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Surprise, there's another person in the room.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I would love to try out something new and this has been playing on my mind for a bit. How would you feel if you agreed to meet a woman from fab and she had another woman in the room (that you had absolutely no idea was going to be there). Happy? Or a bit creeped out?
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"So, I would love to try out something new and this has been playing on my mind for a bit. How would you feel if you agreed to meet a woman from fab and she had another woman in the room (that you had absolutely no idea was going to be there). Happy? Or a bit creeped out?
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I think I'd be very creeped out and wouldn't be impressed at all... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All men are going to say "oh great the more the merrier " and "I'd be well able for 2 women" but the truth been if you had no idea you would be some what shocked. If you arranged a mee and met in the bar and she told you you could get your head around it but if she just appeared out of the bathroom you would be shocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't figure out if it's odd or sexy. I know people have different reactions, hence I'm trying to gauge them. Also I know that reaction is altered depending on the sex of the person. I wouldn't like it if I agreed to meet one man and there were two. Hmmmm. |
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"So, I would love to try out something new and this has been playing on my mind for a bit. How would you feel if you agreed to meet a woman from fab and she had another woman in the room (that you had absolutely no idea was going to be there). Happy? Or a bit creeped out?
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Depends if she was the journalistic type or the kinky joining in type.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't figure out if it's odd or sexy. I know people have different reactions, hence I'm trying to gauge them. Also I know that reaction is altered depending on the sex of the person. I wouldn't like it if I agreed to meet one man and there were two. Hmmmm."
Same here.... Don't like this kind of surprises |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't figure out if it's odd or sexy. I know people have different reactions, hence I'm trying to gauge them. Also I know that reaction is altered depending on the sex of the person. I wouldn't like it if I agreed to meet one man and there were two. Hmmmm."
A lovely man I'd been exploring with surprised me with not one, but two other men one night. We'd discussed the possibility and he'd told me it would happen at some point and that he would look after me and keep me safe. It was a fun night, and he was true to his word, he never left my side, whispering in my ear, telling them what I liked, making sure I was OK. I felt very spoiled and looked after, it was brilliant.
On the other hand, someone turning up with a second person with no prior discussion about it would be a massive no. Surprises are only nice if you know the person you're surprising will appreciate them. |
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By *kmanMan
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
I was asked by a male of a couple to be a surprise for his wife in a hotel room. Hide in the shower and pop out when we start. I asked him does she know at all.. he said nope but she will have a blindfold and will love it. I said no way unless she knows first she might say I assaulted her..
So with all that said would the third party go if they know it was a real surprise as they can be put in a bad situation |
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There has been many of threads here from single guys saying they wont to surprise their wife or gf.
Most of which say that they dont know about the surprise, cant take them serious and even if they were, it could turn out bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first mmf was a suprise, we had both spoke about swinging and because I was nervous I asked C just to suprise me so I didn't over think it before it happened. He did indeed suprise me, I had no idea until I felt a second set of hands on me. It was amazing, BUT we had discussed it and I had given the ok for the suprise, if we were meeting soneone and they brought someone else without discussing it I would turn around and walk away. For us we like to know who we're meeting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was asked by a male of a couple to be a surprise for his wife in a hotel room. Hide in the shower and pop out when we start. I asked him does she know at all.. he said nope but she will have a blindfold and will love it. I said no way unless she knows first she might say I assaulted her..
So with all that said would the third party go if they know it was a real surprise as they can be put in a bad situation "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had someone we were meeting for mmf say would you ever be up for it and I agreed (obviously ) , he said I would never know when and it would be a surprise so when it did !!!!... I'll never forget being tied up and blindfolded on a bed and feeling a third set of hands on me OMG it was amazeballs !!
If it was totally out of the blue I don't know how I'd react but I'd probably just go with the flow  |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
"Getting one female into the bedroom is hard enough but then finding two...I'd have to have a long long think about it...yeah thought about it i'm up for it "
Been at a meet where an extra lady turned up that I didn't exoect. I had to work extra hard but had an absolute blast. |
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By *ex0x28Man
over a year ago
the middle |
"Getting one female into the bedroom is hard enough but then finding two...I'd have to have a long long think about it...yeah thought about it i'm up for it
Been at a meet where an extra lady turned up that I didn't exoect. I had to work extra hard but had an absolute blast."
I'm sure you trooper on...you know it be rude not too  |
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