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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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irsh people aren't true swingers . like to think hat they are but verifictions etc , is all like I know this couple from "way back " think you guys just like people oogling over ur pics . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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seriously its like evey veification is like I knoe this/ these people outside fab. especially couples, wowww, just because your a couple where by either the guy or girl is initiating it , dosent make ye more superior . yer just lacking something |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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james I know, its meant to be but its more like fb, girls putting up pics to get likes. couples not realy swingers . just prefer if it were the real thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"james I know, its meant to be but its more like fb, girls putting up pics to get likes. couples not realy swingers . just prefer if it were the real thing "
So because you've no veris everyone else's are fake?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh...I'm only silver 
I'm not genuine or upgraded there for it mustn't be a swinger...
You are defo a fake  Only silver... the shame "
Oh...I'll never live it down!
 or will I ever get a meet at this rate...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not a million miles away with some of your ideas about profiles being nothing but an ego boost, but seriously go get some strong black coffee and sober up!!!"
Last veri 2013....yeahhhhhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I were to guess id say ur fake slutty, no image profile verification and no upgrade whatsoever . the two biggest no's . "
Oh I am fake for sure... good job figuring that out now ssshhhhh and don't tell anyone else cause they still think I'm real  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh...I'm only silver
I'm not genuine or upgraded there for it mustn't be a swinger...
You are defo a fake Only silver... the shame
Oh...I'll never live it down!
or will I ever get a meet at this rate...
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Nope.. You've been outed so that's you out of the gang.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I were to guess id say ur fake slutty, no image profile verification and no upgrade whatsoever . the two biggest no's . "
See that little green circle and the tick that means she's MET people...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I were to guess id say ur fake slutty, no image profile verification and no upgrade whatsoever . the two biggest no's .
See that little green circle and the tick that means she's MET people...
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He can't see it with the beer goggles on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh...I'm only silver
I'm not genuine or upgraded there for it mustn't be a swinger...
You are defo a fake Only silver... the shame
Oh...I'll never live it down!
or will I ever get a meet at this rate...
Nope.. You've been outed so that's you out of the gang.. "
Oh...least I'm not fake! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh...I'm only silver
I'm not genuine or upgraded there for it mustn't be a swinger...
You are defo a fake Only silver... the shame
Oh...I'll never live it down!
or will I ever get a meet at this rate...
Nope.. You've been outed so that's you out of the gang..
Oh...least I'm not fake! "
Well have to wait for the OP's opinion on if you're fake or not first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh...I'm only silver
I'm not genuine or upgraded there for it mustn't be a swinger...
You are defo a fake Only silver... the shame
Oh...I'll never live it down!
or will I ever get a meet at this rate...
Nope.. You've been outed so that's you out of the gang..
Oh...least I'm not fake!
Well have to wait for the OP's opinion on if you're fake or not first "
I've no image profile verification so I'm fake too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh...I'm only silver
I'm not genuine or upgraded there for it mustn't be a swinger...
You are defo a fake Only silver... the shame
Oh...I'll never live it down!
or will I ever get a meet at this rate...
Nope.. You've been outed so that's you out of the gang..
Oh...least I'm not fake!
Well have to wait for the OP's opinion on if you're fake or not first
I've no image profile verification so I'm fake too... "
And I have no silver or gold |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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fuck sake, seriously , that tick is just ur friends saying how lovely u are . why don't u put up photo verified for everybodys safety . AND im not just on about u slutty ( nice name btw, alot of thought went into that) but if u have nothing to hide get photo verified . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sake, seriously , that tick is just ur friends saying how lovely u are . why don't u put up photo verified for everybodys safety . AND im not just on about u slutty ( nice name btw, alot of thought went into that) but if u have nothing to hide get photo verified . "
How is getting photo verified any more than being verified in person? You're not making sense. |
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By *ynx12Man
over a year ago
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"Your not a million miles away with some of your ideas about profiles being nothing but an ego boost, but seriously go get some strong black coffee and sober up!!!
Last veri 2013....yeahhhhhhh "
well miss I seem to fucking know it all, verifications don't reflect meeting people here, because there's a certain clique here, I'm sure you know anyway! That if people see are more popular than them they throw the toys out of the pram. So not everyone who meets here posts verifications, but I'm sure ya knew that being a fucking expert anyway..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh...I'm only silver
I'm not genuine or upgraded there for it mustn't be a swinger...
You are defo a fake Only silver... the shame
Oh...I'll never live it down!
or will I ever get a meet at this rate...
Nope.. You've been outed so that's you out of the gang..
Oh...least I'm not fake!
Well have to wait for the OP's opinion on if you're fake or not first
I've no image profile verification so I'm fake too...
And I have no silver or gold "
I'll give you a gold star...
If I could |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because ur friends are verifying u , not the site. what if ur a lunatic ? at least the site would have ur face pic"
Oh I'm sure sending the site a pic definitely means you're not a lunatic
and I do have face pics here that have been approved by mods but are hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not a million miles away with some of your ideas about profiles being nothing but an ego boost, but seriously go get some strong black coffee and sober up!!!
Last veri 2013....yeahhhhhhh well miss I seem to fucking know it all, verifications don't reflect meeting people here, because there's a certain clique here, I'm sure you know anyway! That if people see are more popular than them they throw the toys out of the pram. So not everyone who meets here posts verifications, but I'm sure ya knew that being a fucking expert anyway....."
Verifications don't reflect on people meeting here...
Actually they do...
I like to meet new people...
But fair play to you being happy with your veri from 2013
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can somebody translate what this guy is sayin "
I will translate for you .
Hes not on about you at all .Its us fussy women he's upset with . He wants the rest of us to be more like you . Sure you have seen more Helmets than Hitler. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because ur friends are verifying u , not the site. what if ur a lunatic ? at least the site would have ur face pic"
A photo verification isn't necessarily a face pic, the site hasn't got my face pic and I'm image verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh look, another I'm not getting any so this place is crap post. I was just thinking earlier, we need more of these type of threads round here. "
Especially those coherent late-night ones.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because ur friends are verifying u , not the site. what if ur a lunatic ? at least the site would have ur face pic
A photo verification isn't necessarily a face pic, the site hasn't got my face pic and I'm image verified "
I just had a look through your pics. I'm not convinced you are a woman. Lol |
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
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"Oh look, another I'm not getting any so this place is crap post. I was just thinking earlier, we need more of these type of threads round here. "
Well you cannot denie a certain degree of entertainment quality, I had a good giggle over the one weeks warrior.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"james I know, its meant to be but its more like fb, girls putting up pics to get likes. couples not realy swingers . just prefer if it were the real thing "
Op, once you're back on, please tell me what 'real swingers' are..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye. |
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid |
"james I know, its meant to be but its more like fb, girls putting up pics to get likes. couples not realy swingers . just prefer if it were the real thing
Op, once you're back on, please tell me what 'real swingers' are....."
In the meantime I am happy to take the bets how long it will take till OP goes UNLOS and sustains his status quo of strokingit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's to say who is or isn't a swinger?"
He just hasn't met any real swingers yet. Mind you the way he's going it's isn't going to happen anytime soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's to say who is or isn't a swinger?
He just hasn't met any real swingers yet. Mind you the way he's going it's isn't going to happen anytime soon. "
I'd say so man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a reminder to the clique. Its my week to send out the veris...and as usual , no veries will be sent out until you've paid.... there's still money owed from last week. ...you know who you are. And if you fail to pay 3 weeks in a row, ,youre clique account will be suspended. ..there's also a committee meeting in the function room/fone box, wed eve 8 o clock...refreshments served. |
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over a year ago
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"Just a reminder to the clique. Its my week to send out the veris...and as usual , no veries will be sent out until you've paid.... there's still money owed from last week. ...you know who you are. And if you fail to pay 3 weeks in a row, ,youre clique account will be suspended. ..there's also a committee meeting in the function room/fone box, wed eve 8 o clock...refreshments served."
You did get my holiday request form didn't you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a reminder to the clique. Its my week to send out the veris...and as usual , no veries will be sent out until you've paid.... there's still money owed from last week. ...you know who you are. And if you fail to pay 3 weeks in a row, ,youre clique account will be suspended. ..there's also a committee meeting in the function room/fone box, wed eve 8 o clock...refreshments served.
You did get my holiday request form didn't you? "
.....its been sent upstairs to the evaluation committee. ....10 working days I believe. ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah here, i was going to apply to the clique but i may not qualify"
.....send a sae and a postal order for £5.75 to hq in Leitrim and you will get an application form back in the post.
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over a year ago
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"Ah here, i was going to apply to the clique but i may not qualify.....send a sae and a postal order for £5.75 to hq in Leitrim and you will get an application form back in the post. "
Danke, i shall keep my fingers crossed |
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over a year ago
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"Ah here, i was going to apply to the clique but i may not qualify.....send a sae and a postal order for £5.75 to hq in Leitrim and you will get an application form back in the post. "
How much in Euros please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah here, i was going to apply to the clique but i may not qualify.....send a sae and a postal order for £5.75 to hq in Leitrim and you will get an application form back in the post.
How much in Euros please"
....sorry but the company hq is registered in the Cayman Islands. ..so with all the trouble with brexit...sterling only im afraid. ..you could have a word with the chairman. ..but unfortunately he's gone into seclusion in an abandoned mine in cavan ... |
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over a year ago
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"Ah here, i was going to apply to the clique but i may not qualify.....send a sae and a postal order for £5.75 to hq in Leitrim and you will get an application form back in the post.
How much in Euros please"
Sure you can buy that Sterling stuff for next to nothing these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye."
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Ah here, i was going to apply to the clique but i may not qualify.....send a sae and a postal order for £5.75 to hq in Leitrim and you will get an application form back in the post.
How much in Euros please....sorry but the company hq is registered in the Cayman Islands. ..so with all the trouble with brexit...sterling only im afraid. ..you could have a word with the chairman. ..but unfortunately he's gone into seclusion in an abandoned mine in cavan ..."
Thank goodness I'm a platinum and don't have to do those reoccurring pathetic petty cash membership payments  embarrassing they are to say the least.... |
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over a year ago
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"Ah here, i was going to apply to the clique but i may not qualify.....send a sae and a postal order for £5.75 to hq in Leitrim and you will get an application form back in the post.
How much in Euros please....sorry but the company hq is registered in the Cayman Islands. ..so with all the trouble with brexit...sterling only im afraid. ..you could have a word with the chairman. ..but unfortunately he's gone into seclusion in an abandoned mine in cavan ...
Thank goodness I'm a platinum and don't have to do those reoccurring pathetic petty cash membership payments embarrassing they are to say the least...."
...I think im gonna join the medication thread. ... |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely. "
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give? |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely. "
Couldn't agree more with you.
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give? "
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes. |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes. "
The point that is being made is the OP started a thread 2 days ago in which he came across and a pleasant genuine newbie.
I, along with others gave him some helpful advice. Now two days later, we get the thread we're on now. I used to give advice to newbies all the time, but I do it less and less because there's no way to tell if the newbie is actually genuine, or just a troll. well, the online attitude of the OP has now been revealed, and some of us feel a little burned.
Is it any wonder the more experienced people are wary to advise newbies, when this is the result?
Trolls have made us jaded, because we're dealing with them every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"irsh people aren't true swingers . like to think hat they are but verifictions etc , is all like I know this couple from "way back " think you guys just like people oogling over ur pics . "
Irish people?!
I'm Irish.
Come here and say that! |
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over a year ago
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes. "
If this was his first thread, and if his approach in those other threads hadn't painted a clear picture. The response may well have been different. But it wasn't and they weren't. |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes.
If this was his first thread, and if his approach in those other threads hadn't painted a clear picture. The response may well have been different. But it wasn't and they weren't. "
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes.
The point that is being made is the OP started a thread 2 days ago in which he came across and a pleasant genuine newbie.
I, along with others gave him some helpful advice. Now two days later, we get the thread we're on now. I used to give advice to newbies all the time, but I do it less and less because there's no way to tell if the newbie is actually genuine, or just a troll. well, the online attitude of the OP has now been revealed, and some of us feel a little burned.
Is it any wonder the more experienced people are wary to advise newbies, when this is the result?
Trolls have made us jaded, because we're dealing with them every day."
But doesn't it work both ways .If a newbie puts us a thread and gets made fun of next time he will probably fight back at the people who made fun of him. |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes.
The point that is being made is the OP started a thread 2 days ago in which he came across and a pleasant genuine newbie.
I, along with others gave him some helpful advice. Now two days later, we get the thread we're on now. I used to give advice to newbies all the time, but I do it less and less because there's no way to tell if the newbie is actually genuine, or just a troll. well, the online attitude of the OP has now been revealed, and some of us feel a little burned.
Is it any wonder the more experienced people are wary to advise newbies, when this is the result?
Trolls have made us jaded, because we're dealing with them every day. But doesn't it work both ways .If a newbie puts us a thread and gets made fun of next time he will probably fight back at the people who made fun of him. "
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes. "
...that actually comes across as quite condescending. Where were you with you're positive input? . Its quite easy, in hindsight to sit in judgement on other people's posts. Practice what you preach mabye? |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes.
The point that is being made is the OP started a thread 2 days ago in which he came across and a pleasant genuine newbie.
I, along with others gave him some helpful advice. Now two days later, we get the thread we're on now. I used to give advice to newbies all the time, but I do it less and less because there's no way to tell if the newbie is actually genuine, or just a troll. well, the online attitude of the OP has now been revealed, and some of us feel a little burned.
Is it any wonder the more experienced people are wary to advise newbies, when this is the result?
Trolls have made us jaded, because we're dealing with them every day. But doesn't it work both ways .If a newbie puts us a thread and gets made fun of next time he will probably fight back at the people who made fun of him.
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes. ...that actually comes across as quite condescending. Where were you with you're positive input? . Its quite easy, in hindsight to sit in judgement on other people's posts. Practice what you preach mabye?"
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes. ...that actually comes across as quite condescending. Where were you with you're positive input? . Its quite easy, in hindsight to sit in judgement on other people's posts. Practice what you preach mabye?
Totally agree with you..."
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
Yes because the OP has being posting constructively you know the saying you get what you give?
Only by the same type of person...so don't stoop. If there had been some helpful constructive comments at the beginning to ascertain why he felt like that...then it may have been less negative. But that's the common way onso many of the irish post uunfortunately. You're not doing yourselves any favours.
Apparently some of you are actually quite nice and different in person according to a few contacts who have had the added privilege of meeting a few of you. I've yet too...but the forum face doesnt help.....that's the impression you give....bit like a bad photo or poor profile. It's hard to look beyond it sometimes. ...that actually comes across as quite condescending. Where were you with you're positive input? . Its quite easy, in hindsight to sit in judgement on other people's posts. Practice what you preach mabye?
Totally agree with you... "
Me too...but hey isn't that exactly what the forum's are for...some agree, some differ, some take it personally. |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely. "
C'est le ton qui fait la musique.
The thread was phrased from the onset as a provocation hence people answered accordingly |
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"Remember that newbie thread you put up? This is the exact opposite of what people here suggested would help you. And a perfect example to the "help newbies, don't be sarcastic with them/ no wonder people don't post in the forum" jerk offs.
Goodbye.
Only constructive comment on here. I was chatting with a few friends who have been reading this post..... the comments that so many have put up here reflects the irish forum unfortunately and that is the face that new people see and it's what they envisaged the socials would be like if these people were at them.... rightly or wrongly you impact others and new ones joining in. It's bit shameful tbh. Puts me off an Irish social completely.
C'est le ton qui fait la musique.
The thread was phrased from the onset as a provocation hence people answered accordingly"
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C'est le ton qui fait la musique.
Thank you - I'm glad I read the whole thread just for this nugget of a French motto.im making it my mission to use it in Cap later this year !!
Every day is a school day
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"Why when I see UNLOS another one bites the dust plays out in my head...
Dam head moosik....
God bless Queen...they did great drama music "
Freddie was the best.... |
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"Uh ohhhh, damn it....
What did I miss this time?
A mantrum!
Oh..a new word!!!
I love it...
I'm gonna start using that in work!!
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"irsh people aren't true swingers . like to think hat they are but verifictions etc , is all like I know this couple from "way back " think you guys just like people oogling over ur pics . "
. That's rite D'Arcy
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"Uh ohhhh, damn it....
What did I miss this time?
A mantrum!
Oh..a new word!!!
I love it...
I'm gonna start using that in work!!
Oh....it's my new favourite word!!! "
...l like fucknuts..you're a. Fucknut annie |
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"Uh ohhhh, damn it....
What did I miss this time?
A mantrum!
Oh..a new word!!!
I love it...
I'm gonna start using that in work!!
Oh....it's my new favourite word!!! ...l like fucknuts..you're a. Fucknut annie "
I'm a fucknut...
Fucknut I like it!!!  |
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By *ertwoCouple
over a year ago
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"irsh people aren't true swingers . like to think hat they are but verifictions etc , is all like I know this couple from "way back " think you guys just like people oogling over ur pics .
Irish people?!
Sounds like knee caps going there lol
I'm Irish. O sounds like knee caps could go there lol
Come here and say that! "
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"james I know, its meant to be but its more like fb, girls putting up pics to get likes. couples not realy swingers . just prefer if it were the real thing
Op, once you're back on, please tell me what 'real swingers' are.....
In the meantime I am happy to take the bets how long it will take till OP goes UNLOS and sustains his status quo of strokingit "
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