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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ill prob getta ban for this but
Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.
Get no response.
Get rediculed.
Not part of the "in" gang
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Come on in here and chat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill prob getta ban for this but
Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.
Get no response.
Get rediculed.
Not part of the "in" gang
.
Come on in here and chat
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Awwwwww but being an outsider is awesome. The freak. Nerd. Geek. The animal.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog "
Unfortunately you get them everywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ill prob getta ban for this but
Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.
Get no response.
Get rediculed.
Not part of the "in" gang
.
Come on in here and chat
Awwwwww but being an outsider is awesome. The freak. Nerd. Geek. The animal. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog
Unfortunately you get them everywhere. "
Dogs?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog
Unfortunately you get them everywhere.
Dogs??"
Big ones small ones medium one fast ones and slow ones... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog
Unfortunately you get them everywhere.
Dogs??"
Totally lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog
Unfortunately you get them everywhere.
Dogs??"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why people are we getting annoyed with how others use the forum. The forum is just like outside fab. There are sheep that follow, there are those that have egos, there are those that continually whinge, there are sit on the fence people, there are white knights, there are those that treat it as a popularity contest, there are those that gossip, the list could go on.
So what? Why not ignore those personalities you don't like, or threads you don't like. We will always gravitate to those with similar views. Does that mean a clique,maybe, who cares, not me...I just enjoy the banter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why people are we getting annoyed with how others use the forum. The forum is just like outside fab. There are sheep that follow, there are those that have egos, there are those that continually whinge, there are sit on the fence people, there are white knights, there are those that treat it as a popularity contest, there are those that gossip, the list could go on.
So what? Why not ignore those personalities you don't like, or threads you don't like. We will always gravitate to those with similar views. Does that mean a clique,maybe, who cares, not me...I just enjoy the banter "
Wise words |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why people are we getting annoyed with how others use the forum. The forum is just like outside fab. There are sheep that follow, there are those that have egos, there are those that continually whinge, there are sit on the fence people, there are white knights, there are those that treat it as a popularity contest, there are those that gossip, the list could go on.
So what? Why not ignore those personalities you don't like, or threads you don't like. We will always gravitate to those with similar views. Does that mean a clique,maybe, who cares, not me...I just enjoy the banter "
Well said .... Looking mighty sexy as usual |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ill prob getta ban for this but
Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.
Get no response.
Get rediculed.
Not part of the "in" gang
.
Come on in here and chat
"
Why would you get a ban for this? |
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"Ill prob getta ban for this but
Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.
Get no response.
Get rediculed.
Not part of the "in" gang
.
Come on in here and chat
Why would you get a ban for this?"
Ban is the Gaelic for a Woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ill prob getta ban for this but
Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.
Get no response.
Get rediculed.
Not part of the "in" gang
.
Come on in here and chat
Why would you get a ban for this?
Ban is the Gaelic for a Woman! "
I don't think he'll get one of them from this either lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good thread dude I hear ya on that one.its a challenge even to get a response even when u try to send a nice lady a message in general, how does one "fit in" around here?"
Having a better profile would be a good place to start. There isn't exactly a lot to go on in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog "
was on a couple of years ago and the forums wer exactly how you described here, but in fairness since i came back to the fab world i havent really seen it, i think its just people chatting who know each other in person from meets makes it look more cliqie or watever way its spelt lol anyway i think the more people you meet in person from forums the more you would seem to chat to them often i would imagin, i could be wrong tho just my 2 bobs worth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!
Hi.
Stop.that's not allowed "
I can't help it. It's that avatar of yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog was on a couple of years ago and the forums wer exactly how you described here, but in fairness since i came back to the fab world i havent really seen it, i think its just people chatting who know each other in person from meets makes it look more cliqie or watever way its spelt lol anyway i think the more people you meet in person from forums the more you would seem to chat to them often i would imagin, i could be wrong tho just my 2 bobs worth "
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"Good thread dude I hear ya on that one.its a challenge even to get a response even when u try to send a nice lady a message in general, how does one "fit in" around here?
Having a better profile would be a good place to start. There isn't exactly a lot to go on in there. "
or to quote a previous poster "
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
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I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth."
In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us |
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The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.
Or to justify their trolling.
Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.
If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals. |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
Tralee |
"I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth.
In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us"
Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth.
In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us
Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good "
If I ever hold one - you are first on my list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth.
In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us
Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good "
No one will want ya if ya promise to be good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.
Or to justify their trolling.
Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.
If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals."
And here they come out of the woodwork!
Good man, you've just justified the whole conversation here.
Thanks for that, well done you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi I'm kearman long time fabber, once a forum hound now enjoying the quiet side of the forums aka lurking, that it can be a bit of a nut house in the forum and a bit out of control but alas you always come back to see if there's any news on here. Cliques or no cliques it's a part of fab that ya have to express yourself and get feedback too |
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"The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.
Or to justify their trolling.
Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.
If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals."
. And again to quote a previous poster
"It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is what you make of it and not the other way around. Happy fabbing everyone
Exactly "
I so agree with this too!!
And as someone said clique exist only if you think of them!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Now afraid to any comment for fear of being accused of being in their clique...
Or copy and paste with a for flirting...
Oh because of trolling....
Of course there's  for sarcasm...
Puts my arse into reverse and says fvk all.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog was on a couple of years ago and the forums wer exactly how you described here, but in fairness since i came back to the fab world i havent really seen it, i think its just people chatting who know each other in person from meets makes it look more cliqie or watever way its spelt lol anyway i think the more people you meet in person from forums the more you would seem to chat to them often i would imagin, i could be wrong tho just my 2 bobs worth "
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By (user no longer on site)
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# platitudes
I don't think there is a clique, I think there are plenty of frequenters who end up with the same opinions as everyone else thanks to the group think phenomenon. Add a few crafty foxes, the odd self appointed high priest of swinging and plenty of trolls and it can make things a bit intimitidating alright.
I think many are put off from contributing as most threads die a death of attack the poster or slate the newbie.
But there's lots of fun to be had and interesting opinions to listen to. |
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I'm relatively new and don't think that's the case at all. Occasionally posts do get shot down but as far as I've seen that's due to their content not the poster. It may seem like group think but that's only cause most people react a similar way to ridiculous posts. |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
Tralee |
"I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth.
In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us
Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good
No one will want ya if ya promise to be good "
Ok then I'll be bad, no wait I mean good.
Ahhhh.... good at being bad, bad at being good 
Right I'm not going to the party at all now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good point OP
It's not the clique issue that bothers me
But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.
Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.
Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event
PLEASE!!
Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.
Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog was on a couple of years ago and the forums wer exactly how you described here, but in fairness since i came back to the fab world i havent really seen it, i think its just people chatting who know each other in person from meets makes it look more cliqie or watever way its spelt lol anyway i think the more people you meet in person from forums the more you would seem to chat to them often i would imagin, i could be wrong tho just my 2 bobs worth "
Think it's more the same group excluding or ousting individuals that they are referring to which does happen all too often unfortunately. The innocent denial of it by the same people is what's laughable. If they can't see it then it's really quite bad. |
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"I'm relatively new and don't think that's the case at all. Occasionally posts do get shot down but as far as I've seen that's due to their content not the poster. It may seem like group think but that's only cause most people react a similar way to ridiculous posts."
This.
A newbie can be praised for a good post the same way a veteran can be vilified for a shit one.
Though someone has inferred I'm part of a clique cos I "came out of the woodwork". Just because I get on with people and because I'm generally not a bollox?
I've just been here a while. While I know what works for me, I'd never assume "my method of swinging" was the one true path.
My only point here is that if it's not working for you, you need to think about why.
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Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.
My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.
Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.
I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care. I'm just me. I'm in no kik groups, I have very few phone numbers (and those I have would be extremely surprised if I ever text them!). BUT I do go to socials. Now I know its harder for men to get invites but if you do get the chance, go. Thats where you meet people from the forums.
If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.
I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in
But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!
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"Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.
My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.
Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.
I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care. I'm just me. I'm in no kik groups, I have very few phone numbers (and those I have would be extremely surprised if I ever text them!). BUT I do go to socials. Now I know its harder for men to get invites but if you do get the chance, go. Thats where you meet people from the forums.
If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.
I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in
But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!
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Well said .... My sentiments exactly |
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"Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.
My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.
Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.
I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care. I'm just me. I'm in no kik groups, I have very few phone numbers (and those I have would be extremely surprised if I ever text them!). BUT I do go to socials. Now I know its harder for men to get invites but if you do get the chance, go. Thats where you meet people from the forums.
If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.
I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in
But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!
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You need to get pissed more often as your post makes sense!!
As a bloke on here it took me nearly 3 months to figure it all out.. the jibes, the banter etc.
So if I posted on Forum people came back with retorts which were all done in humour.
After a while I got to "know" people but only via the wit on the Forum. people got to "know" me via Forum and then eventually to actually meeting people, then invites to Socials.
There are still people I "know" but only from their posts on Forum.. should we ever meet in person there will be some craic.
I've been to Socials without even knowing who is attending as I don't use kik, and everyone has been lovely.
I don't get pissed at Socials, and chat to people just don't remember their profile names next day! grrrr...
Understandably it is difficult for blokes to get invites to Socials and many that do never turn up!
Same with ladies offering Coffee Meets..What %age turn up??
Guys moan about the difficulty of getting invites but it these guys that are making it difficult for other guys!!
Similarly I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care either. I'm just me.
FAB, for a guy is hard work but worth it as there really are some wonderful people here!
First and foremost, treat the ladies with respect! |
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"Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything.
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It's mighty strange how I read this comment reposted by a different user and knew before I scrolled up who posted the original.
Not a positive thought in that man's head... |
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"Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything.
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It looked like that to me too until I eventually got to know a few people and got used to Forum!
One can feel like an "outsider"... I did! |
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Haha that so ture so much more chaty in the UK I don't knw wat wrong wit them in Ireland and the guy as to send face pic asap or no reply come on lady's at least talk a bit and then we send pic play fair plz?? |
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over a year ago
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"Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything.
It's mighty strange how I read this comment reposted by a different user and knew before I scrolled up who posted the original.
Not a positive thought in that man's head..."
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"Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.
My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.
Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.
I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care. I'm just me. I'm in no kik groups, I have very few phone numbers (and those I have would be extremely surprised if I ever text them!). BUT I do go to socials. Now I know its harder for men to get invites but if you do get the chance, go. Thats where you meet people from the forums.
If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.
I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in
But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!
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You need to get pissed more often as your post makes sense!!
As a bloke on here it took me nearly 3 months to figure it all out.. the jibes, the banter etc.
So if I posted on Forum people came back with retorts which were all done in humour.
After a while I got to "know" people but only via the wit on the Forum. people got to "know" me via Forum and then eventually to actually meeting people, then invites to Socials.
There are still people I "know" but only from their posts on Forum.. should we ever meet in person there will be some craic.
I've been to Socials without even knowing who is attending as I don't use kik, and everyone has been lovely.
I don't get pissed at Socials, and chat to people just don't remember their profile names next day! grrrr...
Understandably it is difficult for blokes to get invites to Socials and many that do never turn up!
Same with ladies offering Coffee Meets..What %age turn up??
Guys moan about the difficulty of getting invites but it these guys that are making it difficult for other guys!!
Similarly I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care either. I'm just me.
FAB, for a guy is hard work but worth it as there really are some wonderful people here!
First and foremost, treat the ladies with respect!"
Long cave and sub...Two of my favorite posters...Does that make a clique....NO
Just a preference due to regular contact through the threads and banter.
I love their sense of humour and occasionally they speak some sense
I think it's about preferences as in you may go on several coffee meets and only meet a few that you would like to take it further with...Same with the forum's as in their are some you enjoy the Craic with, some that annoy you and some who you flirt with and some that you don't interact with. It is life...Not a clique.
The forum's are open to any topic...Post one that you have an interest in and you will find people who have a similar interest...Like minded fabbers...Not a clique.
Happy fabbing folk's, no matter how you do it
Madame B
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"Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.
My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.
Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.
I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care. I'm just me. I'm in no kik groups, I have very few phone numbers (and those I have would be extremely surprised if I ever text them!). BUT I do go to socials. Now I know its harder for men to get invites but if you do get the chance, go. Thats where you meet people from the forums.
If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.
I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in
But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!
.
You need to get pissed more often as your post makes sense!!
As a bloke on here it took me nearly 3 months to figure it all out.. the jibes, the banter etc.
So if I posted on Forum people came back with retorts which were all done in humour.
After a while I got to "know" people but only via the wit on the Forum. people got to "know" me via Forum and then eventually to actually meeting people, then invites to Socials.
There are still people I "know" but only from their posts on Forum.. should we ever meet in person there will be some craic.
I've been to Socials without even knowing who is attending as I don't use kik, and everyone has been lovely.
I don't get pissed at Socials, and chat to people just don't remember their profile names next day! grrrr...
Understandably it is difficult for blokes to get invites to Socials and many that do never turn up!
Same with ladies offering Coffee Meets..What %age turn up??
Guys moan about the difficulty of getting invites but it these guys that are making it difficult for other guys!!
Similarly I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care either. I'm just me.
FAB, for a guy is hard work but worth it as there really are some wonderful people here!
First and foremost, treat the ladies with respect!
Long cave and sub...Two of my favorite posters...Does that make a clique....NO
Just a preference due to regular contact through the threads and banter.
I love their sense of humour and occasionally they speak some sense
I think it's about preferences as in you may go on several coffee meets and only meet a few that you would like to take it further with...Same with the forum's as in their are some you enjoy the Craic with, some that annoy you and some who you flirt with and some that you don't interact with. It is life...Not a clique.
The forum's are open to any topic...Post one that you have an interest in and you will find people who have a similar interest...Like minded fabbers...Not a clique.
Happy fabbing folk's, no matter how you do it
Madame B
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Long cave and sub...Two of my favorite posters...Does that make a clique....NO
Just a preference due to regular contact through the threads and banter.
I love their sense of humour and
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occasionally they speak some sense
Madame B
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Oh I apologize!! We all have our off days!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.
Or to justify their trolling.
Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.
If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals."
I am neither a troll nor a clique member.
We are both quite successful on fab.
Dunno who you think you are telling me how i should think when you dont even know me.
Its not about getting meets, its about people constantly being ignored by in forums and in chat simply because they are not part of the clique.
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"The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.
Or to justify their trolling.
Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.
If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals.
I am neither a troll nor a clique member.
We are both quite successful on fab.
Dunno who you think you are telling me how i should think when you dont even know me.
Its not about getting meets, its about people constantly being ignored by in forums and in chat simply because they are not part of the clique.
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I was a not responding to you specifically, but rather making a general statement.
If you think you're getting ignored perhaps what you're saying isn't that interesting?
I've started a few threads in my time that have no replies, shit happens. No sense in crying about it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.
Or to justify their trolling.
Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.
If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals.
I am neither a troll nor a clique member.
We are both quite successful on fab.
Dunno who you think you are telling me how i should think when you dont even know me.
Its not about getting meets, its about people constantly being ignored by in forums and in chat simply because they are not part of the clique.
I was a not responding to you specifically, but rather making a general statement.
If you think you're getting ignored perhaps what you're saying isn't that interesting?
I've started a few threads in my time that have no replies, shit happens. No sense in crying about it.
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Yeah I've not been here long.
People have been nothing but welcoming.
I've started a few threads, some successful, some not. I realised the ones that weren't are ones that people aren't particularly interested in. I don't take it personally and know that 99% of the regulars on the forum are really sound.
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"We are here 3 years and have never seen any so called clique behaviour. We find people here very nice in general.
Amy and Gareth.
U mean ur not in the lovely bottoms clique "
Shame on you cj doesn't Amy's bottom belong in league of it own or maybe I'm just biased.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"We are here 3 years and have never seen any so called clique behaviour. We find people here very nice in general.
Amy and Gareth.
U mean ur not in the lovely bottoms clique
Shame on you cj doesn't Amy's bottom belong in league of it own or maybe I'm just biased.
Gareth "
I dint know a closer inspection maybe needed in person |
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