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Going to our First party night - any tips ?
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By *ocvix17 OP Couple
over a year ago
nutbushcitylimits |
We are finally after months of preparation going to attend our first party night in The city. We are both excited and nervous at the same time.
Have any of you seasoned lifestylers got and good advice ?
Thanks in adavance and wish us luck !  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
Go with an open mind
No expectations deliver no disappointments
No means no
Don't get d*unk
Relax and enjoy the banter and craic
A good host will as newbies ensure ur introduced to a few and help with any quires u have
Rember its a night out treat it as such if u don't feel comfortable move on to someone else while u may not play the first night u may connect and arrange a future play date
But most of all enjoy the night |
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great advice CJ.
Just go with an open mind. chat to everyone. have no expectations.
i went to my first party on my own.. didnt drink cause i was driving but had so much fun..
you will be hooked.
enjoy!
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
Go with no great expectations,no pressure to play,if you feel like it you can just be with each other
And don't go expecting to love it,there are crap parties and hosts as well as good ones,so don't be put off the lifestyle if this party isn't your thing
Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go with an open mind
No expectations deliver no disappointments
No means no
Don't get d*unk
Relax and enjoy the banter and craic
A good host will as newbies ensure ur introduced to a few and help with any quires u have
Rember its a night out treat it as such if u don't feel comfortable move on to someone else while u may not play the first night u may connect and arrange a future play date
But most of all enjoy the night"
Couldn't have put it better myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All good advice above.
I'd go with no expectations!!!
Don't dive into your first opportunity.
Stand back as you could end up doing something or being with someone you later regret.
It's a great social occasion and a way to make contacts but you don't have to play
Enjoy |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
Cork and surrounding areas |
have yer boundries set before ye go as in yer do's and dont's. dont expect anything
dont get d*unk
make sure ye go for a look around and see if ye like whats going on
have a laugh
mr crazy |
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As this is your first party even if the hosts have invited you to stay over and you both plan to have a drink be sure and have a hotel booked, we have been to lots of these nights but always have a room booked locally as that way you have a plan B should you decide this is not for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely go with no expectations.
Don't feel forced into playing or arranging to play.
Avoid the "dutch courage" if you can't handle your drink.
And last but not least... just have fun with it. |
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By *ocvix17 OP Couple
over a year ago
nutbushcitylimits |
Some great advice peeps
With regards to Drinking - one or two to take edge off, but we want to enjoy the experence and do things we want too, and not walk away thinking it was the drink !!
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By *oandWexCouple
over a year ago
arklow |
Be sure to let us know how u get on and how u felt about things. It's always good to get new perspectives and opinions. And don't be afraid to go over and introduce ur selves to people don't worry it won't come accross as "chatting up" lol. Everyone always looking to put faces to names and meet new people.
I am sure u will have a ball xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading these answer about first parties has put us at ease as we to are attending our first social tomorrow in limerick ye all have gave some good advice |
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