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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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debating with a friend as to whether theres any truth to the saying , do you rate a person on his or her kiss ? and if so , does a bad kisser signal game over and nothing further happening ? Have you ever been totally blown away by a persons kiss ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad kiss bad sex in my opinion so it will put me off.
And yes I have been blown away by a kiss. In the recent past I had probably the most perfect kiss I've ever had. And the sex was fantastic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bad kiss bad sex in my opinion so it will put me off.
And yes I have been blown away by a kiss. In the recent past I had probably the most perfect kiss I've ever had. And the sex was fantastic "
lucky you !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i could happily kiss for hours , but have met the odd person whos not at all into kissing and they left me cold . I am always surprised when they are shocked that im not on for a repeat meet . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you could always teach them how to kiss?"
I feel like kissing is a bit like the force in Star Wars (forgetting about midiclorians!), most are born with the skill and only a few can learn it later in life but most have no clue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you could always teach them how to kiss?
I feel like kissing is a bit like the force in Star Wars (forgetting about midiclorians!), most are born with the skill and only a few can learn it later in life but most have no clue."
yes maybe
bit like learning the guitar. anyone can learn it but not everyone will be great at it as you need natural rhythm.
bit like kissing. |
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By *lzannaCouple
over a year ago
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Only ever had one kisser so bad it put me off, Al found his wife to be awful too. Was a real shame - great conversation, great sex, she was a total babe, but we both agreed we just couldn't go there again. Still gives me the heebie jeebies just thinking about it.  |
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I always equate the relationship between kissing and sex with face and body. An attractive bod normally comes with a beautiful face. That's one of the reasons I don't ask for a face pic. Similarly, if I'm not attracted to the body photo I'm more than likely not going to be attracted to the face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmmmmmm i love kissing 
But yep it most definitely is in the kiss.....
Because if i don't get wet when you kiss me well then i'm definitely not going to take it any further |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first kiss is very important. It should contain all the passion, anticipation and excitement of what's to follow. If it's hesetant or awkward it does bode well or even worse if it lacks passion. Poor kissers generally make poor lovers in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The first kiss is very important. It should contain all the passion, anticipation and excitement of what's to follow. If it's hesetant or awkward it does bode well or even worse if it lacks passion. Poor kissers generally make poor lovers in my experience. "
Oh....I agree completely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"debating with a friend as to whether theres any truth to the saying , do you rate a person on his or her kiss ? and if so , does a bad kisser signal game over and nothing further happening ? Have you ever been totally blown away by a persons kiss ? "
Deal breaker....but will continue with coffee and pay the bill.
Good kisser great sex...non kisser no sex. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I like kissing, but it's not a deal breaker for me if someone isn't a master of it. there far more important things that secure a good meet
Or meat  "
The meat makes all the difference for a good feast, hung and mature is my preference  |
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"Oh definitely a deal breaker...and sign of things to come...
Biggest turn on is that kiss that melts u and gets u wet and breathless instantly!
Nothing compares in my book... "
Ummm, would love to be a Chapter... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing to me is the key. I fell in love with someone many many moons ago, maybe it was could I couldn't have her (she had a bf) or that she was just gorgeous and we got on so well. Anyway I was infatuated with her for a long time, then a year or so ago we met again and to cut a long boring story short, we snogged and I can honestly say it was the worse kiss I've ever had and I know it was for her also, we did kiss again and as funny as it sounds we both agreed it was like kissing a brother or sister. Even though in my mind all those years ago I thought she was my soul mate and the love of my life, the kisses were awful and I wish I'd have snogged her all those moons ago as then I'd have known she wasn't the one for me. We still love each other to bits but now it's as mates. To me it's all in the kiss. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel if the first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel if the first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come. "
You saying guys speak with their cock then...  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel if the first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then... "
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel if the first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then...
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss...."
For me yes...If they can't kiss what else can't they do, it's basic tbh. Some profiles say they won't kiss....NEXT and probably block so they don't reappear in searches and waste both our time. Guess it's another filter system....some people won't meet unless the guy is 6ft 2...fit... clean shaven...smells nice....funny.... etc.
It's all preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel if the first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then...
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss...."
Yep I'm gone....if he's all tongue(ramming it down my throat) and sloppy and his tongue acts like a car window washer I'm outa there  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel if the first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then...
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss....
For me yes...If they can't kiss what else can't they do, it's basic tbh. Some profiles say they won't kiss....NEXT and probably block so they don't reappear in searches and waste both our time. Guess it's another filter system....some people won't meet unless the guy is 6ft 2...fit... clean shaven...smells nice....funny.... etc.
It's all preferences."
I'm not saying you're not entitled to your preferences however you still didn't convince me that you'd follow that one through
So you'd walk out of the meet saying 'sorry you look great, I love your personality and wit, I think we really klick and there's great chemistry BUT you're not a great kisser, so long and bye bye'
While height, clean shaven, funny etc are preferences you can check out before a meet or in the social part of the meet, once you kiss you kiss and you take it to the next level. I wouldn't kiss anyone that doesn't convince me in the first place and it's rather awkward to walk out at that stage, don't you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then...
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss....
For me yes...If they can't kiss what else can't they do, it's basic tbh. Some profiles say they won't kiss....NEXT and probably block so they don't reappear in searches and waste both our time. Guess it's another filter system....some people won't meet unless the guy is 6ft 2...fit... clean shaven...smells nice....funny.... etc.
It's all preferences.
I'm not saying you're not entitled to your preferences however you still didn't convince me that you'd follow that one through
So you'd walk out of the meet saying 'sorry you look great, I love your personality and wit, I think we really klick and there's great chemistry BUT you're not a great kisser, so long and bye bye'
While height, clean shaven, funny etc are preferences you can check out before a meet or in the social part of the meet, once you kiss you kiss and you take it to the next level. I wouldn't kiss anyone that doesn't convince me in the first place and it's rather awkward to walk out at that stage, don't you think? "
Yes to answer your question. Whether you choose to believe me or not doesn't change the truth....I don't and won't fuck for the sake of it or if it's just available. I don't need to. So yes a kiss is a deal breaker. There are some very good kissers out there and it's very much part of the experience... a big part. Maybe I'm too fussy...but hey each to their own.
A kiss certainly doesn't guarantee anything more.
See...I think too many misunderstand what a social is...for me it's a social. It's nothing more. It won't go to the next stage...that's a meet. Guess That's pretty clear.
I won't ever be rude and give false hope that social is actually a meet desguised just to have a quick fuck. I don't do quickies either.
So in conclusion ladies...If a kiss really gets your juices flowing take a peek...If it doesn't matter....walk on by there's plenty out there for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better just fuck then..no passion required...
Nobody said no passion is required and if you're only able to express passion by kissing that's rather sad...."
There lots of ways as you well know...but kissing is very much part of it for me. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then...
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss....
For me yes...If they can't kiss what else can't they do, it's basic tbh. Some profiles say they won't kiss....NEXT and probably block so they don't reappear in searches and waste both our time. Guess it's another filter system....some people won't meet unless the guy is 6ft 2...fit... clean shaven...smells nice....funny.... etc.
It's all preferences.
I'm not saying you're not entitled to your preferences however you still didn't convince me that you'd follow that one through
So you'd walk out of the meet saying 'sorry you look great, I love your personality and wit, I think we really klick and there's great chemistry BUT you're not a great kisser, so long and bye bye'
While height, clean shaven, funny etc are preferences you can check out before a meet or in the social part of the meet, once you kiss you kiss and you take it to the next level. I wouldn't kiss anyone that doesn't convince me in the first place and it's rather awkward to walk out at that stage, don't you think?
Yes to answer your question. Whether you choose to believe me or not doesn't change the truth....I don't and won't fuck for the sake of it or if it's just available. I don't need to. So yes a kiss is a deal breaker. There are some very good kissers out there and it's very much part of the experience... a big part. Maybe I'm too fussy...but hey each to their own.
A kiss certainly doesn't guarantee anything more.
See...I think too many misunderstand what a social is...for me it's a social. It's nothing more. It won't go to the next stage...that's a meet. Guess That's pretty clear.
I won't ever be rude and give false hope that social is actually a meet desguised just to have a quick fuck. I don't do quickies either.
So in conclusion ladies...If a kiss really gets your juices flowing take a peek...If it doesn't matter....walk on by there's plenty out there for you. "
Do you kiss at a social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then...
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss....
For me yes...If they can't kiss what else can't they do, it's basic tbh. Some profiles say they won't kiss....NEXT and probably block so they don't reappear in searches and waste both our time. Guess it's another filter system....some people won't meet unless the guy is 6ft 2...fit... clean shaven...smells nice....funny.... etc.
It's all preferences.
I'm not saying you're not entitled to your preferences however you still didn't convince me that you'd follow that one through
So you'd walk out of the meet saying 'sorry you look great, I love your personality and wit, I think we really klick and there's great chemistry BUT you're not a great kisser, so long and bye bye'
While height, clean shaven, funny etc are preferences you can check out before a meet or in the social part of the meet, once you kiss you kiss and you take it to the next level. I wouldn't kiss anyone that doesn't convince me in the first place and it's rather awkward to walk out at that stage, don't you think?
Yes to answer your question. Whether you choose to believe me or not doesn't change the truth....I don't and won't fuck for the sake of it or if it's just available. I don't need to. So yes a kiss is a deal breaker. There are some very good kissers out there and it's very much part of the experience... a big part. Maybe I'm too fussy...but hey each to their own.
A kiss certainly doesn't guarantee anything more.
See...I think too many misunderstand what a social is...for me it's a social. It's nothing more. It won't go to the next stage...that's a meet. Guess That's pretty clear.
I won't ever be rude and give false hope that social is actually a meet desguised just to have a quick fuck. I don't do quickies either.
So in conclusion ladies...If a kiss really gets your juices flowing take a peek...If it doesn't matter....walk on by there's plenty out there for you.
Do you kiss at a social? "
Thought that was pretty obvious in my reply. But guess not if you had to ask..
YES ...I'd need to know if it was going any further  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"So what you're all saying you'd turn on your heel first kiss was sheit and head back home. I don't believe yous!
Also it's a lot of rubbish that the kissing tells you what there is to come.
You saying guys speak with their cock then...
It wasn't aimed at all at the guys only. Just trying to imagine the situation: you made the effort to meet, you've a drink at the hotel bar, banter and laughter all going well until you kiss....
For me yes...If they can't kiss what else can't they do, it's basic tbh. Some profiles say they won't kiss....NEXT and probably block so they don't reappear in searches and waste both our time. Guess it's another filter system....some people won't meet unless the guy is 6ft 2...fit... clean shaven...smells nice....funny.... etc.
It's all preferences.
I'm not saying you're not entitled to your preferences however you still didn't convince me that you'd follow that one through
So you'd walk out of the meet saying 'sorry you look great, I love your personality and wit, I think we really klick and there's great chemistry BUT you're not a great kisser, so long and bye bye'
While height, clean shaven, funny etc are preferences you can check out before a meet or in the social part of the meet, once you kiss you kiss and you take it to the next level. I wouldn't kiss anyone that doesn't convince me in the first place and it's rather awkward to walk out at that stage, don't you think?
Yes to answer your question. Whether you choose to believe me or not doesn't change the truth....I don't and won't fuck for the sake of it or if it's just available. I don't need to. So yes a kiss is a deal breaker. There are some very good kissers out there and it's very much part of the experience... a big part. Maybe I'm too fussy...but hey each to their own.
A kiss certainly doesn't guarantee anything more.
See...I think too many misunderstand what a social is...for me it's a social. It's nothing more. It won't go to the next stage...that's a meet. Guess That's pretty clear.
I won't ever be rude and give false hope that social is actually a meet desguised just to have a quick fuck. I don't do quickies either.
So in conclusion ladies...If a kiss really gets your juices flowing take a peek...If it doesn't matter....walk on by there's plenty out there for you.
Do you kiss at a social?
Thought that was pretty obvious in my reply. But guess not if you had to ask..
YES ...I'd need to know if it was going any further "
Ahhh now I understand a bit better... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my opinion a great kisser is a great lover. I have never met anyone who has disproved this theory.
Now a filthy passionate kisser is what you really want! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my opinion a great kisser is a great lover. I have never met anyone who has disproved this theory.
Now a filthy passionate kisser is what you really want! "
I wouldn't be able to help change your theory.... |
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I think kissing is very important but I've had sex with this lady n I was not allowed to kiss her n I beleive there's lots of couples that won't let guys kiss their women while playing with them . They reserve that for their own intimacy . |
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"I think kissing is very important but I've had sex with this lady n I was not allowed to kiss her n I beleive there's lots of couples that won't let guys kiss their women while playing with them . They reserve that for their own intimacy ."
One of the reasons i don't meet couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a shit kisser but I've 10 fingers and a cock!
Did I mention I've the staying power of a goldfish! "
No thumbs! And we have been over this... it's the memory of a gold fish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love a good kiss you melt into, however on fab I've had some meets with no kissing involved. Kissing is kinda intimate so depends on what the meet involved! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a good kiss you melt into, however on fab I've had some meets with no kissing involved. Kissing is kinda intimate so depends on what the meet involved! "
Are you saying fucking isn't intimate... or is it lower down the order than kissing? Genuine question....some couples won't allow the woman to kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think kissing is very important but I've had sex with this lady n I was not allowed to kiss her n I beleive there's lots of couples that won't let guys kiss their women while playing with them . They reserve that for their own intimacy ."
I think I'd find it hard to get turned on with no kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a good kiss you melt into, however on fab I've had some meets with no kissing involved. Kissing is kinda intimate so depends on what the meet involved!
Are you saying fucking isn't intimate... or is it lower down the order than kissing? Genuine question....some couples won't allow the woman to kiss."
Depends on the kind of fucking! I used to meet regularly with a guy and I would wait in my room face down on the bed and he would come in and fuck the life out of me. No talking, no kissing, just hard fucking. So the type of meet didn't need kissing!
Most meets I wouldn't be able to have sex without kissing but that was a certain instance where it wasn't needed for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a shit kisser but I've 10 fingers and a cock!
Did I mention I've the staying power of a goldfish!
No thumbs! And we have been over this... it's the memory of a gold fish"
Well I wasn't expecting anyone to be pedantic about it, but you're right in regards fingers/thumbs
Now as for the goldfish, it has ALL to do with the memory effect |
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"I love a good kiss you melt into, however on fab I've had some meets with no kissing involved. Kissing is kinda intimate so depends on what the meet involved!
Are you saying fucking isn't intimate... or is it lower down the order than kissing? Genuine question....some couples won't allow the woman to kiss.
Depends on the kind of fucking! I used to meet regularly with a guy and I would wait in my room face down on the bed and he would come in and fuck the life out of me. No talking, no kissing, just hard fucking. So the type of meet didn't need kissing!
Most meets I wouldn't be able to have sex without kissing but that was a certain instance where it wasn't needed for me "
Yeah get that...been there and done it ....but it all started with a kiss at the beginning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone who expects to have sex with no kissing can pay an escort for the ride ! If I wanted to be treated like a whore I'd have charged  "
Sit back and watch this unfurl.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We love kissing it's what gets is going but there's nothing as off putting as kissing someone who kisses like a dishwasher  !! Nice long slow passionate kisses with Plenty of tongue teasing ! |
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