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By *kateman OP   Man  over a year ago

tralee

Hi I'm thinking of attending Friday nights meet and greet in limerick but haven't attended one before I'm nervous should I go or not. any suggestions thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well if u have an invite def go.It be well worth putting in the effort to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im the cohost if this one you'll be grand

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't be shy. What's the worst that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely go!! You'll have a ball as low my as you make the effort to interact

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By *isdirtygirlWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

Youd be mad not to!! Its a great way to meet people all in the one go.

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By *kateman OP   Man  over a year ago

tralee

Thanks all still thinking about it will make decision later in week.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

go

its just like going to a pub or nightclub on a normal night out.

just rememeber that EVERYONE is there for the same reason.

have fun

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By *razy-CplCouple  over a year ago

Cork and surrounding areas

I dont understand why people look for invite to gatherings and not sure if they are ready to attend , why bother then , some one could have that invite who actually wanted to go especially if the event was full . Can see no shows at this , and wonder why then , mind boggles

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks all still thinking about it will make decision later in week."

I know the host well shes a lovely lady and ye be made feel welcome yea be a fool not to go mate as other single guys were probably screaming out for a invite.Meets and Greets are a great night out and the best way to get to know other fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks all still thinking about it will make decision later in week."

Just go!!! A lot of people in same boat as you not knowing many there. Think you would be mad to give it a miss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks all still thinking about it will make decision later in week.

I know the host well shes a lovely lady and ye be made feel welcome yea be a fool not to go mate as other single guys were probably screaming out for a invite.Meets and Greets are a great night out and the best way to get to know other fabbers."

thanks biggs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks all still thinking about it will make decision later in week."

It's usually the things you don't do that you regret....so go on GO

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Era go ya big girls blouse

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By *kateman OP   Man  over a year ago

tralee

Thanks all for advice all good still deciding

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks all for advice all good still deciding"
Then why put your name down for the venue in Dublin when your clearly cant even go to a drinks meet ???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks all for advice all good still decidingThen why put your name down for the venue in Dublin when your clearly cant even go to a drinks meet ???"

It's only a drinks meet!! Jaysus your on looking for 3sums and whatever else, how the hell do ya think you'll be able to get the balls to do all that if ya can't even go for a few drinks!! Man up or seriously think is this lifestyle for you...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't worry OP, you only have to wear the "noob swinger" pointy hat for an hour...

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By *ceryMan  over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

Every ones been there at some stage. Don't be d*unk and say hello, getting d*unk can come later. Like everything it is what u make of it.

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By *lfieWoman  over a year ago

South Dublin

Don't be the d*unk guy. Nobody wants to be that guy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't worry OP, you only have to wear the "noob swinger" pointy hat for an hour..."

LOL you are wicked

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By *ohn MingoMan  over a year ago

Dublin

Piss or get off the pot.

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By *ohnsmithMan  over a year ago

South Tipperary


"Thanks all for advice all good still deciding"

you lucky you can go....

go ,if you dont likey leavey...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ahhhhh the nerves be terrible for ya.

It feel like hour to walk up to the door of the function room that usually only take 3 mins to wake too

There ll be tons of males at the bar

Every corner in the room are usually the spots people go for first - the hiding spots as there called.

The be loads of gorgeous females that just wanna chat to ordinary people so go on man go.

Now that you stuck up a post about going and you ve an invite u better GO

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By *kateman OP   Man  over a year ago

tralee

Hi thanks for all the encouragement and not so I will be attending looking forward to it thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Going to an MnG on your own takes a LOT of courage, I was lucky enough that someone who I had chatted with was happy to meet me and bring me in to introduce me to people and it went from there.... I'd ask a couple/female/male if they'd meet you for a very quick drink beforehand, there's safety in numbers and its easier to approach other people if you are in company... but go... definitely go if you want to significantly increase your chances of future fun and games....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go along and treat it like any other night out! We are all normal people ... Just a bit kinky the best advice though... Have no expectations of any play but use it to meet people you might like to meet again and if play happens after the meet and greet what a bonus!

Sam

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks all still thinking about it will make decision later in week."
we will hang on the edge of our seats

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Go along and treat it like any other night out! We are all normal people ... Just a bit kinky the best advice though... Have no expectations of any play but use it to meet people you might like to meet again and if play happens after the meet and greet what a bonus!

Sam"

It's not a normal night out though and thats not because its swingers its because on a normal night out most of us would start in a group and go from there.... it's fine for couples and females (who tend to be clever enough to team up beforehand) so be gentle on the fella

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ffs its a meet and greet not an execution!!!

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By *kateman OP   Man  over a year ago

tralee

Thanks once again for all the advice looking forward to it now let the fun begin

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