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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am I the only one that thinks this place ( the forums and the site overall ) is gone to te dogs ??
The drivel and same old crap posted and reposted again and again . The alter egos of the alter egos posting endless threads based on rubbish.
I will probably be slated for this but I genuinely wonder why I am here at all ?
I'm Grateful that the forums as it allows me to generate and publish the party but beyond that ... Entertainment wise the place has gone to pot !!!
Is it a phase ? Is it just me ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to really like the forums. . But i don't think its the trolls (I'm probably regarded as one myself). . Its the bully tactics and the shit stirring and the airing of private matters on a forum that can be viewed by anyone even non members that is to blame. . . Good posters are keeping to themselves. . Some even leaving because of it. . . But few will stand up and be counted. . . |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one that thinks this place ( the forums and the site overall ) is gone to te dogs ??
The drivel and same old crap posted and reposted again and again . The alter egos of the alter egos posting endless threads based on rubbish.
I will probably be slated for this but I genuinely wonder why I am here at all ?
I'm Grateful that the forums as it allows me to generate and publish the party but beyond that ... Entertainment wise the place has gone to pot !!!
Is it a phase ? Is it just me ?"
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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I see where its coming from went trough a patch resently where I lost interest but then thought if u let the trolls and bullies win the place is doomed, doomed I tell u don't wait for others to improve it for u be proactive hell u had the balls to join the site which for a lot takes more than ignoring trolls and bullies
If I am out of line I expect my peers to quietly say it to me or tell me straight its easier than a poision chalice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know in the weeks leading up to the cork m&g it was great fun but since then it's gone down hill
I keep swearing I'm not going to look anymore and a hour later there I am looking again
and nine times out of ten rolling the eyes
it was easier to give up smoking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when you have somebody pm. demanding to know if the comment you put up as a joke is aimed at them.Well it wouldn't encourage you to have a bit of banter in the future. |
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"when you have somebody pm. demanding to know if the comment you put up as a joke is aimed at them.Well it wouldn't encourage you to have a bit of banter in the future. "
When there's a lot of coded or underhanded jibes disguised as friendly banter, there's bound to be paranoia. |
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It's not just you. We've been put off getting involved in forum discussions recently also. It's either complete drivel or turns into confrontation/bullying recently. We're not here for that thanks.
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"Am I the only one that thinks this place ( the forums and the site overall ) is gone to te dogs ??
The drivel and same old crap posted and reposted again and again . The alter egos of the alter egos posting endless threads based on rubbish.
I will probably be slated for this but I genuinely wonder why I am here at all ?
I'm Grateful that the forums as it allows me to generate and publish the party but beyond that ... Entertainment wise the place has gone to pot !!!
Is it a phase ? Is it just me ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope definitely not just you. End up not bothering to post half the time anymore because it's just not worth the hassle. It's completely putting me off being here and I don't think I will be for much longer. I hate that people are ruining the site for me but it's just not worth the aggro. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"when you have somebody pm. demanding to know if the comment you put up as a joke is aimed at them.Well it wouldn't encourage you to have a bit of banter in the future. "
I think its just me but if I get that kind of pm I ask then what do they think as I am here for fun and any thing I post is aimed at being fun
Feck I'll be long enough dead for people to poke jibe at me they are not worth it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one that thinks this place ( the forums and the site overall ) is gone to te dogs ??
The drivel and same old crap posted and reposted again and again . The alter egos of the alter egos posting endless threads based on rubbish.
I will probably be slated for this but I genuinely wonder why I am here at all ?
I'm Grateful that the forums as it allows me to generate and publish the party but beyond that ... Entertainment wise the place has gone to pot !!!
Is it a phase ? Is it just me ?"
Oh I hear ya 
Huge amounts of banal shite I have to agree, turned out over and over again by people who give the impression they run the Irish swing scene. Yawn! I don't read it anymore.
Happy new year by the way fabsters and here's to a very naughty 2015 xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one that thinks this place ( the forums and the site overall ) is gone to te dogs ??
The drivel and same old crap posted and reposted again and again . The alter egos of the alter egos posting endless threads based on rubbish.
I will probably be slated for this but I genuinely wonder why I am here at all ?
I'm Grateful that the forums as it allows me to generate and publish the party but beyond that ... Entertainment wise the place has gone to pot !!!
Is it a phase ? Is it just me ?"
It's felt like that to me for quite awhile,
Doesn't have the same feel or draw anymore....
Maybe it's because we've been here for quite awhile?
Seen the same posts/threads time and time again... Same subjects/queries will be put up next week (help needed, tips, sex cinemas etc etc)....
I try to look beyond anything negative or ignore the 'look at me' threads and only get involved in threads that interest me.
(But we all get drawn in to mindless drivel at times  )
Anyway, happy fabbing!
And here's to 2015 being a bright and fresh year for 'Fab' and everyone involved
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"I'm glad it's not just me
However I'd prefer it more ...if the light hearted banter returned ...
Same here....... "
me three! !  .... love it when people just chat and and throw ideas around and have a bit of fun. .. Maybe next year lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when you have somebody pm. demanding to know if the comment you put up as a joke is aimed at them.Well it wouldn't encourage you to have a bit of banter in the future. "
Just delete without reading, then they go mental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm glad it's not just me
However I'd prefer it more ...if the light hearted banter returned ...
Same here.......
me three! ! .... love it when people just chat and and throw ideas around and have a bit of fun. .. Maybe next year lol "
I threw out an orienteering idea a while back. If anyone has any interest in it for the new year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm glad it's not just me
However I'd prefer it more ...if the light hearted banter returned ...
Same here.......
me three! ! .... love it when people just chat and and throw ideas around and have a bit of fun. .. Maybe next year lol "
me four!!! I love the non serious threads, the ones that really make you laugh out loud like the thread the Monsters produced yesterday about the awkward moments - that had me in stitches!!! |
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"when you have somebody pm. demanding to know if the comment you put up as a joke is aimed at them.Well it wouldn't encourage you to have a bit of banter in the future.
Just delete without reading, then they go mental."
God dammit!!! why do you keep doing that to me!!! I will not be ignored!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm glad it's not just me
However I'd prefer it more ...if the light hearted banter returned ... "
Would totally agree with you. I remember the days you could have the crack with people on here, without the risk of getting slatted, risking a ban
I miss is the is the good old days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm glad it's not just me
However I'd prefer it more ...if the light hearted banter returned ...
Same here.......
me three! ! .... love it when people just chat and and throw ideas around and have a bit of fun. .. Maybe next year lol
me four!!! I love the non serious threads, the ones that really make you laugh out loud like the thread the Monsters produced yesterday about the awkward moments - that had me in stitches!!! "
That was just a brilliant post - brought a year to my eye with the laughter on 1 particular post |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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If you're here as long as some of us you will see the same stuff posted over and over,only natural. The look at me threads are easily ignored.and i love alot of non swinging threads. Its the ppl that live their lives,and their fucked up lives,thru the forums that piss me off,and there's no getting away from it.they talk or hint or have sly dig on nearly every thread,its fuckin sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like Cj says if you want something to change be prepared to be the one to make the change. As the saying goes .... Better to light a single candle than curse the darkness.
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"Like Cj says if you want something to change be prepared to be the one to make the change. As the saying goes .... Better to light a single candle than curse the darkness.
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I can see up your dress from down here!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like Cj says if you want something to change be prepared to be the one to make the change. As the saying goes .... Better to light a single candle than curse the darkness.
I can see up your dress from down here! "
Mikey, move your head over, I can't see!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this place gone to pot many years agp,i just go on here for a chat,theres no chance getting a meet here  "
Ah Peter, the fun is still here, just peeps being careful, why not give your profile a makeover for the year of the ram, wear a carnation in Your lapel for luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one that thinks this place ( the forums and the site overall ) is gone to te dogs ??
The drivel and same old crap posted and reposted again and again . The alter egos of the alter egos posting endless threads based on rubbish.
I will probably be slated for this but I genuinely wonder why I am here at all ?
I'm Grateful that the forums as it allows me to generate and publish the party but beyond that ... Entertainment wise the place has gone to pot !!!
Is it a phase ? Is it just me ?"
It's like a kiddies playground with kiss,pass,,fuck etc every second day. Adults acting like kids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited ......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me! "
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me!
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!! "
PMSL!!
Oooooohh Nom Nom Nom! |
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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago
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"this place gone to pot many years agp,i just go on here for a chat,theres no chance getting a meet here
Ah Peter, the fun is still here, just peeps being careful, why not give your profile a makeover for the year of the ram, wear a carnation in Your lapel for luck."
lol will do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me!
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!!
PMSL!!
Oooooohh Nom Nom Nom! "
But I think Mikey would be fine with some 'porridge' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We agree with cj. If you don't like a thread don't post on it. If the trolls bug you don't feed them. All forums go through ups and downs. Think after the other night where the little riot kicked yet again people are being careful.
Serious threads we do enjoy. People who think the forums are for every drama they have we give a avoid. Fab is for fun not drama |
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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago
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"this place gone to pot many years agp,i just go on here for a chat,theres no chance getting a meet here
No chance of a meet with a defeatist attitude!"
its not the defeatist attitude!its fact!on my behalf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this place gone to pot many years agp,i just go on here for a chat,theres no chance getting a meet here
No chance of a meet with a defeatist attitude!"
True......accentuate the positive |
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me!
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!!
PMSL!!
Oooooohh Nom Nom Nom!
But I think Mikey would be fine with some 'porridge' "
Fresh from the porridge gun! No thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me!
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!!
PMSL!!
Oooooohh Nom Nom Nom!
But I think Mikey would be fine with some 'porridge'
Fresh from the porridge gun! No thanks! "
But mam said you ALWAYS ate her porridge!  |
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me!
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!!
PMSL!!
Oooooohh Nom Nom Nom!
But I think Mikey would be fine with some 'porridge'
Fresh from the porridge gun! No thanks!
But mam said you ALWAYS ate her porridge! "
I spat it out when she wasn't looking, and usually into your bowl when you weren't looking either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me!
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!!
PMSL!!
Oooooohh Nom Nom Nom!
But I think Mikey would be fine with some 'porridge'
Fresh from the porridge gun! No thanks!
But mam said you ALWAYS ate her porridge!
I spat it out when she wasn't looking, and usually into your bowl when you weren't looking either "
Oh that's why it was so salty!?....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aww so lovely to see father n son reunited......now that was one thread that had me in stitches lol
Hey mammy, what's for dinner?
Me!
Sausages for me n a fried egg each for ye two!!
PMSL!!
Oooooohh Nom Nom Nom!
But I think Mikey would be fine with some 'porridge'
Fresh from the porridge gun! No thanks!
But mam said you ALWAYS ate her porridge!
I spat it out when she wasn't looking, and usually into your bowl when you weren't looking either
Oh that's why it was so salty!?....
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PMSL .....please Sir can I have some more :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm glad it's not just me
However I'd prefer it more ...if the light hearted banter returned ...
Same here.......
me three! ! .... love it when people just chat and and throw ideas around and have a bit of fun. .. Maybe next year lol
me four!!! I love the non serious threads, the ones that really make you laugh out loud like the thread the Monsters produced yesterday about the awkward moments - that had me in stitches!!!
That was just a brilliant post - brought a year to my eye with the laughter on 1 particular post "
Delighted thanks guys xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm glad it's not just me
However I'd prefer it more ...if the light hearted banter returned ...
Same here.......
me three! ! .... love it when people just chat and and throw ideas around and have a bit of fun. .. Maybe next year lol
me four!!! I love the non serious threads, the ones that really make you laugh out loud like the thread the Monsters produced yesterday about the awkward moments - that had me in stitches!!!
That was just a brilliant post - brought a year to my eye with the laughter on 1 particular post
Delighted thanks guys xxx "
I'm still in stiches laughing!! lol! Thank you for this fantastic thread to end 2014 with!! We'll welcome more!! |
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