reading the op and other posts I think it maybe wise to sit down and talk to him about it there a couple questions need answering
It still doesn't excuse telling u lies I know its NSA but when u become friends things like this hurt its not a heart breaker but it does give u a dig
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading the op and other posts I think it maybe wise to sit down and talk to him about it there a couple questions need answering
It still doesn't excuse telling u lies I know its NSA but when u become friends things like this hurt its not a heart breaker but it does give u a dig
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good advice. I did exactly that. Sat down with a cuppa, he answered all my questions and listened to my angry outbursts. I hate dishonesty!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty singles here and guys with permission to go around
Maybe she was the cuck and got off on him sharing the details if yer encounters ! "
oh yes indeed that scenario is more common than people think.
if anything you should feel better that you haven't been deceiving anyone after all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reading the op and other posts I think it maybe wise to sit down and talk to him about it there a couple questions need answering
It still doesn't excuse telling u lies I know its NSA but when u become friends things like this hurt its not a heart breaker but it does give u a dig
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It was definately NSA my heart hasn't been broke i am more pissed off more than anything i broke a few of my rules by meeting him  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Plenty singles here and guys with permission to go around
Maybe she was the cuck and got off on him sharing the details if yer encounters !
oh yes indeed that scenario is more common than people think.
if anything you should feel better that you haven't been deceiving anyone after all "
I am always honest about everything my bad for expecting the same in return  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading the op and other posts I think it maybe wise to sit down and talk to him about it there a couple questions need answering
It still doesn't excuse telling u lies I know its NSA but when u become friends things like this hurt its not a heart breaker but it does give u a dig
It was definately NSA my heart hasn't been broke i am more pissed off more than anything i broke a few of my rules by meeting him "
Ah. Surely you can't be that surprised then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty singles here and guys with permission to go around
Maybe she was the cuck and got off on him sharing the details if yer encounters !
oh yes indeed that scenario is more common than people think.
if anything you should feel better that you haven't been deceiving anyone after all
I am always honest about everything my bad for expecting the same in return "
well the fact he said he was lying to his other half though should be an indicator he's not an honest person, this place is a mad learning curve for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was she definitely on the scene when you were first meeting? Maybe she joined later and he feared losing the privilege of meeting you if he were to bring it up? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was she definitely on the scene when you were first meeting? Maybe she joined later and he feared losing the privilege of meeting you if he were to bring it up?"
Nope on here well over a year  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was she definitely on the scene when you were first meeting? Maybe she joined later and he feared losing the privilege of meeting you if he were to bring it up?
Nope on here well over a year "
Oh well in that case, I'll get the crucifix  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Plenty singles here and guys with permission to go around
Maybe she was the cuck and got off on him sharing the details if yer encounters !
oh yes indeed that scenario is more common than people think.
if anything you should feel better that you haven't been deceiving anyone after all
I am always honest about everything my bad for expecting the same in return
well the fact he said he was lying to his other half though should be an indicator he's not an honest person, this place is a mad learning curve for sure."
I have definately learned from this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading the op and other posts I think it maybe wise to sit down and talk to him about it there a couple questions need answering
It still doesn't excuse telling u lies I know its NSA but when u become friends things like this hurt its not a heart breaker but it does give u a dig
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Think that's unwise your just giving someone who has a proven record of lieing successfully to you another chance to deceive you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bit confused (well I am a man lol) Did he tell you she knew he was seeing you but she wasn't interested and he can carry on seeing you OR was you seeing each other behind her back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say his partner thinks she is friendly with him to
did you think he would treat you differently?
You are being a bit harsh here hal"
I don't think he is in fairness
The OP knew he had a partner (and no I'm not attached people bashing) so she knew the situation they were both in. Their 'friendship' was one she knew was based on him lying to his partner and she knew that.
So surely it shouldn't come as a surprise that he would lie to her about it, despite how close they had become.
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Plenty singles here and guys with permission to go around
Maybe she was the cuck and got off on him sharing the details if yer encounters !
oh yes indeed that scenario is more common than people think.
if anything you should feel better that you haven't been deceiving anyone after all
I am always honest about everything my bad for expecting the same in return "
No I don't think your bad. I'm the same. Never lie and would expect complete honesty from the guys I see regularly and would be very hurt if they didn't  |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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How am i being harsh?
She knew guy was a liar,no judging him for cheating but fact is he's a liar
it always bamboozles me how women,some women,ignore what should be obvious alarm bells about a guys character and then are surprised to be dumped on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How am i being harsh?
She knew guy was a liar,no judging him for cheating but fact is he's a liar
it always bamboozles me how women,some women,ignore what should be obvious alarm bells about a guys character and then are surprised to be dumped on"
Yes i hold my hands up it was poor judgement for meeting someone that was attached and has not been repeated since that i am aware of, i never said anything about being dumped i just wanted to hear people views on this as nothing has happened like this before to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How am i being harsh?
She knew guy was a liar,no judging him for cheating but fact is he's a liar
it always bamboozles me how women,some women,ignore what should be obvious alarm bells about a guys character and then are surprised to be dumped on"
So basically you are saying once a player always a player no matter what?? |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"How am i being harsh?
She knew guy was a liar,no judging him for cheating but fact is he's a liar
it always bamboozles me how women,some women,ignore what should be obvious alarm bells about a guys character and then are surprised to be dumped on
So basically you are saying once a player always a player no matter what??"
its very rare that leopard changes their spots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally understand,meeting him knowing he had a gf..(grand she'll never know)...
Meeting him knowing she was here all the time on a couples profile...yeah that's shit!! Really uncomfortable...
I know people lie but that's awful... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres lots of liars and deceitful people on here... lets face it, people are here for there own reasons.. be it people who are playing away or people who are married and playing away.... try not get to attached next time op... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally understand,meeting him knowing he had a gf..(grand she'll never know)...
Meeting him knowing she was here all the time on a couples profile...yeah that's shit!! Really uncomfortable...
I know people lie but that's awful... "
how is it worse than meeting him without her knowing, do you mean its worse because he was lying to the OP instead of just his girlfriend? what difference does it make really if he has a girlfriend on here or not, if the OP had no problem meeting him knowing he was attached and cheating I fail to see where the problem is, none of us should expect to be told the truth from someone who can so easily lie to the person they spend a lot of time with, not coming from a moral viewpoint but from a logical one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How am i being harsh?
She knew guy was a liar,no judging him for cheating but fact is he's a liar
it always bamboozles me how women,some women,ignore what should be obvious alarm bells about a guys character and then are surprised to be dumped on
So basically you are saying once a player always a player no matter what??
its very rare that leopard changes their spots "
Ya see I agree but the way I read the comments were you silly girl did you think you were special.which is not nice nor is it what ya want to hear when you have been treated like a fool..!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How am i being harsh?
She knew guy was a liar,no judging him for cheating but fact is he's a liar
it always bamboozles me how women,some women,ignore what should be obvious alarm bells about a guys character and then are surprised to be dumped on
So basically you are saying once a player always a player no matter what??
its very rare that leopard changes their spots "
Leopards don't have to if they find the right people. |
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Obviously op knew he had a girlfriend
But not aware he had a couples profile with said gf
I'm sorry I dont get the hurt if you did not know bout the gf and was not into playing with attached and found out maybe I can see your hurt.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No i think ppl can change,if they really want to
but this guy was actively still playing both girlfriend n op so she should have seen him for what he was"
My eyes are opened big time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally understand,meeting him knowing he had a gf..(grand she'll never know)...
Meeting him knowing she was here all the time on a couples profile...yeah that's shit!! Really uncomfortable...
I know people lie but that's awful...
how is it worse than meeting him without her knowing, do you mean its worse because he was lying to the OP instead of just his girlfriend? what difference does it make really if he has a girlfriend on here or not, if the OP had no problem meeting him knowing he was attached and cheating I fail to see where the problem is, none of us should expect to be told the truth from someone who can so easily lie to the person they spend a lot of time with, not coming from a moral viewpoint but from a logical one."
I'm saying if he had a girlfriend and playing away like lots of people here I understand that...
But being a part of a couple here not telling the lady he was meeting that he had a couples profile also yeah I think that's bang out of order! |
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over a year ago
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"I totally understand,meeting him knowing he had a gf..(grand she'll never know)...
Meeting him knowing she was here all the time on a couples profile...yeah that's shit!! Really uncomfortable...
I know people lie but that's awful...
how is it worse than meeting him without her knowing, do you mean its worse because he was lying to the OP instead of just his girlfriend? what difference does it make really if he has a girlfriend on here or not, if the OP had no problem meeting him knowing he was attached and cheating I fail to see where the problem is, none of us should expect to be told the truth from someone who can so easily lie to the person they spend a lot of time with, not coming from a moral viewpoint but from a logical one.
I'm saying if he had a girlfriend and playing away like lots of people here I understand that...
But being a part of a couple here not telling the lady he was meeting that he had a couples profile also yeah I think that's bang out of order! "
why? |
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over a year ago
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"I totally understand,meeting him knowing he had a gf..(grand she'll never know)...
Meeting him knowing she was here all the time on a couples profile...yeah that's shit!! Really uncomfortable...
I know people lie but that's awful...
how is it worse than meeting him without her knowing, do you mean its worse because he was lying to the OP instead of just his girlfriend? what difference does it make really if he has a girlfriend on here or not, if the OP had no problem meeting him knowing he was attached and cheating I fail to see where the problem is, none of us should expect to be told the truth from someone who can so easily lie to the person they spend a lot of time with, not coming from a moral viewpoint but from a logical one.
I'm saying if he had a girlfriend and playing away like lots of people here I understand that...
But being a part of a couple here not telling the lady he was meeting that he had a couples profile also yeah I think that's bang out of order!
why? "
Put yourself in her shoes..
So if you met a single,were friends,uncomplicated sex,no expectations,and found out he had a couples profile he failed to mention? Yes...I think that would piss me off! Especially as she never expected anything from him,and they were friends... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No i think ppl can change,if they really want to
but this guy was actively still playing both girlfriend n op so she should have seen him for what he was"
I do have to agree here with what Hal said! |
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over a year ago
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"I totally understand,meeting him knowing he had a gf..(grand she'll never know)...
Meeting him knowing she was here all the time on a couples profile...yeah that's shit!! Really uncomfortable...
I know people lie but that's awful...
how is it worse than meeting him without her knowing, do you mean its worse because he was lying to the OP instead of just his girlfriend? what difference does it make really if he has a girlfriend on here or not, if the OP had no problem meeting him knowing he was attached and cheating I fail to see where the problem is, none of us should expect to be told the truth from someone who can so easily lie to the person they spend a lot of time with, not coming from a moral viewpoint but from a logical one.
I'm saying if he had a girlfriend and playing away like lots of people here I understand that...
But being a part of a couple here not telling the lady he was meeting that he had a couples profile also yeah I think that's bang out of order!
why?
Put yourself in her shoes..
So if you met a single,were friends,uncomplicated sex,no expectations,and found out he had a couples profile he failed to mention? Yes...I think that would piss me off! Especially as she never expected anything from him,and they were friends..."
She didn't meet a single though?
She met a guy who she knew was in a relationship?
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over a year ago
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"I totally understand,meeting him knowing he had a gf..(grand she'll never know)...
Meeting him knowing she was here all the time on a couples profile...yeah that's shit!! Really uncomfortable...
I know people lie but that's awful...
how is it worse than meeting him without her knowing, do you mean its worse because he was lying to the OP instead of just his girlfriend? what difference does it make really if he has a girlfriend on here or not, if the OP had no problem meeting him knowing he was attached and cheating I fail to see where the problem is, none of us should expect to be told the truth from someone who can so easily lie to the person they spend a lot of time with, not coming from a moral viewpoint but from a logical one.
I'm saying if he had a girlfriend and playing away like lots of people here I understand that...
But being a part of a couple here not telling the lady he was meeting that he had a couples profile also yeah I think that's bang out of order!
why?
Put yourself in her shoes..
So if you met a single,were friends,uncomplicated sex,no expectations,and found out he had a couples profile he failed to mention? Yes...I think that would piss me off! Especially as she never expected anything from him,and they were friends...
She didn't meet a single though?
She met a guy who she knew was in a relationship?
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this! it really doesn't make much sense to me unless the person was looking a relationship out of it, which the OP says they weren't so what is the difference, he didn't lie about having a girlfriend, he lied about her being a swinger, not really that big a deal tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to get your views, I have being meeting and in contact a guy on here with a girlfriend over a year he has single profile i never had a problem with it he told me she wasn't into this scene which is their business, turns out they are actually on here as a couple profile aswell i never was told of this, i actually feel sick that i have been mislead this way, this ever happen to anyone else??????????"
How do you know it's a 'couples' profile?
I mean, maybe he has 2 profiles, one single and one he uses as a 'couple'.
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"I want to get your views, I have being meeting and in contact a guy on here with a girlfriend over a year he has single profile i never had a problem with it he told me she wasn't into this scene which is their business, turns out they are actually on here as a couple profile aswell i never was told of this, i actually feel sick that i have been mislead this way, this ever happen to anyone else??????????"
don't get mad... get even!! private message me & i'll tell you how.  |
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We are not hurt by lies told to others - we are hurt by lies told to us. The man lied to her and she is hurt.
Having said that - she should not be surprised - people lie on here all the time -
Someone mentioned revenge - why bother - |
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over a year ago
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"I wonder did the gf/ female part of profile know he had a single profile
Imagine her hurt knowing he was playing alone too "
And playing on the same site too. No that fella either has big balls or just plain thick, just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So its ok him lying to his girlfriend but hurtful if he lies to people here??? If the was a man put that post up O doubt i would read the same responses  "
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"I want to get your views, I have being meeting and in contact a guy on here with a girlfriend over a year he has single profile i never had a problem with it he told me she wasn't into this scene which is their business, turns out they are actually on here as a couple profile aswell i never was told of this, i actually feel sick that i have been mislead this way, this ever happen to anyone else??????????
don't get mad... get even!! private message me & i'll tell you how. "
Spiteful, the op is on a swingers site. Learn from it and get over it |
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over a year ago
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I actively seek attached lovers out and immediately feel superior as a partner because I am at least better than their husband. Finding out a woman is using me to satisfy sexual needs despite having it on tap is all the fuel I need to consistently perform. Use my philosophy to overcome your issue if you can... |
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over a year ago
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"I actively seek attached lovers out and immediately feel superior as a partner because I am at least better than their husband. Finding out a woman is using me to satisfy sexual needs despite having it on tap is all the fuel I need to consistently perform. Use my philosophy to overcome your issue if you can..."
egotistical much ? no wonder you have so many verifications thats a top class attitude |
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over a year ago
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From my experience, being on and off here for 3 years 99.999999999999999% of people are attached .. 'single' profiles don't mean that the person is unattached.. your best thinking like this, then being pleasantly surprised to learn if they are in fact single.. its a bit naive to believe what peeps tell you on here as alot are playing out fancies or in 'character'.. the real person goes home to the hubby or wife who's unaware of their significant others swing persona.. Some of my best friends (with benefits or not) from here are attached and its none of my business.. Nor is it our place to judge, each to their own. I can see how NSA becomes messy over time as the pesky strings get all tangled up and peeps get confused as to what they are here for Miss beav x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol, it's funny because it happened to someone else and not me.
Put on your big girl boots, you were with a liar and he lied to you, lesson learned, cheetah, spots, all that jazz.
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"I actively seek attached lovers out and immediately feel superior as a partner because I am at least better than their husband. Finding out a woman is using me to satisfy sexual needs despite having it on tap is all the fuel I need to consistently perform. Use my philosophy to overcome your issue if you can..."
we will take your word for it |
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"From my experience, being on and off here for 3 years 99.999999999999999% of people are attached .. 'single' profiles don't mean that the person is unattached.. your best thinking like this, then being pleasantly surprised to learn if they are in fact single.. its a bit naive to believe what peeps tell you on here as alot are playing out fancies or in 'character'.. the real person goes home to the hubby or wife who's unaware of their significant others swing persona.. Some of my best friends (with benefits or not) from here are attached and its none of my business.. Nor is it our place to judge, each to their own. I can see how NSA becomes messy over time as the pesky strings get all tangled up and peeps get confused as to what they are here for Miss beav x"
Whoop whoop! I thought I was the only one. But strangely.....now I feel....well....less special almost.  |
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"From my experience, being on and off here for 3 years 99.999999999999999% of people are attached .. 'single' profiles don't mean that the person is unattached.. your best thinking like this, then being pleasantly surprised to learn if they are in fact single.. its a bit naive to believe what peeps tell you on here as alot are playing out fancies or in 'character'.. the real person goes home to the hubby or wife who's unaware of their significant others swing persona.. Some of my best friends (with benefits or not) from here are attached and its none of my business.. Nor is it our place to judge, each to their own. I can see how NSA becomes messy over time as the pesky strings get all tangled up and peeps get confused as to what they are here for Miss beav x"
Whoop whoop! I thought I was the only one. But strangely.....now I feel....well....less special almost. |
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over a year ago
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Being honest isn't egotistical "_aid back wrx"....you would know that if you put your "rod" away and redirected your obvious ability to read towards a book. |
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