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"Sure who ever knows me from socials knows I'm pretty much the same on here too bar I can express my cheeky side more in public. But after lastnight I don't know what to make of this place anymore "What happened last night?  | |||
"Sure who ever knows me from socials knows I'm pretty much the same on here too bar I can express my cheeky side more in public. But after lastnight I don't know what to make of this place anymore
What happened last night? "He's a big Fenerbache fan | |||
"Sure who ever knows me from socials knows I'm pretty much the same on here too bar I can express my cheeky side more in public. But after lastnight I don't know what to make of this place anymore
What happened last night?
He's a big Fenerbache fan " | |||
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"People continually seem to mistake poor boundaries for "being nice", then getting resentful when they end up being walked over/abused/having their feelings ignored. Just saying...." I know right?! | |||
"Is being too nice a turn off on here or what now? Or is the bad boy charm the way to go now? "I thought you had just the right mix of both | |||
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"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway." So being "nice" entitles you to sex? | |||
"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway. So being "nice" entitles you to sex?" According to who does "Nice" entitle you to anything? I never said that | |||
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"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway. So being "nice" entitles you to sex? According to who does "Nice" entitle you to anything? I never said that " Your implication is that women are somehow in the wrong declining a "nice" guy. | |||
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"Is being too nice a turn off on here or what now? Or is the bad boy charm the way to go now? "Kerms you need to cum to Geordie for some tlc | |||
Anyone here fit that description?  | |||
"I like nice guys, but not pushovers, I like a challenge and mostly I like a guy who's not afraid to put me in my place. I guess i like a mixed bag!
Anyone here fit that description? "Yeah, but I got him. | |||
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"I like nice guys, but not pushovers, I like a challenge and mostly I like a guy who's not afraid to put me in my place. I guess i like a mixed bag!
Anyone here fit that description?
Yeah, but I got him. "Biatch | |||
"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway. So being "nice" entitles you to sex? According to who does "Nice" entitle you to anything? I never said that Your implication is that women are somehow in the wrong declining a "nice" guy." Exactly this. Guys complain about not getting anywhere with women and saying "but I'm a nice guy" No. That's not what it's about | |||
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"Don't play "The nice guy". You'll be friend zoned by message 5. "The friend zone doesn't exist. Not in my opinion. | |||
"What defines too nice though? Yeah, I will admit I like cheeky guys. I'll remember a cheeky message more over a "Hey, how's your day? you look great" kinda message. ALthough there's a fine like with being cheeky and being a prick. I like to think I have a good gut instinct though.... Sometimes . "As I like to say, there's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. | |||
"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway. So being "nice" entitles you to sex? According to who does "Nice" entitle you to anything? I never said that Your implication is that women are somehow in the wrong declining a "nice" guy. Exactly this. Guys complain about not getting anywhere with women and saying "but I'm a nice guy" No. That's not what it's about " so what are you saying don't be nice. | |||
"Don't play "The nice guy". You'll be friend zoned by message 5.
The friend zone doesn't exist. Not in my opinion. "You keep telling yourself that | |||
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"I like a nice guy with some cheekiness not an arrogant prick "Touchê!;) | |||
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"People continually seem to mistake poor boundaries for "being nice", then getting resentful when they end up being walked over/abused/having their feelings ignored. Just saying...." | |||
"I like nice "Nice guys can't mail you | |||
"I like nice
Nice guys can't mail you"Lol.. I blocked men.... you can thank the wankers for that X | |||
"I like nice
Nice guys can't mail you
Lol.. I blocked men.... you can thank the wankers for that X "Them wankers have an awful lot to answer for | |||
"I like nice
Nice guys can't mail you
Lol.. I blocked men.... you can thank the wankers for that X
Them wankers have an awful lot to answer for "Lol.. yep Was that guy talking to me ? | |||
"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway. Now FAB ladies, not saying that all women are like this but there are a few like that and it's not nice to guys who make the effort... Best is to treat others the way you'd like to be treated, be your charming and playful self and if she ever says "I'm disastrous with men" in casual conversation, know that those are not idle words... Ever "Are you talking about literally getting up in the middle of a coffee meet and walking off? That's how I read it but I don't think anyone else has.... | |||
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"People should just be themselves. If you're a nice person naturally just be that person, don't try to be a bad boy because you think that gets you laid. "I like good boys who do what I tell them to | |||
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"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway. (Me) So being "nice"entitles you to sex?(You) According to who does "Nice" entitle you to anything? I never said that (Me) Your implication is that women are somehow in the wrong declining a "nice" guy." (You) -------------------------------------- "Entitles" and "Implications" Love it when you just jump straight to the topic of sex, whip out your big thesaurus, talk dirty and tease me with that big loaded question Dr Freud
Now, can you just say the word "presupposition" in a nice sexy french accent for me?
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"You chat, have a laugh and fun yet treat women with respect. However SOME will just decide to up and walk anyway. (Me) So being "nice"entitles you to sex?(You) According to who does "Nice" entitle you to anything? I never said that (Me) Your implication is that women are somehow in the wrong declining a "nice" guy. (You) -------------------------------------- "Entitles" and "Implications" Love it when you just jump straight to the topic of sex, whip out your big thesaurus, talk dirty and tease me with that big loaded question Dr Freud
Now, can you just say the word "presupposition" in a nice sexy french accent for me?
"Well shame on me with my dirty mind, there I was thinking you're only here to "break beds". | |||
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"In my opinion bold doesn't get you anywhere. It just comes across as pushy and cocky. It's self-confidence and manners that does it for me. And btw anything that is pretend will be revealed eventually. " * bad not bold | |||
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"In my opinion bold doesn't get you anywhere. It just comes across as pushy and cocky. It's self-confidence and manners that does it for me. And btw anything that is pretend will be revealed eventually. * bad not bold " You taking my name in vain? | |||
""Well shame on me with my dirty mind, there I was thinking you're only here to "break beds"." I do break beds, but I usually have a good sledgehammer with me... Seriously though, earlier I was talking in general male-female relationship terms, while you were a little less coy and talking directly about sex. If so, all good and have yourself a great weekend "And the point remains the same, simply being "nice" doesn't entitle the person or oblige the other party. You have a good weekend too | |||
just my own opinion ????
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"In my opinion bold doesn't get you anywhere. It just comes across as pushy and cocky. It's self-confidence and manners that does it for me. And btw anything that is pretend will be revealed eventually. * bad not bold You taking my name in vain? "I did correct myself | |||
"Is being too nice a turn off on here or what now? Or is the bad boy charm the way to go now? "Being too nice for too long on here is a turn off for me. I'm a straight talker and like the guy to be too. So if it's not gonna happen soon after the chemistry is revealed its unlikely to ever happen. Having said that almost all the guys I've played with have been decent and respectful. | |||
"Don't play "The nice guy". You'll be friend zoned by message 5.
The friend zone doesn't exist. Not in my opinion.
You keep telling yourself that "It doesn't. but not for the reason you think | |||
but I know I'm also a mischievous fucker too
I'll talk dirty to you as you pass through the door I just held open for you....
Be you and fuck all else who doesn't align with YOU!! - don't live YOUR life for OTHERS
Christian Ginger is
Chaotic Good
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"Gent in the street is all "Perfect answer | |||
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"For me it's an underlying tone, if someone has been reared by decent people, it's there, you can usually sense it so the surface ripples are superficial." Lol | |||
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"Stay nice give us single ladies hope that somewhere in a land far far away beyond the sea and the mountains etc etc that there is a nice guy out thereeeeeeeeeee " I don't know that song Bonnie, lol | |||
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"Is being too nice a turn off on here or what now? Or is the bad boy charm the way to go now? "Nice guys come last, but bad boys don't last. You have to be a man for all seasons Kear. Me, I come across as the chatty, confident type, but if a girl takes a chance, she might just get to know the inner me. Witty, adventurous, passionate, loving, loyal, a little bit crazy and a little bit bad, but hey,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, don't you girls just love that
Basically translated into fab, Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a whore. You can't go wrong. | |||
"Is being too nice a turn off on here or what now? Or is the bad boy charm the way to go now?
Nice guys come last, but bad boys don't last. You have to be a man for all seasons Kear.
Me, I come across as the chatty, confident type, but if a girl takes a chance, she might just get to know the inner me. Witty, adventurous, passionate, loving, loyal, a little bit crazy and a little bit bad, but hey,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, don't you girls just love that
Basically translated into fab, Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a whore. You can't go wrong. "
Respectfull and interesting outside the bedroom ... but bad boy inside the bedroom nothing sexier than a confident charming man who takes control xx | |||
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"Personally I don't find "derogatory" phrases offensive, other than the C word used outside of the smut conversation between two/more people in the moment. We're swingers, let it hang "Well let it hang as you say might work for you but in reality when a person is phrased as a whore or slut you would be in the wrong place .There are plenty of places you can spend your Euro which would entitle you to use such phrases in .It sure does give an insight into your mind when you go to meet the people you meet If this works for any lady who is willing to meet you then fair play that would be their choice. This is not a cattle market where people can speak of lady's in equal or better standers that you might be accustomed to then again this would be our strong view happy fabbing | |||
"Personally I don't find "derogatory" phrases offensive, other than the C word used outside of the smut conversation between two/more people in the moment. We're swingers, let it hang
Well let it hang as you say might work for you but in reality when a person is phrased as a whore or slut you would be in the wrong place .There are plenty of places you can spend your Euro which would entitle you to use such phrases in .It sure does give an insight into your mind when you go to meet the people you meet If this works for any lady who is willing to meet you then fair play that would be their choice. This is not a cattle market where people can speak of lady's in equal or better standers that you might be accustomed to then again this would be our strong view happy fabbing " | |||
"Is being too nice a turn off on here or what now? Or is the bad boy charm the way to go now?
Nice guys come last, but bad boys don't last. You have to be a man for all seasons Kear.
Me, I come across as the chatty, confident type, but if a girl takes a chance, she might just get to know the inner me. Witty, adventurous, passionate, loving, loyal, a little bit crazy and a little bit bad, but hey,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, don't you girls just love that
Basically translated into fab, Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a whore. You can't go wrong. " Wine and posting on forums should never be mixed
Scarlet for myself #morto | |||
"Great thread... i've found that the nicer you are in a friendship or relationship, the more you suffer and the worse you are treated if the friendship/relationship collapses . Maybe the females of today prefer the tougher type guy who doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve and keeps hus emotions to himself or Maybe this is to do with the rise of women power and females being more assertive and authoritarian.... thats my opinion. Females please feel free to rip me apart "people can only treat you as badly as you let them my friend! too many folks think allowing yourself to be treated like a doormat is part and parcel of 'being nice'. learn to separate the two and you'll be a whole lot happier | |||
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Truth is, I think there's a good guy and a bad guy side to any man same as there's a naughty girl side with any polite woman, that needs to get unleashed every so often
Thing is, when initially meeting a woman in public, a lot of guys will be friendly and sociable and come across as a coy gay best friend, while other guys will just talk straight away about sex with one hand on a woman's thigh.
I see this whole good guy-bad boy thing as a spectrum and balancing act. A woman meets a guy who's articulate and friendly. He starts to get a little cheeky and seeds a few bold suggestions into the convo revealing his roguish side, just a little. So yes, a guy can be a both an absolute gent in public a cheeky charmer then one very naughty fucker in the bedroom
As for me, am a good boy myself most of the time | |||
